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PLEASE NOTE THAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ IN PART, AN EXCLUSIVE REPORT ABOUT THE JIBIKE/ABIKE SAGA AS WAS REVEALED BY AN INSIDER TO SDK BLOG' LONDON TATAFO!
Yes, Tatafo is finally bringing you the REAL DEAL about the latest roforofo fight in London. There's no need for any long intro because it's gone viral, but better late than never. And also, Tatafo will clarify some major aspects of the story that was misconstrued by many bloggers who reported the story based on merely listening to the audio.
Most of you have listened to the audio, but for the sake of those who haven't heard it, or who do not speak or understand yoruba like Stella, here's the full gist.
It was an epic show of shame between two friends. In fact, there's a part 1-8 audio recording on YouTube.
Tatafo was able to dig deep into what transpired between these two friends.
Abike is the lady who's voice we heard over the viral audio. As she took to social media with grave allegations against her erstwhile BFF Jibike.
You be the judge after reading this report, whether Abike did the right thing or not.
Although, only one of these two friends participated in the show of shame, while the other friend named jibike, that was accused of infidelity, maintained a deafening silence all through the controversy. It was indeed a dirty expose by Abike, but so many people lashed back at her for revealing her friend's topmost secret online.
**Be advised that this is a lengthy read**
The full story..
Abike the aggrieved friend starts the audio recording by introducing herself to listeners. She claimed that she has been friends with Jibike (whom she exposed) since their childhood days in Nigeria before they moved to the UK. However, she explained that she fell out with her friend since 2014 because her friend jibike said some nasty things about her to friends, and also to her husband who lives in Nigeria.
Jibike continued her narrative by giving an insight into her friend's fake life style, how she talks a lot, gossips about her to other friends, her vindictive ways, and how she sleeps around. She even accused her of being a petty thief etc.
But the highlight of the audio was when she accused her childhood friend jibike, of shamelessly giving another man's child to her hubby who's known as Mr Olayinka Olaribigbe. This lady claimed that she was so disgusted by her friend's sexual shenanigans that she advised her against it but she wouldn't listen. Not until the issue of the controversial baby that broke the camel's back made news.
**Let's take a break from Abike's audio narrative for a minute... here's what an insider who's a friend of both Abike and Jibike revealed to Tatafo exclusively**
According to this friend, The story goes that Jibike's husband who's name was published as Olaribigbe, married Jibike from Nigeria and brought her to the U.K. According to the insider, Olaribigbe, before marrying Jibike, has 3 kids of his own who all live with their mother somewhere outside London. We were told that he abandoned those kids and their mother. So he brought in Jibike who was unable to have any kids for him initially.
It was also said that this man didn't hide from Jibike, the fact that he had a medical condition that would hinder him from having anymore kids. She was aware of his condition which he was treating, but she chose to marry him all the same.
All of a sudden Jibike became pregnant and had a baby... her husband had a big party in London to welcome their new child. Trouble started when the baby turned 4months. This is where Abike, Jibike's friend who released the audio, came into the picture.
*The story between Abike and Jibike**
The insider revealed that one day, Jibike called her friend Abike to reveal that the baby whom they all welcomed in an elaborate way didn't belong to her husband. She revealed to Abike that s certain Mr Ola was the real father of her child, and that he also lived in London. Out of shock, Abike asked her friend why she got entangled in such a paternity mess. But it was later revealed that the only reason that Jibike was now confiding in Abike her best friend, was because she was receiving a threat message from the wife of the man whom she codedly had the baby for, Mr Ola.
Mr Ola's wife had stumbled on Jibike's intimate pictures with her husband, as well as pictures of her when she was pregnant for her husband. So the lady got in contact with Jibike, and she threatened to expose her to the world. So out of distress and fear of the unknown, this prompted Jibike to confide in Abike, asking for a way out so that she'd not be disgraced.
