FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Weekend hailings!

FRIDAY MEMO

I salute everybody....

Have a great rest of the day!....Today is labour day in Germany( Its called workers day in Nigeria) and its so peaceful and serene....Love it!!!

Tight hugs...

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD...

My kids have been bickering a lot; I mean, a whole lot. They bicker about everything. Sometimes I wade in, and sometimes I just let them sort it out themselves.
I have seen them switch so fast from bickering and pushing each other with tears streaming down their faces to laughing together in an instant. The shift can be so mind-boggling, but I am used to it because I have two sisters who are close in age and behave like twins.
A few days ago, my princess grabbed me while I was walking by her and shouted, “My mummy!” Only for my first child to shout, “My mummy!” too. Next thing I knew, they started going back and forth saying “my mummy” possessively.
While I was trying to calm them down and explain that I was enough for both of them as their mom in equal measure, my first child, with tears in his eyes, told his sister that “she was my mom way before she was yours,” and immediately followed it up with, “Where were you in the year twenty-twenty when I was already running around?”
I just started laughing because this small child, who was born barely a few years before then, was already throwing the age card around. I managed to calm them down by offering them treats, and I went off to chat with my sisters who were visiting.
Guess what? I walked into the kitchen to see them bickering about who had washed the largest amount of dishes and trying to ensure no one was cheated.

 I looked at these “old, young women” going at each other and quietly backed out of the kitchen because if I have learned anything in all my years as their elder sister, it is to never get in between the two of them when they are bickering.
They will abandon their issues to face me for trying to intervene. So I guess it’s going to be a long road of bickering ahead for my kids.

The good thing about Bickering is that you will learn alot about their feelings from it, so always listen....Bickering also help rate their level of Intelligence, so enjoy it!

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I saw a video online today and I was prompted to watch it. In the video, there was a guy named Suleiman and he impregnated a lady, let's call her Tinuke.
Unknowingly to her, Suleiman already has two wives. 

The first one birthed three children while the second birthed two. In a nutshell, she'll be the third. In the video, the first was seen, analysing the complex situation, mentioning that Tinuke would suffer because the man hardly takes care of both of herself and the second wife, regardless, that was the choice she made so she should bear the consequences
According to Tinuke's older sister, who was visibly shaken by the whole revelation, Tinuke and her didn't suspect a thing because Suleiman rented an apartment for her and furnished the whole place to taste. He made her extremely comfortable. He played the game so well, all traces were erased that he had a family.
Tinuke, who seemed utterly disappointed, was crying bitterly, insisting that Suleiman had obtained her on pretense and it is clear that the foundation of their relationship was built on lies.

At this point, she's left with two options, to accept Suleiman for what she has just uncovered or move forward with her life. (Single motherhood loading)
This brings me to these questions, why do most men lie a lot? Why do you build your comfort around women's pain? 

Why can't you people ever be honest in your lives?

So as he rented for her and made her feel comfortable, where did he tell her he lived?Women always know but some unconsciously shut out the truth..

Before you start, let him show you where he lives if he is single na...Did he promise her to marry her?Why ''Eba mi shi'' without protection?

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TEACHER LIFE

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THUMBS UP, MUST READ

Date a boyfriend that understands that you got dark inner thighs, saggy boobs and stretch marks.
A man who knows you can be in your periods anytime u are with him and he should know u can mess up his sheets and he should clean up after you.

A guy who isn't shy to go to the nearest shop and buy you pads.

Someone who knows a Virginia has its natural smell.
Date a guy who will call u just to chill with u when you are on your periods. Someone who would call and say "babe there's a job admission there and there you need to set up your CV" .
Find someone who respects and loves you for who you are .
Someone who would recognize ur mistake,Defend you in public to avoid public humiliation and correct you in Private.

Date Someone Who Wants To Grow Old With You!!

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Some Ladies always have to wear make up before they can see their boyfriends and the ones that courted and married him with their makeups on must continue so otherwise wahala dey!

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AVOID MARRIED MEN

Avoid them, not because you’re weak but because you’re wise.
Some situations don’t need strength to endure, they need wisdom to walk away from.
What begins in secrecy often ends in pain, confusion, and broken trust.
You deserve a love that is whole, open, and free. One that doesn’t require hiding, sharing, or settling.
Respect yourself enough to choose peace over temporary attention.
Respect others enough not to build your happiness on someone else’s home.
The right love will not come with complications, guilt, or divided loyalty.
Choose clarity. Choose dignity. Choose yourself.
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I hope someone here who is about to date a married man reads this, e dey sweet to date married man ooooooooooooo (We did it those days that it wasnt a big deal) but remember that once you become the wife, another side chic will replace you..Its crazy but it takes the grace of God.....Stay strong and avoid married men, especially the rich ones...lol

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A WISE MEMO TO MEN

If you want to marry a virgin go ahead.....
if you want to marry a lady without a child go ahead but please don't tarnish the name of single mothers by calling them names .
If you want a lady who wears long skirts , baggy blouses etc go ahead my brother but please leave the ladies who wear bikinis, knee length dresses and trousers alone.
If you want a lady that will never ask you for money please go ahead and marry that lady, but don't go around saying that a girl is a gold digger simply because you can't afford to meet her needs .
You want to marry a lady with a degree that's fine too , but you really don't need to call the lady with no diploma uneducated or of less intellect .
If somebody is not of your preference leave them in peace and find your preference, no need to talking Bàd about them.
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