MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings....

MONDAY MEMO

How is everyone doing? This weather don show face for my body oh..I am what you call ''Under the weather''I get headache and runny nose that is red and blushy..lol

Now straight to the point!

BV Teejay, why exactly have you been leaking your mouth in the comment section thanking me up and down?It was sleepy eyes I used to enable your comment this morning in the SP, I missed where you put my initials....And then you are letting people allege,/suggest/insinuate/think/know that I bought you a new phone?

Even if I was the one, did it occur to you that I did this privately and wanted it to be off the blog? Or you brought it here to prove a point that you obtained me? For your info, I did not single you o ut to give you, I bought phones worth over a million naira from Martins and asked him to give you one since you only had about a quarter of the money...I gave two other people on this Blog and they are not in the comment section....You should know by now that I am fiercely private but I will watch you shoot yourself with a dane gun....

Please leave me out of you Book of revelations in the comment section.

BV Dante WHEN IS ENOUGH ENOUGH??????, I don't get it, why are you dragging and insulting the same gender you want to read your book and you are wondering why you don't have massive sales? The same people that will use their hard earned 5k to buy the book you are saying they don't have shishi? Please know when to stop the joke and start using your talent to earn real money..

Rich people don't write books, others write it for them and call it memoir....

Please know when to stop, out there you can attack but in here,treat them nice cos the space is tight.....The reason you are hiding your identity is cos you know you haven't been nice to them..

It's time to free yourself and come out of hiding, nobody writes a book under anonymous anymore, where will all the accolades go to if your book is nominated for a prize?What if your book goes International?

Start acting right and stop the dragging, nobody employed you to drag the other gender..Likeis said upthere, it is time to monetise or globalise your talent....

Just know one thing,you wont go far as an anonymous writer #wolesoyinka #chinweachebe #olarotimi #maraimaba #helenovbiagele et al...

Enjoy the rest of the day and use your time wisely.....

BV Sandra, I kneel down, hand up and face wall...LMAO...Is that punishment enough?

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I read a story on Facebook how a quarrel over a missing spoon ignited long-buried tensions in a young marriage. Although, the couple already carried unresolved issues, worsened by distance and emotional strain.

She worked out of the city, and returning only on weekends, while the man stayed home with their three-year-old son. Concerned relatives, friends, and spiritual leaders stepped in to mediate.

Despite this, she moved out in August 2024, shocking everyone involved.
She later pushed to return the dowry, but her family insisted it was too soon.
A one-year window was agreed upon for reflection, compromise, and possible reconciliation.
Family heads, pastors, and priests spoke to them separately, urging peace.
The couple acknowledged the issues but called them petty and fixable.
Later on, the man was willing to reconcile, admitting faults and promising change, Yet resentment, fear, and emotional wounds sighted by the woman stalled progress. She asked for time to heal.
By August 2025, they would have been married four years and separated for one. They co-parented well but rumors of another man in the woman's life surfaced. Yet, both families opposed divorce and held onto hope of reconciliation. 

Caught between culture, family resistance, and emotional closure, the marriage remained suspended.
The question I keep asking is why people co-parent peacefully but cannot stay married peacefully? How people let trivial things like ordinary spoon scatter their home is still a surprise.

I dont think it was the spoon that caused the estrangement...The spoon issue escalated it...Both of them had seen things that made them want out and the spoon was used as an excuse...Co-parenting peacefully is possible cos they are no longer in the same space...

Let me shock you...I know a lady who told me she got divorced cos of fart...they were together and mess begin smell..he said it was her and she said it was him...it escalated into an argument and then into physical altercation and before you know it they were divorced....

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BV SLIM SHADDY TESTIMONY FROM THE COMMENT SECTION:

''Last year I made comment here about snake constantly coming around my home. 

I had an altercation with my neighbors girlfriend some four years ago and since then I started seeing snakes around my house. What saved me from being harmed is God's revelations through my dreams.

Although, I never had any dream pointing at her directly that she's the bane behind what ever I was experiencing but the signs were there  as proof that she's the one . Why did all that start occurring shortly after my altercation with her?

Now the proper story. 

Before any snake comes I had already seen it in the dream and prayed that it wouldn't have it's way. 

Few days after our altercation  I saw my neighbors girlfriend looking at me through a mirror in the dream and after one week, it happened that I was washing outside when she brought out a mirror and sat in front of their house backing me, pretending to be doing something on her face while looking at the mirror. When I raised my head, I saw her face through the mirror staring at me with a straight face, I immediately remembered the dream and smiled while muttering some words of rebuke. 

The first snake came , lying on the black foot mach in the corridor and it was night, if I wasn't with a torch that day I wonder what would have happened to me. The snake was even same color with the foot mat(All glory be to God , the Creator of the Universe). My caretaker even casually said "you sure say this girl no send this snake to harm you" in my mind I said, that's what came to my mind immediately I saw it. 

