Hmmmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SIMPLE ADVICE NEEDED
Dear Stella,
A sibling wants to rent my property from me and use as her holiday home anytime she travels with her family. Should I accept?
NO!!!!....You will regret it.
Thursday, October 03, 2024
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Hmmm.. waiting to exhale.
ReplyDeleteNope. If u have a lawyer, you should use them,and all transactions should be properly documented and payments made through them.
DeleteFor the mere fact that you feel compelled to ask the question, I will say no.
ReplyDeleteThis!! Cos you know them better.
DeletePoster You know your sister well...We don't know the dynamics or if she has disappointed you at anytime.....If you rented your apartment, involve your caretaker, lawyer or landlord/lady about what your sister is proposing.....
ReplyDeleteLet the caretaker or lawyer draft an agreement that your sister will be responsible to cover cost of any damage, repairs e.t.c during the course of their stay to be signed by you and her....
If you do not want to go ahead to rent it out because you don't want drama...Kindly abort mission or let her know that the landlord does not tolerate 3rd party leasing/rent of his property...
All the best
It depends on the terms and how often she plans to travel. Set up some rules and know upfront how long she plans to stay and how many times a year she plans to travel. If it is doable then no problem.
ReplyDeleteOnce u lease ur property to someone, u do not have the right to ask them the questions about hw often they wud use the property. She can come and go as she pleases, except ofcourse when the term of the lease expires.
DeleteDon't try it
ReplyDeleteIf you're not using the property for now,you can rent out....with the kind of family I come from it won't be an issue at any point in time because rules and regulations would be followed but if your sibling or family is problematic please don't do it.....
ReplyDeleteSign an agreement
ReplyDeleteDon't do it ,it doesn't end well
ReplyDeleteNa you know the kind of person she is.
ReplyDeletePeople are different.😎
With the Close bond i have with my Siblings,Its only prior notification we need.
ReplyDeleteHow is the Dynamics of your Relationship??
Are You close knitted Family?
Has she been good to you,Has she disappointed you before?
Why do you need " Strangers input" to rent,assist a love one??
Dont mind me,I am Team Family
You are already calling it assistance. This is business, pls don’t guilt trip the poster. This ur comment is why many business men would tell you not to mix business with family, cos you are no longer seeing it for what it is: contract! U r calling it assistance.
DeleteOk. Noted.
DeleteMy Reply wasnt meant to influence or guilt trip the poster.
I merely wrote what i will do in such a situation.
It is not even about your Sister,
ReplyDeleteWhat about the future!
Tomorrow is pregnant and nobody knows what it will bring forth.
What if tomorrow, her Children lay claim to your property as theirs?
What if the narrative changed and they say you have sold the house to their Mother.
Don't accept please.
God bless you, just what i wanted to write. I am a lawyer and i have seen this play out in court. And it would shock you sometimes grandma doesn’t help matters. Sometimes the prblm doesn’t start with you, it starts with children or grand children.
DeleteIt’s where our parents lived before they passed away but I own it
DeletePoster, if your parents lived there, allow her stay but draft an agreement that would be explained to her by a lawyer, making her understand that some rules need to be abided by to ensure it remains in good condition.
DeleteFamilies are different
ReplyDeleteMy sister would rent and pay if that’s the agreement
My mother would say I ducked her breast … you know the rest
My dad would pay but talk about it later
My brother will say what your if family is charging for this
Based on that, you decide
Some families sef! No bond, no togetherness, no love
ReplyDeleteYou know your sibling well
ReplyDeleteAnd Know him or her Character
Sit down well and Think about it ooo..
Hello iya Boys
Depends on the kind of relationship you have,plus the character and the integrity of your sibling.
ReplyDeletePlease don't do it, let her look for another place to rent, it doesn't end well, don't mix family with business.
ReplyDeleteWhat if she doesn't pay again or her children are claiming it in the future, anything can happen, tell her you're not renting it, that you want to use it.
Please avoid stories that touch
ReplyDelete