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Friday, February 03, 2017

My Divorce Story -7

WHAT!!!!....Jesus Christ come down already!




Good Day Stella and Thank you for this platform. Here is my Divorce Story .


I was 18 years old when i got married to my first Ex husband. i got married because i felt that was the next thing on my Big-to-do-list. I was in my 3rd year in the university

 (i skipped two classes in elementary school because i was a prodigy)


Back to my story, i was a weird little and adventurous girl who was interested in living out all her adult life before 20.I met my first ex husband who was 24 years older than me in a public place ( he looked rich and smelled of nice perfume) which was a requirement for me THEN. Few months later, we got married and then reality set in.


 I realised he was very poor and never wipes his arse after pooping.It was so disgusting and whenever i complained , he will become violent and hit me at slightest provocation. The sham marriage produced a daughter . 


My ex refused to get a job to support the family, so he turned me to an ashawo. His friends will pay him to gangbang me and humiliate me. If i ever complained , he will turn violent and ask me what use my beauty is.

God being faithful , i met a man 2 years later, who sent me to a therapist, arrested him and helped me regain my sanity. We got divorced and i have primary custody of my daughter . 

3 years ago, i met an Oyibo man in PH( he was an Expat), things kicked off quickly because he was mentally stimulating and nice ( or so i thought ). We got engaged and i saw his true colour. He was a chronic cheat and even infected me with STD.

i broke loose again but with a stigma. At 25, i am a single mom to 2 kids from 2 different fathers. God in His Mercy is turning my life around and i know He will perfect His good works in due time. Amen


Lessons Learnt

1) Don't ever settle down with anyone because you think they are rich. i was a gold digger but i entered one chance.

2) Don't be in a hurry to your forever.

3) If you see yourself exhibiting some funny characters , please go for deliverance .


*OMG thank you for being so honest in this.I hope other gold diggers will learn from this cos gold digging seems to be in Vogue.May God heal you!
Tight hug from me!


127 comments:

  1. Hmmmm.....it is well with you. I judge you not

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    1. The most honest story I ever read on this blog.

      God's grace poster

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    2. Dear poster, the no of times you fall doesn't count but the lessons you have learnt from each fall. It is never to late to start again and be financially stable... I pray that God gives you the grace and strength to bring up your kids in accordance to His teachings. It is well.
      Some men are pigs sha. Tueh!

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    3. Jesus is Lord, but your honesty is humbling. I can't imagine being in marriage with such an evil man as your first ex.
      using the toilet without cleaning up, very disgusting.

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    4. Wait...a grown man won't wipe after going or tamba? Jesus come quickly!

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    5. Hmm.... May God perfect your healing. Your miracle is on its way

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    6. Geez Disgusting animal who does that ... Thank God you've realized your mistakes. Just don't look back. Continue pressing on, one step in front of the other no looking back

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  2. Jesus,what did I just read?just learnt a very big lesson, God Tank u for this, what an eye opener. Dammmm

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    1. I just think this is funny because when women leave abusive relationships we congratulate them. But when they send in chronicles on what to do in an abusive relationship we encourage and even insult them that they must stay in that abusive relationship. If it was the first husband they would have told her to pray for her husband and clean his bum bum. The white man they would have told her to endure that all men do it

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    2. God pls protect my marriage. Its at d verge of breaking. A strange woman has charmed DH. Older than him, he doesn't come home anymore, Beats me cos my sight irritates him and presently building a house for her. To think that we both suffered together to make this money has left a lot of people talking. I know God is watching and he will act in d right time.

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    3. Anon 16.41, nobody charmed ur husband. Somehow, that woman figured out exactly what ur husband wants and is giving it to him. Women need to work on finding their man's button cos if another woman finds it, it looks like jazz

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    4. Anon16.41,i have been there, but God saw me through, keep holding to God. Also don't forget yourself in the process, get a job, do business, lose some weight, be focused on your development while waiting.

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    5. Anon 16.41, you better go get your charm and fight back
      Anon 6.42 you must have serious self esteem issues to remain in such a filthy situation

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    1. I feel for you, but hey we all have sinned. Take care of yourself and the kids.

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    2. Hei poster receive E hugs, it is well with your soul.

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  4. Oh no honey!
    Wow!
    You were shallow with your requirements.
    You weren't looking properly, you just kept leaping. Why?

    there are certain things to watch out for before plunging into marriage, sadly you overlooked so many.

    Thank God you finally understood that.
    You still have a chance of being with a good man.
    the third may be the winning number. Just ensure to look, be sure before you leap.
    All the best.
    And hey! Try to give your kids the very best.

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    1. Good thing you were honest on your post dear poster. The not wiping his arse after pooping thing goodness me! Disgusting. Why?! You're just 25.take care of the kids and don't rush into any other relationship.take your time to love yourself and meet someone who would love both kids like his own. We should be friends sef . I like you :-)

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    2. Poster,I guess u are an orphan....cos u didn't mention family....family has a way of putting us in check....

