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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
HUSBAND WITH DISGUSTING BEHAVIOUR
My partner cheated on me and he blamed it on my behaviour towards him. I begged and begged before he now started talking to me.
I think my begging was a mistake. I think it’s better to leave; if the man values you, he will come back. Because now, he feels he’s doing me a favour.
He never apologized for the cheating; he made it seem like I’m so bad. I wish I had the guts to leave.
Now he goes out, he doesn’t even tell me where to and he’s still close to the lady he was cheating on with me. I feel sorry for myself…
Let me teach you what to do
Leave him emotionally first- detach completely emotionally
Even if you agree to give him kpekus in this state do it reading a book while gbenshes….
Stop begging and stop explaining.....pull back and give him silence.
If he values you , he will adjust and try to fix the mess but if he doesnt he will continue like hes doing now
STOP BEGGING, protect your dignity.
Your mistake was begging him after he cheated on him. He now feels like a god to you, he will do what he wants and you won't do shit about it. Now just ignore if, (you really need to), anything he does, whether it pains you or not, don't say a word to him.
ReplyDeleteYour partner cheated on you, when you say your partner are you talking about your husband/ boyfriend.. I don’t understand the kind of insecurities some ladies have, a he goat cheated on you instead of you to take action you are busy begging him because he blamed you for itπ€¦♀️, let me advise you make sure you keep begging him until he dash you a incurable disease..,hissing out from this post abeg..
ReplyDeleteU don vex π some women ehn!
DeleteI guess the main reason you couldn't leave, or find it difficult to leave, could be either of these reasons:
ReplyDelete1. You don't want the stigma of being a divorcee.
2. You are probably dependent on him financially. You are not a financially independent woman yourself.
This is why I often preach that women should be valuable before going into marriage. But when we talk about what a woman brings to the table, many of you feel it is an attack on women. It is for a situation like this. No man jokes or plays with a valuable woman. A woman who brings value into the marriage will not be toyed with, I can tell you this with all confidence. In fact, even a useless man in a marriage will feel jealous when other men come close to you. He will understand that one act of stupidity from him will not be tolerated.
Why did you even apologize to him in the first place? It was tacit support for him to continue in his infidelity. He has seen through you and understands that he is the air you breathe.
This is my advice to you before he infects you with a disease. Start saving in case of any eventuality, for when you will no longer be able to hold on, so you can easily walk away and have something to fall back on as you rebuild your life. In the meantime, make sure you insist on protection, otherwise you will be treating infections all the time. Above all, have a plan B. Men like this never change.
©️ TEEJAY
Reading a book while gbenshing is cold but I absolute love it, it will crush his mean little spiritππππ
ReplyDeleteVery cold π
DeleteMtchew! You have a very low self esteem and your stupid boyfriend/ex knows this! Just know that you’re only in a relationship with yourself!
ReplyDeleteThe most hilarious red pen comments ππreading book will pass better message. Good one.
ReplyDeletePoster never beg him again on cheating matter, he will still do it.
Ignore him, dress well, make fake calls sometimes to make him feel you get better friends and life outside his rubbish life.
I am appalled!
ReplyDeleteYou mean your husband cheated on you and YOU BEGGED HIM???? Lmaooo
God ohhhhh
I feel so bad for you.
Jesus
Why were you begging him?
To talk to you.
Ewo nne m
You need to detach and let him go. You don’t have rep in that marriage again.
I feel bad for you
Your self esteem is very low, in fact it's 1% and it will soon go to 0%, you mean you begged a husband that cheated on you to your face, why won't he be behaving like deputy Jesus and the best thing after slice bread when he knows very well that your self esteem is 1%, the only reason his cheating will be justified is if you've also cheated on him and he's aware and now doing payback, if not, no matter what you do, he doesn't have any right to cheat on you and still be rubbing it on your face.
ReplyDeleteI won't tell you to leave if you're not ready to, but in anything you do, just make sure you don't contact any disease from him, because this one is a street dog with a community preeeeek already and he will continue to do it and even rub it on your face, because he knows that there won't be any repercussion for him except deadly or undeadly diseases he will contact.
Please stop blaming yourself for begging. You begged because you loved him and didn’t want to lose the relationship. That doesn’t make you weak. But honestly, stop begging now. The cheating was his choice, regardless of whatever problems existed between you two. He should have communicated or walked away, not cheated and then blamed you for it.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that he hasn’t apologized, still keeps close contact with the other woman, and now acts like he’s doing you a favour by talking to you is a big problem. Don’t wait for him to “realize your worth.” Step back, regain yourself, and ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you’re willing to live with. Whatever you decide is absolutely your choice at that point.
You deserve to be loved without having to beg for it.