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Monday, September 21, 2026

Monday In House Lands With A Sigh, A Laugh, A Nod And An Attitude Of Blessedness

 Hailings......



MONDAY MEMO
Hey!!!!
How the go dey go?I hope your day started well? mine did oh..
My weekend, weekended very well..lol
A new Column berthed last weekend and it promises to be entertaining......
You can post your adverts in the comment section today with your contacts numbers the way i told you guys to do it......
Things are looking so good and i urge you not to give up on your light in the tunnel........
hugs for a beautiful day!
 
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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A Sigh, A Laugh, A Nod And An Attitude Of Blessedness
Some days don’t need noise. They don’t need long speeches or dramatic explanations. They simply need a sigh of relief, a quiet laugh that escapes without permission, a knowing nod that says “I understand,” and an attitude that chooses blessedness over bitterness.
Life will always present moments that test your patience, your strength and your peace but the real victory is in how you respond. 
A sigh means you release what you cannot control. 
A laugh means you refuse to let heaviness or pettiness win. 
A nod means you recognize growth and blessedness means you choose gratitude even when the day tries you.
Carry this attitude into everything you do. Let your spirit stay light, your heart stay open, and your mind stay focused on what truly matters. 
Blessedness is not a mood ,it is a decision.

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
I was on my farm last week when I witnessed something from a distance.
A man was driving past when he stopped and offered a young schoolgirl a lift, but she politely declined.
Normally, it was quite a long distance from where she was to the main road, so you would think a free ride would be a welcome offer. But she chose to trek instead.
Honestly, I was impressed by that child.
I have been in a similar situation before, and I know that accepting a seemingly harmless ride doesn't always end well.
Years ago, we had a male neighbour who would often offer me a ride in his car whenever I was going to school. At first, he was very pleasant, and I appreciated the gesture. He appeared to be a good person, and even my parents thought highly of him because of the kindness he showed me.

Until one day, while I was in his car, he suddenly tried to rub my thighs and lift my skirt.
I was shocked. I was disappointed. I couldn't believe that someone who had presented himself as a decent person could behave that way.
Although I had my doubt at some point but I didn't trust my instincts and protect myself.
So, I applaud that little girl for being able to say no.
And before anyone says, "Maybe you misinterpreted the situation," I understand that possibility, I have been there before. I know what it feels like when someone who appears harmless tries to cross a boundary.
We should teach children that they are allowed to say NO, even when the person offering them something appears kind, familiar, or trustworthy.
Their safety should always come first.

That one never open eyes be that, nah dem dey flag cars down now sef....I honestly think the social media exposure has done a lot of harm to the kids than good...
You are talking about the one who did not get into a car? who will protect the one who has been exposed to the monster called social media?I was on a content creators page and this person uses their kids to create content and the 6 yr old child rapped a song like Tupac's and called someone a beech..She had makeup and dressed a certain....

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD 4

My princess is officially three years old and when I took her to pick her birthday gift, she picked children friendly makeup set. And I bought her makeup.....
 I bought her make up!!!!!.
I know how much I frowned on little girls playing with makeup before I had one and I have been humbled, she has never seen me use makeup but I have heard her beg her aunties several times for their’s and I know how much she loves practicing on her brothers and I.
Even when she can’t find one she uses her writing marker, I have had my brows and face drawn on several times in my sleep because she is practicing drawing brows. 
I was first against it but after my sister persuaded me, I am letting her.
The other day she painted my nails pink and purple and it was cute watching her furrowed brow while she was focused so hard, trying to do a good job. 
Watching her face light up when I told her I loved my nails made my day.
This experience has humbled me really.

If you did not teach her and you dont have make up, where did she learn or know about one? TV????

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WEIRD FACTS
------A sophomaniac is a person who’s under the delusion that they are extremely intelligent.

----If someone truly loves you, they tend to hug you for at least 5 seconds or more.

----Couples who spend at least 10 minutes a day laughing together are more likely to have a stronger relationship.

----70% of the oxygen we breathe comes from the ocean.

----The word "lethologica" describes the state of not being able to remember the word you want.

