Tuesday In House News

  Hailings on a Beautiful day.....

TUESDAY HOT DAY MEMO

I salute everyone and thank all those who wanted to send me rain yesterday...I wish it was possible to do so!!!...They say Naija people can hold rain from falling, can they also stop the sun from shining?I ready pay to hold sun for this Germany until next xear...LOL
I hope that your day is going on well?Yesterday I didnt cook and we spent almost 100 euros on orders...Make i cook today so that tomorrow i can say I am not cooking cos the rest of this week from tomorow is not gona be a smiling thing at all.......

Those people that use serious bleaching cream in this weather are in toruble oooooh......I saw one yesterday and she looked like boiled chicken....Such people should not even go out in this weather!

Those that wear make will not achive that cos make melts in this weather.....lipstick and small eyeliner aint bad as well....

I ordered for stick on tattoos from temu but its not sticking oh, see me see wahala..hahahahahahhahaha na for summer nauuuuu.Today i will try to stick it on again,maybe i am doing it wrong......

Eka Joy do you go for walks every morning? Nice one! but that morning sun that you complain of is healthy!

Please you people can disagree with BV Teejay in the comment section but please refrain from insulting him....Please please, he has a right to air his mind,he didnt insult anyone,, you can disagree with him, without the insults..Please stop it....

Abi na you dey go under anon dey insult teejay so that he will leave too? Na you? yu know yourself? please stop it nah.....

Ya all have a nice day and stay outta matters that aint your bizness....

Hugs hugs hugs

And to you mole (You know yourself).....watch your back!!!!

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Surely there must be a name for it......
They dont like you but they cant stay away from you.....
In fact these people who hate you are the first to clap when you win, they even appear more original than genuine people and then at night they cant sleep cos their hate keeps them awake? what do we call such people?

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WEIRD FACTS
-----Don't trade your authenticity for approval.

----A single conversation with a wise person is better than ten years of study.

----Ironically, we tend to want what we can't have. Then once we get it, we don't want it anymore.

----Anhedonia is the word for that feeling when you cannot find joy in the things that usually bring you joy.

----In Sweden, it is legal to be a prostitute, but it is illegal to be a customer of a prostitute.

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Natural smell? Including those people with body odour that is similar to goat smell? They will arrive and you will asking who bought goat? Abeg oh!!!

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GRANDMAS 10 PIECES OF ADVICE ON FRIENDSHIP; RELATIONSHIP AND LIFE

My Grandma Gave Me 10 Pieces of Advice That Changed the Way I See Relationships, Friendship, and Life
Over the years, my grandmother shared many lessons with me, but there were ten pieces of wisdom that stayed with me and shaped how I view people and the world around me. I hope her advice speaks to you as much as it did to me.

1. Don’t Chase Princes
My grandmother used to say that real-life princes are rare, and many of them are in love with themselves. They often notice beauty before they notice character, kindness, or a good heart. Instead of chasing perfection, she told me to find someone grounded, educated, and respectful—someone who will truly value you.

2. Be Careful with Intense Charmers
She warned me about people who sweep others off their feet with passion and excitement. While they can be incredibly attractive, they often bring drama and heartache along with them. As Grandma put it, “A fire can warm you, but it can also burn down your house.”

3. Never Make Decisions in the Heat of the Moment
Whenever I was upset or overwhelmed, Grandma would say, “Slow down.” Listen to music. Take a walk. Have a good meal. Get some rest. Then make your decision. Clear minds make better choices than emotional ones.

4. Don’t Let Negative People Define You
There will always be people willing to criticize, judge, or discourage you. Grandma taught me not to carry their words around like luggage. Often, their negativity says more about them than it does about you.

5. Stay Out of Pointless Arguments
She advised me to avoid endless debates about politics, religion, or other topics where people are more interested in winning than understanding. Not every disagreement is worth your energy, and not every battle deserves your participation.

6. Don’t Fear Your Enemies
Surprisingly, Grandma said enemies are often easier to understand than false friends. An enemy may motivate you to grow stronger, while a dishonest friend can hurt you when you least expect it. Be cautious about who earns your trust.

7. Learn to Be Patient
“Time reveals what people hide,” she often said. Some answers can’t be rushed. Patience allows the truth to unfold on its own schedule.

8. Give People Three Chances
Grandma believed that everyone deserves room to make mistakes. She encouraged me to offer people up to three chances when appropriate. Not only does that give them an opportunity to grow, but it also gives you peace of mind, knowing you did your best. However, if someone repeatedly wastes those chances, it may be time to let them go.

9. Know Your Worth Without Looking Down on Others
Confidence is important, but arrogance is not. Grandma taught me to value myself while still remaining humble enough to admit when I was wrong and apologize when necessary.

10. Don’t Focus on Being Nice,Focus on Being Fair
One of her most memorable lessons was this: being “nice” all the time is not the same as being good. Kindness matters, but fairness matters too. Strive to be a person who sees situations clearly, treats people honestly, and stands by what is right—even when it isn’t easy.

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ADVICE WOMEN SHOULD AVOID

Most of the dating advice you see online from both men and women is complete trash.
A lot of them are not teaching people how to build healthy relationships. They are teaching manipulation.
--How to keep a man on his toes.
--How to make him chase you.
--How to keep a man interested after sleeping with him.
--How to make him obsessed with you.
--How to make him fear losing you.
--How to act cold so he values you.
--How to make him jealous.
--How to make him spend money on you.
--How to keep him begging for your attention.
--How to make him miss you.
--How to stop him from losing interest.
--Every day it is one manipulation tactic after another.

If you as a woman keep listening to this kind of advice, you may end up manipulating a man into staying with you and we all know how that usually ends. Exhaustion, confusion, toxicity, resentment and sometimes even danger.
If you notice that a man is losing interest or he is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated, I honestly think the best thing you can do is make peace with it and move on with your life.
Stop trying to force connection.
Stop trying to decode mixed signals.
Stop trying to convince someone to value you.

You might even be endangering yourself by playing these silly emotional games with the wrong person.
Relationships are honestly not that complicated. Either someone likes you and shows it, or they do not like you and they show that too.
Do not let a man tell you twice that he does not want you.

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