Abike then advised her friend that the best way to overcome a threat that serious, was for her to quickly go and open up to her husband on the paternity of their 4month old baby. As well as plead for his forgiveness ahead of time, so that if Mr Ola's wife made true her threat, Jibike would have a soft landing with her husband. It was gathered that Jibike took to Abike's friendly advice, so she finally told her husband that he wasn't the real father of their baby. Jibike also assured her husband that NO ONE other than the two of them and God knew of this secret. So in view of this, her husband forgave her and they continued to live happily. But unknown to him, it wasn't a secret... because his wife had told a few other friends apart from Abike her best friend.
**Now this is where the twist to the story starts **
After Jibike cleared the air with her husband, she became more relaxed and continued living her life not minding what Mr Ola's wife was up to. So one day, Abike went to Jibike's house and she heard her on the phone speaking with a man. At the end of the conversation she realised that her friend Jibike was on the phone to the real father of her baby, and she was very actually inviting Mr Ola her baby daddy, to enter into her matrimonial home after her husband had gone out. This shocked Abike who was there listening, and she told her friend that she would not sit there and allow Jibike invite her baby daddy into her matrimonial home. That, what if her husband came back home unexpectedly and found the man there, that the husband would think that she was aiding her friend to be promiscuous.
So Abike did not allow Mr Ola to enter into her friend's home, Jibike had to go outside to attend to her baby daddy. This didn't go down well with Jibike who felt that Abike was being holier than thou, and this was when the bitterness and resentment started between the duo.
Before their relationship became permanently severed, one day yet again, Jibike confided in Abike that she wanted to run away with the baby from her matrimonial home. ABIKE was alarmed and she vehemently kicked against this suggestion by Jibike. Saying that it would bring shame and dishonour to her poor husband who had been nothing but good to her, even after learning that the baby wasn't his. And not after the elaborate baby party they had in London. Plus Abike was worried that should Jibike runaway with the baby to another man's house, everyone would think that she supported such a despicable behaviour.
Abike's refusal to aid her friend finally made Jibike to stop confiding in her. Then the animosity started in full force.
Soon after, Jibike started to look for ways to recover her secrets from Abike because she no longer felt safe with her. She adopted a lot of means to achieve this, she even suggested to Abike one day, that she may have to carry out a DNA test to ascertain who her real baby daddy was. That after all, she could be wrong that it was Mr Ola's baby.
**Hmmmmm see format**
Abike saw the deceitful plot by her friend to manipulate things to reverse the facts about the baby's paternity. She noticed that her friend suddenly became excessively paranoid. But she let her be and distanced herself from Jibike. Then one day, Jibike finally called Abike to say that she had done a DNA test, that alas, the baby was now her husband'.
The insider friend revealed further how after this, Jibike stopped at nothing to destroy her best friend Abike, because by now she assumed that she had succeeded in confusing her with the DNA result. All because Abike kicked against her continuous love affair with the father of her baby whilst she was still married to Mr Olaribigbe. They even revealed that she had many other men that she was sleeping with in London. So hers was not a case of just wanting a baby...but that she enjoyed the company of other men other than her husband.
**Now let's go back to Abike's audio**
Abike claimed that she later realised that her friend Jibike also revealed this top secret to a few other friends, meaning that the revelation that she had a baby outside her marriage was no longer exclusive to her alone. And these other friends had been matting out a plan on how to disgrace Jibike after she stepped on their toes.
So what caused the roforofo fight????
Abike said that her reason for choosing to disgrace her friend in the viral audio was because her friend Jibike and her husband Mr Olaribigbe wanted to ruin her home. Abike claimed that jibike lied to her hubby about her being sexually promiscuous in London because her hubby lives in Nigeria. That it was Jibike that encouraged her to have a baby outside her marriage. Abike said jibike's hubby on hearing this, made a call to her own hubby (Abike's) and accused her of being a bad influence to his wife. Not only that, they said that Mr Olaribigbe took to his Facebook page to insult and embarrass Abike.. calling her all sorts of unprintable names.