After that first incident, I keep seeing snakes from time to time trying to come close to my house but I thank God for giving me the ability to see them before they manifest in the physical so I would pray against them. Non of them entered my own house though. 

One funny thing about this is that snakes proceeded to my family's house. One black snake climbed our door at home. My mum was about opening the door when she saw a snake close to the door handle outside, she screamed eh, our door is even a security door, you know how smooth the texture of the door is? how come the snake was able to climb it?

I got a revaluation that a snake was hiding somewhere listening to our conversation at home but nobody believed me. Each time I come I tell them that a snake entered here and nobody knows where it's hiding.  One fateful day, my family saw a snake in the parlor, I told them it's that snake I told them about that has been hiding somewhere, it is tired of hiding. 

Now, my neighbor had relocated but the incident continued. 

I was in the dream when I saw my sister's son being bitten by a snake, it was so bad that they carried him around looking for how to treat him both with orthodox and traditional method , all to no avail. I got this particular revelation two times ( anytime I see something twice, hmm......) I woke up and prayed against it, then called to tell them not to stay outside to receive ventilation at night anymore. (stubborn people that will never hid to simple advice).

I don't normally travel during weekdays, only weekends; but this fateful Tuesday, I was pushed to travel for no reason. I didn't have any reason to travel but I saw myself go home, picked some money and headed to the  motor pack unplanned. 

When I got to their house, my sister was surprised to see me on a day like that, I told her that am miss my baby, just came to cuddle him and am okay. I went in to drop my bag  and  and immediately ran outside to go and see my lovely baby boy where he was receiving ventilation with his dad. As I was going, I flashed my torch on the floor, see snake crawling to where they were seated. Other people were outside as well, I shouted "see snake" nobody answered me. 

I was like "is my voice not loud enough or something" for where, nobody made any move to come and see the snake. Na so I para, respect commot for my body that day for where the father dey. I yelled at him, yet he felt reluctant to come and kill the snake. Instead he was concerned about the disrespect. It was even the little boy of 4yr old that carried stick to come and kill snake before someone else came and killed the snake. 

The person was even there when I was shouting earlier, why all of them didn't come to assist immediately is what I don't understand. One boy was called by his mum immediately I shouted, the woman didn't want her son to come and assist (I think). Up till today, these people have not recognized the role I played in saving the life of that baby who was just 4yr old. 4 year old was brave enough to pick up a stick to come and kill a snake while adults stayed reluctant.

I cried, seeing that nobody took what happened serious (if they know what I saw in the dream, the condition of the baby when he was bitten . 

Now, other neighbors started killing snakes in their  houses in the compound where I live. I know the snake pattern wanted to deceive and confuse me so I won't see that the thing was coming because of me. It entered other people's house so I would think, we'll, am not the only one experiencing this so  it's not a spiritual manipulation. 

Many other events occurred, I always see them before they get close to my door. Let me just skip those part to this particular incident where I told myself enough is enough.

One day , I was sitting outside at night in front of my house, (this is not even my kind of thing, no matter how hot the weather is, you will never see me outside at night) I was sitting outside because inside was too hot, I was sitting on the elevated pavement pressing my phone when I decided to flash my phone's torch, lo, and behold, a snake was cripping towards me. It was almost close to me.

 I didn't shout. I silently called my new neighbor to come and watch so it won't run, while I go and call other neighbors to come and kill it. Before I went to call them,  I spoke to it sternly as if I was speaking with a physical human being, serious warning o. 

I told it that "I have no business nor covenant with you. Never you come around me nor my family again, I am for Jesus and Jesus alone, I belong to the bloodline of Jesus Christ". ("I belong to the bloodline of Jesus Christ" is one good line I got from one of Bv Ali B's posts years back)  there was no hiding place because where it was was blocked by my new neighbor.  

After that first declaration, I quickly went to call other neighbors, when they killed it, I faced the fire where it was being burnt and continued muttering sternly;  "I bear on me the mark of the living Christ so you are powerless around me. I strip you off your power. Who are you to come and contend the authority of God over my life? You didn't create me so you can't destroy me. He that is in me is greater than he that is in you.

 The spirit of God lives inside this temple, and the Angels of God surround me therefore you can't have your way here because the Angles always come through. You can't stand the presence of God in my life. I render you powerless forever. The word of God says that whatsoever we bind on earth is bound in heaven.. etc.  

Two weeks later, snake came again, then I remembered one of pastor Chris Oyakhilome's message, he said, when we cast out demons, they might want to come back to test you to know if you really have confidence in your prayers and the power in you. Don't fret they are already defeated. Stand in what you believe in without any doubt and you will see that they are no more.  Instead of being worried I gave it a tongue out , saying, "you are barking in vain, I already won you. You are already powerless. Ekwensu, ima ama eme".  

