Hailings...
TUESDAY MEMO
I salute everybody......Weather too hot oooooooooooooo and it is not even summer yet!
E too hot but let me say this at it touches me...If you are a woman and anyone is telling you that you should lie down and part your legs before they will help ypu, please say NO!!!.....SAY NO and walk away.........
I remember how many times this happened to me as a growing up young woman and how walking away hurt me so much but then i wasnt sure i would get what was promised ...LOL
Recently one of those persons reached out to me asking for help...Someone that says that if he doesnt gbensh me, he cannot help me? I asked him one question ''How will i see you to gbensh you if i send you money'' He was confused and i told him that i cannot help him if he cannot travel down to the country i live in for me to gbensh him...I reminded him of what he did to me and he was begging............NONSENSE!!!..
Please those of you with the girl child...Pease report your kids, ne their friends and be alert so that someone with some rotten money will not take advantage of your child that is in need!!!!
God i give you all the praise and glory and honor for everything you have done in my life......
This is my story and i told it willingly, if you decide to go annon to troll me with it, thats on you and God will sort you out cos this story contains a testimony and you dont joke with what belongs to God!!!
I need to step out now to buy watermelon so if comments are slow, excuse me!
I need to step out now to buy watermelon so if comments are slow, excuse me!
Hugs to everyone.....
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
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BV Gloglo how are you?Can you do with some money? then send me your account........I know you wanna share your story but you are scared of people trolling you but anyone that does so is a phool....
Her husband vanished into thin air since over 10 years that he travelled abraod and left her with three kids..shes been the one managing..his family are not looking for him, meaning they know hes OK...but hes not contacted her in all these years.....wickedness is real!!!!.
Please note that she is not begging for money..I have known this over the years but wanna celebrate her this week for being strong and not breaking....... Her story will shock you guys but i leave it for her to tell when she is ready.....over 10 years of waiting....
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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ATTENTION TO AN ALLEGED SISTER
I no want again....carry go...
I hope you know yasef?hahahahhahahahahahaha
I hope the wrong person will not assume it is dem oh...hahahahahhahahaha
Two people will suspect it is dem i am talking to.........One writes big big engrish and the other one writes big big long engrish..hahahahhahahaha if you know me eh you will know i love writeups like this.........but i am actually joking shaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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HOW TO HANDLE DISAPPOINTMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS.
1. Don’t force yourself where you’re not valued.
If someone constantly rejects, ignores, or pushes you away, stop fighting to earn a place in their life. People protect what they truly value. Sometimes rejection is not punishment , it’s redirection. What hurts today may actually be saving you from staying in the wrong place too long.
2. Disappointment is painful, but it’s not the end.
One person’s inability to love you properly should never become the prison you live in. Your future is bigger than your heartbreak. Don’t lose yourself trying to hold onto someone who already let go. The right person won’t keep giving excuses, they’ll make effort.
3. Learn when to let go.
Sometimes the greatest healing comes from accepting that certain people were never meant to stay. Not every closed door is a loss; some are protection. Holding onto the wrong person can block you from meeting the right one.
4. Stop seeing rejection as proof you are not enough.
Someone walking away does not reduce your worth. It only reveals that they were not aligned with your journey. Never measure your value by someone else’s inability to recognize it.
5. Keep moving forward.
Life still has new opportunities, new connections, and better experiences ahead of you. Don’t stay emotionally trapped in a chapter that has already ended. Healing begins the moment you choose yourself again.
6. Trust that better things can still happen.
Many people in life experienced loss, disappointment, or rejection before finding peace, purpose, and genuine love. Your story is not over because one relationship ended.
Sometimes the hardest goodbye becomes the beginning of your best season.
#copied
I hope that this acknowledgement is OK? IF not please send your photo for me to edit with Ai and use as face of in house news.......Otherwise stop your comments on this acknowledgement OK?.
1. Don’t force yourself where you’re not valued.
If someone constantly rejects, ignores, or pushes you away, stop fighting to earn a place in their life. People protect what they truly value. Sometimes rejection is not punishment , it’s redirection. What hurts today may actually be saving you from staying in the wrong place too long.
2. Disappointment is painful, but it’s not the end.
One person’s inability to love you properly should never become the prison you live in. Your future is bigger than your heartbreak. Don’t lose yourself trying to hold onto someone who already let go. The right person won’t keep giving excuses, they’ll make effort.
3. Learn when to let go.
Sometimes the greatest healing comes from accepting that certain people were never meant to stay. Not every closed door is a loss; some are protection. Holding onto the wrong person can block you from meeting the right one.
