WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Woman crush Wednesday hailings!!

WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

Shout out to those staying on their lane...I hope that your day is going well?

Now i have a message for you cos it looks like i have tolerated nonsense for too long...... You cannot come on a blog and tell a Journalist (Who knows more than you) what to post and then leave snide remarks........This is a warning to those who do this, today is the last day i will enable your comment questioning what i post or not.........There are one thousand and one ways to comment but if you chose the rude and sarcastic way, that's on you............Having a mouth or thinking you can run your opinion on anyone who has more authority than you is funny!!!....We don't need to be friends, you can comment without crossing my path!!!

Enough of all this nonsense cos i wont repeat myself,....GOSH!!!!!

I am a happy go person and i stay on my lane until i am pushed then i become the devil in the story!!!

Live and let live!!!

Moving on.....

Jeweluchi Chocnoir report to sisterhood base right now before i dray your brown yansh here...LOL

Have  a nice rest of the day to everyone else......

#################

INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

Last week, my kids' doctor messaged me asking us to come in for surgery for my boy’s adenoids and tonsils removal. I was happy we were finally getting it done, and my boy could start breathing well.

That night as I tried to sleep the weight of the whole thing just hit me, realising that I needed to explain it to the boy and how terrified he was of injections and all really bothered me, anxiety and worry started to creep in. 

A lot of thoughts ran through my mind, and they were just projected fear from people’s account of how bad the surgery was for them. I kept praying and quoting scriptures to help calm down.

On the day of the surgery I ended up waiting for up to twelve hours due to various delays on the part of the doctors and just when they were finally ready I had given the boy water and a little snacks. My mistake cost me another four hour wait period.

When it was time, I scrubbed in and went into the theatre with them just to calm him down before he was sedated. Seeing him on the table really made my heart ache. I was asked to leave when he slept off, but i kept on shuffling here and there. I eventually left with my heart in my mouth, muttering prayers for him.

He got out in about two hours, no complications, and i was told that the adenoids removed were so huge, the doctors wondered how he had been coping. I was shown the removed adenoids, and I was shocked. I am grateful he had the surgery done.

He is at home recuperating and doing well. We were told that if we don't ’t eliminate the source of allergies, it might grow back. I am doing my best to make sure we keep him away from dust, perfumes, insecticide, moulds, damp environments, spicy foods, and other smells like cooking oil being overly heated and so on.
Also, they knocked out a tooth during the procedure, so we are obviously seeing a dentist soon.

I was shaking while reading this!!!....Poor darling!

Please give him a hug for me.....This must be a difficult time for you with all these do's and Dont's...... Dont worry motherhood is tough but it gets easier with him as the kids grow......we never stop worrying but things become easier...I wish you all the best as you continue to navigate motherhood..

Come here and take a hug from me...

####################

TO EVERY WOMAN SUFFERING IN SILENCE:...

Love should never hurt.
It shouldn’t make you afraid.
It shouldn’t break your spirit.

Real love brings peace.. not fear.

Maybe you stayed hoping he’d change.
Maybe you stayed to keep the family together.
But peace should never come at the cost of your safety.

If your child is being hurt too
That is more than enough reason to leave.
No child should grow up afraid.
Protecting them starts with protecting yourself.

You don’t need bruises to walk away.
Emotional abuse is real.
Your pain is valid.

You are not weak.
You are not selfish.
You are not the problem.
You are someone worth protecting.
Someone worth saving.
Someone worthy of real love.

Talk to someone you trust.
Make a plan.
Take one small step.
You don’t have to do it all today—
You just have to begin.
One day, you’ll look back and see:
You were the brave one all along.

##################

TO THE BV IN SPONTANEOUS POST WHO GOT OFF THE PHONE CRYING

####################

WEIRDFACTS

--- Don't compare your progress with that of others. We all need our own time to travel our own distance.

---You may gain 20% more muscle strength by working out in the afternoon instead of the morning, according to a study.

---The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.

---The giraffe has the highest blood pressure in the animal kingdom because its heart pumps hard against gravity to reach its head.

---Before you give up, think about why you held on for so long.

#####################