Every story has a meeting point....
Good day stella luv. here is how I met my boo.
I got a Facebook friend request Nov 2012,I checked out the dudes profile and found out I had a mutual friend with him which happen to be my male cousin in England. So I accepted the request, started getting inbox messages from this same dude which I practically ignored because I had a snooping and dominating ex,whom I was dating back then.
So fast forward to the 2013 while we were on easter break,I got a call from a number which seemed strange but cos I wasn't with my ex,I had to answer it and give the caller a listening ear as every single lady should.
Dude told me he just got back from England where he went to bag his Msc and that he got my number from my cousin(God bless him nyafunyafu ). We spoke at length and I liked his kinda person. So we kept in touch and I used him as my option B incase my ex messed up ( the best decision ever).
Later that year he invited me to his house,which I declined but rather invited him to my gf's brothers house since her brother wasn't around ,we used his house to host him. we clubbed,partied and the next morning he went back to his house after complaining i'm boring because I ddn't drink nor loosen up . I went back to my house then travelled back to school.
After few months he sent me money for my air ticket to visit him. As a sharp girl that I am,I used the money for something else (maga don pay ),deleted him from all social media and stopped taking his calls.Dude was pissed and started reporting me to my cousin and gf.
By 2014 I had broken up with my ex,so I had to start taking his calls,unblocked him.
I visited him after much persuasion but I took care of the transport fare(he ddnt want to fall mugu again lol).
On the 3rd day he begged me to wash his briefs but I told him point blank that I ddnt come to do maid or wife work(cook and washcloth)but we gbenshed shaa as I am team test drive to avoid "gbatagbata" story...
He got angry and left for work little did I know his reason for wanting me to wash his briefs was to fall into a trap to ascertain my temper and anger management...
As i went to air my jean which I wore the previous night,I saw a female pant and bra. I jejely took it in and kept it in his wardrobe waiting for him to come back but luckily for me (because he said that was my highest score/point)I forgot about it, until after 1month of my 4days visit to him ,while we were chatting, i told him that if he was looking for any of his girlfriend's pant ,that i kept it in soso and so place. Lol but on a normal day I would have been moody for seeing pant and bra in my supposed boyfriend's house .
We are married traditionally,legally, spiritually and blessed with a child.
*Your story cracked me up,you can gist shaaaaa!
Congrats
ReplyDeleteNice story
DeleteNice..... E no dey hard una to gbench skin to skin
DeleteYou collected his money and deleted him from all social handle. Girls like you make some men not assist other girls. Why can't you just tell him you used the money for something important...
DeleteWhat's with all the tests na? Na wa o. Congrats
DeleteYes I did and m proud of it.
DeleteSo he was grading you to see if he would date you, even after you had loosely and cheaply sold yourself to him.
ReplyDeleteWell done.
Hmmmm judgina at least she's married to the dude. Where are you now. Mtcheewwww
DeleteNo she happily gave herself to him and they both enjoyed it and now they are happily married with a child. If God can look beyond the gbenshing side and still bless them, oga/madam who are u to judge?
DeleteDon't be too uptight Darling, it's their own story. You can't enter someone else's story and want to earn it.
DeleteEdit urs and play the script
You didn't have to be so harsh. Dy are married are you?
DeleteReceive small sense, anonymous. If the sense clicked, scroll up and reread the story
DeleteThey are married na. Why the anger?
DeleteIdiat! Hubby worships me and that's all that mataz.
DeleteE reach ask.
DeleteGood sex between two consenting adults shud cos no regrets
Poster lick honey, u don't ve to come back to do this, u get issues oohh, all these troublesome women,I wonder what u do when oga provoke u.
DeleteCongrats.
ReplyDeleteWhat type of trap is that one..
ReplyDeleteNobody should try that with me coz Aswear I'll fall hands down😆😆😆
Congrats
DeleteWho's he to even test me on that stupid thing? Moreover, can't find pant and bra inside my bf's house and forget it, NEVER, not me, that's where my mind will be until we iron things out
Delete*Larry was here*
Trap ko trap ni. So poster you believe that? Your man was able to give you a good explanation shows he is smart and can think on his feet. Anyhoo not to burst your bubble, happy married life.
DeleteWel twas a test cos he planned it out with his brother.
DeleteStoppet already poster, let pple air their opinnion, they don't owe u shit, they can decied to believe u or other wise,n na my bro he for plan am with? Drink honey and coconut oil haaaAa
DeleteI don't like all these test.... But all the same HML
ReplyDeleteTalk of choping tp fare, I can totally relate
ReplyDeleteYour head dey there aswear down! 😂😂😂
DeleteUr level of razz-ness is out of space, infact out of pluto, u just too razz poster....... Honey pls
DeleteHahaha Nice one, i enjoyed this story.
ReplyDeleteTnx jaree.
DeleteU don see person foolish reach u...... Ode poster
DeleteHa i would have fallen for the trap. Pant and bra how na? It was meant to be sha thats why yours happened that way.
ReplyDeleteSincerely the real me would have brought down heaven ,but God shaa made me forget.
DeleteJobless small girl wey maarry, no get job, just trolling here, I swear u ve wahala, he full ur body
DeleteI started laughing even before I got to Stella's red pen. Some guys and testing sha
ReplyDeleteYesoooo.Tnx God I passed.
DeleteEnter your comment...lols
ReplyDeleteLovely story, You're a sharp girl sha!