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BEST HABITS TO BE MORE HEALTHY

1. ‎Drink more than 3 litres of water everyday
2. ‎Make sure to clean your bowel before anything else in the morning
3. ‎Cook food in less oil and avoid deep fried foods
4. ‎Eat fruits and vegetables several servings a day
5. ‎Stretch in the morning and walk whenever you can
6. ‎sit straight and if your back hurts, lie down and rest for sometimes
7. ‎Limit your screen time to avoid excessive exposure to others life. This way you don't compete with others unnecessarily
8. ‎Eat 99.9 percent at home
9. ‎Eat fruits if you have to eat somewhere unusual.

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79 comments:

  1. Thank You Lord for all You have done and for all You will still do.
    ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™.

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    1. Greetings Nwokem ๐Ÿฉต how’s your day going?

      Mobland season 2 episode one is out guys, y’all can check it out
      Im almost done with season 2 of The Gentlemen

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  2. Thanking God for the gift of life.

    The heat is too much here but man must continue with the findings of daily 2k.

    We keep moving

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    1. Heat ke!
      Everywhere is flooded here, raining heavily since morning.

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    2. I feel cold and hot, depends on the time of the day

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    3. It's getting to dry season now Pinky ๐ŸŒž
      .NN dear, heat dey here o ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    4. Same here NN, which kind rain be this bikonu since morning ๐Ÿค”

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  3. Good afternoon y'all
    I place all my trust in you, oh God.

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  4. I saw a comment made on Spotanous post this morning trying to force a wrong narrative on my story yesterday. I think I have to set the record straight for some of you who delight in running along with lies.

    Few months ago, I applied for admission at Miva Open University with a study centre at Port Harcourt. A session costs ₦390,000 excluding laptop and other necessary materials which runs over ₦500,000. I applied with the belief that the job I was to start at the time would commence, but unfortunately it was put on hold. When the admission came, I couldn't accept it, so I had to defer the September intake to February 2027 so I can plan for it. I remember saying that here.

    Early last month, someone on X who knows my interest in Cybersecurity sent me a link for a 95% scholarship programme of three months and asked me to give it a try while I wait for the main admission. I saw it as wise to get a starter knowledge from it. I applied and was lucky to be picked. I remember coming to the blog to talk about the 95% scholarship I just got. I remember vividly that Bv BIG MAMA congratulated me on it. So how are both of them the same thing?

    Some of you have already conditioned your belief system and mindset to always see evil in others that no matter what they say or do, it will never be truthful to you. I have to explain all of this so that sensible people won't be misled by the evil narrative you guys are trying to associate me with.

    Finally, I appreciate the advice from those asking me to seek a 9-5 job. I'm sorry, I don't think it's something I want for myself. The nature of job I do is quite okay for me. On a good day, a single job I execute gives me nothing less than ₦500,000 as profit after paying for labour and logistics. How do you think I pay my rent, bills, feeding myself and cousin who have stayed with me all these years. There are times I get over a million on a major project. The profit from a major job is more than a year's salary, if not two. So I don't think I want to do 9-5. I can only set up a business while still doing what I have always done best. My job speaks for itself. Maintenance alone gives me money salary might not be able to give in a month or two.

    Whatever you want to believe about my story is up to you. The last thing I will do here is to fabricate a story. Yesterday some persons were saying the story was fabu. Today someone confirmed there was actually a 95% scholarship programme like that. Make una try. But I can assure you one thing, you can never pull me down here. Not even broke shaming me. No be every time man dey guide. I no get today no mean say I no fit get tomorrow. You can't shame a man who has walked through ashes and is still holding on.

    Enough said.


    ©️ TEEJAY

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    1. Why do you always feel the need to explain yourself to strangers? What's wrong?

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    2. Afa the POS biz Stella sponsored?? I'd like to know if you don't mind ☺️

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    3. Anon 14:32,

      Sometimes it's necessary knowing that people believe lies easily here. Silence may be taken to be admissible or truth. I have to so the good people whom I have established relationships with on this space will know the truth.


      ©️ TEEJAY

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    4. My dear, Teejay, my advice to you is this: don’t allow people’s words to take away your peace. You have explained yourself and you don’t have to keep defending your truth to everyone.
      Sometimes, silence is wisdom. Let your character, consistency and the fruits of your labour speak for you. When people misunderstand you, take it to God rather than allowing anger to make you say things you may later regret.
      Today may not look like tomorrow. Keep learning, keep working, keep planning and commit your plans into God’s hands.
      The Bible says, Commit thy works unto the Lord and thy thoughts shall be established. (Proverbs 16:3)
      God knows your heart, he sees your struggles and he knows the plans he has for you. Keep your heart humble, forgive those who misunderstand you and let God fight the battles you cannot fight yourself.
      May God give you wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent, and may he bless the work of your hands in Jesus name ๐Ÿ™.

