Old age is the final stage of human life, typically characterized by a decline in physical and sometimes cognitive abilities. It is a natural part of the aging process, and its onset and progression can vary greatly among individuals. old age can come with different things like health decline, isolation, cognitive error, to mention but few.
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Seriously, it's time for we men to know how important it is to love our wives in other not to regret inability to show them love, affection and respect. See ehn, if any man at his young age is giving his wife emotional torture (e.g, not loving her with the little you have, disrespecting her at every opportunity, showing her that side chic is more important than her, etc.) instead of loving her as commanded by God and as claimed when you proposed to her.
By the time you get old, you might end up carrying plate from one buka to another which i know you have seen or have been seeing old men visiting one buka or the other to buy food. The truth is, no matter the amount you spend on your children, no matter how hard you tried to make your children realize you are the bread winner, your wife will be the commander in chief at old age. She will have everything and anything she wants from her children before you as their father gets 1% of things she has gotten except your children are very much in love with you the way they love their mother.
What happens in a situation where you've maltreated their mum before old age? The mother has the ability to convince your children and she will get all the attention while leaving you all alone to your old age challenges. No matter how rich you are, you still need your wife at old age(provided death didn't take her away) to help monitor any care giver.
Lets not be selfish in dealing with our wife. Women are natural reminder of evil days except the one who has been broken and remoulded by God and life experiences else, at old age, she will remind you of those bad things you've done, she won't remember to tell you the good ones. This is why God asked us to love them.
Lasly, to be submissive isn't something we men should force on women. Take this from me today, there is a way you will love your wife and she will automatically be submissive and become like a toddler to you and her submission will in turn make you the husband look like a boy boy to your wife which will make people think you are a fool to your wife.
Remember, marriage has no accepted manual. Every malam to his kettle but the koko is, anything you do or about to do to your wife, remember OLD AGE. If you are against my thought, please feel free to air your take.
This is such an interesting and informative segment. Can’t say same for the other copycat. Well done Pinky!
ReplyDeleteBut you can comment or praise him with out making reference to other. So bad.
DeleteNo mine her,she has a long way to go.
DeleteIs the comparison necessary? Abi,who ask you self.
Smh
DeleteExactly Shooter gyal.
DeleteMisharl shut up! I have achieved more than you have ever achieved in your miserable life
DeleteAchieve wenti? Empty container make the lounder noise 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMisheal.
Words of wisdom. Well spoken Pinky.
ReplyDeletePinky weldone
DeleteWow! Well written😘
ReplyDeleteWeldon Mc pincky 👍
Hope we are learning beacause most times you write from experience I see
Well done.
ReplyDeleteNice write up. 👏
ReplyDeleteWeldone sir pinky 🎉🎉🎉
ReplyDeleteAll I pray for, is just a man that will love me and over look my little flaws.
Well said pinky
ReplyDeleteWell done Pinky👍👍
ReplyDeleteWell said pinky. Ire ooooo..
ReplyDeleteLol...
ReplyDeleteThis is a very SIMPle crap..
Dear men, you better choose wisely the men you take advice from..
I'm outtie
A man asking men to treat their own wives is considered simping according to you ?! Wow ! A very common courtesy and act !
DeleteLeave him to simp then, you us*less old f^^l, like with all your alfa male talk you’ve been able to achieve something significant.
17:48. I first view him bingo trouser come burst laugh 🤣🤣🤣. See who's calling someone a simp!
DeleteI've always said it. Those who make so much noise about their personality here are empty barrels. They real people full of substance don't make excessive noise.
Alpha male ko, Alfa mala ni. Mtcheewww🤣🤣
@17:48
DeleteLet us be honest to ourselves.
Despite its lofty aim, the post is based on a SIMPlistic idea.
First, how many women care from their purse for their husbands in old age?
Second, the typical wife wants her husband to benefit from their children through her. It is a part of the control every wife wants to exert on her husband to keep him submissive in marriage till the end. Further, the typical mother sees the children of a marriage as hers only.
Third, a woman staying in a marriage for 30 years just to exert revenge against her husband and to cause him sorrow in old age is pure wic-kad-ness. It is akin to witchcraft. A conduct which should not be sermonized.
Fourth, there is no art or science that says only fathers need old age care, and that when wives or mothers need care in old age, their children would be there for them. Is it not the same children (as husbands) who are told by their wives as we read here to treat their mothers as smellos, chronic liars, or not deserving of the amount of upkeep money from their children?
We do not need posts encouraging mothers on the malevolent manipulation of children that they will outlive their husbands. Are there no wives outlived by their husbands who even provided personal terminal care for them?
Thankfully, not all children follow desideratum like this one - they give regards as earned by each parent and they understand that parents are human beings too.
God Bless You More 🙏
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Treat everyone you come across in life well irrespective of sex class race and religion period
ReplyDelete👍👍
DeleteThank you Pinky. Is it not better to be a simp and have a peaceful home?
ReplyDeleteTo jettison this write-up is folly. For indeed the wife you belittle in youth becomes the mirror of your fate in old age. Choose now whether you want comfort or regret when your bones can no longer fight back. The true fool is the man who discovers too late that he built his house on contempt. Love your wife, and she will stand by you when the crowd has gone and your strength is dust.
ReplyDeleteBut who says it will be the man first? Old age does not strike with fairness. Sometimes the man falters, sometimes the woman, other times both together. That is why marriage must never rest on pride or dominance, but on mutual care.
If her body weakens before his, his tenderness will be her medicine, his patience her relief, his loyalty her dignity. If he lived only to command, even his help would taste like poison. If he falls first, the same law applies.
Marriage is a gamble against time. The only safe bet is to treat your spouse with dignity now, before old age comes to collect its debts. It is not about who stands the longest, but who bends the lowest when the other can no longer rise.
The surest preparation for old age is the daily investment of love, respect, and kindness. These are the only riches that do not fade, the only companions that will not abandon you when time finally strips each one of us bare.