Monday In House News

  Hailings!

MONDAY MEMO
Hey people.....
how the day dey go? Make sure you run the day and don't let it run you....

My inbox is full of mails from BV XP, she over replied me and na wahala i dey like this cos these are long reads....She dey salute all of una for email..Seems she went to the mountain and came back loaded with missiles to fight ooooo, so i will advice that all of us just avid her wahala and concentrate on her sweet gists...We like XP when she's gisting not fighting...I no get negative energy to give or receive this year and all of us are on the same route..

As XP do wahala reach, her inbox gists are the sweetest (not about BVs oh).....LOL

XP please i will be replying small small and will be through before January next year....hugs

Make una enjoy the rest of the day.......

**********************************

MEMO TO SDK BLOG GIVEAWAY RECIPIENTS

I see the complaints concerning what i am asking for before you get the giveaway but this is a new year and if we were all so angry by what Ummugate did ate year and the discoveries of over 5million scammed from the giveaways, should i not try to find ways to avoid it?

I dont need your NIN for anything please and Waju is a trusted person and i chose her for a reason, she is not a scammer, she is a responsible teacher and a mum of five lovely children.. she is busy and has no time to scam anyone please!

As for me, what am i even using your account details to do? To steal your money? LOL...

Lets agree on something...If you are not comfortable my demands which will be different with each giveaway, please send Waju a mail and officially opt out so that we can pick you a next time and maybe the next requirement will be OK for you, keep opting out until you get tired....

REMEMBER THAT IT IS NOT BY FORCE TO ACCEPT....

So we have gone through the NIN stages of some people..Please the next step is to call BV Waju on video so that she can verify you... The verification must be done today so that we can send the monies...

If you dont call her today, please dont call her again....

This idea was dropped by BV Shootergal last year and we acknowledge and thank her...We are trying it out to see if it will work......

Thank you all for your understanding....

GOD BLESS ;NO INSULTS

**********************

TEACHER LIFE

Whenever I see the pink teddy bear in my class, I remember this bright and lovely little girl I once taught.

I always admired how both her parents dropped her off every morning—hugs, kisses, gentle reminders. First term, they never missed a single event. A very lovely couple… or so I thought.
Early second term, my girl started coming to school looking drained. Head on the desk, dozing off in the middle of class. I called her mum to ask if she was ill.
“No, Miss C. She sleeps late watching TV. I’ll work on it.”
But things got worse.
On Show and Tell day, she brought nothing. Tried to encourage her—
“My girl, what happened?”
She whispered, “Miss C, I didn’t sleep. Daddy told mummy she is a "non empity". He slapped her two times and told me to go to sleep. But I was not happy, so I cried till this morning.” My smile stayed steady, but my heart dropped. After school, I waited to talk to her mother. Instead her aunty came.
She brushed it off. “Kids imagine a lot.”I said okay. But my girl changed. Tired, distracted, absent some days, withdrawn other days. Excuses upon excuses whenever we called.

Then her birthday came. The plan was small—cake, mum and maternal grandma attending. The celebration started fine.
Then the gate opened.
“Where’s my girl?”
Her father walked in with a much bigger cake. A lady followed, dragging a huge bag of party packs.
“What are you doing here?” the mum asked, stunned.
“It’s my child’s birthday too,” he replied, handing a pink teddy bear to my girl.
“Don’t give her anything!” her mum screamed, snatching the bear and flinging it to the floor.
“You drama queen! Why are you embarrassing my child?” her husband barked back.
I quickly ushered my kids into the classroom—the air was about to tear in two.
By the time I returned, security was escorting The dad out and lady out. He was shouting at the top of his voice outside the gate. Grandma was furious, holding the mother close.
“You want to beat her here? She left you, leave her alone! You had to bring that woman on this day!”
With one swing, the cake he brought landed on the floor.
In the HM’s office, grandma’s voice trembled as she spoke.
“That man is a womanizer. He stopped my daughter from working, monitors her everywhere. He beats her for small things and calls her a non-entity. He is a"Money miss road". My daughter did ICAN oh, very smart girl. She fell into this man’s trap.”
They are in the early stages of divorce, she said.
And the last instruction given was simple and firm:
“Please, that man must never pick our child from school.”
I went back to my class to check on my girl. She was huddled in the corner sobbing. I hugged her tight, grandma and her mum came in and we still celebrated her birthday quietly in class. A small cake, singing, with classmates—her smiles genuine, even if small. When she was leaving for home, she paused to look at the pink teddy bear. She touched it gently, then walked away without taking it.
Sometimes I wonder how she is because after a few weeks she relocated to another state with her mum.
Children carry so much in their little hearts—burdens we often cannot see. That pink teddy bear now sits quietly on my shelf, a remi