4. Stop seeing rejection as proof you are not enough.
Someone walking away does not reduce your worth. It only reveals that they were not aligned with your journey. Never measure your value by someone else’s inability to recognize it.
5. Keep moving forward.
Life still has new opportunities, new connections, and better experiences ahead of you. Don’t stay emotionally trapped in a chapter that has already ended. Healing begins the moment you choose yourself again.
6. Trust that better things can still happen.
Many people in life experienced loss, disappointment, or rejection before finding peace, purpose, and genuine love. Your story is not over because one relationship ended.
Sometimes the hardest goodbye becomes the beginning of your best season.
#copied
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ANONYMOUS BLOG VISITOR ACKNOWLEDGED
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WEIRD FACTS
----- You never lose friends. You just discover who your real friends are.
----- 15-20% of Internet users are actually unable to control how much time they spend online because of psychological addiction.
----- When you become really close to someone, you can hear their voice in your head when you read their texts.
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READ TIS BEFORE YOU CONFRONT YOUR LOVERS LOVER
To every man or woman who has ever gone to meet their partner's lover..." Read this carefully before you take that step. It is the loudest silent scream of a broken heart, but who is the real enemy?.
Whether it is a woman confronting a side chic, or a man tracking down the guy stepping into his territory, the psychology behind this move is always the same—and it is a tragic trap.
Here is exactly what it means when you reach that breaking point..
1. You Are Fighting the Wrong Enemy
When you storm the home or workplace of your partner's lover, you are subconsciously treating the stranger like the villain and your partner like an innocent victim who was "bewitched" or "stolen."
But let’s be real: the stranger didn’t owe you loyalty. The stranger didn't sign a contract with you. The person who broke the vows, shared your bed, and looked you in the eyes while lying is the one sitting right next to you at home.
2. It is a Loud Cry for Validation
Going to meet the lover means you are looking for answers your partner refused to give you. You want to see the person with your own eyes to ask, "What do they have that I don’t have?" It is a subconscious search for closure, but instead of closure, it almost always ends in deeper trauma and public embarrassment.
3. You are Lowering Your Price Tag
The moment you show up at the side chic or side guy's doorstep to fight or beg, you have handed them all the power. You are telling them, "You are important enough to disrupt my peace, my dignity, and my schedule." It feeds their ego and lowers your value in the eyes of the person who cheated on you.
Let’s be completely honest here: If a partner is cheating, does it make any sense to confront the lover? Or is it a sign of weakness and a total lack of self-respect? Why do we find it easier to attack the stranger instead of dealing with the cheating partner at home?
#Cooied
When you storm the home or workplace of your partner's lover, you are subconsciously treating the stranger like the villain and your partner like an innocent victim who was "bewitched" or "stolen."
But let’s be real: the stranger didn’t owe you loyalty. The stranger didn't sign a contract with you. The person who broke the vows, shared your bed, and looked you in the eyes while lying is the one sitting right next to you at home.
2. It is a Loud Cry for Validation
Going to meet the lover means you are looking for answers your partner refused to give you. You want to see the person with your own eyes to ask, "What do they have that I don’t have?" It is a subconscious search for closure, but instead of closure, it almost always ends in deeper trauma and public embarrassment.
3. You are Lowering Your Price Tag
The moment you show up at the side chic or side guy's doorstep to fight or beg, you have handed them all the power. You are telling them, "You are important enough to disrupt my peace, my dignity, and my schedule." It feeds their ego and lowers your value in the eyes of the person who cheated on you.
Let’s be completely honest here: If a partner is cheating, does it make any sense to confront the lover? Or is it a sign of weakness and a total lack of self-respect? Why do we find it easier to attack the stranger instead of dealing with the cheating partner at home?
#Cooied
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Good afternoon my people, what's happening at your end?
ReplyDeleteWE MOVE!!
Hola Shuga ❣️ how’s your day going?
DeleteTokunbo marriage starring Osufia & mama G on YouTube is so hilarious 🤣🤣🤣 y’all can check it out
What I find weird is people that support and make excuses for this wicked government we have still coming out to complain about one thing or the other!
ReplyDeleteWhy are u complaining? Am I the one supposed to fix these issues for you? Is it PO that is supposed to fix these issues for you?
You don’t want to hold the people responsible accountable but you think you have the right to join well meaning Nigerians to cry out?
Must be ment!
Look at the state of the country! Little kids are definitely going to spend children’s day in captivity while the government you support is going about conducting elections like there’s nothing going on!
May God reward y’all according to what you support and defend!
