Hmmmmm........
MALICE KEEPER ENCOUNTER
This man came to me saying he didn’t want dating, he wanted marriage. I told him we should study each other, but he said he didn’t have any faults.
We met up, and while we were talking, a call came into my phone and I answered it. It was a guy helping me with the registration of my company. When I dropped the call, he asked who it was and I told him.
He then said I should block the guy, and that the guy should deliver my certificate through his sister, who happens to be my church member. I asked him why I should do that and told him I couldn’t. He told me that if I didn’t, I should be ready because he would keep malice with me, that he would marry me ooo but he would punish me with malice for being disobedient, and that if he could keep malice with his twin sister for three years, who was I that he couldn’t do the same to me.
I just looked at him and told him I don’t keep malice for even an hour. That was how I ran. But the problem now is that he told our mutual friend that he was only testing me and I overreacted.
With everything happening in the media, isn’t my reaction justified? He told our mutual friend that he’s disappointed in me because I’m also disobedient, since the first thing he asked me to do after we met, I declined.
I’m confused.
Believe him the first time and keep running.....All what he told you was not made up.he only change mouth when he see ay you pick race...Na God save you!
Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn as fast as your legs can carry
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Saying he didn't have any fault, is a a fault. He was only testing you my foot. It a good thing you ran.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you confused poster? The first sign is even enough for you to run, imagine telling you to block your helper then bragging about keeping malice. Na so una dey jump into fire with koro koro eyes
ReplyDeleteWhat's there to be confused about? You already know the answer to any question in your mind. He has already shown you the type of person he is.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you confused, God in His mercy showed you the gigantic red flag, you heed His revelation and ran. Now you want to go back to tbe man in the pretence of being confused . Tor, you do what you want.
ReplyDeletePlease, no matter what, do not go back to that human. Even if he reports to your ancestors, keep RUNNING AND DON'T LOOK BACK. Else, na every eke market day you go dey send in chronicle.
ReplyDeletehello poster, pls keep walking and don't look back. Remember Lot's wife in the Bible, she became a pillar of salt. We have no idea what you will become.
ReplyDeletewhy would he ask you to block the guy helping you to register your company and then give it to his Sister in church to deliver to you?.
Sweetheart, he wasn't joking. Imagine him telling you he will punish you with malice for disobedience.
The first thing he said to you is he doesn't have faults...??? There are plenty red flags with this man. He is not for you, and you can't change him.
someone that can keep malice.
In the name of whatever you hold dear, keep it moving. He is not the one for you.
OP, are you still running? If you aren't please buy water, take glucose, gain strength and keep running. DO NOT look back for any reason.
ReplyDeleteThat is not a man to marry. Keep aside the childishness of malice that he's made a personality, how will you handle his controlling nature? This is a man who clearly doesn't believe you should have a say as his potential wife. Is that what you want? He is talking about disobedience? Oh! I forgot... men like him think themselves to be Lord and master and their wives must obey every given directive. You will not find peace with such a man.
I can understand if you go back and continue the relationship sha I will look forward to your chronicles then.
FRANKly speaking, I feel like CHIKE listening to SANDRA's speech.
ReplyDeleteAs you day pick that race, make sure your leg is touching your back of head, don't go back to him if not you're definitely coming back here with another chronicle again..
ReplyDeleteWhy are you confused?! I ask again, where is the confusion coming from? Hope you aren't planning of begging him to have you back.
ReplyDeleteMen come this way if you are an older lady or someone trusting God for marriage expecting you to accept him and his anyhowness, if you like gree for him. You never start he don dey give you order on how to live your life.
Why are you concern about what he choose to tell your mutuals? Someone you ought to walk pass or hear them talk about him like you both have never met.
Felicity
Poster, you need to buy a special gift for yourself for this best decision you made. My Ex told me that he is good at ignoring people. This is a 46years old man with no wife, no kid. I was the one always begging even when he wronged me for him to talk to me. He will read my messages and ignore. There was a day I called to inform him I wasn't feeling well and I am going to the hospital to get treated. He didn't check on me till the next day and because I complained about him not reaching out, He stopped taking my calls and I had to start pleading with him to talk to me. Chai! Love is stupid
ReplyDeleteSometimes, staying single is the best gift you can actually give yourself
ReplyDeleteConfused about what?
ReplyDeleteFailing his test?
Or running away?
Abi, being an adult and having a mind and say of your own?
Did he or did he not keep malice with his twin sister for 3years?
It reminds me of that video frankly, who prides about keeping malice.
Are you in love with him?
He sounds very immature.
What's that thing Bvs say about wonders and shege.
Make una helep me
If not for having kids and I want them to have fatherly figure and enjoy fatherly love, nothing for concern me where men dey o. Poster keep running and never look back. Don't let anyone advice or pressure you into going back to this dictator
ReplyDeleteLose him. Make e carry im wahala dey go.
ReplyDeleteHow can you be confused? I don't understand. You supposed do Thanksgiving for church. Don't let this man gaslight you and if you need help we can help you block his number. Rabbesh.
ReplyDeletePoster, if he was indeed testing you like your friend implied, it's even worse because who is he to "test" anyone? I LOATHE people with this mindset- what the f..k you mean you're "testing" another adult? Which means he thinks you have something to prove to him?
ReplyDeleteMy dear, let that abusive creature go. Imagine saying he will marry you but still keep malice. Lie, huh? Please pay him dust and leave him where you met him. Let hm find the woman who lacks self esteem that would out up with this rubbish.
This isn't just red flag. Na red billboard. A stitch in 9 as I always say saves time. Madam find the next keke enter.
ReplyDeleteContinue running and do not look back o
ReplyDeleteTerry G song about "RUNNING" playing in my head. RUN.
ReplyDeleteI hope you're still running o. This is how those descendents of demons will gaslight you ehn, you will think you're running m@d.
ReplyDeleteTesting tester, la i se Agbolu mechanic. Mtsheww. Run like a mad man abi woman please, let the back of your bathroom slippers touch your neck.
Stone age nigerian men with their decrepit think and minus -0 IQ.
A man you had just met told you to:
ReplyDelete>Block another man who was helping you with your business registration.
>Obey his instruction without a reasonable explanation.
>Accept that he would marry you but "punish" you with malice for disobedience.
>Boasted that he kept malice with his own twin sister for three years.
Whether he was "testing" you or not doesn't make it better. In fact, it raises another concern. Mature adults looking for marriage don't conduct loyalty tests on people they just met. They communicate, observe character (which you have already done), and build trust over time.
Ask yourself this: if a man's very first test is, "Do whatever I say or I'll punish you," what happens when there are real disagreements about money, family, career, friendships, or children?
Your reaction was justified. You walked away because he revealed attitudes about control, punishment, and obedience that will make you uncomfortable. If he's genuinely disappointed that you didn't obey him on your first meeting, then you two are probably incompatible. And if he was genuinely testing you, then he failed his own test. Waka Far!!!
Poster i hope removed your shoes while running, run and don't look back. King of malice original.
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