I am flabbergasted and overwhelmed!!!

For Chief Jite Tesigimoje, polygamy is not a lifestyle of excess; it is, in his words, a practical truth of human nature. His household is a microcosm of Nigeria’s diversity. He is married to women from nearly all the major ethnic groups—Igbo, Yoruba, Bini, Ijaw, Fulani, Urhobo, Isoko, and his own Itsekiri. To him, it is a reflection of unity and inclusiveness.
Every man wants to marry two or three wives if he has the capacity,” he said without hesitation.
“The reality is this: after a few years of marriage, a man begins to see his wife differently. He sees her naked from time to time—when she is going into the bathroom and when she comes out and perfects her beauty routines.
“Familiarity sets in, passion fades, and intimacy becomes more like a duty. That is why you hear women complain their husbands no longer love them like before when they just got married.
When you share the same room, wake up and see everything about your wife every single day, where is the excitement?
“When you start to see her as a sibling, that spark is gone. And incest, as our tradition teaches, is a taboo.
I can tell you confidently that many women in polygamous homes are more sexually satisfied than their monogamous counterparts.
“But let us continue to deceive ourselves and build up angry and frustrated women, which will eventually lead to more divorces.”
Let me give you an example: yesterday (a day before the interview), I sent some of my wives ₦250,000 each for outings with their children.
“Within minutes, every one of them had heard about it. Those who didn’t get theirs called me to demand answers.
“I got calls from Abuja and Lagos, while those who were in Warri and yet to get their alerts stormed into my room. They had already heard!
“Before the day ended, I spent about ₦3 million on ice cream. That is polygamy. You cannot afford to neglect anyone.”

For Chief Jite Tesigimoje, polygamy is not a lifestyle of excess; it is, in his words, a practical truth of human nature. His household is a microcosm of Nigeria’s diversity. He is married to women from nearly all the major ethnic groups—Igbo, Yoruba, Bini, Ijaw, Fulani, Urhobo, Isoko, and his own Itsekiri. To him, it is a reflection of unity and inclusiveness.
Every man wants to marry two or three wives if he has the capacity,” he said without hesitation.
“The reality is this: after a few years of marriage, a man begins to see his wife differently. He sees her naked from time to time—when she is going into the bathroom and when she comes out and perfects her beauty routines.
“Familiarity sets in, passion fades, and intimacy becomes more like a duty. That is why you hear women complain their husbands no longer love them like before when they just got married.
When you share the same room, wake up and see everything about your wife every single day, where is the excitement?
“When you start to see her as a sibling, that spark is gone. And incest, as our tradition teaches, is a taboo.
I can tell you confidently that many women in polygamous homes are more sexually satisfied than their monogamous counterparts.
“But let us continue to deceive ourselves and build up angry and frustrated women, which will eventually lead to more divorces.”
Let me give you an example: yesterday (a day before the interview), I sent some of my wives ₦250,000 each for outings with their children.
“Within minutes, every one of them had heard about it. Those who didn’t get theirs called me to demand answers.
“I got calls from Abuja and Lagos, while those who were in Warri and yet to get their alerts stormed into my room. They had already heard!
“Before the day ended, I spent about ₦3 million on ice cream. That is polygamy. You cannot afford to neglect anyone.”
The nation newspaper
Nkogheri.com
ReplyDeleteOne woman can satisfy a man. Greed is the problem. Rastaman have only one woman inna his life.
DeleteBefore her, no other woman. After her (gone ten years now) no woman. Discipline, self control. When dem marry plenty women, demma just greedy.
Couples should live in separate rooms? This man is a bad influence.
ReplyDeleteUsing 250k as example shows he gives his women around that range 🤣 billionaire’s wife isonu
Poverty Mentality.
DeleteN250k to your wife is evidence of wealth!!!
Please stop calling this man a billionaire.
Village millionaire.
A man in his 50s sounding like he can satisfy the needs of 19 women plus girlfriends
Hehehehe
DeleteThose who marry 1 wife.
How much una dey give dem for Ice cream?
Una wey be 1 wife.
