Drama King Teejay's CORNER

I don’t understand why people assume one is married just because they have come of age. Wouldn’t it be better to ask politely, or even stylishly, instead of jumping to conclusions?

I had a female client whose project I was handling. 

Every day after work, as I was leaving, she’d say, “Greet madam for me.” Even on phone calls, she’d extend her regards to her. 

It’s a bit embarrassing, but I just go along with it. I don’t have the energy to explain and answer all the follow-up questions that would come if I said I’m still single. So I let it be.

When it comes to relationships and marriage, I believe marriage is a beautiful thing instituted by God for companionship. I look forward to it. 

I understand that timing matters, but I still hold to this, it’s better to marry right than to marry early and live in regret. 

There’s no guarantee that marrying late gives you the perfect partner, but it does open up a better possibility.
Around last month, a friend came to visit and stayed for two weeks while processing a job interview. 

A few days before he left, he asked why I’m still single.
It’s a question I don’t like answering. I usually struggle with it. 

So I asked him, “Why do you want to know?”
He said, “From what I’ve seen in the two weeks I’ve been with you, I think you can keep a family.”
“Why do you say that?” I asked.
He replied, “Because you’re comfortable feeding yourself at home, and you have a craft that’s lucrative and innovative.”
I paused for a few seconds. 

When I finally responded, I told him marriage isn’t just about having resources. If it were, we wouldn’t see this many divorces happening almost daily. 

Marriage takes the mental strength to understand and navigate its challenges.

I’ve been in relationships that didn’t end well, and one thing about each breakup is that, it sets me back. Sometimes I ask myself, will I ever get married? 

The reason is, I don’t ignore red flags. Once I see one, I pull out quickly. Understandably, no one is perfect, but I’d rather be cautious than rush into something that breaks me again.

Sometimes women make it difficult for men to commit. You show interest in a woman, and the next thing you hear is, “Can you take good care of me?”
When you ask, “In what way?” you’re often disappointed. What she means by “taking care” usually comes down to looks, appearance, and a luxurious lifestyle.
Wouldn’t it be better if what she mentioned was career advancement, further education, a business boost, or even support to start something that improves her financially? At least then you’d see you’re dealing with a woman who has vision, the kind of woman you’d want to marry.

Once you’re married, you already know the vision she’s working toward. And you wouldn’t mind supporting it, because you understand the long-term benefits it will bring to the family. But no, most of them prioritize short-term material things over long-term goals. The only future they see with you is your continual extravagant spending on them, not building wealth together or working to improve themselves.

Honestly, as a man, relationships can get tiring sometimes.

Hmmmmmm is there no one here that will marry you? Maybe you should be bold and use your photo as face of in house news..be porud and be bold and see what will happen.....Most people who might wanna marry you here are scared that you are married with kids....

You are not married but are you gbenshing? LOL