This story is based on my life, it is a burden I have carried for years and I am finally ready to share my story, if my story helps even one female child out there then my mission is complete…if at any point during the unveiling of my life story anyone wants to contact me you can do so through Stella Dimoko-Korkus...she has all my contact details and has agreed to give me her platform to tell my true story.
Chapter one:
HOW I GOT DISVIRGINED
I look at myself in the mirror and I see a shadow of who I want to be, my reflection has been replaced with a monster! An angry black woman! A bitter soul!
If They say beauty is on the inside then I must be the ugliest woman on earth!
I wasn’t always this way, there was a time many years ago I was a happy teenager and all that mattered to me was what latest song or jeans was in vogue, I lived for the moment! Those years seem like centuries ago!
How did I get here?
How did I become this bitter that sometimes I want to hurt myself just to feel external pain so the pain I feel inside is not so bad!
MEN!! MEN!!!
Men Have always been the catalyst to everything bad that has happened to me, today I cry myself to sleep and every man is a surrogate for the evil ones I have met along the way.
It all started 14 years ago when I was hypnotised and kidnapped by 2 Igbo men on the streets of Lagos, my only crime was stopping to give them directions, they lured me to a face me I face you room, one pretended to be a foreigner from Cotonou (it was months later I realised they were a team), in this face me I face you room there was another Igbo man waiting for them, they said they had female clothes for sale then the third Igbo man came out with a drum and right before my eyes this men turned paper to money, I remember my exact words like it was yesterday ‘ha! This is fake money’ I said and the 'foreigner' started saying how he made such money for Governors and Ministers in Nigeria, the second Igbo guy started blessing God that he had hit the jackpot…..I wanted no part of it I started crying asking to leave but that’s when I saw the knife placed on the table....
The owner of the house said ‘no one is leaving here, we are all in this together, we are going to swear an oath that nothing that has gone on in here would he revealed outside’ I was in tears begging for my life, swearing that I wouldn’t expose them, I begged God to save me. Long story short they striped me naked said some things in Igbo that I did not understand and then they raped me one after the other!
While they all watched…
I remember their breathe, the weight of them on me, their moans!
This is how I was DISVIRGINED!!!!
Disvirgined In a dirty face me I face you room by three complete strangers! At the age of 16!
I knew that day lying there that my life was never going to be the same again! I had lost my innocence, my dignity, my pride, my joy! I had lost myself!
I thought that was the end of it, but they were not done with me, my hell on earth started that day and it went on for 5 more months……..This was just the beginning!
I am getting teary eyed so i will stop typing now!
I am 30 now and I still cry myself to sleep, I am still haunted by my past, every relationship I have had, is affected by this and many more that happened to me!
I am finally ready to come out with my story because I know there many girls and women out there like me!
Rape victims who are scared and ashamed to tell their stories!!
Women who have been sexually abused and molested and got no justice!
Women who are worried by the stigma of the rape netted out to them.
This stigma is what has made me keep mute for 14 years about all I have gone through but then silence does not lead to solutions....no,it does not.
They say time heal all wounds but the scars are forever……scars that are even more painful than the wound itself.
I will remain Anonymous till further notice!
Like I said this is chapter one!
Watch out for chapter 2 titled ‘Who is to blame?’
So sorry this happened to you. Rape is a heinous crime and every convicted rapist should be made to pay for their deeds.
ReplyDeleteWhen you say it went on for 5 months, do you mean you were held hostage for that long? How were you rescued? #tears!
Oh dear wat a way to loose it @16, must av been really traumatic. I pray coming out to talk abt it gives u d healing u need
DeletePoster come and answer Nki's questions and IF am wrong I will tender my apologies but untill then this story stinks
DeleteNki my tot xactly, 5months??? i'm angry, sad nd bitter, i dont even want to imagine the scenerio. So sorry poster, happy you re finally letting this off your chest, God will heal you dear and fully recover your scattered heart**hugs**
Deleteyou know when i read the 5months part, i screamed, 'what did you do?, who did you offend?'
DeleteNikki, its the same thing I thought.....5 months of being a sex slave? Jeez......
DeleteThis exact thing happened 2 my cousin,same story,pls stop d self hate,I understand the trauma,pls u nid 2 see smone tlk 2 smone,u get thru dis fine
DeleteEZENWAYI, who ever you are, male or female as long as you are born of a woman, this very month of April you will experience shocking things that will make you Forget coming into blogs even. The rate by which God will punish you, you will cry and tears will cease. Amen.