Amen
DeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteAmennnnnn
DeleteBV XP Stella's self acclaimed sister. Stella said she no do again.
ReplyDeleteYou are too cunny
Haba anon stop jamming heads together. They understand each other.
DeleteShame on you.
DeleteMethinks the anony is tired of raining invectives on my person ,"XP this XP that", she's tryna take it to a comic level.🙃😏
DeleteYou'll be fine last last.
Just so you know I don't give a fffrrrkkss what you think of the relationship,heckz it's not even a relationship,it's a sisterhood.
Ask versatile people around you to explain what the DELTA DELTA Sister ring of USA do for each other. 😉✌️
Hi Jewels and Osundi, hope you guys are cool? 😎
Excuse you Dante. You mean ladies here come here to bash you and go behind to dm you? I hang mouth this morning on SP. Maybe reason why they bash you and uncle tj because , you turned them down. Happy belated birthday anuty Jerry, I like you for a knack only if you don't mind. Nothing serious I have my own man but just chop and clean mouth, you game? Hey sdk.
ReplyDeleteMake all of una dey catch cruise dey go
DeleteLol.... bring bussiness for me first...
DeleteIf you or anybody around u needs PMS, DPK or AGO supply (33k/40k/45/60k litres)/ LOGISTICS SERVICES contact.....me
After closing a deal successfully then we go fu#ck..Well abi
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteOffice is so dry...I can't wait to close and go home.
Enjoy the rest of your day people of Sdkville 💕💕
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteE get as today come be.
Stella 😂 😂
ReplyDeleteWhat have i done this time ?
I'm struggling to stay awake I'd call you shortly.
Awww 🤗🤗 sweet Jewelu Choco baby. You kuku understand your big sis 😄
DeleteLol @ Osundi dont mind Stella the alarmist I've been good o 😂😂😂
DeleteAnonymous with the last chance for recognition.
ReplyDeleteSend your picture for face of IHN, then add your blog ID. After that, start commenting on all posts and look for trouble once in a while, or start telling stories, whether real or fabu on SP or IHN or Friday night post
LOL 😂😂 @requirements to becoming celebrity on SDK blog.
DeleteBv God's Favor
🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteOr you do joro to joro.
Make it look like many people are chasing you, meanwhile your shadow sef dey find how e go cut loose.
Or you start pity me party, pity my mother and father series, dat wan sharp sharp you don cash out.
Ask some ancestors or ancestresses here.
Or just dey attack everybody dey go.
If you see mosquito, use AK47 knack am. If some borri say 'gu morning', say waka shege banza dan bu robba.
Just use vex attack anybody like say na you dem curse everlasting from the pit of hell, make dem notice you quick quick. Sebi na attention you dey find you go see am baje baje.
Last last, say way no dey for that side, enter DM dey form loyalty and love, you fit still see person wey go change your life. Nothing is impossible for God.
If nothing sup upon still, your village people don cast you finish. Sorry.
Looool 😂
DeleteLol.... Anonymous 15:09
DeleteNa u mad pass for this country.....😂
Hahaha 🤣🤣 Anon 15:09
DeleteAnon seeking for recognition please don't mind this anon 15:09 o 😂😂
Anon 15:9 you be baddddddd child🤣🤣🤣🙄
Delete🤣🤣🤣 15:09
DeleteNa real advice o, anonymous with recognition issue, follow this advice.
DeleteGloglolicious Dearie
ReplyDeleteWishing You Heaven Best
The Lord Will Always Be Good To You And Your Kids 🙏
Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
Cool Weather Making Sells Slow 🙄
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ooooooooooooooo ❤️
Hello iya Boys
Thank you Chikalicious 💞
DeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog. Sign out meme is the truth. Wishing us all blissful day ahead.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteChildren's day should be a public holiday nah. After all, all of us are children 😁.
Hahaha 🤣🤣 abi o all of us are children.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone🥰
ReplyDeleteIt's sunny out here
This life sef hmmm🤔
It's well oo
Busy things...
It is well with you Glo glo, may God continue to strengthen you. You shall never labour in vain in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteThank you lora 💞
DeleteChina clothing don too much for this our country. A lady was advertising her clothes and I was really looking forward to the sales day, only to get there to discover they were all very serious china. When I saw the jeans on phone, they really looked nice but seeing them physically, mehnnnn.... I no fit talk. Very low quality. I quickly left the venue before the spirit of picking what I dont want enters me.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind these online sellers, they'll use the real stuff for advert online but when you ordered, you'll be temued.
DeleteLol 😂 Abby
DeleteTry luxury China, you will even mistake it for turkey
DeleteI'm telling. Not only very poor quality. But mass produced like say na asoebi.
