She said:
"I have heard somebody tell me because I am a single mother I can't even think about dating him. I have two children. What makes you feel that a woman that has been divorced is not the better candidate if she has worked on herself. What is the guarantee that the two single people today are not going to be divorced people tomorrow. Why do people feel like I need to marry him/her fresh but both of you are going into the same data the world have computed for you. That over 70% of marriages crash. You are part of the 70%
Do you know that alot of butterflies in the tummy is a trauma response . Being loved brings peace not butterflies. True love is not supposed to make you anxious, I am still healing from anxiousness that moment I feel like I will kill this man'why did you do this to me '
I am 45,I have spent the last 10 years of my adult life trying to fix it and my children were looking at us like..go!!! You have to leave. I know how responsible I am as a woman, I don't sleep around; I don't even do casuals. I hear people say after you have used his youth, after you have used him to collect children..nah IVF champion because I don't understand."
Interview with honest bunch podcast
Do you know that alot of butterflies in the tummy is a trauma response . Being loved brings peace not butterflies. True love is not supposed to make you anxious, I am still healing from anxiousness that moment I feel like I will kill this man'why did you do this to me '
I am 45,I have spent the last 10 years of my adult life trying to fix it and my children were looking at us like..go!!! You have to leave. I know how responsible I am as a woman, I don't sleep around; I don't even do casuals. I hear people say after you have used his youth, after you have used him to collect children..nah IVF champion because I don't understand."
Interview with honest bunch podcast
It's an "Ikegwuru" Situation π€·π»My Kaffy. Some things do happen when you least expect them . Focus on your kids and yourself. This is the time to live your best life ever . π₯°
ReplyDeleteKaffy the nasty queen,who can stand her? Did her ex not leave her cos she belittles him at the slightest? Not to forget that she's also older than him.
DeleteA woman being older than her husband is not a problem as long as they love and respect each other.
DeleteIn fact, I don't understand why some couples disrespect their partners. Why???!
Mutual respect strengthens the bond of love.
That's the society we are living in.
ReplyDeleteKeep being good, the one for you will come. Na time.
It has to do with her attitude, not her status. She has a bad character, and everyone says it.
ReplyDeleteShe was unfortunate at earlier age being introduced to hard substances, every child was not lucky cuz it affects character.
DeleteBetween..kaffy is in her 50s, age is showing up correctly,the men in her age bracket are reading the wrinkles before saying hello.lol
And the men don't also have wrinkles..?
DeleteWhy are Nigerian youths like this? Kaffy born in 1980 is in her 50's? Yesterday someone wrote how Sophia momodu is in her 40's .. since 40 and 50 is old to you and your use it to lie and mock people, maybe you shouldn't get to that age right?
DeleteDon, and you think you have a good character?
DeleteIt's well with you beautiful and intelligent woman. ππΏπ€
ReplyDeleteWhen There's Life
ReplyDeleteThere's Hope
It is Well ..
Hello iya Boys
Focus on your kids sis
ReplyDeleteYour own will definitely fine you..
ReplyDeleteEverybody has choices in this life, anybody that doesn't want to date or marry someone because she's a single mother or baby mama, that's his own choice and I don't see anything wrong in it, any man that's meant for you will find you, just love yourself enough to know what's good for you.
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine kaffy.
ReplyDeleteOh!, and someone even replied her, If its true kaffy, Then you will have to work on you attitude.
ReplyDeleteIt is important to ask single mothers: who or what do you prioritize; your children OR the new relationship?
ReplyDeleteI ask to sample opinions and to learn.
@Kaffy: you are good at what you do. π
It is really hard for men to marry single mothers because their character and divided loyalty is a problem
ReplyDeleteIf she has worked on herself.. Why can't she be given a second chance?
ReplyDeleteThank God you aren't bashing single mothers today.
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