DeleteIt's a pity. Dis is bad. I don't even knw wot to say. Hmnn life somtimes is not fair at all. May zgod help us in dis evil world.
ReplyDeleteI feel for her tho! But she stated dat dey stopped her to ask for directions, so how did she get to their house? I pray God heals u frm dis much pain n agony....its well.
ReplyDeletePlease anon 9.13am don't be daft, they hypnotise people, the same was done to me when I was about 14 years close to obanikoro bustop. They asked for directions and shouted on me when I was being evasive, I was hypnotised. They asked me to get into their car and I did. I was conscious but could not control my legs. Whilst they were turning their car around, I opened my mouth and just said..... I don't get into strangers cars.,.... At that point I opened the door and got down from a slow moving car and started to work away like a zombie. God Almighty saved me. I then realised they set themselves strategically. Two in the car and one walked passed stating me straight in the eyes. I am talking about 21 years ago
DeleteUr story s such a sad 1. D best way 4wrd s 2 forgiv dos men n ur hrt ll feel beta. 4givnez s nt. An easy tin n takes only d grace of God 4 t 2b possible. I pray God bestows dat grace upon u...amen.
Delete@anon 9:13am.... I dunt knw hw hers hapnd bt normally wen dos pple speak 2u n u ans u get jazd n follow dem wre eva de go.
Elsie
I believe they used something that made her followed them. I am sorry for what they did to you. I think speaking out about it now Will help you heal properly.
DeleteI had the same experience in secondary school. A guy with an accent was in d car with his driver, a lady and another man pretended to be passersby. The man in the car stopped to ask for directions to some place and the drama started. The woman screamed that she had seen the same guy on TV the previous night with the president...blah, blah, blah.
DeleteThe guy claimed to be a pastor and gave all of us 'bystanders' prophecies. He said that my enemy was to die within 7 day and at some point, I was hooked. I was on my way to pick my baby brother from school and they gave me a ride to his school and back.
The guy performed some magic in d car which convinced me even more. But I was lucky, these ones wanted my mother's jewelry. However, the fear of my mother's wrath overrode their hypnosis. In my mind, if my mom caught me, I'd be dead anyways so I just sat and waited for d seven days. Saying goodbye to my brothers and co... how stupid I felt.
Fast forward, some years later while I was working in d bank, a guy called d office line asking for an account officer to see him as he wanted to open an account. I went with my male colleague (thank God) and the address turned out to be a face me I face u shanty. The man and his friends then proceeded to tell us how they can make counterfeit money from Cotonou etc.... we just excused ourselves and went back to the office.
Poster, I'm sorry this happened to you. I can identify cos d same trick was used on me but didn't work. What I don't understand is how this went on for 5 months. I'll be waiting for chapter 2.
Deuteronomy 22:25- says
ReplyDelete“But if in the open country a man meets a young woman who is betrothed, and the man seizes her and lies with her, then only the man who lay with her shall die. But you shall do nothing to the young woman; she has committed no offense punishable by death. For this case is like that of a man attacking and murdering his neighbor, because he met her in the open country, and though the betrothed young woman cried for help there was no one to rescue her.
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Pls Naija should implement this law cos I'm sure countries like Saudi won't wait to behead bloody rapists.
Werey olomo, no be your cousins them be? Animals, tufiakwa!
DeleteI weep each time I see issues like this head towards tribal lines.
Delete@ Poster. .please forgive I'm from the same tribe as the men who hurt you.
It must be really hard.
May the almighty heal you
@ Anon 9:43 evil lurks in all men despite irrespective of their tribe and creed ...ask Nike the Obesere accuser.
Aku or wateva u call ursef, by d way I'm not anonymous 9:43, but u are guilty of being tribalistic, y u go bring up obesere to back up ur point... bunch of idiots both of u tribalistic fools
Delete*yawns* have a good evening anonymous 7:52/9.43 am.
DeleteI hope you've had dinner? ...that should put you in a much better mood.
Cheers
Jeez! May God heal you. You need to have a session with a psychologist.
