Friday In House News

 Hailings........

FRIDAY MEMO...

The countdown to Christmas has started...........Are you counting? I am not!..I am just wondering how i would feel seeing where a chicken is slaughtered for food..I dont know what has messed with my thinking but i now see a live chicken as a pet...LMAO!!!.......

Those of una wey no dey comment again, dont forget to stop by this Christmas and comment Christmas comment eeeeeeeeh.....Come and salute us...LOL

I know some of you hate me cos of recent fall outs but i really dont care about being friends with anyone.........I noticed that when two BVs become friends outside of the Blog, the gossip is mindblowing and not just gossip oh, DANGEROUS GOSSIP...make una take am easy, we all gossip but make we no wound each other with the talks......

As soon as i post in house news, I am going out for a bit.......If comments are slow, bear with me.. For the person that said, they left the other blog cos comments are not approved quickly. abeg take am easy you hear?Ehen!

 Enjoy your day and dont lose your smile.....

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

UNFORGETABLE CHRISTMAS INCIDENT  

I can never forget this one incident when during Christmas I got a stitch and I couldn't eat. I could only watch my family eat Jollof rice and meat, including crunchy bones of chicken.

My mum had warned us severally never to climb over the neighbour's fence. It had broken bottles and was extremely dangerous, but because we were kids and like to do the exact same thing we were told not to, I didn't listen.

I invited my two sisters to let us go and jump over the fence to pick some snails but they reminded me Mum said we shouldn't and declined.
When persuading them began to seem like eternity, I took the bull by the horn and headed there.

I simply climbed and was about to jump when the next thing I knew was that I missed my step and there was a loud thud.
I had fallen and cut my lips. The broken bottle secured on top of the fence to keep intruders at bay did it. I sat on the floor as blood gushed down from my mouth. Worst of all, I could hear my mum's voice from the gate. She had returned and would see me exactly where she warned me not to be. I kept grunting because the left side of my mouth had been cut through to my cheeks.
Long story short, I was taken to the hospital and got stitches, and the punishment for my disobedience was that I couldn't enjoy the Christmas meal. I could only stare while everybody munched away. I still have that scar and sometimes wish I had adhered.

Eyaaaaaah!!!.....I can imagine you not being able to eat with the others....A lot happens during Christmas.....I plan to do a Christmas day post for these kinds of remembering...so keep your stories sharpened and waiting...

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

As a child, one of the highlights of Christmas was when my mom would send me to give food to neighbours. It was usually served in a ceramic (pyrex) dish or a painted stainless dish(ajase) plates. 

I would gladly take it to the neighbours because most of the time, they would give me tokens of cash gift as appreciation for the food.
We spent most of our day in the kitchen, and the buzz and excitement when food was ready was a thrill on its own.

Christmas is coming, and I am struggling to come up with a good menu this year. I genuinely don’t know what to cook. Deep down, I think my reason for that is that I don’t want to cook at all. I would like to just do take outs and sleep in, but it's not going to be possible.

In the previous years, I had continued the tradition of cooking in large portions and hosting family and friends. I did most of the cooking, and I enjoyed having family and friends over, but because I did the stress of cooking, I didn’t enjoy the meals .

I would like to do things differently this year. I want to enjoy Christmas like I did as a child without having to worry and being in charge of the whole thing.
I am open to new ideas and suggestions for a great Christmas menu.

I am also open to great menus for Christmas cos I am entertaining next week...We celebrate Christmas from the 24th evening and thats when we do the big cooking and eating and the next day we go out for food in a nice classy Restaurant and there's always a rush cos everyone is going out....

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DECEMBER SURVIVAL TIPS FOR YOUR WALLETS*.

1. If you can't buy chicken, fry eggs and eat in peace.

2. If you can't visit, send them your transport, let love meet you halfway.

3. Don’t borrow to impress anybody. Peace is better than packaging.

4. If you don't have new clothes, wash the old one well, confidence will do the rest.

5. Enjoy December, but leave January out of your punishment.

6. Gifts are sweet, but debt is bitter, choose wisely.

7. Not every party is your party, rest is also a celebration.

8. If your account is slim, stay home and eat life gently.

9. Cook what you can afford, hunger doesn’t know the brand.

10. December is not a competition.Move at your pace.

No go dey do pass yourself. God bless..

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QUESTIONS THAT NEED ANSWERS

 “Are women becoming too independent for relationships?”
“Are men unable to handle relationships with independent women?”

Let’s start with the fact that women are becoming more economically and emotionally independent, which is changing what kinds of relationships they are willing to accept, not whether they want relationships at all.

1. Many men still expect traditional roles but also want a partner who earns as much or more. 
2. See independent women as thr~eats, because it removes the dependency dynamics they’re used to and she doesn’t have to stay to deal with infi~delity or any cr~ap.
3. Women who have their own income, their own emotional regulation, their own identity, tend to build healthier, more stable, longer-lasting relationships because they’re not dependent.

I also do know that healthy men see independent women as partners! So, you might want to evaluate yourself before you start pointing fingers at the independent woman!
And the real question now is: Is independence the issue, or is accountability the issue?
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HOW TO CATCH A THIEF

#In early 1900s, in England, some people used a clever trick to catch thieves.

They’d sprinkle ninhydrin powder on their door locks before leaving home. Ninhydrin reacts with the amino acids in human sweat, thereby producing a dark reddish or purple stain on the skin.
So, if someone tried to tamper with the lock in their house , the powder would stick to the person’s hands and make it red.
This makes it easy for thieves to be caught. All you need do is check the hands of suspects and the thief could literally be caught “red-handed”.
That’s where the phrase, “caught red-handed” came about.

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A FRIDAY MEMO TO WOMEN

Dear women, it is high time we understood the differences between a man who wants us for pleasure and a man who genuinely values us. A man tells you from day one that what he wants is just a boyfriend and girlfriend arrangement, and you think you can act smart.....  
You think getting pregnant will make him love you?
You think carrying his child will force him to marry you?
It doesn’t work like that.

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