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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE'
THE DREAM
I had a dream about a prospect husband and I.
In the dream, I saw us both dressed like we were ready to get married but there was a big space, something like a pit between us; he with his groomsmen on one side and I and my bridesmaids on the other side.
Then I looked and saw a very young and beautiful girl standing not too far from me, dressed like she was a bridesmaid but she wasn't.
Then suddenly, there was no more wedding.
Next time I saw him, I wasn't wearing my dress and I was scolding him, asking where he was all this while. He just kept laughing but I'm not sure if he walked away or stayed before I woke up.
We have been having problems since shortly after that Dream and are just casual friends now. I understand the other parts of the dream, I left some details out but that gap. I just can't wrap my head around it.
I really thought this one will be the one even with all the red flags.
Hmmmm. I am not good at interpreting these kinds of dream but your man has another woman ooooooooooo
Please forget about him and move on...
Wait, you thought he would be the one "even with all the right flags". There are red flags, and you still wanna go ahead? WHY???
ReplyDeleteThe red is not an issue because we all have our respective red flags, depending on who is seeing it as one. Someone else might relate with it. What matters is if it can be accepted, accommodated and tolerated in the long term. Because we all go into our various relationships with our respective red flags
DeleteSo the poster also has her red flags, if we are to hear from the man.
Pls listen to Stella and face front .u said u still stayed cos u think he is d one,with all d red flags? My dear!!! LEAVE.Urs will surely come.pls don't manage and don't sell urself short.
ReplyDeleteEven with all the red flagss… you like carnival?
ReplyDeleteYou should have put the full story na, so that we can advise you properly
ReplyDeleteAnyway, just pray and ask God for direction, and since you understand some part of the dream,if it's workable, then you guys can come together and work on it
I pray everything works in your favour
You saw red flags but you still wanted to marry the guy in question. God had to warn you in a dream. Aren't you just lucky and so much loved by God? Not everyone gets lucky to be warned in a dream when they are about to make decisions that will cost them dearly
ReplyDeleteWell, you are no longer together but casual friends now. I am not going to say he was cheating while you were together, because I don’t know that, but I believe he always had a wavering mind when it came to you, maybe never being that into you. Perhaps you always felt something like he was distant or treated you more like a friend or sister. Whatever it was, he is now gone and you are just casual friends. Look to other pastures.
ReplyDeleteIf you feel you need answers then ask him why he feels it never worked out between you two and ask him to be brutally honest with his answer. Let him speak freely and listen to exactly what he is saying without interruption. Sometimes raw honesty is the best medicine.
Chikena. Stella you no Sabi interpret yet you hit this nail with slege hammer.
ReplyDeleteStellas blue pen says to move on. Move on to where? Based on a dream even OP can't remember the full details of? I don't give much validity to dreams but to each his or her own.
ReplyDeleteIf you are going to walk away from a relationship i think it should be for a more substantive reason. A dream doesn't qualify as one. Just be careful OP and be guarded if you still see the need to salvage the relationship. Otherwise, just keep the distance that's come up between you guys already. You'll save yourself so much trouble later.
Stella has nailed it ooooo
ReplyDeleteNothing more
Her man, has a Child with someone else.
DeleteYou did not say the red flags. If they are things you can overlook. It's time to WAR in prayers. Marriage is not for babies. Getting married is not for babies too. That is an everlasting convenant and the devil fights it hard. Have you wondered why after marriage you can never be single again. You are either addressed as a divorcee/divorced, separated, widow/widower.
ReplyDeleteMy dear the dream means someone is about taking what you felt was yours and you need to fight to take it back if you want it. It was revealed to you for a purpose. Either to fight for it or let it go. The choice is yours.
If he has red flags I think it is time to move, the dream might just be a figment of your imagination and really nothing to it, so move on because of the red flags and not because of the dream
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteEven with the red flags? Think well Poster. Nothing beats peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteWith all the red flags, you still want chook head put?
ReplyDeleteYou can do CIA to find out if there was another woman
ReplyDeleteIs that what you’d like to confirm?
I can’t say ignore the dream cause I don’t ignore mine. I do try to find out in the physical whether my dream was accurate. Fortunately or unfortunately if I have dream like yours it’s true
Dear poster you need to pray against the spirit of near success syndrome
ReplyDeleteEven with all the red flags and you still wanted chook head?
ReplyDeleteGap dey btw you in dream, what else do you want? You want God to come down and tell you himself?
When you see some prayerful women, married to ungodly men or men who aren't right for them. One thing they always leave out is that God warned them and they stubbornly went ahead. They will now let others mockingly add them to the statistics of 'who good girls help' categories meanwhile most of these so-called prayerful and Good girls were warned but for reasons best known to them, they ignored the warnings. So a red flag was there before, but you went ahead and God still pitied you and warned you in the dream but you still don't want to listen.
ReplyDeleteThis is deep comment because it is so true.
DeleteThere was someone I liked so much and I never got a good dream about them, like ever. When I dreamt that the person was immoral to a deep level that was when it really hit because what I saw was completely reprehensible and against everything I stood for. I stopped liking them immediately and faced front, cause in all my years I had never gotten a dream like that about anyone. I have strong values around some things that I can never compromise on no matter who is involved. Imperfect I can handle because I am an imperfect being too, evil to the core, hellz no it’s a hard pass.
Let us heed the warnings we receive and not push through because of desperation or strong emotions. We cannot test every spirit, sometimes we just have to trust God and protect ourselves.
16:34 &17:01
DeleteThank you
The pit could be anything, you just need to talk, communication is key, if it's something that can be trashed out, fine, if not everybody should waka
ReplyDeleteU see fire with your korokoro eyes and u want to enter. Bye , marriage is not do or die affair. Wait for your on man.
ReplyDeleteThey are not married yet. What she narrated up there was all dream. Telling her to move on, move on from the dream or what??
DeleteShe is having issue with her man why she is skeptical.
Leave
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, God is trying to pass a msg across to you. Don't be blinded by love which we sometimes do. That's a big red flag.
ReplyDelete@Poster, You are receiving a spiritual signal. It could even be someone close to you who is giving him incorrect information about you. Please quarantine your inner circle and keep your antenna on high alert.
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is, start looking for your way out of the relationship. The gulf you saw between you and him is a way of telling you he's emotionally far away from you while you are busy thinking you are together.
ReplyDeleteThe lady besides you is a warning that he's probably dating someone you know and the person is close to you.
The laughter finally confirmed you are dating yourself, the guy is a time waster.
Sometimes one's true color reveals itself without a dream.
ReplyDeleteOkay this guy was introduced to a lady for a relationship and the lady wasn't aware of it.
Instead of him to approach the lady, he got in touch with neighbors and people that misled him. He suddenly became an unknown enemy fighting the same lady he is yet to know that did no wrong to him.
He has portrayed the 'ugly' side of him that the lady wouldn't have known had it been he approached her initially..
Sometimes one's true color reveals itself without a dream.
ReplyDeleteOkay this guy was introduced to a lady for a relationship and the lady wasn't aware of it.
Instead of him to approach the lady, he got in touch with neighbors and people that misled him. He suddenly became an unknown enemy fighting the same lady he is yet to know that did no wrong to him.
He has portrayed the 'ugly' side of him that the lady wouldn't have known had it been he approached her initially..
See Marigold interpretation cracked me up lol
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
Exactly what Stella said. There's someone else
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