ReplyDeleteBut why didn't she shout ontop of her voice, since it was a face me I face you. I'm just saying not blaming
DeleteAnon in Nigeria neighbours will be the ones asking why she disturbing them with her shouts 'after all didn't she walk into the room with her own legs'.
DeleteIt is not that easy for her to shout. You need to be in a situation to really understand it.
I wonder y she didnt shout?
DeleteNigerian neighbors would ve rescued her.
Person wake up this monday morning forged one story and sent in about 3 igbo men
U dey crase
I'm very sure she was hypnotized
DeleteEzewanyi, will u shut up??? Y will u guys keep saying the story is forged? If it isnt, is it ok for us to pray it happens to you? Crimes like these r common n mostly pepetrated by d ibos. Believe it or not. However, ot may not be exclusive to them. So all of u abusing d poster, pls shut up or save ur comment for another thread.
DeleteBtw,Mamie, how market?
Hmmm....who is to blame?
ReplyDeleteLEAKED VIDEO BIG BROTHER CONTESTANTS DOING IT IN THE BATHROOM. DOWNLOAD VIDEO HERE NOW!!!
Whao! Dis is deep mehn! Real deep! Telling d story is a good process towards coming out of dt shelf. Traumas can rele b traumatising buh its all one step at a time babe...just dnt blame urself for whtevr it is dt hapnd dt day. Dnt blame d men also for deir wicked despicable cannibalistic hearts. Trust me, am sure deir merited divine punishment cnt elude dem. Hav u forgiving dem??? Dts another step towards taking it all out. Try take sessions wiv a Psychologist, despite d fact no one can rele understand wht u goin tru except you...One step at a time...it gets betr wiv time...*hugs*
ReplyDeleteNa wah ohh...Poster,you have to move on...I know how hard it is....those men will never know peace in their entire life....I keep saying this and I mean it...any man that will try that nonsense with me must DIE!!!...
ReplyDelete#wipesofftear#. Whoa poster dunno if sorry is d word 2say. I just pray dat God will sumday qive u d qrace 2 4qet ur past n face d future. May God strenqthen u.
ReplyDeleteWow i applaud you for coming out to tell this sad story it takes bravery and i hope women like you will heal from it.....The Lord is your strenght
ReplyDeleteAm so sry poster dt ds had to happen to u,may God heal u frm ur wounds. EVE E UME
ReplyDeleteThis is really sad, sorry for your hurt poster. It's good you're letting it out; please try going into therapy. May God heal u, pele.
ReplyDeleteWhilst this story is sad, I also think the story doesn't make sense. Too many holed in it. It's a horrible thing to be raped, but it's also awful to tell tales just cos u can hide under anonymosity without anyone being able to substantiate your story.
ReplyDeleteHeight of insensitivity! Last time I checked,Stella wasn't awarding 'Most Bizarre stories' on her blog so why would the poster spin such tale??? Silence is golden most times,you know!
DeleteVeritas, maybe you should point out the holes and maybe the poster or someone who has answers can respond. I mean, I don't see what she stands to gain for making this up. Just saying
DeleteVeritas. Incase u can't think, I'll help u. As a matter of fact, most true life stories have holes and may nt make sense, especially to people who haven't experienced such. Why? Various reasons. E.g. The victim may have distorted memories of the event. Could be trauma or a way of blocking out the horrible memories. Spinned tales r usually perfect, because d spinner has had enuf time 2 think d story through. real life experiences will have holes because of d human factor. Humans r bound 2 make silly decisons sometimes dat may cost dem a lot, like d poster above. Watever d case, I believe her, who wud spin a tale like dis? 2 wat end? Is stella paying her? Veritas if u don't believe just move on. Don't b so insensitive
DeleteU re not alone in des my dear.i was equally raped in school.in my uni days by robbers dt came to rob me.they robbed away my dignity and my emotions for men but God healed d. Pain.only time ll tell if I can be brave enough 2 talk abt it publicly but I now know how oder female feel when raped.the pain is unbearable
ReplyDeleteIT'S REALLY A PITY AM SO SORRY FOR UR LOSS MADAM POSTER. GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE COURAGE AND STRENGTH TO MOVE ON OK... THEY ARE LOCAL 419 MEN.. THAT'S HOW THEY OPERATE..SAME THING HAPPENED TO A FRIEND JUST LIKE DAT BUT THANK GOD SHE WASN'T RAPED.. JUST BE HOPEFUL THAT GOD WOULD WIPE AWAY UR TEARS OK..
