''Dear single ladies , if I tell you I don’t see how unfair the internet has been to you all , I’ll be telling a big lie but listen to me, “Don’t panic” your time is near “Ogechi” But here is the thing, you need to try my sister leave your house, leave office, leave store, go out sometimes , travel, attend events, go for those meet ups, I know talking stage is stressful but just try, leave your bed, there’s no man hiding under your bed, close that yeye laptop, go and do your hair and dress up and just go somewhere important at-least once a week sef is ok.
Reply your messages and be nice Don’t say “Abeg all men are the same or Abeg talking stage don tire me.make I no lie,that thing is stressful but you have to do it my sister Even me after 3 children still do talking stage o I dey stay awake after a stressful day at work to talk to man if I wake up before him, I’ll send good morning message so my sister, you must do it o.
Don’t be too hard, I know some of you are doing well financially and acting too busy but my sister, man is sweet too man is important as well ( no disrespect to strong feminist) I am too but my own no reach my husband so pls you all need to try my sisters. Look beyond your tribe and country because it’s possible your soulmate is not even African. Me I was single in this Nigeria, thinking my Mr right was somewhere in Aba lol not knowing he was happily in Accra Ghana eating waakye for breakfast and waiting for me see if there’s one that you like, as long as he doesn’t belong to someone
“Leave people’s husbands alone” my sister if he doesn’t text , text him today and just say “hey,you doing ok? Your phone will not catch fire dear .
For those of you believing God for a second chance, God will do it . Don’t limit yourself o my dear , even with 5 children, God will send you someone that will literally “worship you” and treat you like a real woman. No matter what the world would say to you, no panic, follow your heart. No forget say them still dey abuse me too say I’m older than my hubby but lol “ them never even see anything, they still have a lot to say because you know me I no send anybody papa he is mine forever''
Coughs!!!!
ReplyDeleteShe looks good and gorgeous. I like what I see.
© TEEJAY
Mugu nkan gidi wun ole. Remove your eye from someone’s wife
DeleteHhahahahahahha Wuked Anonxx
DeleteExege,.
ReplyDeleteWetin she write for the tattoo o,.
Na him I dey busy dey zoom as me no won do pass myself π
Boss, I have zoomed and saw what she wrote clearly but I won't tell youππ
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Na so. Even me sef I don zoom tire I still no fit see the tattoo clearly. Maybe na because her 'headlights' dey too bright.
DeleteπππIf I hear say na tattoo una dey zoom.π€£π€£π€£
DeleteI believe having a girlfriend to do this with works better for introverts like us.
DeleteI had a guy who constantly encouraged me to step out my box,I tried and tried and tried. When I had issues with him, the whole zeal for hunting just faded out
Without anyone to pull you up, you may fall back to square 1, being so introverted is a curse
In my own opinion, she said nothing but the truth . When you have children especially in marriage, there's joy in it. Marriage is very refreshing if married to the right spouse.
ReplyDeleteI also observe it brings respect in Nigeria when married.
I pray God blesses those seeking for marriage their heart desires and those who are still TTC, may God answer your prayers as he answered Hannah's prayer... AMEN
Amen!!!
DeleteShe was trying to say that it doesn't matter how many children you have , if your marriage isn't working walk away there's somebody out there that would love and adore regardless and also accept your kids.
DeleteThere's a second chance for everyone contrary to the Nigerian held view.
And to those waiting on God he would surely give em their spouse.
Amen
DeleteAmen
DeleteNwanneka, God bless you for this message. I will not die lonely. I sincerely need a good man that would suit my compassionate name.
ReplyDeleteAwww love would find you , don't stop hoping but while praying and hoping do your part and be the version of the man you hope for.
DeleteI'm rooting for you when you share your testimony I'd be right here waiting to give thanks on your behalf too.
So shall it be, Amen π
DeleteA million likes!
ReplyDeleteNice writeup!
ReplyDeleteLol @ feminism no reach her husband side.
ReplyDeleteNice advice though. God is the giver of good partners, keep trust Him for yours.
She has some points sha sha,that means indoor person like me no go marry?
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
Lol you would now your spouse is under your bed ππ just kidding.
DeleteYou have to socialize go to nice places , book club , coffee shops , weddings, bible study.... etc
She's talking to people like you, husband no dey under your bed π
DeleteWetin I go talk self
ReplyDeleteToor
Hello iya boys
It's a crime to be a single female adult...
ReplyDeleteReally. I hope it's sarcasm if not you go arrest tire
DeleteThis post is for the ones that wants to have a partner and probably get married too.. no be everybody wan die single.
DeleteNo darling it's not , some people just want to be single and I feel like their choice should be respected.
DeleteIn Nigeria it seems. There is way too much focus and emphasis on single people. Almost like a crime or disease. Advise for them everywhere. From pulpit to home to social media. They don't catch a break, not even for a day.
DeleteAbeg where dem dey sell chewing stick? π€π€π€.
ReplyDeleteI was just smiling reading it.
ReplyDeleteGood advice.
ReplyDeleteGod makes all things beautiful,in his time. Give us grace to abide,oh Lord.
ReplyDeleteOgechi
ReplyDeleteBrilliant write up π
ReplyDeleteYes o
ReplyDeleteI’m engaged this year
She said nothing but the truth.π
ReplyDeleteMake she kuku call my name π
ReplyDeleteCos I dey sit down gidigba for this table.
Alright but we need to focus more on the men. We need to have good men around to even think of dating stage.
ReplyDeleteGood men are available. It depends on your own definition of a good man.
DeleteNice write up. Funny but Fact.
ReplyDeleteNa forming dey make sisi stay house reach 40. Even when they try, they are busy looking for knights in a shiny armour. It usually ends bad.
ReplyDeleteNwanneka stop competing with veekee,stop claiming what you are not with your unsolicited advice,keep it to your self and for your daughters in future,all the single ladies in the house please breath and ask God for peace and wisdom if you lack it✌️✌️
ReplyDeleteTo whom it may concern
ReplyDeleteMany of you will die single and depressed. This I have seen.
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