ADVICE NEEDED
Please i need advice ... what will you do if your man has been chatting with the ex and they are calling each other everyday
When you confront him he won't have a reasonable answer..
The Most annoying part is that they use different numbers so that I won't know
They chat about s#x and other things a married man shouldn't chat with anyone apart from his wife...
He didn't save the numbers on his phone so that I won't know but they still talk
I'm tired of having issues with him over this same girl....
Please i need advice ... what will you do if your man has been chatting with the ex and they are calling each other everyday
When you confront him he won't have a reasonable answer..
The Most annoying part is that they use different numbers so that I won't know
They chat about s#x and other things a married man shouldn't chat with anyone apart from his wife...
He didn't save the numbers on his phone so that I won't know but they still talk
I'm tired of having issues with him over this same girl....
What are all you women doing that is chasing your men to go back to their exs? what is all this nonsense?Does monitoring your man stop him from cheating or does it aggravate the cheating?
This your man seems unrepentant.... I cant adivce you to leave or to stay but please dont catch STDs and watch your mental health...
Leave his sorry ass. No one deserves to be cheated on so blatantly. He has no respect for you else he would stop.
ReplyDeleteI trust our BVs, very soon they will decode you lol
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Stella, some of these relationships are mere rebound. The men just pick another girl to show the one they left or left them that they can. You know the initial gragra. But as times go on and they realize their folly they want to go back. So they start flirting with the Ex. So the new women are not to be blamed. Women be very careful with men that jump into relationship with you immediately after a breakup. it might just be a rebound.
DeleteStella, some of these relationships are mere rebound. The men just pick another girl to show the one they left or left them that they can. You know the initial gragra. But as times go on and they realize their folly they want to go back. So they start flirting with the Ex. So the new women are not to be blamed. Women be very careful with men that jump into relationship with you immediately after a breakup. it might just be a rebound.
DeleteYou are asking us what to do? Oya please stay with him ngwanu.
DeleteAs sad this situation looks, madam I will advise if you can, to focus on yourself and see how good you can build wealth in a case of any eventuality.
ReplyDeleteReduce the attention you give to him and make sure he doesn't infect you with disease. Insist on a test if you must knack.
He will never change and that's the truth. Sensible men who cheat hide it from their wife but yours no sabi anything on this. It shows respect to a woman and wife when you don't bring your dirty lifestyle home as a man.
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Poster don't you have ex to chat with too?all this men sef
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣 Wucked advice but true.
DeleteInfact when
DeleteGbamest 🤣🤣🤣
Anon you no try ooooooo
DeleteSimple thing to do. Activate your bitch mode and be silent. Shocking right? Act so totally indifferent to what your husband is doing that he will begin to think you are cheating. Mirror everything he does exactly the way he does them and let him find out.
ReplyDeleteI'm not asking you to cheat. I'm asking you to get someone, a female preferably, that you can be sending and receiving random messages to and from. Ofcourse save the number with a guys name.
Let him feel the hurt he puts you through. If he accuses you if cheating, accept with your full chest and tell him you only followed his lead. If he truly loves you and values your marriage, he will seek for a way to iron the situation out and not cheat again. If he doesn't, then your husband has apportioned himself to be a goat.
I know you are hurting and you may not even have the mind to do what I said above. But remember, people only keep hurting us with our permission.
Poster,have some dignity and walk away from bullshit. Why put yourself in a precarious situation. Remove yourself from the equation,so they can be together. 🙄😬😬
ReplyDeleteStella pls. Nobody chases anybody to go back to thier ex. Every man is responsible for his actions.
ReplyDeleteMy dear. Focus on yourself. Bill him oh and save massively. You may have to confront him because keeping quiet will hurt u more. But note that his response may not be what u expect. He may get defensive so bear that in mind and don’t be disappointed.
If he is repentant then u should see a counsellor and draw up boundaries. But if after all these he still goes back. Pls flip your hair and catwalk into a whole new life
Zendaya
Goodluck to you
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
IGNORE him. If you have friends, do a girls date (lunch/dinner). Go out,and have FUN.