ReplyDeleteDo u need to shout to get ur point across? Mtcheeeew
DeleteLmao @ anon 11:26. Not many people understand dat typing in uppercase translates 2 shouting. Lool
DeleteMy God! I know of a lady that was constantly raped by her so called boyfriend, one day, she said enough was enough. My anger with her is that she doesn't just want to accept that the said boyfriend is a beast and should be taken into custody ASAP before he does that to another innocent soul.
ReplyDeleteRapists are worse than murderers and should not be pardoned one bit when caught.
Ohhhh...this is so sad! Please put your words in prayers. Those men that defiled you will be punished cos God will hear your cry and wipe away your tears.
ReplyDeleteI understand perfectly how you really feel, i was sexually abused when i was really young,.....Hmmmmmm....abused victims live in a different world...For me, i was just existing and not living...I struggled with shame, fear, anger,..I hated men..,.I believed no man wld ever love me, I believed I was worthless, whenever a guy starts getting close...I wld be rude or do things to push him away , becos i was scared...nothing excited me...I cried and cried....But for all..I dnt regret all that happened,am glad am a survivor....I might sound too spritual, but the truth is i got my life back, when I realised and know how much God loves me...His love has nothing to do with me been a virgin or not...I let it sink into my head and heart that God loves me, because the devil will remind you of how dirty, worthless you are...I listened to joyce meyer, T.d jakes messages., I studied the word of God, and know who God says I am...I am not defined by whatever happened to be me,I may fall, but i won't stay on the ground...But it took years to realise all this....The truth is Most great women have been victims of abuse, the devil knows the only way he can crush a woman is to get hold of her emotions, nd destroy her self worth......except the victims finds their way to God...thats where the real healing starts......putting an end to rape is a collective factor...Parents should educate their daughters, not to seat on any uncle laps , nobody should touch their private part.Also, they should have a good relationship with their kids , so they can tell them anything...I have heard cases of kids reporting abuse cases , and their parents will start beating them..Please, parents stop failing God...those kids are your responsibilities....'
ReplyDeleteAlso, the government should enforce severe punishments for rapist...the rate is high, because they all feel they can get away with it...
In addition, Nigerians....Africans...please let's develop an habit of been open to talk abt certain things...ple re dying in silence, they are afraid of being judged, mocked...For years, i never told a soul abt all i went through, I was finally able to tell a friend....we need to be flexible...
Finally, the victim...Forgive and forget..its tough i must say..but you can..God loves you..., he can make something great out of you....giv him your pains.....there were days i cried and cried while praying, pour out your pain to God, let him heal you....seek help...talk to people you feel can encourage you,...You dnt ve to remain a victim...God love messed up people..he makes some Good out of them....I pray you find peace in jesus name....lots of love
1 million e-hugs, God bless and continue to cause His face to shine upon you.
DeleteI understand perfectly how you really feel, i was sexually abused when i was really young,.....Hmmmmmm....abused victims live in a different world...For me, i was just existing and not living...I struggled with shame, fear, anger,..I hated men..,.I believed no man wld ever love me, I believed I was worthless, whenever a guy starts getting close...I wld be rude or do things to push him away , becos i was scared...nothing excited me...I cried and cried....But for all..I dnt regret all that happened,am glad am a survivor....I might sound too spritual, but the truth is i got my life back, when I realised and know how much God loves me...His love has nothing to do with me been a virgin or not...I let it sink into my head and heart that God loves me, because the devil will remind you of how dirty, worthless you are...I listened to joyce meyer, T.d jakes messages., I studied the word of God, and know who God says I am...I am not defined by whatever happened to be me,I may fall, but i won't stay on the ground...But it took years to realise all this....The truth is Most great women have been victims of abuse, the devil knows the only way he can crush a woman is to get hold of her emotions, nd destroy her self worth......except the victims finds their way to God...thats where the real healing starts......putting an end to rape is a collective factor...Parents should educate their daughters, not to seat on any uncle laps , nobody should touch their private part.Also, they should have a good relationship with their kids , so they can tell them anything...I have heard cases of kids reporting abuse cases , and their parents will start beating them..Please, parents stop failing God...those kids are your responsibilities....'
ReplyDeleteAlso, the government should enforce severe punishments for rapist...the rate is high, because they all feel they can get away with it...