As was expected, this infuriated Abike.. and this was why she took to the public domain to clarify herself from the slanderous and treacherous accusations put against her by the Olaribigbes.
So in a bid to exonerate herself fully, Abike decided she'd let the world into their intimate secrets that prove she's not the promiscuous wife, but rather, her friend Jibike is. And to further prove her point she decided to reveal in the audio that the only child her friend has for her hubby isn't his child, but that of her boy friend Mr Ola who also lives in London.
Further more, another reason Abike released the audio was when she discovered Jibike's vindictiveness towards had been taken to a higher level.. she discovered that Jibike called the home office to ask that Abike be deported back to Nigeria because she was an illegal immigrant. Abike on hearing this was very pained by the level of animousity shown by her friend.
But the crux of the matter was when Abike inundated the public that her friend's husband Mr Olaribigbe knew that the child didn't belong to him, but that he decided to forgive his wife for reasons best known to him.
Abike also claimed that she was never in support of her friend cheating on her husband. And that she stood by her through her trying moments when other friends dealt with her for being a busy body... but that Jibike would later betray her trust and that was what birthed the dirty expose.
** The Public's reaction to this Saga**
Tatafo noticed the unparalleled support Jibike garnered after her friend Abike exposed her. Even as she never responded to Abike, a lot of people condemned Abike for releasing the audios without knowing what truly transpired between the duo. Many thought that she went too far and shouldn't have disgraced her friend in such manner. As it was said that she should have considered the child in question, as well as the feelings of Jibike's husband.
To top it up, there was a grave misconception about another inaudible audio tape that was circulated and was believed to have been released by Abike's Mom cursing everyone out. Tatafo can reliably confirm to you that THE AUDIO TAPE WAS NOT THAT OF ABIKE'S MOTHER , but rather it was one of her supporters. Tatafo gathered that Abike lost her mother years ago and that person is definitely not her mother or relative.
**Tatafo's overview of this roforofo fight**
Obviously the public reacted to what they heard on the surface. Not many understood what really transpired between these erstwhile friends and what precipitated Abike's outburst. But a closer look at the situation from the insider's story as was revealed to Tatafo, it would seem as if Jibike wanted to eat her cake and have it. She had the opportunity to quietly leave her sick husband to marry the man who impregnated her, as it was gathered that the man was ready to marry her. That he even gave her £3,000 to go get an apartment and move in, but she kept collecting his money whilst she also enjoyed in her real husband's home. Jibike played both men, hence the disgrace.
Then it also appeared as if Jibike used and dumped her friend Abike, as she used her to fight her other friends and later turned against her. Hence, Abike resorted to clearing the air. Although, Abike seems like she's the bad friend now for revealing certain things in public, but it is pertinent to note that all the 'considered secrets' were already known to all parties involved. So really, Abike's audio did little or nothing to them. Except of course, you and I now know their dirty secrets.
How una take see this matter? Was there really a betrayal here? Who was betrayed? Who was the victim? Who was the user or the used??
Shouldn't Abike have come out to clear the misconception that Jibike spread about her? For example, Abike was at a time accused of saying that one of their friend's was HIV positive, and so many other cringy accusations that she was accused of. Should she have been quiet?
After the roforofo, Tatafo gathered that Jibike's husband was so embarrassed that he became suicidal. It was said that he had to delete all his social media handles because of the monumental disgrace.
How true is this?
See how London so called big babes dey take finish themselves for here?
Another similar story is brewing and is being whispered into Tatafo's ears. In fact this story is as HOT as Jibike and Abike's story. Only this one is a bit outside of London Tatafo's jurisdiction of amebo antenna. It happened between two erstwhile friends in Manchester and it is also as dirty.
Una don hear their tory too? Make Tatafo spill?
Tatafo will be back
*Na wah.....All this BFF ISH!...If you dont know who to talk to,please talk to God,he will never disgrace you or let you down.I have plenty close friends but i only tell what i dont mind being retold oh..hmmmmmmmmm.