Thursday In House News

  Hailings.....

THURSDAY MEMO

I salute everyone.......
I hope that your day is going on well?..

I am just here, lazing and working and knowing i wont be cooking later...Well, i have some chicken laps to put in the airfryer......there is always something to eat in my Kitchen and even on days that i don't cook eh, as soon as my hubby comes in, he picks those finger food to eat before the men set out to order what to eat....LOL

Artificial intelligence and machine learning (Ai ML) is the next cash cow on IT Jobs....A friend of mine told me this today...it costs a lot though but its the new in thing....The cheapest registration ongoing right now is 1k dollars......It could go for as much as 6k dollars.

So has anyone bought the Collagen Peptide and biotin i talked about the other day? how much did you get it for? it can also aid hair growth you know..just look for the collagen that has calcium and biotin..it works like magic oh....

Enjoy the rest of your day and stay on your lane oh..

 

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FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON

There are too many people out there this day and age worrying about finding the perfect person.

You endlessly search, you'll try meeting new people, you take risks, yet you’ve been hurt so many times that you don’t let anyone in.

You’re afraid of failures and letdowns. You're afraid of lies and deceit. Who is real and who’s not. You doubt. You question.

You pick apart everyone you come across, trying to mix and match pieces you liked about previous people you’ve filled and shared your life with, yet could never fully fill that void you so desperately tried to create in a perfect person.

You place too much hope, faith, and burden on everyone you come across because you’re so eager to find that flawless person, constantly searching for that one person who will bring your life to some sort of meaningful culmination that doesn’t exist.

What a lot of people dont understand is that true love won’t be at first sight. It won’t even be at first impression. Overtime it's actually built.

From both of your flaws. From the deepest of trauma and the happiest of times. From the failures and lessons of both people.

The flaws that make you who you are, the moments you’ve experienced, good and bad, better and worse, from rock bottom to the very top. They all have their place in time. In healing. In moving forward. In rebuilding, both together and alone.

People keep trading in real value for things you think are easily replaceable. It’s an illusion. The promise of better is an illusion. It’s the biggest lie there is. Better is a relative to where you are in your life and your path of healing.

The harsh battles are where the deepest of bonds are created with one another.

Suffering as one, as a team, as a whole, as a unit, or as a single entity. This is where true connection is formed.

Your foundation will crumble time and time again if the brick and mortar are made up of your combined trials and errors aren’t there.
Physical contact and empty promises, promises forged from delusions of grandeur will only get you so far, before your lack of a foundation causes you to collapse in on yourself time and time again.

Don’t be afraid of the building. Don’t be afraid of the pain. Embrace the shortcomings. Embrace the cold. Embrace life. Once you have, you can sit back and marvel at the failures and losses, together.

Without them, how would we ever know just how thankful we should be for this mystery we call life.

True vulnerability in the form of a mirror image of yourself is where you will find it.
Fall in love with yourself, and you’ll find this person. Your truest reflection. Don’t look for someone you can be perfect with.
Look for someone you can build with. Someone you can be vulnerable with. Someone you can be your ugliest self with and still be accepted.

Take my advice and find someone you can genuinely grow with to the point where at the moment you become in their presence, it feels like you're finally home.
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THE VIGIL THAT TURNED SOUR.

It happened that, that night, my husband was praying in the living room. I slept in the bedroom with the children, half-asleep but listening to his prayers.

At dawn, just as I was about dozing off, we heard screams. It was our landlady.
My husband and I, together with the other tenants quickly hurried out to the compound.

Guess what people? our pumping machine was gone, literally ripped right out of its place. Worse still, our neighbor’s motorcycle had also vanished..
The landlady was crying bitterly, and cursing the thieves. We all stood in shock, wondering how such boldness happened overnight.

Apparently, the thieves jumped into the compound while my husband prayed loudly, the prayer literally diverted attention from their operation. The prayer noise was like a cover up, it drowned out their movements so they operated without stress.

We unknowingly gave them the cover they needed for their wicked act. I looked at my husband, and he looked back with regret. He felt really bad about the entire thing.

Even though our landlady said it was alright to continue our vigil, we made a decision that there will be no more midnight prayers. 

The pumping machine was not recovered but the motorcycle was.

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YOU NEED TO KNOW THIS

Narcissists are not sick, they are evil. 

They are selfish. 

They are liars. 

They manipulate you to serve their interests. 

They don’t make mistakes—they make calculated moves. 

Everything they do is deliberate, designed to control, confuse, and consume. 

They will study your weaknesses, mirror your desires, and pretend to be everything you’ve ever wanted, just to hook you in. 

Once you’re caught in their web, the mask begins to slip.

They isolate you.

 They drain your energy, your confidence, your joy. 

They twist your words, gaslight your reality, and condition you to doubt your own instincts. 

They will shame you for speaking up, punish you for having needs, and praise you only when you’re broken enough to be easily controlled.

 Their love is a lie, their affection a tool, their apologies a trap.

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You also need to know that these kind of people can be male or female

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WEIRD FACTS

---The average person falls asleep in about 10 to 20 minutes.

----Forgetfulness can be a sign of an efficient brain

----If a specific piece of information seems insignificant—like the name of a new acquaintance—it’s more likely to be forgotten

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