In addition, Nigerians....Africans...please let's develop an habit of been open to talk abt certain things...ple re dying in silence, they are afraid of being judged, mocked...For years, i never told a soul abt all i went through, I was finally able to tell a friend....we need to be flexible...
Finally, the victim...Forgive and forget..its tough i must say..but you can..God loves you..., he can make something great out of you....giv him your pains.....there were days i cried and cried while praying, pour out your pain to God, let him heal you....seek help...talk to people you feel can encourage you,...You dnt ve to remain a victim...God love messed up people..he makes some Good out of them....I pray you find peace in jesus name....lots of love
So sorry u went through all this,I pray u get the healing u deserve. Try and see a shrink,u need to let go of the hatred which I know its not easy but u need to do it for u. I will keep u in my prayers
ReplyDeleteNonsensical story
ReplyDelete3 igbo men indeed
NEXT
Are you not a foolish thwart Ezewanyi?
DeleteYou think rape is tribal?
You are brainless
From all d long story, dis is what you can come up with?? Rly?? Anyways what do I expect from a lady whose heart is under her feet? A lady who does nt av d fear of God. You're as bad as those 3guys d poster is talking about.
DeleteCriminals don't. Care if you're from their family house. Robbers will nt ask you for ur tribe when th to attack. Only God protects!
From all d long story, dis is what you can come up with?? Rly?? Anyways what do I expect from a lady whose heart is under her feet? A lady who does nt av d fear of God. You're as bad as those 3guys d poster is talking about.
DeleteCriminals don't. Care if you're from their family house. Robbers will nt ask you for ur tribe when th to attack. Only God protects!
Get off my comment u e-diots
DeleteShe could ve said 3 men but no it had to be 3 igbo men
Anon 1:18, direct that comment to ur mother ok
This story is filled with lies biko
They stopped u when u were 14, raped u @16 and now @ 30 u cant forgive
Msewwwwwwww
Yarn better tale next time inugo
See ur mouth like 30 igbo men
Fact go and die!!!!!!!
DeleteGullible fool
@poster, u just goofed
Read my story n tell me u think I'm lying too. I wrote abt me being disvirgined exactly d same way when I was 17. I'm sure I didn't ask 4 it t happen t me n pls believe me for what iv been thru since I was born I wish with everything iv got dt it was a lie. Now if u don't believe me I hope u experience exactly the same pain iv been through so u don't rebuff people's pain. Iv suffered severe depression high BP n I'm 35😊
DeleteIt all started 14years ago when she was 16
DeleteIve never come out right to insult anyone on this blog but Eze wanyi, u are a big FOOL for making such stupid comment. A bloody nuisance too and if you dont have anything to say, shut that igbo senseless mouth of yours and if you think am coming for you cos you are igbo, guess wjat? Am igbo too motherfucker phew!!! Instead of showing sympathy to the poster, youre coming out here to judge her aswel as accuse her of lieing bloody piss taker and insensitive goat!!!! As for the poster, pls accept my sympathy and I pray that the almighty who sees and knows all judge those bastards for what they did to you, they will never know peace in their life and will definitely meet a tragic and painful death. As theyve taken something so precious from you, so will they keep losing precious things in their lives until they eventually lose their life!!! Pls do visit a therapist as I believe that with their help as well as help from God, you will be able to move on with your life and not dwell on this part of your life much.. God bless you n God forgive me for swearing too much but some people need to be put in their place!!
DeleteEzewanyi you're an old fool! A fool at forty is a fool forever! It was this stupid attitude of yours that made them chase you away from wives connection. Ode you can no longer comment on WC. Shut the fuck up already with all your useless comments. Wretched old fool deceiving young girls.
Delete@samira God bless u, so all this women here who has always feared this nuisance can't even condem her stupid comment. U are the only lady who has called this foolish woman out for once others re secared of her apart from @Bunny. Always talking from her anus,nonetity.
DeleteSamira, God wil bless you o. He just has to. Ezenwanyi, pls answer that Anon o. Some people are disgustingly insensitive!! My goodness! I was raped twice at different times. Once by an ibo man and once by an hausa man. Am i being tribalistic??? Ezenwayi is just a fool.
DeleteMy dear no one is scared of d Fool! Sometimes silence is simply best ansa for fools.
