She explained that she supports dating or courtship, but she believes maturity and self-awareness are major needs in marriage.
She said, " The human brain is not fully developed till 26. Some stupid decisions our children take, it's not because they want to be stupid but it's that the brain is not fully developed."
Sharing her own experience, Rev. Christie revealed that she watched as many women lose dreams and purpose after marriage. So, she encouraged women not to put their ambitions on hold while waiting for marriage. She reckons that marriage should complement a person's growth and purpose, not become the reason they lost themselves.
-on the recent episode of The Fearless Podcast
Sharing her own experience, Rev. Christie revealed that she watched as many women lose dreams and purpose after marriage. So, she encouraged women not to put their ambitions on hold while waiting for marriage. She reckons that marriage should complement a person's growth and purpose, not become the reason they lost themselves.
-on the recent episode of The Fearless Podcast
God help us to discern what is good from what is bad. All this rules do not work. I would say leave the marriage talk for the professionally trained and God who made the rules. Its all about women coming first now. Biblically Sarah called her husband Lord and Abraham was indeed Lord over her
ReplyDeleteHmmm, life na 2 face o, growing up I saw my mum and many women around me praise their husbands to high heavens and put in their very best to make their husbands happy, many of them even had special plates for their husbands, they keep everyone away from the man's space when he is resting and the list is endless in return many of their husbands motivated them to get better in education, dressing, travel etc even when the women were reluctant, some were bought cars or anything nice before their husbands got one and the husbands will always be home on time to spend time with their families, I know some of such women who never ever went to the market because the husband had boys to do it for them, I know a lady whose husband sent her 8 siblings to America to study and even the woman was sent abroad to get more qualifications, some built or renovated the family homes of their wives and took care of their wives parents like their own, I can go on and on on the sacrifices I witnessed lots of men make, you will see a wretched family have their fortune turn around just because their daughter got married and the man had their living standard upgraded and how those women will never let young ladies rest about getting married now I keep hearing terrible experiences others had or have and I am wondering why some are lucky and some so unlucky or maybe some cultures have better men or do some cultures have better marital values than others? Because even till now I still see lots of women around me loving marriage.
ReplyDeleteAge is not full maturity. It's a 50-50 thing.
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