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    5. Anon 14:55 leave him alone, why are you asking him about his pos business, did you contribute any penny to the business that you're asking of.. amebo like you...

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    6. Thanks @BIG MAMA ♥️ & Anon 16:06. I appreciate.

      ©️ TEEJAY

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  5. GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY ๐ŸŒน
    Couples who spend at least 10 minutes a day laughing together are more likely to have a stronger relationship. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ This i strongly believe ๐Ÿ’—

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  6. I Sell Zobo ooo
    Contact Me For Your Party And Get To Together Party ooo
    I Also sell Online Luxury Beautiful Shoes And Outfit..
    Zero,Seven Zero six,Two, Three Five Six Three zero Nine

    Wellcome Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
    I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️

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    1. Chika dearie, I pray for plenty sales for us ๐Ÿ‘

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    2. I pray plenty sales for us Chika dear ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅฐ

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    3. Adunni My Love ❤️
      Thanks Sweetie ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿซ‚

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  7. It's that attitude of blessedness I am in now, thank you Stella ๐Ÿ˜Š
    May this week be a week of joy for us ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

    Good afternoon beautiful people ๐Ÿ˜

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    1. You no get wet in you dey sale?

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    2. Amen
      Enjoy the rest of your day.

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    3. Thanks Anon ๐Ÿ˜Š

      Make me your sure plug for...
      Healthy unripe and ripe plantain chips ๐ŸŒ
      Milky chin chin ๐Ÿ˜‹
      Sumptuous party jollof rice & catering needs ๐Ÿ˜‰
      Asoebi ankara shopping ๐Ÿ›’

      Pls contact me on zero seven zero, four seven, three nine, six seven, three two ๐Ÿ“ž Thank you for your patronage in advance ๐Ÿ™

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    4. Lora dearie, been awhile ๐Ÿฅฐ

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    5. Amen ๐Ÿ™


      May God continue to be good to us.

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  8. Sophomaniacs be deluluing themselves.
    We don take bride from Igala land yesterday,very beautiful,hardworking and respectful babe.

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    1. Aww... Congratulations ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽŠ
      May the union be fruitful

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    2. Awwww, this is so sweet to hear Congratulations dear, may God bless their union in Jesus name ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’•

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    3. Congratulations ๐ŸŽŠ. May God bless the union.

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    4. Congratulations sis.
      Allah ya bada zaman lafiya ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

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    5. Thank you my loves.God bless you all richly.

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    6. Congratulations. May God bless the union in Jesus name ๐Ÿ™

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  9. Dry IHN ๐Ÿ™„

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  10. Sending Showers of blessing to everyone ๐Ÿ™

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    1. Amen dearie, we need it ๐ŸŒจ️๐Ÿ™

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  11. I wonder why we dont eat elephants the way we eat cows.it must have lots of meat!

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    1. Kill one elephant ๐Ÿ˜ first and bring the meat here๐Ÿ˜…

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    2. Lol... It doesn't look tasty ๐Ÿฅฒ

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    3. Hahahahaha ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ anon, Glory don answer you.

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    4. Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ imo elephant meat go be like rubber.

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    5. @Glory O: I almost wrote this same thing too, hahahaha

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  12. Good afternoon SDK and BVs. It's well with me ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฟ

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    1. Bb dearest, it is well o ๐Ÿค— May God settle us on all sides ๐Ÿ™

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  13. End of April, I had a leaking roof and called a carpenter to help me fix it. He came, did what he could, collected his workmanship fee and left. Unfortunately, when it rained the next day, the leaking became even worse. I called him repeatedly. He kept promising to come back, but he never did.
    I became tired and tried two other carpenters. Neither could solve the problem. I called a fourth carpenter. He came, assessed the roof, told me what he needed, and the total cost of the materials and workmanship came to 80k. He tried, but even after all that, the roof still leaked.

    Then someone introduced me to a fifth carpenter.
    He came, examined the roof and worked on it. Before leaving, he said. ma “If it continues to leak, I will come back and keep trying until we get it.