DeleteThat's y she comes as pepper bcos she gats to be noticed and she is simply ignored most times.
You can't fight with a mad woman cos u tag urself as equally mad.
Empty barrels make d loudest noise so ....
@blossom, I left wc and upgraded to d real deal, who chased me away? U? I laugh in Chinese.
DeleteHow can u compare wc and sdk? Bwahahaaaaaaa. .......I ve moved on and if I like tomorrow I no wan comment here I still come
I still remember that horrible thing u looked, what did u call it again oooo remind me .....yes u called it pot roast" mumu pikin like u.
I also remembered when u wrote in asking advice that ur hubby/bf would not suck u because of ur inner dirty thigh but u were livid when d administration of d site "mistaken"added ur email to d post, omg! ur outburst was ........u cried so much and then when u were calm u said u were asking on behalf of ur friend
So mama go and sit down somewhere and keep quite if I fo not believe a story I will so and there is nothing anybody can do about it
@samira, u are a wretched somebody, I dont owe ur kind anything
DeleteUr foolish mother and ur useless father are fools
U guys think u are d only oned that ve monopoly to insult
Aunty ode, u this fatherfucker, u product of an incest
U this depressed soul .
e-diot
If u are igbo nko? Do u know d way to ur village? Useless pikin of a whore
U anonymous miss nobody, I dont run from abuses, go and call everybody u hear
DeleteBe hyping urself under anon and like I told u b4 I wont ever dignify u with a reply again cos u are a repressed soul.
@poster, sorry about ur pain and my insensitive words
DeleteIf Deborah Bala or Rubbynia were here they would ve given reasons y this story maybe true infact mama ijebu would ve followed up but not these touts who think they can bully me inukwa
U guys brought tribalism to d table and y wont I defend myself and people
Poster when next or any person is telling a story pls modify it.
Hian!
Samira na blossom with anonymous una too small nah
@anon12; 30, no one fears anybody, afterall this a faceless forum but mind u no one is a fool.
DeleteThis is democracy biko
Freedom to speech
Pls gerrout
Anuofia
Eze wanyi has gone mad
DeleteHahahaha Eze wanyi na poverty be your problem. Who de bully who for here? I wont stoop to your village level and insult your generations cos am by far better than you and your generation monkey!!! I no de comment under anon cos I no de fear anybody n thats y I av my pic aswel so there you go.. As for road to my village, how that one concern you? The fact of the matter is am igbo n hate infact loathe other igbos like you bahaha so bow down bitch!!
DeleteFurther more Eze mumu, dont come for me unless I ask for you big old igbo fool. Na ur type de make ppl think all igbos are wicked and heartless. Product of a leaked condom lol
Delete@Samiram thanks for challenging this stupid low life woman that was raped at 14years u forgot ur stories? Or dont u think ur husband raped u at 14? Where are ur foolish colleague Aku that back ur stupidness here. I told u weeks ago that u re useless people think I was joking now u see. ur poverty has no part 2 both u and linda are disgrace to all responsible ibos here. Mad people come and reply all commets jobless anufio.
DeleteCry me an ocean
DeleteAt this rate u go collapse here
Fugleey biatch
Pikin of thousand fathers hehehe
Na me fo u? Na me say make ur biatch no sabi close legs from different stray men? Na me say make u old for ur mama house?
Who is this certified otondo taking this too seriously?
DeleteAre u d poster? Were u raped? If so sorry.
Btw, may leprosy strike those bleached finger of yours used in typing
Nansense
Bleached hands...Fugleey face...smelly totoh=Samira whore
DeleteAunty samira whore keep beefing. .....pull ur cheap weave.....
DeleteEzewanyi uwa ni ne will keep balling
No be my fault say ur destiny get as he be
Ezewanyi I ga di ooooooooo
I se eeeeeeeeee
Awwwwwww and peter came
DeleteSo typical
At this stage u guys should go get a room ....no, u should form a caucus and discuss Ezewanyi till u are lost in ecstasy hahahaha
@peter, is it that u like pain or what? U keep coming for more
U were coming to save samira whore, with that Ur little toothpick blokos and then samira whore will be like juliet and peter romeo
U two should go get a room
Ezewanyi igburugbe
Ve u gone to look for more supporters #samira whore
DeleteBtw, y do u need cheerleaders? For support? For confidence boost abi for morale?