How much una dey get for soft drink?
Please let us criticize and comment on issues than by insults.
If Stella announce give away here we know how many of us dey apply.
We know why Stella even soft pedal on giveaway.
Yet we dey epp Chief 19 wives dey count him money.
To word this man on money is cheap talk.
19 wives no be financial beans by any standard in Nigeria.
Stella, abeg post if you wish.
Some of your blog visitors sha...
Only bad mouth on ... abeg make Man no talk.
Every mallam to his kettle.
ReplyDeleteWhatever gives you peace Sir, with all pleasure continue.
Hmmmmm. Dante and the rest please come and answer this???
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ReplyDeleteI wish you good luck
ReplyDeleteBecause you are going to need plenty of it.
No be small thing o, 'Husband of all Tribes' , wehdone Sir.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!
ReplyDeleteMariam.
Don't come tomorrow and shout paternity fraud o, cos definitely one man can't sustain 19 women
ReplyDeleteHe is obviously training some other men's children thinking they are his children.
DeleteWomen do get tired
ReplyDeleteOf one man too
So if your wife cheats, forgive her she's just being human
Motigbetional speaker isonu. You will still cheat on them. Shior 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteOdogwu well done Sir.
ReplyDeleteHahaha 🤣🤣 anything to justify lack of self control and promiscuity.
ReplyDeleteE force any of them?
ReplyDeleteSelfish ho man
ReplyDeleteOnly 250k😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteHow invest use enter this talk.
Ridiculous randy Ram
So the wives are even in different location? Infection na water 🤮
ReplyDeleteNa the women wey marry you I blame
ReplyDeleteThis one no follow
ReplyDeleteFrom this interview he just displayed his foolishness to the whole world. You see her everyday so see finish has set in. Should she also go same route and say becasue she sees you everyday she needs another man?
ReplyDeleteIt’s the spirit of greed manifest.
ReplyDeleteWomen in monogamy do paternity fraud.
ReplyDeleteSome female blog visitors even advise it be done in revenge.
One female Bv who boast regularly about her good marriage says boldly that she supports revenge paternity fraud by a monogamously married woman if her husband fathers a child outside marriage.
So, if women in polygamy do paternity fraud too, Wetin bad or new?
Infections? Lollll
As a wise man once said, only a monogamous man without adultery stain can tell where his infections are from.
Some infections husbands beg their wives on are from the wives. But as man waka too, he cannot tell where he get am from. And no. Not all women waka to infections in revenge. Some women do because that is their lifestyle.
Some polygamous marriages are chaste than some monogamous marriages.
Polygamy is a choice. Just as monogamy is a choice.
The troubles in ether are not different - chronicles on this blog confirms that.
You only write epistle like this when it is not a Muslim that does it, but once una see muslim name, na different derogatory comments dey follow making it look like polygamy is not an African thing.
Delete@19:59: "You only write epistle like this when it is not a Muslim that does it ..."
DeleteIt is even the female Muslim Bvs who criticize polygamy here. LoL
Read my comment again.
My stand on this blog regarding to marriages is that monogamy is not by itself better than polygamy - the chronicles we read here confirms that there is no challenge or problem in polygamy that is not in monogamy.
A man with one wife who sleeps with different women per week is a monogamously married man? Is he better than a man with three wives who does not sleep with any woman other than his wives?
If you see a good monogamous marriage, it is because the both parties or at least one of them (the husband or the wife) made or is making efforts or sacrifices for its good. It is not because the marriage is between only a man and one woman.
And hear this. If three women and one man make efforts for a good marriage, they will succeed as good if not better than a family of one man one wife.
Atink we don settle? Hahahahahaha
This man is a traditionalist and has a right to his views on marriage. Real traditional men have separate room from their wife/wives. I like that he is honest with his beliefs!
ReplyDeleteAs they live in different states, how wil he satisfy their sexual desires
ReplyDeleteCervical cancer risk to women no concern dirty promiscuous men
ReplyDeletePassion for using woman for money making juju.. cover up fetish actions with passion… he must not know what the word passion means as his actions nd the words don’t correlate
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