He explained that children can appreciate their parents’ sacrifices and still disagree with them. He emphasized that gratitude should never be used to demand obedience, and that parenting should be rooted in love, not guilt.
Yemi Blaq wrote:
“LOVE SHOULD NOT COME WITH AN INVOICE.
One thing some parents don't realise is that children can be grateful for everything you did for them and still disagree with you.
Gratitude is not obedience.
And sacrifice is not a weapon.
Yes, you fed them.
Yes, you paid their fees.
Yes, you lost sleep over them.
They should remember all of that with appreciation.
But don't make your child feel guilty for receiving what every child deserves from a parent.
Raise your children with love, not debt.
Because the greatest reward for raising a child shouldn't be hearing, ‘After everything I've done for you...’
It should be seeing that child become a good human being.
That's the real return on investment.”
“LOVE SHOULD NOT COME WITH AN INVOICE.
One thing some parents don't realise is that children can be grateful for everything you did for them and still disagree with you.
Gratitude is not obedience.
And sacrifice is not a weapon.
Yes, you fed them.
Yes, you paid their fees.
Yes, you lost sleep over them.
They should remember all of that with appreciation.
But don't make your child feel guilty for receiving what every child deserves from a parent.
Raise your children with love, not debt.
Because the greatest reward for raising a child shouldn't be hearing, ‘After everything I've done for you...’
It should be seeing that child become a good human being.
That's the real return on investment.”
I agree
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