Is peter not enough for u?
Ezewanyi can fuck 3 guys at once
Bring it on!
Power!
Bwahahaaaaaaa. .................
My life is pink Peter! Its Tuesday today, How's the oil and gas and real estate business going dear CEO.
DeleteI'll advice you get a dictionary when you need to log on to Stellas blog.OK? There that's a good man.
@ Eze wanyi: sheath the sword inugo? No use arguing back and forth..
Eheee bros Pee: you dont need to write in as anonymous any longer its so easy to spot your comments from a mile MR. CEO..your written English is a gem! Rake in the millions today.
Cheers
Samira don enter one chance.
DeleteOloriburuku iwanyi, aburo rapist bwagagagaga
DeleteAm sorry dear, but did they keep you for five months
ReplyDeleteThis is some traumatic experience.. God will heal ur mind n punish those who raped u.. choi!!! What a way to get disvirgined
ReplyDeleteOh Lord!
ReplyDeleteThis is sad.
I'm so sorry poster,so sorry.
I pray God grants you divine healing and the grace to forget your pains,Amen.
Please if you know those evil men kindly drop their names.
Stories like this makes me more suspicious of every man...
Sebi those evil men are people's sons,brothers,husbands, friends and relatives?
Oh God, protect us form evil men.
Disgrace and expose all rapists and potential rapist IJN,Amen.
God please, help us to train our sons well so they won't ever commit such evil, protect our girls and women,Amen.
Amen
DeleteAmen
Amen
l can imagine wht pained u bore all these yrs, may God heal u as you tell ur story. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteDede
I feel your pains. victim of rape at 6 too by armed robbers ,but I ta'k God dat I was able to come out of d trauma abt ten tyrs later. D lord will help u to ovaom it and knw dat life has plenty gus tins to offer u. Let go and allow God to work on you.
ReplyDeleteSorry at16. They are typin errors pls
ReplyDeleteSorry bat that. But where you hypnotised with jazz etc or followed them to buy the clothes? If it was the latter I'm sure you have learned from this and in the future you can tell it to your children. Beware of strangers. Please see a sychiatrist.
ReplyDeleteSome people can be so wicked i read some comments here and see that some people still find it in their heart to condemn the poster rather than tackling the main issue at hand which is Rape and sexual abuse in our society...poster may God give you the strength to move on and NO u are not to blame don't let anyone bring you down
ReplyDeleteDear Veritas may God deliver people like u so she will sit down and make up such a story to what end?????? to achieve what exactly please enlighten us Madam Veritas...its someone life you saying does not make sense May God help you!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a bad trend,
DeleteIs she not entitled to her opinion?
Shift jhor!
May the good Lord heal and ease your pain in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteGod pls continue to protect us.
ReplyDeletePoster may God heal you.
May God punish dose evil doers. They shall neva know peace. Amen!
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ReplyDeleteSame thing happened to me... I was 17. I shot it out of my mind till now. I remember everything I wish to forget. I'm sorry all this happened to u but yours isn't half ad bad as mine. My parents separated when I was 2 and I was securely abused till I was 10. Then I grew up enough to know that what's happening to me us wrong n I started fighting my abusers yes not one person. Then this happened when I was 17 jus as it happened to u. So I think I blanked out on everything men living books everything. I got married when I was 22 and I jus move like a zombie everyday no life ambition nothing except praying for God to deliver me. I'm 35 now and I'm beginning to heal....so please u should check out my story n know no matter what someone has a worse story then u seek God for healing. U need to be patience this healing takes a while so pray and don't stop till God piece by piece heals u. I always so for all iv been through I can't even put on paper one day God ll show me y he let it happen to me... what I did to deserve it and how he ll make up d years I suffered to me esp my childhood. I'm a living testimony to "life goes on"😊
ReplyDeleteEzenwanyi, this is not about tribe
DeleteThis is sooooooooo deep and painful. I want to assure you that they are already reaping what they sowed. There is no way you do a thing like that and go unpunished..NO WAY.