DeleteI love looking unique.
On their pages, their pictures will make it look like something amazing.
When you see it, you'll be so annoyed.
Then secondly never buy anything that was advertised with web pictures.It must be the one on ground. They put web pictures because the ones on ground are sewn at Tejuosho or Aba and are very poorly done. You will just be seeing something that apprentice uses to practice with, with stupid prices. E dey scratch me for throat make I call one vendor but make I face front.
Temued🤣
DeleteWhen everybody is running to China and be doing preorder. Even some content creators don abandon their jobs dey run go hustle for China.
DeleteSoon now China will colonize the whole markret
Seeking acknowledgement under anonymous? Very funny 🤣
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you BV Glo Glo 🤗🤗
Sign out meme is the truth 💯
Keni nice day 👌
I don't understand, acknowledgement for what exactly?
DeleteThanks dear 💞
DeleteIt's well with you gloglo
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my fam
Amen
DeleteThanks dear 💞
Stellz you just embarrassed me naw naw.. infact shame cash me sef as I laff out loud for public place based on "Someone that says that if he doesnt gbensh me, he cannot help me? I asked him one question ''How will i see you to gbensh you if i send you money'' He was confused and i told him that i cannot help him if he cannot travel down to the country i live in for me to gbensh him" Schengen visa loading ahahahaha..my day is made already..smiling more 🌝..Thank You Lord!!
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteRaining Tuesday 🤧🤧🤧weather for tea 😀😀
BV Glo Glo it is well with you 🙏some men will just stain your white😡
Sign out meme on point 👍
Thank you dear 💞
DeleteIt is well with you BV Glo Glo.
ReplyDeleteMay God come through for you and your kids. You shall have great testimonies in Jesus' name.
AMEN OOOO 🙏
DeleteThank you dear 💞
DeleteMay God continue to help you bv Glo glo. May you eat the fruits of your labour over your children 🙏.
ReplyDeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteThank you dear 💞
Good afternoon everyone. I'm just happy, can't wait to go home
ReplyDeleteThese days when I'm buying anything, I'm always on hyper alert.
ReplyDeleteNormally I always check expiry date, that was instilled in me since child hood.
Now I scrutinize expiry date, placement, font, font size, colouring, ever since I discovered a few years ago that new expiry dates are printed in dingy alleys.
I check colouring, weight, size, height, packaging DNA sef rtc.
I would suggest buying the original of something first, that way you can compare whenever you are renewing with that have to original. Most of the cosmetics you buy are not necessarily 'fake' but of far inferior quality. Yes.
Because when you even calculate the exchange rate on the foreign website, why is it being sold lesser here.
Same for many other other products outside of cosmetics.
I got a few toiletries from the US, and when I compared Nivea and the one we have here....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Of course, that doesn't mean that there are no fake products in the US too...I have so many stories to tell.
Shine your eyes wherever you go.
I saw a video of a lady boiling carrots for 20 minutes.
20 minutes , carrot no gree disintegrate.
Even yam does not take 20 minutes to get done nau.
What is going on????
At least leave our fresh produce from adulteration.
XP na you?
DeleteAnony 20:54
DeleteNot me. 😂
Bet you didn't notice the lack of diatribes and diatrics I write with.
Read the comment again 🤷
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHowz the go dey go
Happy wcw to all amazing women
You all rock, stay strong and keep your head up
Enjoy the rest of your day
Today's Tuesday 🧐
DeleteTruly what kind of Children's day are We celebrating today ??????? 🥲
ReplyDeleteThose ones out there in the woods are they not "Nigerian Children"? Each time My mind flashes back to those teachers n Pupils My heart aches .
God pls Intervene🙏🏻🥲
Isn't children's day May 27th? Why are y'all taking today as Wednesday? 😶
DeleteGood Afternoon BVs
ReplyDeleteThe raining season is still on
One thing happened yesterday that reminded me that most human young or old, usually think the same way when love enters the chat. 😂
ReplyDeleteA young man brought a serious complaint about another guy threatening his girlfriend. He wanted action taken immediately against the dangerous rival.
After careful investigation, plot twist appeared. 😅
The dangerous rival was actually the lady’s main boyfriend, while the guy reporting the case was the side-cork unknowingly fighting for a position that was never fully his.
But my brother refused to believe it.
He kept insisting: “She loves me too much.” “She’s being forced.” “She would never choose another man over me!. 🤣🤣.
At some point, the lady was even instructed to delete the other guy’s number, call him to stay away, and threaten him not to come close again.
