TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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TUESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute you all oh.....Its hot here but Idey outside......inside cool

Today is reportedly the hottest day in summer and people are advised to stay in shades and drink lotsa water.....

I honestly cannot wait for Winter to come back oh...I had my Dinner around 1pm my time and thats it for the day......I am a foodie but i dont eat much,just foodie for mouth oh....
Tattoos are back again on display, some are so cool and some are just to show one how ugly the body looks with tats in old age.....I saw some yesterday and it made me really not like it anymore but i saw some today again that made me love it.......I am gonna do a tat on my wrist...Just a small one with one initial and a heart in the middle....Does anyone reading this Blog have a tattoo? I would love to see it..

I need to loose 20kg......Abi make i order for MJ Tea? lol....or ozempic?

Enjoy the rest of the day as you lovingly gimme good advice....

Hugs...

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Some Words You Should Never Say to Your Partner — No Matter How Angry You Are

1. "I need some space."
This can sound like rejection or abandonment, especially in the heat of an argument. It creates fear and distance.

2. "I regret meeting you."
This cuts deep. It erases all the good moments and makes your partner feel worthless.

3. "I’m only managing you."
This statement kills self-esteem. Love should never feel like pity or endurance.

4. "My ex is better than you."
Comparing wounds deeply. It destroys confidence and trust.

5. "I will make sure you die in this marriage."
This isn’t just hurtful — it’s abusive and dangerous. Never let your anger drive you to threats.

Words can break what actions may never fix. Learn to control your tongue, especially when angry. Speak life, not destruction.
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A MEMO FOR WOMEN WITH ABUSIVE SPOUSES

I admire women who leave. Period.
I don’t care if you left the first time he disrespected you, or if it took 12 years, 6 breakups, 3 "I'm sorry, I'll change"s, and a thousand silent tears behind closed doors—I admire that shit.

Because, you know what? Leaving isn’t easy. People love to say “just walk away” like that doesn’t come with pain, guilt, fear, confusion, or even grief. But choosing to leave something familiar—even when it’s toxic—is a radical act of self-love.

I don’t care how long it took you.

 If people called you stupid, weak, naive for staying—ignore them. They don’t understand the emotional and psychological layers it takes to finally wake up one day and say, “I can’t do this anymore.”
You might have loved him with your whole heart, saw a future, had kids together,had houses, sacrificed pieces of yourself just to keep it all together—but when you chose you to leave, you did something powerful. You reclaimed your life. You took your power back.
And to anyone reading from the sidelines, let me say this:

Don’t you ever judge a woman for the time it took her to leave. Celebrate her for the moment she finally did. That’s courage. That’s healing. That’s real growth.

And to the woman who’s still in the middle of it, still thinking maybe he'll change, still weighing her heart against her peace—you'll get there. And when you do, I promise you, the freedom on the other side is worth every step it took to get out.
So yes ,I admire women who leave. 

Who broke the cycle. Who stopped the bleeding. Who packed their bags—whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually—and said “enough.” You are not weak. You are not late. You are dope as hell for saving yourself.

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To the blog visitors who left their marriages cos of one form of abuse or another.......This writeup is for you......You are not weak, you left to survive (I am referring to both genders cos abuse is not gender specific)

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WEIRDFACT

---Work hard in silence, let your success be your noise.

----Remember the five simple rules to be happy: Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

---The only sense that doesn't fully rest when we are sleeping is our hearing.

---Muhammad is the most common first name in the entire world.

----People who try to break you are already broken.

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FIVE THINGS MORE VALUABLE THAN A WOMAN'S BODY

Dear Bachelor,

If the major Reason you are marrying a lady is because she has a big frontal package aka Manchester united and a big behind aka Arsenal, then You are not in LOVE

No matter what you think, if all you see is her physical assets then You are LOST in LUST.

Here are 5 things that will matter more to any Man after Marriage than those things that naturally pull Men to Women.

1) PEACE OF MIND

Before you marry any lady, first and foremost, does she give you peace of mind?

Does she have the capacity to give you peace of mind?

Some Men don't stay at home because of the woman they married.

They rather sleep in the office or at a friend's place because they married a warrior at home.

Their homes now a war zone, the woman comes and puts enmity between the man and his family members. Everywhere War.

That she has a BIG CHEST doesn't guarantee she'll give you BIG REST.

If you marry a woman for those things, and she turns out to be a troublesome woman, you won't even feel attracted to her.

You will hate her and those things that attracted you to her. So find out first.

2) SUPPORT

Few years from now and you'll be faced with trials and battles as a Man and you'll need the support of your wife,

The kind of support not offered by her body.

The kind of support offered by her brain, by her hands, by her spirit, by her account balance, by her knowledge and exposure.

ASS is not ASSET

The Best ASSETS of a woman are not Physical.

Can she support you in prayers?

Can she support you financially?

Can she support you physically?

Can she support you with ideas, counsel?

Can she build with you?

3) HOME KEEPER

A Woman who can't keep her home.

Who can't be the boss at home and marshal the resources of her husband and her own and that of the kids to turn a house to a home,

A Woman who is out on Fridays to party and comes home drunk.

A Woman whose home is as dirty as a refuse dump.

You will take a look at all her big big assets that made you to marry her and suddenly, what you will see are big big liabilities..

4) COOPERATION

If there's anything any Man should not joke with, it's how cooperative a lady is to him,

That will determine a lot of he will succeed or not.

How she embraces his vision,

How she shows capacity to be SUBMISSIVE, OBEDIENT and LOYAL.

There are ladies (even in the church) who hate Authority, the word "submission" repulses them.

They are naturally disobedient, stubborn, rebellious, and self governed.

Marry such a woman, even if her chest is bigger than River Niger, her waist curvier than a Coke bottle, and her back as large as the Congo basin, I give you one year (if you can bear for that long) you will regret marrying her. You go run.

5) CARE/LOVE

A Man will always one day need his wife to play the role of a LOVER and on other days a MOTHER

To care for him.

To watch over him like a baby.

And when you finally realize that the Woman you married doesn't have a motherly nature,

When she's heartless and as cold as steel.

You will understand why our people say that "kakhi no be leather."

So check now,

How does she treat children, how does she treat elders.

How does she look after you

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Hilarious...So a man will be looking for a wife to care for him like a mother?

Naija men well done oh, always wanting to take but not willing to give....

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