She explained that while driving out of her estate, she saw a woman she usually greets standing in heavy floodwater and waiting for a cab. Out of kindness, she asked the woman to enter her car so she could drop her off where the road was dry.
Unknown to her, the woman had been trekking with her husband, who was still far behind in the flood. As soon as the woman entered the car, the man began shouting and insulting her. When Sarah asked who he was, the woman said he was her husband.
Sarah drove closer to explain that she only wanted to help and that he could join them, but he looked at her from head to toe and continued cursing both of them.
She questioned whether the man was angry because his wife entered the car and left him in the flood, or because she found favour, or because a woman was the one driving.
She said the incident reminded her why she always advises women not to marry out of pity or marry low.
Sarah ended by saying that it is better to die single than to marry an enemy who will kill you at home.
Unknown to her, the woman had been trekking with her husband, who was still far behind in the flood. As soon as the woman entered the car, the man began shouting and insulting her. When Sarah asked who he was, the woman said he was her husband.
Sarah drove closer to explain that she only wanted to help and that he could join them, but he looked at her from head to toe and continued cursing both of them.
She questioned whether the man was angry because his wife entered the car and left him in the flood, or because she found favour, or because a woman was the one driving.
She said the incident reminded her why she always advises women not to marry out of pity or marry low.
Sarah ended by saying that it is better to die single than to marry an enemy who will kill you at home.
A successful marriage is by God's grace. We have seen those who married as friends later turn enemies in marriage due to one issue or the other. Marriage and friendship are two different things.
ReplyDeleteMarry low, marry high. Marriage is not forvthe faint hearted. Even Shade Okoya will have her own tales to tell us. I am sure it would not be all that rosy in the glass house
ReplyDeleteWill you say the same thing if a man enters lift and leave his wife behind in flood? Men, you better marry a kind and sensible partner.
ReplyDeleteHope she didn't work on her lips?
ReplyDeleteBecause the work no good at all.
Was about saying the same thing.
DeleteMaybe it's filter.
Too much filler
DeleteI No Even Reconlize Her ooo
DeleteBut ehh, what if it's the husband that entered the car first and left the wife...would Sarah still have same conclusion? The woman simply did not apply courtesy
ReplyDeleteYou people should stop looking for fault where there is none
She shouldn't have accepted any lift so long as she knows that her husband was coming to meet her. That was selfish of her. I don't blame the man for being mad at her.
ReplyDeleteIt will be really heartbreaking to see my man accept a lift offer when he knows I am rushing to meet him.
Any real man would be mad at his wife for not accepting lift to get at least one of them out of the rain
DeleteStop dealing low level people
I’d want my brother to accept lift not to talk of a wife
It has nothing to do with low self esteem my dear. If it's about self-esteem, mine is very high.
DeleteIf they were standing together and the offer came, as a man I would ask my wife to go while I treck or wait for another vehicle if the person can't carry both of us. But in this scenario , they got it wrong. The other spouse should be the one to willingly ask you to accept the offer, unless both of you never cared for each other in the first place. I personally can't do this to my brother. I will wait for him to come first and he'll be the one to ask me to go while he comes after me. They kept him in the dark and it's not nice. If I don't really care about you, I'll hup into the car without minding what you'd think.
Naturally, I won't even eat if the food is remaining small. We'll eat and suffer the hunger together. It's not everything you people tag as low self-esteem. The genuine love you have for a certain person won't allow you to even go when he asks you to go ahead.
You have made me remember how I sacrificed my time for people who didn't think twice when they did things without involving me. Just because they wanted to rush and win first or so. It is well o.
Slim you’re forgetting that they are on the road and there are other cars. You can’t ask the helper to wait. You enter the car and drive to your man and he will enter too or say never mind
DeleteDude assumed it was a man that gave her the ride
trust and respectthe person you’re with
Under no circumstances will I be cursing anyone in public without asking them why they made a decision. And I wouldn’t curse anyone no matter what
Some ppl do not handle crisis well and this is why it is good to see how ppl react under different circumstances before tying the knot. If you have only seen your spouse in good times then you have no clue who they are.
ReplyDeleteWhile nobody knows why this man was cursing, a loving husband would be overjoyed his wife came out of flood waters. Most men are of the mindset that they can endure such conditions better than a woman. Why did he not enter the car too when offered? Seems like he is an enemy of progress, even his own.
Exactly
DeleteWhat time of man wants his wife in the flood with him
Some women are married to their enemies disguised as a husband.
ReplyDeleteHer lip though.
ReplyDeleteBv God's Favor
marry a kind and thoughtful partner👍
ReplyDeleteHe is a frustrated man with mental disorder 😕
ReplyDeleteSome women are married to the weapon fashion against them.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not a walk in a park. Loads of patience and endurance is needed to navigate that journey
ReplyDeleteBakin zogondon
ReplyDeleteThese are life's reality for many .
ReplyDeleteWomen know your worth and strive towards your financial independence