But here’s the truth many people hate to hear:
You cannot force love.
Deleting numbers doesn’t delete feelings. Warning a rival doesn’t erase emotions. And forcing someone to stay only creates temporary compliance, not genuine affection.
If a lady consistently shows signs that her heart is leaning toward someone else, believe her actions more than your assumptions.
Love is not by force. At best, give her reasons to reconsider you. But if she still chooses another path, let her go with dignity.
Because fighting to “own” someone emotionally is like trying to hold water with a closed fist, the tighter you squeeze, the faster it slips away.
Sometimes the real heartbreak is not losing the woman… It’s refusing to accept that you were never the first choice. 😮💨
What a pity on the side boo
DeleteThe weather is calm and cool. Liking it bayii..
ReplyDeleteYou have said it all about the girl child. Parents needs to be extra careful..
Bv glo glo 🤦🤦🤦🤦..wetin I just read now..Ogaooo
If you want to be acknowledged, use your ID.
ReplyDeleteA day to sallah...and everywhere just dry like dis
ReplyDeleteIt is well
Gloglo..it is well with you
Good afternoon everyone 😍🥰
What can I use to stop intense itching e sef p after making cornrows
ReplyDeleteWash your hair properly with a good shampoo.
DeleteMake sure it dries well before making your hair.
Also house your personal comb or cutting comb.
Apply Shea butter on the parting.
Find anti bacterial cream, you were likely attended to with an infected comb.
DeleteThis is how alopecia starts.
Watch out for the tiny pimples at the edges of your hair, attack them immediately.
especially after making ***
ReplyDeleteGlo glo it is well with you and your kids. Is remarrying an option to you?
ReplyDeleteTo achieve what exactly?
DeletePesin never fit balance for herself. You want her to attach to someone else??
Financial independence is the number 1 reason Nigerian men abuse their wives.
When they know you are dependent for anything, see all manner of nonsense and idiocy.
Make something of yourself FIRST before you marry
Have your own source of income
Never wait for a man to open his hand before you feed.
Maintain your respect.
Otherwise you will see signs and wonders.
Blog Gloglo, it is well 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteThe Good Lord's your strength 🤗🤗
Your testimony will be loud very soon...
Sunny ☀️☀️ weather here 😎
Welcome ihn
ReplyDeleteHope everyone is fine?
Sorry gloglo
God will come through for you IJN 🙏
Good afternoon blogfam
ReplyDeleteSDK as your ardent student let me give you bad advice 😂😂😂 Next time he needs money from you he must fly over to wherever you are, book a 5 star hotel room then give you a call
Nonsense dey smell
Good day Stella and everyone.
ReplyDeleteGood evening everyone
ReplyDeleteI just returned from this morning spontaneous post
ReplyDeleteAnd I saw a lot of people (Anon)
Crying under my comment..
Una go cry blaaaaaad
I know say Una dey boo less
Reason y una dey very bitter..
Make Una continue to dey cry while I dey here dey enjoy with my boo boo..
Don't get it twisted
Love is a beautiful thing..
Bitter shingles 💜💋
I love you honey
Hahahaha Oki o 😂 I love this jare. Nothing do you.
DeleteInstead of me to have your type of boo I rather remain booless. Tueeh!
DeleteSee this one
DeleteWho is crying because of you you of all people 🤣🤣 hit me with that bullsh*t. Wth are you feeling like 🤣🤣🤣
Bvs are feeling sorry for you and your senseless self.
Your problem no dey pass relationship matter.
DeleteDindinrin agba
DeleteYour healing go long 😂
DeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGlo glo it's well with you and I pray God sent help to you and your children 🙏
It will end in praise
Ahh STELLA this ur story touched me too, it painful how young girl will genuinely apply for work and they'll want to use someone before approving or accepting ones application. Abeg abeg Lemme use my cake baking and POS see front ooo.
ReplyDeleteGLOGLO you're indeed a strong woman may God continue to open doors of provision for you and your kids. AMEN 🙏
It is well with you BV Glo Glo. Ten solid years is just too long to wait on someone when his family are not even bother. Move on with your life and take good care of your kids. God is the father to the fatherless and husband to the widow.
ReplyDeleteYou see that gbeshing eeh, all the people I asked to help me secure a government job asked for it. Shameless old men. Two of them have retired.
Stella please don't consider helping that man. This should be his karma
ReplyDeleteGood evening beautiful people
ReplyDeleteThat's why I always try to give my daughter 90% of what she needs so that some stupid boys and men will not deceive her with ill gotten money and stupid gifts.
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