ReplyDeleteA married man should only chat with his wife?says who ?is marriage now prison ?why do women always cry wolf once married, and insecure about his exes ,just like Stella said what are you doing that is driving them back to their hands and to the idiot ex ,if you weren't good enough for him to make you his wife what nonsense chatting are you doing with e-goat.Many women knows how to fight a battle but to keep the wins always very hard .This your case you can't win better make peace or surrender since they have started changing phone numbers,next is to change status.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh! 🤦♀️
DeletePlease read over the chronicle🙄
DeleteThis fellow cracks me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNawa o, this goke sef 😄 It's better you comment small small like u used to o...adviser isonu
DeleteThis happens when the exes ain't enemies. Some people don't burn bridges, they still communicate with their exes... which is why okafor's law happens 99.9% of the time. Your man us still knocking his ex... either you stay, or go. Happy Easter.
ReplyDeleteText the ex and ask her if she wants him
ReplyDeleteThe resultant effect of premarital sex. Their souls are bound. The word of God is true.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why some men are inconsiderate. Poster can you just do you for your mental health
ReplyDeleteSee that the women here who collect money from their EXs and the women here who supported them last time on this blog (and still do) are silent?
ReplyDeleteThat Ex may be single. When she marries and same is done to her, she would still complain too about her husband, right?
As we blame men who do this wayward act, we should also ask why women indulge them. Please "pass" is pleaded on the trite defence that the women are not under any vow because a thief is not under any vow to look after our goods yet the thief is always judged guilty.
Truly marriage is overrated!
ReplyDeleteSo this sweet easter Sunday someone is somewhere hurting inside this same marriage they use to yab women.
Life!!!!!
Which marriage is overrated. This is how you all attack marriage with nagative proclamation. Speak about the evil actions of people in marriage and leave marriage alone. It is a beautiful institution mapped out by God, and it remains so.
DeleteTrue @18:36
DeleteWe all judge by our different experiences.
Marriage is not overrated, people just marry for the wrong and selfish reasons.
ReplyDeleteThe rate of cheating in marriage these days eeee!!, I just remember this American reality TV program called ' Cheater'.
ReplyDeleteI wish they could run such program here ,men will be more disciplined and loyal cos It will always be a man.
The chronicle cases here are almost cheating.
Madam poster for your husband to cheat and rub it on your face means he does regard or have respect for you.
Since he doesn't want to change, can you mind your own life and act like you don't care about him and the lady.
He is living his life, don't give yourself HBP because of a cheating husband.
Yesterday's chronicle said that her husband told her if she die he will marry another wife.
Know when enough is enough and focus on yourself.
The "ex" has not been "exed" na you dey ex her with your mouth. That jewelu's question is very valid. What are you people doing or not doing that makes your man keep going back to the "ex"?
ReplyDeleteYou better face yaself, Do You and everything to keep you happy. Some Men Cannot be redeemed no matter how hard you try👌🏻
As your chronicle is posted on Easter Sunday, please resurrect yourself from the death of this marriage. Christ has set you free and it is finished. There is no reason to live in bondage for you have been set free, sister. Have the faith of Job and the hope of Abraham that even if you leave with only the clothes on your back a better future is in ahead, in a land of prosperity that far surpasses what you are currently experiencing. He is a husband, he is not your God. Put God, your peace and happiness first and get up out of Sodom. Will you stay there until you turn into a pillar of salt? Or will you stay until he publicly humiliate you.
ReplyDeleteHmmm
DeleteThere’s wisdom in this comment and I can only hope the Poster finds joy and peace in whatever decision she makes.
DeleteYou are paying too much attention on this cheat, you are encouraging him to torture your mental health. Press ignore button like he doesn't exist with the girl. Get yourself some friends that you can chat with but please do not cheat on your husband.
ReplyDeleteIf you cannot take it please walk away and find who love you.
Until he finally gives her the surprise of her life marrying the ex and asking her to leave. To me she has every reason to worry or better still, look for plan B
DeleteThis marriage thing is getting scarier by the day. I have sha put on my armor . I no dey soft again
ReplyDeleteThis is very painful. I always advise that you find something to distract yourself with, even if it means chatting with someone else. He would be the one looking for you when he sees that you don't have his time
ReplyDeleteSilent mode for people.like that. Go out and make friends .
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