nder of the storms some children survive, and of the small safe spaces we can provide in the classroom.

This Narrative left me really really emotional..I hope the little lady is OK

************************

DIVORCED, YOUNG WIDOWS, SEPARATED AND SINGLE MOTHERS ... 

READ THIS WITHOUT EMOTION

There is a dirty truth many people avoid, and too many women are silently bleeding from it.

Some men intentionally hunt separated, divorced, widows and single mothers.
Not because they love you.
Not because they respect your strength.
But because they believe you are easy access.

In their minds:
You’ve stayed long without sex
You’re lonely at night
You miss being someone’s wife
You’re tired of carrying life alone
You want reassurance, affection, and validation badly

So they show up fully prepared.
They don’t come with commitment.
They come with scripted words.

They sound like:
“I really admire strong women like you”
“A woman like you shouldn’t be alone”
“I’m different from other men”
“I want marriage, not games”
“I see myself settling down soon”

Sis, open your eyes because to these men, sXx is the destination.
Marriage is just a bait.

Your situation simply makes the door easier to open.
And once they get what they want?
Calls reduce
Texts slow down
Excuses multiply
Energy changes
Suddenly they’re “confused” or “not ready”

Sisters, listen carefully 
Loneliness is not consent.
Pain is not permission.
Being separated does not make you desperate.
Your past does NOT mean:
You should accept crumbs
You should manage confusion
You should trade your body for promises
You should believe words without structure.
A man who truly wants you will:
Be clear, not vague
Be consistent, not seasonal
Be accountable, not slippery
Be intentional, not convenient
Be patient, not sexually aggressive.

Any man pushing for your body while postponing responsibility is not confused, he is calculating.

Please, sisters,
Protect your heart before you explain it.
Guard your body like it matters, because it does.
Value your time like it’s expensive, because it is.

Marriage talk without action is manipulation.
Affection without responsibility is deception.
Don't be desperate.
You are not broken.
You are not an easy target.

Choose wisdom over loneliness.
Choose clarity over sweet lies.
Choose yourself repeatedly.

Be careful, sisters. Be very careful.

If all they want is sXx, let them say it plainly, don’t let anyone disguise lust as love or cajole you with marriage lies.

You hear me so? 
Copied

*******************

IN THIS LIFE …

A jobless man celebrates the birth of triplets while a tycoon’s wife has wept in prayer for years for just one child, learn to fear God.

When a PhD holder stands at the gate of a man who never saw the inside of a classroom beyond high school, respect education, but revere humility.

When an “ordinary” woman marries a man who has it all together, while beauty, class, and pedigree pray endlessly for love with little reward, understand this truth: it is not by looks, but by grace.
And when a man who once changed cars like clothes now negotiates the repair cost of his only bicycle, walk through life with godly caution.

Life is a long road.
Life humbles without apology.
Life teaches lessons with pain.

So choose your words carefully. Treat people gently. Pause before anger speaks, and reflect before pride acts. Always remember, today’s position is not a lifetime guarantee.
Arrogance has an expiry date. The harvest always comes, and it comes in full measure.

Humility will open doors education cannot.
Grace will lift you higher than beauty, talent, or privilege ever could.
Stay humble. More grace.
Copied

*******************

**************+

WEIRD FACT

------'Procrastinate’ comes from a Latin word meaning “to put off until tomorrow”
‘Perendinate’ means “to put off until the day after tomorrow/ a more extended period”

-----The world’s oldest unopened bottle of wine is more than 1680 years old

----Neanimorphic: Appearing younger than one’s actual age

----Einstein’s eyes are currently sitting in a safe deposit box in New York City

*****************