Single At Home,Married In School...Part 2

Are you Single at home but Married in School?

If Yes,this post is talking to you and i ask you to step forward and read part two of what you read HERE Yesterday.

Anytime you see this couch,its time for serious talk.Its my own version of
that Wendy William couch...

Good day Madam Stella, so i came back home yesterday after a very fruitful day in church and office to open my laptop and see my post 'married in school, single at home' on your blog..thank you very much for posting at last.this could be a follow up post if you like or for your eyes only..*smiles.

     So, the first thing i did was to read the comments, and as expected i didn't expect every one to see the topic from my lens ; in as much as some commenters missed the main point, let me state clearly i have no business or best put problem with having a school boyfriend, it is clearly 'your matter' as my friend Obi would say, but think am na, cohabiting with a guy wen no pay your bride price??,giving him everything free of charge including the right to abuse you and tomorrow you say all men are the same, i would have loved to respond to every comment one by one but then most of the clueless comments was made by 'anonymous' so i would just ignore and encourage you to encourage your children to go same foot part eh, obviously they would have invented more award and trophy in their time.

    Of course i wont end this post without addressing the commenters in three groups;

1. Those that saw the message in the post thank you, especially for being out spoken and honest about personal experiences, trust me someone somewhere read your comment and is about doing the right thing.

2. Those that felt i was telling their life story and started acting all defensive, you should take a chill pill, for real who your fornicating and abortion ridden life/ lifestyle help??. Stop hiding behind a pain/ regret and being all defensive, you truly need help. Jesus kind of help.

3. To those dating 8 year older men, clap for your self, you try..but let me ask, how many home you broke in the process?? and if you think your home would be a happy one??, by the way i heard karma has started collecting home address o, so get ready to start sending in chronicles when she comes knocking with that trophy of 8year older men dater you won for your self. 

  for oga abi madam anonymous that saw my post on lailasblog, thank you for introducing me to another cool blog eh, but SDK blog don win my heart since 1900... for real stella i don't think you should reply some kind comments  especially clueless anonymous, if they had a clue they would have had a name attached to their blogID,

  To my own special friend Doris and to others wondering why i made the first  post; its true i left the university some 5years ago but going back to Awka last December for business, I stopped by to see my cousins who are currently schooling there, I realized that things has not changed at all and it brought back memories of Ifeoma, a girl who was victim of this incident, she attend Grundtvig international school oba, courtesy of her uncle cos she was orphaned but lost all privileges to go back home after she her second abortion went wrong and her family got involved. 

for me it was more than seeing just a beautiful, smart and intelligent girl flush her future down the toilet in the name of love and 'school husband'. enough said i choose to rest my hands for now.

By Chukwuemerie Emmanuel Okoye{concerned citizen}.