ReplyDeleteVery sharp jaree.
DeleteTest me & lose me! Anyways, happy married life dear.
ReplyDelete... Jesus is my worth!
Dude played a fast one and termed it 'testing'. Is that one testing?
ReplyDeleteAs in you saw another girl's pant and bra in his house and you forgot to to ask him about it? Your own better
O blimey! Somebody with sense, I thought I was the only one to notice.
DeleteCos he mistakenly forgot to dusvaed the pant and bra label.And the woman they bought it for confirmed the story after we got married.
DeleteAll this secondary school attitude of testing someone. Did he plant a lady's bra and pant to test you or did a lady actually forget her pant and bra at his place and he quickly turned it to a test?
ReplyDeleteSo if you got pissed off about it, it would have meant that you weren't wife material abi? Funny story.
Help me ask o
DeleteExactly!
DeleteO blimey! Another one with sense!
DeleteI would have over reacted or maybe never have bought his answer.
DeleteI remember reading he wanted to test her anger , meaning he purposely annoyed her and wanted to see her reaction. Some people even when their anger is justified can over react but not reacting at all????
DeleteSweet story
ReplyDeleteOMG SPEAKING OF EATING T.P WELL THATS A NORMAL BUT THE WHOLE TEST THING I WOULD HAVE FAILED WOEFULLY BECAUSE AM AN ASAP MUTE MACHINE I WONT SAY A WORD FOR THOSE 4 DAYS OO TILL I LEAVE SEF OMG JEHOVAH DONT MAKE MY FUTURE HUBBY TEST ME SO MUCH I WOULD GET DISQUALIFIED OO I CANNT SHOUT. ME AM STILL REMINISCING THE UNICEF WOMANS STORY. ""THINKING OUT LOUD HOW WILL MY OWN MEETING POINT BE EH? STELLZ NWANYIOMA THATS A RHETORICAL QUESTION M SURE .
ReplyDeleteJust be you,God will make a everything perfect.
DeleteStill team UNICEF
ReplyDeleteLoool
DeleteYour story take style sweet small
ReplyDeleteTnx.
DeleteNice one.... Test drive kwa
ReplyDeleteYesoo to avoid story jaree.
DeleteNice one, congratulations
ReplyDeleteHe probably kept the panties in his shorts so u cud see them, perhaps he wanted to know your reaction. Good u ended up together anyways
ReplyDeleteNope he spread it on the line.were i went to air my jeans which I would have seen if I have washed his briefs.
DeleteHaba poster why dd u end ur story abruptly like dat? Lovely narration though, God bless ur home.
ReplyDeleteVery abrupt. Another person with sense.
DeleteTrying not yarn epistle.
DeleteYou saw another woman's undies in your man's house and forgot to talk about it???Really??Guess u were not that into him then.You just wanted to chop and go right?
ReplyDeleteMy sister,he wasn't testing you.He just pulled a fast one on you.
Anyway,Happy married life.
I know that the guy is still cheating on her. Where did he get the bra from? No be person forget am? Rubbish. I am very sure you have ALREADY SENT OR WILL SOON SEND CHRONICLE. He dey find woman wey he go dey cheat on steadily. Score point ko. MTCHEWW
ReplyDeleteSorry he has never and will never cheat on me, as for the pant and bra he bought it from a woman who congratulated me for passing the test after our engagement.
DeleteOdiegwu, poster yawereh pass malu they reply everybody, n only stella go know ur I'd, stop feeling we live with u, is this inferior complex or just normal pepper body, I no just understnd
DeleteI NEVER SEE MUMU WIFE LIKE THIS. TEST MY ASS! HIGHEST SCORE POINT MY ANUS!!
ReplyDeleteSweetheart yiut nit smarter than i am.but certain things happen once it's been ordained by God.
DeleteWhat kind of test is that, so a man went to a shop and brought bra and pant to test you.
ReplyDeleteWhich man has that time tell me. Some men that its even dere wives that buy dere boxers for them.
I cant stand all dese testing thing, if u wanna wife a woman, just wife her.
Lmao! Fraudster wife and cheating husband. What a combo???!!! That the man married you after you defrauded him even when he knows your cousin shows he too is not pure. This is not inspiring abeg. What a couple
ReplyDeleteLol....
ReplyDeleteThis testing of a thing irritates the shit out of me. So was he expecting you to.see another woman's undies and not react or what? If it really was a test and not him cheating then it was a very senseless test. The normal reaction of every woman would be to demand answers. You forgetting means you were not really serious about the relationship trust me.
ReplyDeleteWhy is it so hard to believe poster forgot. Not every woman has the agbero spirit of tearing the man to pieces when she suspects him. Poster only thing i didnt appreciate was you eating the tfare. Never the less i am glad it worked out for you. Pls stop replying those people
ReplyDeleteContinue replying, very sure u r not new here, honnnnneeeeey for poster ooh, I know u will b back to troll, I carry yansh give u.
DeleteMaybe they're Muslims where ur supposed to keep quiet about ur husband's affairs with other women cos she might be the next wife. The test sha be as e get
ReplyDeleteSuch a stupid test . Probably testing how you would react when he cheats in marriage . Why didn't you test him with boxers ..Mchew . And you poster so proud to have passed a test. I'm married with a child and my husband didn't put me through any test , or at least he wasn't stupid enough to inform me . He married me Bc he loved me . Silly dumb couple .
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