The actress, during her recent appearance on Talk to B podcast, accused her now ex-husband of physical abuse.
Narrating her experience, Basira Beere, who disclosed that she lost four pregnancies to domestic violence, blamed her prolonged stay in the marriage on advice from her parents.
“When I was about to get married to him, my friends complained that he was of a lower calibre than me, but I told them that I also came from nothing before fame. I sponsored about 70% of our wedding ceremony. I thought I was supporting my man.
“His problem started two days after our wedding. Days after the wedding, a guy texted me to congratulate me on the wedding, and I called him ‘dear,’ and that was when the problem started. It was so tough; he beat me so much that even our landlord tried to intervene.
“If I explained what happened to my parents, they kept telling me to be patient and endure. Only my siblings who were living with me could attest to what I went through. He beat me over little things to the point that I lost about four pregnancies. During the last fight we had, I was covered in blood. In fact, Gistl***** posted about it. I don’t know who leaked it to them,” she said.
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ReplyDeleteDon't even know what to say to you. It is well with you😭😭😭😭
D red flag is he's a a jealous man..you cef u didn't epp matters by calling someone that texted you "Dear"..
DeleteYou ought to have left on time.
Una dey try, you will be in an abusive marriage and still continue to do stay with evil people.
ReplyDeleteThank God you came out alive 🙏
ReplyDeleteThank God u left alive
ReplyDeleteIt's well with you dear 🫂
ReplyDeleteGod pls Don't make my children stupid children as i am not stupid. I will never encourage my children to remain in a house where they maltreat them. Pls give them wisdom to leave a relationship or environment where they are maltreated cos I may not be alive to guide them.
ReplyDeleteThank you Lord for answered prayers. Amen.
To this actress, you were with a man and he beat the first pregnancy out of your womb, you remained there, then second one, you remained there, the third and fourth even followed. Were you jazzed? What sort of stupidity was that? Are you a kid that your parents told you to stay and die there, you obeyed them?
Why would you listen to them? Are they the ones feeding you?
You should be grateful to be alive to share this, I hope he has not damaged your womb for the next man.
Mtchheeeeeew
So she is stupid and the man is blameless. Two solid paragraphs of text and not one word written against the man. What does it say about you when the actual perpetrator of the evil goes without any blame and all the blame is placed on the victim? You’re the stupid one? A whole stadium full of stupid. Go read a book! Mtsscchhwww
DeleteThank God you left.For me,I don't advise two people that have seen each other's nakedness,the day you're fed up,you know what to do,it's in us.
ReplyDeleteHmmm you’re right
DeleteThank God for you..
ReplyDeleteThank God you left with your life intact.
ReplyDeleteHe beat you to the point of loosing a pregnancy and you stayed put? Saying your parents asked you to?Your parents don't love you rara.
ReplyDeleteI keep saying it,I can tolerate almost anything but you see that beating?The day a man touches me even if na mistake play,I don run commot.God forbid.
Thank God she came out alive. How a man will beat their wife to making her losing pregnancy still baffles me.
ReplyDeleteWhat is our business with your stupidity, you deserve everything you got from that man because nobody asked you to stay in an abusive marriage.
ReplyDeleteSome of you will wonder why you end up in hell in the end. You will convince yourselves that you did good in your lifetime and were good but still ended up in eternal darkness and damnation.
DeleteThankGod You Came Out Alive oooo
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Last week I kept thinking that as much as I love my job, I need to go back to my first interest doing my work for women and children in crisis. I prayed on it and asked God to show me why womanhood had suffered so much since being on this planet. I thought all kinds of thoughts why this could have been but nothing seemed right. I got the answer right here through reading some of these comments.
ReplyDeleteBasira, I thank God that you survived to tell your story. If there is any silver lining in the clouds, it’s that you likely do not have a child for your ex-husband and at such, have no earthly connection to him. I am reminded of the work that I need to do, that I was called to do. May God continue to keep you. If God should bless you with a girl child, do not raise her submissive, neither to you or anyone else. Raise her to question things, think critically, and if she does not want to do something, feels uncomfortable about it, she should do whatever gives her peace, even if it hurts those she love. We need to stop raising girls to be nice, submissive, obedient to everything and everyone. We need to start raising empowerment girls who act from a source of power at all times.
If you should have sons, raise them to understand that the home is not a boxing ring. They do not get to dominate their spouse or control her. She is still free to her own thoughts and choices. Marriages is partnership with God and submission to goodness and holiness. Failures in life, stress, inner struggles do not mean he gets to take out his angst on his family because he has to idea how to regulate his emotions. Violence and marriage should never be in the same sentence.
...and you waited till you lost four pregnancies before you receive sense to leave. Thank God you came out alive.
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