MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Monday Sunny Hailings....

MONDAY MEMO
I salute everybody on here..

I am doing fine and in a good mood..Please i dont need pity of being scammed from anyone..where e comot e no fit finish in Jesus name....

Thank you all...

Hugs

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

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BITS OF MAILS FROM MISS H

''Good morning, Ma.

Please, Ma, I humbly ask for your forgiveness. I sincerely beg you not to take any action that could damage my future.Some of my mates are watching what is happening.I have become a laughingstock, and I don’t think I can handle the disgrace anymore.

Ma, I am only 19 years old, doing my best to succeed through my education. If I am disgraced publicly without knowing my reason, it will be very difficult for me to bear the shame.

I could have chosen someone else as my mother a long time ago, but I chose not to, because my mother is still my mother.

My mom will never agree to appear on camera. Do you know why? My mom has a disfigured face. I have discussed it with her several times about letting you see her on video, but she has refused because of her condition. She knows her refusal has caused me a lot. I'm sending her picture against her wish. But I have to do this.

I am still very grateful for all your support. Only Almighty Allah can reward you.

If my future is tarnish , what will I be living for. Nothing. I'm not asking, you keep supporting me anymore all I want is to resume commenting but so scared of trolling and bullying.

Thank you so much for your understanding''.

ANOTHER MAIL

''Please forgive me for not telling you earlier about my mother’s condition. I did not think it was important at the time, and I sincerely regret keeping it from you. I want you to know that everything I have said is the truth.

Regarding her sister’s husband’s death, yes, she traveled to Gwagwalada and returned after 40 days.But when she came back, and I told her. she refused, even after we pleaded with her''.

''As for the poultry, it belongs to her, and it is our only source of livelihood. Last week she told she has lost 14 birds out of 50 birds due to the heat.

Ma'am i understand if it is hard for you to believe me now, especially because I should have spoken up earlier. That was my mistake, and I take full responsibility for it.

Please, ma’am, I am truly sorry. I sincerely hope you can find it in your heart to understand and forgive me. Sometimes I make mistakes not because they are intentional, but because I thought I'm doing the right thing.

Sincerely I want to go back to your blog and start commenting, but I don't know how to handle the trolling. 

Ma'am I'm truly sorry''

ANOTHER MAIL

''No ,She’s not blind. Those are herbs she placed on her face to relieve itching sometimes. Some of the drug she uses for itching like prednisolone and hydrocortisone doesn't relieve her much like this herbs she uses. She does everything normally, but she always wears a niqab whenever she goes out. Only her nasal bone and her upper mouth were damaged. It happened when my dad was still alive. they had a misunderstanding on the farm, and he hit her in the face with an iron hoe, which damaged her nose  and  upper mouth that left her disfigured''.

I am not even holding brief for her and I don't have anything to say right now....

Miss H the photo you sent is horribly not too clear but I can make out a face from a horror movie...I have not been able to sleep since I viewed so please I don't want to speak to whoever has that face on video but I need to see a clearer photo...

All I am gonna say is that you did me dirty and this is my summary.

The kidnap story was the dumbest Nollywood story I ever read, you got inspiration of BV Jerry Anuty's story but you didn't deliver well...I played along.

If that disfigured face is indeed your mum, then this whole scam was too buy her drugs and pay your school bills? 

What is the real story...PLEASE STOP LYING AND CONFESS so that we will move on from this..

BV Talita is still commenting oh..(LOL; Talita abeg no vexs say I revisit your own brouhaha)

I rest my golden pen and pray that you find peace with your truth or your lies.......

New week new drama on this blog.

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TEACHER LIFE

Someone once asked me, very casually: “Do you work in a bank?”
I said, “No, I’m a kindergarten teacher.”
She looked at me again and laughed a little.
“Kindergarten ke? And you dress this good? I’m sure you’re not paid much… why waste it on clothes?”
Hmm.
Chinekeeee.
I just smiled, looked at her and said, you won't say that if you are truly educated.
She hissed,
I didn't care.
I just kept thinking, what exactly is the image people have of teachers?
Because tell me why I should look “less” just because I am a teacher… more specifically, a kindergarten teacher.

That conversation stayed with me.
And I’ve heard similar things over time, the quiet assumptions, the subtle disrespect, the “you people are not really earning much” tone.
But let’s be honest.
Teaching is the foundation of every other profession. It is the “mother that mothered” doctors, lawyers, engineers, bankers everyone.
So why should the people building the foundation look broken?
At the same time, I’ve also seen something that worries me.

Sometimes, when people say “teacher,” there is already an image in their mind.
Big oversized bag with books peeking out.
Dusty shoes.
Loose blouse and tired skirt.
“Teacher bob” wig.
And a general look of exhaustion.
And then we wonder why the profession is not always respected.
Because people see what we present before they hear what we do.
Let’s be honest — appearance matters. Not in a vain way, but in a dignity way.
You will be addressed the way you present yourself.

Still, I understand the other side too.
Many teachers are underpaid. Overworked. Underappreciated. And in this economy, survival sometimes speaks louder than presentation.
But I also believe something strongly:
You don’t have to look like your struggle.
Even in simplicity, there can be pride.
Even in modest dressing, there can be presence.
Even in a difficult system, there can be dignity.
So when people say, “My child can never be a teacher,” I don’t even argue too much Because sometimes, they are reacting to what they have seen… not what the profession truly is.
But I also know this:If we want respect, we must sometimes also reflect it — in how we speak, how we carry ourselves, and yes… even how we show up.
Because teaching is not a low profession.It is just a deeply undervalued one.

