Did i hear you scream WHAT???? Please read till the end!
;"My friend is receiving threats from her husband’s family bc she served him divorce papers. The main issue is that the guy is overweight: he needs help with many daily tasks, the kitchen is always trashed and he can’t clean after himself- my friend can’t take it anymore.
She works two jobs and barely has time for herself. She really didn’t sign up for this bc the man she fell in love with looked different and was also hitting the gym hard. Not the couch potato she’s now faced with.
For all the time she addressed this issue with her husband, she got called fatphobic and that was it."
She works two jobs and barely has time for herself. She really didn’t sign up for this bc the man she fell in love with looked different and was also hitting the gym hard. Not the couch potato she’s now faced with.
For all the time she addressed this issue with her husband, she got called fatphobic and that was it."
Wahalur!
ReplyDeleteWhy is his family threatening her tho?
Gifty
But everyone cannot be lepa gawu now
DeleteBecause if he is still married he will be her problem and not theirs.
DeleteLmao at 18:01
DeleteSo you’re also aware that some families push their sons on innocent women just so they are free from him. That’s how one tried it and I ran o
I can really relate. My husband is now so fat that I know I would never have married someone like him . I always feel so sad looking at him and I don't even like him coming close to me
ReplyDeleteHave you tried talking to him about how you feel concerning his new shape?
DeleteCould it be an underlying condition that's causing it?
Or is it hereditary?
Find subtle ways to express your thoughts explicitly to him.
I hope he gets to understand how this new bod of his is affecting your relationship.
My dear you must say something. Obesity is implicated in almost every health concern, so speak to him from a loving place and let him know to visit to doctor and get on a diet and exercise plan before he becomes a statistic.
DeleteThe way naija men let themselves go after marriage isn’t talked about enough. The gluttony is too much. Meanwhile They always focus on the women . lol never mind that the women gain weight because they are creating life! Why is a man gaining potbelly when all he is creating is diabetes, a shorter life span for himself , and fatherless kids because daddy couldn’t put down the beer and the swallow at 3 am in the morning
DeleteMen never think they’re the problem until it’s too late. It’s a joke until the woman puts her foot down. She has probably tried to get him to eat healthy n move his big behind to no avail
DeleteHe should loss some Wight to save his marriage..
ReplyDeletePpl can put up with a lot for a long time but there will come a day when they can’t take it anymore. If he can’t clean himself then that is extreme. Whew, is this the for better of for worse part of the cows?☹️
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DeleteGuilty conscience don dey worry dem 😂
ReplyDeleteI never comment dem don dey cry ðŸ˜ðŸ¤£ðŸ¤£
Just imagine say na man do this, and let's imagine the kind of comments that will be scattered all over here..
Like I always say, the term relationship and marriage hasn't gone into extinction because of men,.
If men treat women as selfish as they treat men and even themselves, marriage and relationship would no longer be existing.. infact goodness, selfless and unconditional love would have never been a word..
Look at the people that are always screaming body shaming, age shaming and all other nonsense words when it's done to them feel so comfortable doing it to others.. I say person na old corn the other day, dem won d!e, funny thing is the werey that was crying was at the same time calling me uncle gwe gwe oh😂😂 na why me no dey look anybody face speak my facts..
You'll think they do these their wickedness only to men, but na lie, they do it to themselves too, they just hate for a man to complain about it..
Go and look at the survey in US about how lesbian marriages have 75 percent divorce, 3-4 times more than gay couples. Meaning the problem is that gender, also meaning men even handle their bullshii better that is why we still have a lot a marriages 'working'.
It is the same thing they do to men that they still go to do to themselves..
A Les complained to me recently about how her girlfriend stole 400k of her money and when she asked her about it, she said she mistakenly spent it.. she was asking for advice on how best to recover it.. just imagine the nonsense, she mistakenly spent 400k that isn't yours, mistakenly SMH..
You'll should better sit up and be celebrating and worshipping men everyday instead of this nonsense Men Hating you're doing,. Cos Una go suffer am major
You nincompoop, you think so highly of yourself.
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DeleteNa only you dey always get different useless people as friends. Lesbian friends, gay friends, olosho customer friends, amotekun boyfriend friends, armed robber friends, ritualist friends, etc. That is why you always comment trash
The most broken and inferior beings seek for undeserved and unearned praise and crave idolatrous worship
DeleteI thought it is for better for worse? So apparently, ladies don't like fat men either? But divorce is an extreme measure to take when you have a fat cow of Bashan at home, like the bible calls them.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahha @ fat cow of Bashan..lwkm
DeleteNo we don’t! Yet somehow we r able to look past a man’s unattractiveness. A man can’t do that. Visual creatures indeed😪 I think women are inherently good people sha but men love to project
DeleteBaba orobo
ReplyDeleteThis is a harsh decision to make to be honest. He can't clean after himself in what way? This story is not clear enough.
ReplyDeleteThere are other interventions that could save the marriage than just killing it with a divorce jare.
Then again, na she know why.
So you don't know the meaning of not being able to clean after one's self, sister Mary Amaka
DeleteHe should come and stay on Nigeria for some months ,he will slim down
ReplyDeleteTrekking alone...lol
DeleteNo, he should come and stay under Nigeria
Delete😂
DeleteThis one go hit the man hard 😞
ReplyDeleteWhy not change his diet or take him to gym?! She never talk true..
ReplyDeleteI can also divorce someone because of overweight, the only reason that can't make me to divorce an overweight man is if the guy was kind, faithful, generous, caring, loving and romantic before he becomes overweight, I will be considering how he treated me when he was a cynosure.
ReplyDeleteShe should encourage him to the hit the gym and also see a dietician.Was she not the one feeding him till he got overweight?? I feel for her though but I think it's too extreme, separation should have been a better option.
ReplyDeleteThe family are unhappy that the married maid wants to shift their property and responsibility back to them
ReplyDeleteStoppp😹
DeleteI bet he didn't see anything wrong with himself. Proud and selfish even in their vulnerable state. Calling her fatphobic when she tells him to seek help. Good she divorced him
ReplyDeleteYet he won’t extend even an ounce of grace if roles were reversed. Remember those stories of men leaving their wives during cancer bouts on their dying bed
DeleteThe man should go and loose weight na 😂 akpa akpu na load. Jokes apart, the wife should've helped him na, encourage him to register for gym and his diet too.
ReplyDeleteBTW Shooter baiby where are thou,, it's been a while.
Fat makes the dick shrink and with the distended stomach…sex may not be that pleasurable.
ReplyDeleteExactly @ Bv Osundi, that's why they are one, to help each other out.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she actually did her best but he wasn't cooperating with her