ReplyDeletethis form of 419 was so rampart years ago...they stop you and tell you they are from togo and they are looking for an address in lagos.....imagine coming to lagos with just a street name no area whether yaba, ikeja or anywhere? then they say they imported some things they want to dispose of bla bla bla.....thank God i was wise enough never to fall in their hands
ReplyDelete@ ezenwanyi it happened t me I'm doing person who wrote about being raped @ 17. My father was a branch head of a port Harcourt central bank of 9ja when I was born. I wasn't raised poor they separated when I was 2 n I was physically emotionally and sexually abused till I was 10. Maybe she made a typo now if u say she's lying then it must mean I'm also lying, belive me ezenwanyi for what iv been thru in d's life I wish I was...
ReplyDeleteMy dear I believe u
DeleteDear poster, I'm glad you have chosen to share this. I can only imagine the trauma you have been through. May you heal and may your healing be complete IJN. Stella darling, this is why I love your blog. It's not just about gossip and gists. There are posts that encourage, heal and most importantly point people to God. Don't stop. God is watching.
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Rape is real . I am also a victim of Rape. What annoys me most is that I never had the chance of experiencing the feeling of being disvirgined. Something that happens once in every girls lifetime. I just woke up only to notice my most precious jewel had been taken away from me, my innocense was gone and I couldn't have it back. All I could feel was the intense pain left. That crazy first boyfriend of mine who didn't give me the opportunity to give myself willingly will never have peace. If he drugged or hypnotized me, till today I never can tell. All I feel within me is anger. Keeping myself till my final year in school and loosing it without having the knowledge is the most painful thing ever.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was 8, a guy forced me into an uncompleted building with a knife behind my back, warning me not to scream. He made me give him a BJ, he came and said I should swallow it, can u imagine? I can never forget the taste in my mouth and I still feel disgust and nausea when I think of it, Thank God he didn't sleep with me but that assault really affected me, I was scarred and could not leave my house for a long time. I remember the first time my husband asked for a bj, I almost fainted and all d memories came back and I saw my rapist face again after 20yrs of bottling it all up, I cried till daybreak,he was just lost for words,I think I'm in d healing process now.
ReplyDeleteEzewanyi! With d kinda respect I USED to have for u, u jst messed up. My prayer is that yr children experience it or yr grandchildren experience it, den u know wot am talking about. Rather than concentrate on what's important, na d igbo men dey pain u? Shame on u ma'am. I feel u r d major ediots.
ReplyDeleteU respect foolish woman na ur fault next time study her type before u respect such thwart
DeleteIt is ur children and grandchildren infact ur entire lineage and d one that is to come will experience it
Deletemay ebola virus, aids and cancer wipe out everyone and everything related to u and u
Keep deceiving urselves thinking ur rantings in sdk amounts to something
DeleteI am not responsible for what u choose to understand
Hian!
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Mummy stella abeg post my comments inugo
Why would she lie? What is it in it for her? Perhaps an award,there is nothing out of the ordinary about the story, sometimes there is wisdom in zipping it up,people should think before they spew shit and not spew shit and then think .Mstcheww,at poster load yourself with the word of God and pray, he will heal your wounds in Jesus name,stay blessed.
ReplyDeleteI Thank God for your life and mine . This same thing happened to me when I was about 13 or 14. They colle c ted all of my mums jewelry. Someone an ibo guy asked for directions on opebi in ikeja, and I answered him and thata how I was hypnotized. I spat on my hand and it appeared on the other side of my hand. Then 1 of them removed a cowry from my privates. By this time I was already in their car a 504 peoguot. Thank God I wasnt raped. Just realized it could have been worse. I'm so sorry for your pain. I pray God heals you completely. In Jesus name Amen!
ReplyDeleteYoruba people dey better thing? Jewelry ko, if I hear
DeleteLiar! No be panda una dey wear? U spit for ur hand onye dirty
Eze wanyi walahi you like trouble.
Delete@ poster d Lord's ur strength,,,He wl surely heal u,,,am so so sorry,,,dey wl never go unpunishd
ReplyDeleteEzenwanyi is a pernicious guttersnipe!! I shudder to see so much filth and wickedness emanating from a (supposed) human being. Please, how is 'it' better than Boko Haram or any of the worst criminals and deviants out there? It is the same callousness, malice and absence of empathy that enables them do (and say) the kind of things they do to fellow human beings. Thankfully, God's laws are constant. Surely, Ezenwanyi and every other channel of wickedness used by the devil to inflict pain and suffering on humanity will receive judgement and speedily in Jesus Name! May God continue to shield us from evil people.
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