This is a must read for people still tiptoe-ing on egg shells in their marriages....
During an interview with media personality Chude Jideonwo, she said;
"There are times when I see him and am not so much in love with him, report him to God, I'm honoring him, not because I love him too much but because I'm honoring one who's above him, who has given me the mandate to be with him, and I wait it out till he comes back cause he always comes back.
So don't think because you're married to somebody, it's always gonna be lovey-dovey , like you just wake up and you're like I understand why I got married to him,No, there are times I look at him like um somebody needs to remind me why I choose this guy again cause right now I can't remember, like loss of memory right now
So those days will come,and vice versa and there are days when I see guys that are looking fantabulous and am like whoo, oh child!, I pick this one over you?...and we have these discussions, I think the problem in life is people try to be fake, they try to act like...you know relax yourself, it's not that serious , you're just who you're, you're a human being , but when you choose someone as a partner for life, you have to be open with them, discuss things with them, if God helps you and you have a good value system, life would be easy".
So don't think because you're married to somebody, it's always gonna be lovey-dovey , like you just wake up and you're like I understand why I got married to him,No, there are times I look at him like um somebody needs to remind me why I choose this guy again cause right now I can't remember, like loss of memory right now
So those days will come,and vice versa and there are days when I see guys that are looking fantabulous and am like whoo, oh child!, I pick this one over you?...and we have these discussions, I think the problem in life is people try to be fake, they try to act like...you know relax yourself, it's not that serious , you're just who you're, you're a human being , but when you choose someone as a partner for life, you have to be open with them, discuss things with them, if God helps you and you have a good value system, life would be easy".
She made salient and good points...She is just real and mentioned the true reality of things....Once you go back the foundation, the vows and the main reason why you chose to love him, it makes one stay focused.....
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DeleteWell said omosexy
ReplyDeleteStainless and ever young Lady.
ReplyDeleteAlways making Sense almost all the time.
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Well said Omosexy
ReplyDeleteNice one.
ReplyDeleteLove is a decision and not a feeling. I hope people know that.
It's a big decision one has to be willing and intentional about. It's worth every bit of it I must say.
ReplyDeleteShe made a valid point
ReplyDeletelove is never a feeling but a decision to stay faithful to one person. May God help all the married people.
ReplyDeleteEveryday marriage advise
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There are lots of marriages with problems. Couple that are just house mates not cooperating. They are plenty all over even the so called ones that do PDA them get problem too. Its only God that helps, If one can go back to the wedding albums and the old pictures together to remember good times it helps to keep the home. Prayer to Jehovah is the key to keep the bed undefiled. Matters of the home should be treated as emergencies. Raise sang a song about it... temptations n stuff like that
DeleteThere are lots of marriages with problems. Couple that are just house mates not cooperating. They are plenty all over even the so called ones that do PDA them get problem too. Its only God that helps, If one can go back to the wedding albums and the old pictures together to remember good times it helps to keep the home. Prayer to Jehovah is the key to keep the bed undefiled. Matters of the home should be treated as emergencies. Raise sang a song about it... temptations n stuff like that
DeleteShe made a lot of sense. The reality is, love is not always at an all time high in a marriage.
ReplyDeleteValid point right there Omosexy.
ReplyDeleteJust do what works for you.
True!
ReplyDeleteOmot Ola is right .. my marriage will be 19 years … and recently I have been telling my husband to go get another wife and leave me the hell alone … yup 👍! Sounds weird but true !!
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