That part i highlighted really really really cracked me up oooooooooooooh..it looked like you were describing one of my old teacher from school...hahahahahahahaahahhaahahahahhahaha abeg no vexs!
Teaching Job in Germany is well compensated and its one of the best well paid Jobs....

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I had told him to stop projecting because his fetish fantasy messed with my mental health, I had expected some remorse. Rather, he tried to gaslight me, saying he didn't think he said anything wrong and I was overreacting. I was so disgusted, it was the last straw that broke the camel's back. I scrolled through the buttons and hit the block icon on his name.

I think I was targeted. How he warmed his way into my heart telling me how I was the boss and how he wanted to discuss Gynarchy . He made it seem harmless and admirable .
At first I took his words as compliments, we are in the same field of occupation and perhaps, he respects my professionalism, intelligence, talent and style.

No wonder he suddenly called me one day and said he needed to pretend I was his director because he was going into an interview in the next hour. Even though I turned it down, I still didn't guess the situation.
He wanted to be a service boy, and rubbed my feet, and danced, and sang and entertained and gave me gifts, all these, he did for his arousal.

My mind went into a plunder when he sent me that 3D image around 12:33pm (WAT). A gorgeous woman, who from all indication, was a powerful woman, with her hair released over her shoulders, dressed in a grey suit skirt with leg crossed, oozing a billion sxxual appeal with a glass of wine in her hand, standing over her, a waiter in a similar style of corporate dressing, ready to serve her, yield to her command, obey order and take instructions.
This was all new and it didn't feel right. Omg! Then it suddenly hit me, he had been grooming me, feeding me emotionally for that purpose. It would turn him on when I praised him or made him act like a submis

sive. I was instantly traumatized when my brain finally processed it.

How could I be so gullible? Reasons for the early morning messages, constant comments on my wall and consistent messages. He would wait endlessly for me to respond. He wanted me on his podcast and praised God I didn't accept.

I was terrified. My mind went blank and something shifted in me.
Let me shock you, I became suddenly fascinated with the concept when I tried to ask ChatGpt about the whole situation. The power of being a dominant woman to a submissive man suddenly excites me.

 The force of attraction became activated because it brought a sense of power, acceptance, dominion and control. He had succeeded in luring me. But one thing was missing, I needed to confront him on why he didn't ask if I was comfortable with his preference. 

I knew that he didn't want to be judged because he's different but I also wasn't comfortable that he messed with my mind for his own gains.
At dusk, he sent me an apology message, meanwhile, I had spent the whole day researching his condition. I didn't accept the apology because it didn't seem genuine. I needed him to know he hurt me because he hadn't carried me along about what he was and what he wanted from the beginning. The previous night also scared me. I've never experienced anything like it.
But rather than an healthy explanation on why he's the way he is, he turned it around and made it look like he was innocent. I furnished my AI companion with his response and it quickly told me that was a red flag. You want to know what he said? "Then punish me". The exact words my AI buddy had told me to be wary of.
I quietly went through my gadget and did the needful. He crossed the line.

You blocked and re-blocked him.... Please you should have just added the name of the sickness make we know..Nah rich people sickness be that ooooooooooooo

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WEIRD FACTS

---. ‎Cats have an extra toe on their front paws.
--- ‎It's impossible to hum while holding your breath.
---. ‎Octopuses have three hearts.
--- ‎studies and surveys often indicate that men are most attracted to a woman's face (eyes, lips, smile) and the waist-to-hip ratio (hourglass figure)
----Explaining something in your own words is more effective than reading it again
----Simply having your phone nearby can impair your cognitive function, even when it’s turned face down and silent
--- ‎Humans can't walk in a straight line without looking at something. ....
--- ‎Ketchup was used as medicine! .
---‎Rats will laugh out loud if you tickle them
--- ‎Australia is wider than the moon. ..
---. ‎Sunlight takes about 8 minutes to reach Earth.
---‎There's a 50% chance that two people will share a birthday in a group of 23 people
-------Male mice produce ultrasonic courtship songs that can help attract females.
The sounds are too high-pitched for humans to hear, but they have real song-like structure, with different syllables, repeated phrases, and rhythms.
Researchers found males produce more elaborate, louder songs when they smell a female nearby but can’t see her. Once she’s actually there, the song tends to get longer and simpler.
Female mice respond more to the complex versions.
Who knew mice were such smooth singers..

----A Chinese couple was stunned when their baby girl developed bright blonde hair, blue eyes and long eyelashes, even though both parents appeared Chinese.
Little Guojiang (nicknamed “Jam”) was born in May 2022 in Jiangsu province. She looked like a typical Chinese baby at first, but by eight months her eyes turned blue, and by her first birthday her hair became curly and blonde.
DNA tests confirmed she was 100% their biological daughter.
The explanation? Her father’s great-grandfather was Russian. He married a woman from Henan province and lived in China, and the family believes recessive genes stayed hidden for generations because only boys had been born in that line until Guojiang arrived.

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