 It's been three years now after this last one, we have never heard about snake's again. When I first talked about it in the blog, it had already stopped coming but I wanted to make sure it truly stopped before I come out to claim that it stopped. If I didn't flash the torch that night when I was outside I wonder what would have happened to me. I give God all the glory. He has never disappointed his people. He always come through. The song that was put in my spirit when I came back after our 4 yr old's incident was;

"While I was worried and couldn't sleep, 

He was working behind the scene oh, 

Tobe chukwu , He has done it for me... "

I couldn't sleep well after the dream so I was pushed to travel... God!

Lesson I learnt is that there is a difference in my former pattern of prayer that didn't stop it from repeating itself. 

In my former prayer pattern I was begging, I actually rebuked but they were casual , I did the begging prayer method the most  and the other one, I took authority.

WOW WOW WOW...Its like you have some Kinda gift!

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BITTER WORDS FROM ELDERS

1. Nobody respect a rag until their shoes is dirty, so stay in your corner. Don't beg people to know your value, when the time comes, nobody will tell them to look for you

2 Don't look down on somebody, l have seen somebody who became nobody and nobody who became somebody

3 Don't be too available for people because longtime no see is better than this Idiot has come again

4 Humility is not fear nor foolishness, therefore don't disrespect those who are humble

5. Control your Anger because it is just one letter away from Danger

6. Don't show everyone your wounds, not everyone is holding a *bandage, some are with salt and vinegar to increase the pains.

7. Never plant thorns on someone's path, your children may take that route barefooted one day.

8. One mistake you should never make in this life is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone to hate another person who hasn't wrong you, and even he has wrong you forgive him

9 Don't hate a person who tells you truth, appreciate him, hating him is hating God because God is the source of truth and Satan is the Father of lies and liars

10 Don't compare your life with others, there is no comparison between the sun and moon they shine when is their time.
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WEIRD FACTS

-5-10% of Internet users are actually unable to control how much time they spend online because of psychological addiction.

-Ataraxia (noun): A state of complete freedom from stress and anxiety

-Onomatomania (noun):The frustration of not being able to think of the right word

-Neanimorphic: Appearing younger than one's actual age

-People born in October are more likely to live to 100 than those born in March

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HOW TO HANDLE A CHEATING HUSBAND

I'm always happy to see women seeking solutions instead of giving up. I'm not condoning cheating or encouraging women to endure bad marriages. However, finding solutions is crucial, especially when a cheating husband remains responsible and non-abusive.

It's deeply painful to share a bed with someone who has been intimate with another woman. The wife may experience depression, stress, ill health, confiding in family and friends, sleeplessness, constant crying, and even confronting the other woman—often to no avail. The emotional toll of seeing someone who shows little regard for her feelings is immense.

My dearest married woman! Here's a possible response to a cheating husband.

• Stop worrying and complaining.
• Take excellent care of yourself; maintain a clean and attractive appearance.
• Smile more than ever.
• Engage in activities you enjoy.
• Focus on your well-being and your children's. Make your children your closest confidants.
• If you work, concentrate on your job or business.
• Avoid sharing important matters with him, but maintain basic communication and fulfill your marital duties, such as cooking.
• Stop initiating sex. If he initiates, don't refuse, but participate without overt enthusiasm. If you were previously demonstrative, tone it down, but never refuse.
• Stop letting him see that you can't live happily without him.
• Spend time with friends who support you, but maintain your privacy.
• Always look your best when you go out.

Some cheating men avoid sex with their wives. Even if the wife initiates, he might feign tiredness or stress. Stop embarrassing yourself; don't push it, no matter how hard it is. If he stops touching you, don't ask or complain.

• Maintain high self-esteem and confidence. Prioritize your happiness.
• Start saving money in a private account. A cheating husband is often insecure. Instead of improvement, he might divorce you. Your savings will protect you and your children.

While doing all this, don't let him think you're a fool. Don't cry or act distraught as before. Discreetly monitor his activities. If he tries emotional blackmail, remind him of his recent actions.

Your silence shouldn't be mistaken for ignorance or acceptance. When a woman prioritizes her happiness, some cheating husbands complain as if she's to blame, forgetting that her reaction is a direct result of his behavior.


Cheating husbands who still love their wives are often jealous. When you focus on your well-being and stop crying or complaining, it often affects his conscience, if he still cares, despite his infidelity. He may fear losing you; he might even suspect you're cheating. He might then start playing the victim.

Cheating husbands often have inflated egos. They feed on your tears and pleas. When you stop reacting, their fear of losing you may lead to frustration.
Only those who never truly loved you will continue cheating without fear of losing you
God will help us
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