I have been dating my man for the past 3years,I have turn down more than 7marriage proposals this year just cos of him,and he has not said anything related to marriage to me. his people want him to marry,he want me pregnant first before he can tell me what he has in mind for me,OK nowadays he doesn't call ,neither will he take mine,we can stay for 1month. without hearing from each other but we reside in the same state and he pays in money for me for my up keep.