    The roof leaked again, and he came back. He tried a different method. It still didn't work. He came back a third time, tried another approach and finally, the leaking stopped๐Ÿ’ƒ

    He charged me N30k for the three attempts.
    He could have taken advantage of the situation. He could have kept demanding more money. Instead, he chose to be honest, patient and kind.

    A month later, a friend needed someone to roof and fix roof tiles for him. I immediately remembered him and recommended him. He did an excellent job for my friend. My friend was so impressed that he introduced the same carpenter to two other people who also needed his services.

    Do not always focus on money.
    You may think you are only helping one person today, but that person may become the bridge to opportunities you never imagined.

    I wish to encourage you to be kind. Be genuine. Do good even when nobody is watching.

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    1. A good job begets another good job. You did well dear ๐Ÿ‘

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    2. Excellent ✔️
      Now this is how to use AI to aid your writing.
      And no, it is not a bad thing to use AI for your benefit, the anons always trolling people for using AI to write clean sentences, I believe you are all sick in the head..

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  14. Good day Stella and fellow bvs.Have a blessed day..ls raining every day in my location.

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    1. Aaarrrgh. It is "it's or it is", not is. Why is that so hard.

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  15. Hello ihn ๐Ÿฅฐ
    Good afternoon everyone and how's your day going.

    Motherhood poster, you've got a MUA extraordinaire in your baby girl, her own na follow come, she didn't learn from you. So keep encouraging and supporting her.

    NFJ poster, the days are evil so even a nice gesture is easily frowned at. It's better to be safe than to cry had I known.

    I love those beautiful names of God.
    Y'all should enjoy the rest of your day.

    E go surely be ✌๐Ÿผ

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    1. I like Chinazamekpere ❤️
      How are you my darling? ๐Ÿฅฐ

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  16. Good afternoon all. Thank you Lord for today

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  17. When I pray,Chinazamekpere,good blessed afternoon everyone.

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  18. Stella, do not take every opportunity to denounce the girl child. A young girl did the right thing, instead of applauding her you rather made a snide comment that she never tear eye. Going further to say girls are now the ones flagging down cars. Why? Because you have heard of few examples that means all young girls are doing the same thing? Young girls of school age is who you have all this negativity for. Alarming.

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  19. Good afternoon my Miami Water Family. I'm a hairstylist and I also sell very very affordable earrings. My earrings can be delivered to any location. DM: zero seven zero triple three five two three nine three

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  20. Good afternoon everyone๐Ÿฅฐ, hope you are doing well,I'm fine despite the wet weather๐ŸŒก️
    And this my perfume speaks a lot anywhere I'm sitting ๐Ÿ˜…,you no I sell perfume nah and I must use the loudest one ๐Ÿฅฐ
    ‎Omoh,dey Will be like,babe what's the name, and some will give me side ๐Ÿ‘€
    ‎I will immediately respond I'm the dealer ๐Ÿ˜…
    ‎I be Glory O jewelries,dealing in all kinds of quality Jewelries,Wrist watches,perfumes both oil and water
    My perfumes are top notch✌๐Ÿป
    I deliver nationwide holler me @ zero either zero six hundred, double one, double eighth two.

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  21. Motherhood poster, the way kids love makeup is so surprising. I went to a kid birthday party recently and nearly all the kids were on makeup. A girl not even up to 10 was on full frontal.

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  22. Good afternoon everyone ๐Ÿ’ž
    Today's rain ☔ no come to play o
    Those names are lovely ๐Ÿฅฐ

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  23. when I am stressed, Chinakasimobi

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  24. Good afternoon everyone,
    May God bless our hustlesss this week. Amen


    Speedarlinton aka Akpi is looking for a PA/house boy to recruit. You must know how to fight, you should not listen to long face music around him but you are expected to know a long face music so that when you enter the club, If him dey dance to face music you can easily tap him to stop dancing.๐Ÿ™„ Salary 100k. Feel free to apply. Don't mention. You are welcome my dear.

    Me- I rather stand at the bus stop all day counting moving vehicles than sit to even think of Akpi being normal.๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  25. Our 'CHINAZAEKEPERE' appeared on IHN today ๐Ÿคฃ

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  26. Beautiful Igbo names with meaning ❤️❤️๐Ÿฅฐ

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  27. Good evening beautiful people ❤️

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