Lol @ Stella's advice. Makes sense though

With today's technology and the internet age, it's hard to understand why you're still saying your husband won't believe you unless he sees evidence. Simply record the incident and share the evidence. That would clear up any doubts.

Father in-law? Are you sure he is your husband real father? Things dey occur o
My advice is, try and make sure your phone is on standby recording whenever you are alone with him. Start saying things like... please sir, you cant do this to your own biological son who adores you so much. I love my husband and can never imagine cheating on him not to talk of with his own father. This is a taboo sir. why are you trying to frustrate me out of my very young marriage. Is there anything I did wrong to you. you are like a father to me and that is how I see you.
Make sure you give him room to talk so the recorder can pick whatever he says

You cant stop attending their family events because your mum in-law may not be happy with that and it will end up putting a strain in your relationship with her. Just make sure you don't give him any eye contact and nothing brings you in a close contact that will give him room to talk with you. Always be in your husband company when he is around. whatever you chose to do, don't be rude to him or insult him because the heart of a man is dangerously wicked. you might not know what he is planning from his end. You need to be safe and be alive

Your chronicle just reminded me of a big secret I have chosen not to reveal to my aunty. my aunty brought me to Lagos so I will do everything to protect her marriage. Her husband who is a pastor was making advances on me till one day I was sleeping and this man came to start kissing me. Me that never knew any man then. my aunty is the kind of person no matter what you tell her, she will still remain in that marriage and you will be the one that will be thrown out
Poster, make do with this information as you please. Informing his family will do you no good since you haven't had a child for them. you will end up loosing your marriage

Poster start keeping evidence, keep records it will vindicate you in the future

This your matter tie gele.

He confidently knows that he would feel no consequences for the act he is performing, hence his boldness.

Can I tell you something?

This man will use any means available to get into your pants.

Could be grape or jazz and even turn it against you.

They might even be a family of weirdos.

Your sure bet now is to record whenever he comes talking about it again.

First play the recordings to him and tell him if he does not stop you will play it to your husband and MIL.

There is nothing prayer cannot handle, since he is hell bent on destroying your peace, pray that God will cause him to lose interest in you.
You will be surprised how God will answer your prayers.

Avoid visiting except if necessary. And never be alone with him, except when unavoidable. In such situation, find a way to record your conversations, and when you have gathered enough proof, tell your husband: showing evidence.

Try record it the next he acts like a dog.

Your father inlaw's behavior is wrong. For now, never be alone with him. If there are family gatherings, stay where everyone is.
My dear keep a private record. You may never need it, but it is wise to have it.
When the time is right, prayerfully consider talking to your husband. Don't present it as an attack on his father, simply tell him the truth about what has been happening and how uncomfortable it has made you feel. A loving husband will protect his wife. A marriage built on trust is stronger than one held together by silence and intimidation.
I pray God grants you wisdom to handle this difficult situation.

My advice be say make you quietly dey record things, document all your evidence. Keep every piece of evidence. You may never need it, and I sincerely hope you don't, but if wahala comes tomorrow, you'll be glad you kept records. Person wey dey tell you say nobody go believe you don already show say e know wetin e dey do.

I understand why you're scared to tell your husband. You've only been married a few months, and from what you said, he's very close to his father. But keeping this to yourself forever may not save your marriage. If your father-in-law becomes bolder or decides to twist the story before you speak, na you go come dey explain wetin you no cause.

If you're not ready to tell your husband yet, that's okay. Just start setting boundaries. Don't be alone with your father-in-law, politely avoid unnecessary visits, and if you attend family gatherings, make sure your husband is always with you. If anyone asks why you've been keeping your distance, simply say you're still adjusting to married life and spending more time building your own home. No allow anybody pressure you. Your peace and your marriage are worth protecting.

I agree with Stella 100% on this! Plus avoid anything that will make you to be alone with him and start gathering your evidence in case you need it one day! Father in Law from hell!

Madam, record him and have evidence na. Next time you are going there, wear a dress with pocket at the chest side. Put your phone in that pocket when you realised he's about to approach and record him.

Poster, I don't know what faith is yours but there is a God in heaven. Take a dry fast of 24 hours drinking no water or food. Strip naked in your bathroom and call on God to send His wrath on that evil man. Come back and testify. You see there is juju and there is a God who answers by fire. Even if your father in law is in a cult, the God of heaven will fight for you. That man may be in a cult and sleeping with you may be some form of ritual. The second thing is talk to your mother about it; I still don't know why you have not or is your mum late. God hears the cries of mothers over their children. For that man to be so confident means that he has some strange control over his supposed family. I have written above like a sane person; the other dangerous part, I will not tell you so that you will not be corrupted. Sometimes, I am amazed at the fear that people exhibit when they are being threatened. Would you want to keep a marriage where the man is a puppet in his supposed father's hands? God No! A man goes into marriage because he can stand for himself. To hell with a manipulative father like this one in my life as a male child.

I hope you dress decently and modestly as a married woman; because sometimes, we women too are to blame for stirring lust in the opposite sex by our dressing.

Some ppl’s mind is just a garbage dump. I don’t even know what to tell you. Pray for wisdom. Tell your parents, I do not believe in keeping these things secret.

I despise a disrespectful person and this man is just the scum of the earth. When you should finally have peace as a married woman. Pray without ceasing for God to send him a blow so he can rest and leave you alone. Mtsscchhwww

Evidence baby. That's the only way.

Ignore him.Stop going where ever he will be present alone.lf he visits unexpected and you are alone don't allow him enter your house.

Most importantly, do not forget to record every conversation!

Shame on that scum! No respect for his son and wife at all! Tueh!

What you are going through is not something you can just let die like that. You need to tell your husband because it is not everything that you tell a married woman that you can tell her not to let her husband know of.

Cases that have a pattern are made possible by the reports of different ones that have had similar issues in the past. If you report, your husband might establish a pattern of deviant behaviour on the part of his father.

The worst part is that he is not even hiding it. He did not even deny it. He was very bold telling you that what he has been trying to achieve is normal to him simply because he has a good reputation with his family. But you know character is not reputation.

Be creative in fashioning out ways that you can let your husband know of this so that he will believe you.
What of recording your conversations with him?

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