Business Woman Ehi Ogbegbor has warned women that it is unsafe to date men below their level, saying many men can’t handle a woman who is doing better than them. she explains that such men often feel emasculated and may seek validation elsewhere.....She warns women to love wisely and choose partners who can meet them on the same level.
She said:
"I am a believer in love, I love love. I feel love is a blessing to humanity but I am also now saying it's very unsafe as a woman to date below standard and standard doesn't just mean financials. In terms of your brain, intellectually especially financials though.
Some men don't know how to totally fall in love with a woman that is a provider. He would always......not all of them, don't get me wrong. Most times he would always go outside seeking a woman that feeds his ego. He would even take the little you give to go and empower and feel like a man. He starts to see you as a business partner. So the point is you can fall in love but carry your sense.... like a lady will tell me "use your head before you use your heart"
Na me like love pass oooo but I am talking from experience don't date below your level. If you like make anybody curse me ehhhhh you wey first date this pesin, "I don learn, I agree nah mistake pesin take dey learn" don't make my own mistake that's why I am advising.
Date your level because you see all these men you are doing good for he is not even going to treat you like a queen he go con dey think say you too do. "who she be sef" before you know resentment and hatred have started.
And don't get it wrong, it's not that they don't want to fall in love with you, they don't know how to handle it because men by nature are egocentric,a lot of men are. When it's you the kids are coming to, they want biscuits, pay school fees he will start to resent you seeing you do all the things he can't do. Some appreciate it don't get it wrong but most times you start hearing " how much you get sef, na because you get money?" and they start to make you feel unworthy because you have money.
I am just saying date your level no vex. Let them come up meet you at that level then you have a conversation."
"I am a believer in love, I love love. I feel love is a blessing to humanity but I am also now saying it's very unsafe as a woman to date below standard and standard doesn't just mean financials. In terms of your brain, intellectually especially financials though.
Some men don't know how to totally fall in love with a woman that is a provider. He would always......not all of them, don't get me wrong. Most times he would always go outside seeking a woman that feeds his ego. He would even take the little you give to go and empower and feel like a man. He starts to see you as a business partner. So the point is you can fall in love but carry your sense.... like a lady will tell me "use your head before you use your heart"
Na me like love pass oooo but I am talking from experience don't date below your level. If you like make anybody curse me ehhhhh you wey first date this pesin, "I don learn, I agree nah mistake pesin take dey learn" don't make my own mistake that's why I am advising.
Date your level because you see all these men you are doing good for he is not even going to treat you like a queen he go con dey think say you too do. "who she be sef" before you know resentment and hatred have started.
And don't get it wrong, it's not that they don't want to fall in love with you, they don't know how to handle it because men by nature are egocentric,a lot of men are. When it's you the kids are coming to, they want biscuits, pay school fees he will start to resent you seeing you do all the things he can't do. Some appreciate it don't get it wrong but most times you start hearing " how much you get sef, na because you get money?" and they start to make you feel unworthy because you have money.
I am just saying date your level no vex. Let them come up meet you at that level then you have a conversation."
As you are not dating below your level, don’t date above your level too. Don’t be greedy.
ReplyDeleteAnon 11:11 I can aim and pray to go higher in all aspects of life but can never ever wish to go below, I will date above my level
DeleteI f e reach your turn follow your mind and advice
"I don learn, I agree nah mistake pesin take dey learn" don't make my own mistake that's why I am advising.
ReplyDeleteThanks Ehi, na mistake we dey use learn true true 😄
A man who can't foot bills at home has no business dating anyone below, at or above his level. Yes, there may be times when financial difficulties set in but no right thinking man should allow it dwell for long.
ReplyDeleteAnd if it so happens that they woman is more financially established that's fine and dandy but the man must not become complacent to the point that he forgets that a man is nothing without responsibility and his ability to provide. He may not be able to afford to give her the lifestyle she is used to but on no condition should he push the responsibility of the kids(where they exist)to her.
It doesn't matter how well intentioned and genuine a woman's feelings are for a man. Women aren't wired to be providers. She can give you all her heart and her emotions but she won't be able to handle you as a financial dependant for long. She certainly can't handle that and appease your ego at the same time.
1000 likes . Truly, women are not wired to be primary providers.
DeleteDOG you nailed it
DeleteThis is the truth.
ReplyDeleteJust tell us say you don go carry fake odogwu..sebi him sister warn you
ReplyDeleteHmmm 🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteWhat happens if a woman is not approached by men at "her leve"l?
ReplyDeleteEhi this one you are talking like this abi your odogwu penrenren no be am
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