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  5. Ah. The peace of the Lord will be with you and the Holy spirit will lead you in all you do

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  6. It is well with you. Just relax first and dont think of falling in love yet, God will definitely have something going for you.

    Chai no dey clean ynash after shitting and second one give you STD. Chai

    Ifeneme nu wa ooo.

    Thank you for telling all those palm wine tappers because they can tap anything without knowing what people go through to get what they want.

    Awon tappers, abeg come and tap this Amen

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    1. Hahahahahahhahahahahahaha yori love exactly awon tappers,kai sdk bves can tap for africa

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  7. I've not finished reading, I read the gangbang and my head and eyes turned 360 degree, I'm coming back, let me go and finish reading.

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  8. Explain point number 2 to me pls

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    1. Meaning, don't be in a hurry to marry, be in love, have children, drive big car, etc. Let God dictate the process of your life for you, it's not all that glitters the is gold.

      Poster, raise those children right. much love to you. I just said a word of prayer for you and I will pray for you again tonight.😍

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  9. 18 and in third year in university. 25years and married twice... girl you are too fast for my liking

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    1. This type of single mom can't date a single guy, she's probably into married men seeing she has no job, she's still runsing for a living.

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    2. Too fast for who? You? You sound jealous. May things not be too slow in your own life. Maybe by thirty she'll be a rich entrepreneur, after all things are fast

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    3. Jesss! What did i just read?
      Babe, just love yourself and love your kids the more, see your kids as your everything and get yourself busy. You 've learnt your lesson in a very hard way. You will be fine soon.

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  10. Lukin reesh an gud pairfium, *hian!!!!*

    Oh!!! God epp yuo.

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  11. Jisos!!!*mouth wide open @your ist ex* goodness God! Pele o! Lessons learnt long time..

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  12. Choi Choi Choi!!!!
    It's well with you

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  13. Dis is so thrutful and straigth to d point, but all d while where are your parents?

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  14. Abeg abeg Jesus shool north cum dan yet.

    Pliz stopiiiit. Beta beta foolstop. Coma,

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  15. Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars3 February 2017 at 13:45

    Dear poster, this is what Job 22: 30/says " He will deliver one who is not innocent: Yes he will be delivered by the purity of your hands.

    Isa. 61:3 To console those who mourn in Zion to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness.
    This the Lord will do for you, because of your openness. You didn't cover anything. You said it the way it is. God bless you.

    One more scripture Job 14: 7,9 "For there is hope for a tree. If it is cut down, that it will sprout again, and that it's tender shoots will not cease...Yet at the scent of water it will bud and bring forth branches like a plant.

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    1. These bible scriptures just gave me life! That's why I read comments on this blog. You never know which comment that will open your eyes to the word of God. Blessings to you, Lady T...
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  16. shocker..... what did i just read?

    the lord will heal you completely who am i to judge you,cos i can only learn from your tale its well with you my dearest

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  17. Where was your family in all this madam? Turned you into a prostitute??? Chills geez

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  18. Oh wow @ ur 1st husband.
    Na wa ooo u don see smth for this life

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  19. "I realised he was very poor and never wipes his arse after pooping." *pours lunch in the bin*. Wow!! .please keep off men for now and try to develop your career and self esteem.

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  20. the lord will heal you completely,glad you could highlight your short comings yourself meaning you have learnt rightly.

    all that glitter they say is never gold some na padan

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  21. shocker..... what did i just read?

    the lord will heal you completely who am i to judge you,cos i can only learn from your tale its well with you my dearest

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  22. Got divorced few years ago. I was in a relationship with this nice dude before I met my ex husband. I left my initial relationship because my parents hated my ex boyfriend for no reason. May be because they saw him as an opportunist and a broke ass. They thought he was with me because of their money. I keep asking myself why wealthy parents don't allow their children to marry outside the 'rich chain'. To cut the long story short, we later broke up. Dude got tired and said he wouldn't want to come between me and my parents. So, my ex husband came into the picture. He was a good man that I didn't believe my eyes when he started misbehaving. He'd cheat, bring gals into our home, he stopped providing for me. Thank God I had no kids then. I loved kids, and I wanted to have mine. But when he changed, I changed my plan. I started taking drugs after sex So I don't get pregnant. And I succeeded. Then, the big blow. He lost his job and became aggressive. He would slap me at any provocation, calling me all sort of names, accusing me of witchcraft and all that. I couldn't take it anymore, so I left. Ur even threatened to bathe me with acid. That he will disfigure me so that no man would want to marry me. I didn't take his threat lightly o. I just opened up to my parents and told them everything. My dad was pissed. We later calmed the situation. And I filed for divorce. We got separated and I moved on with my life. Guess what????? I married my ex boyfriend.. Dude literally waited for my marriage to crash. LMAO 😂😂😂😂. My dad never objected to our union again. We are married now with 2kids.

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    1. Happy for you. True Love never fails

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    2. Aww,true love never dies.Thank God for your life

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    3. Wow. Can this be in naija mbok?. Wawuu

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    4. I love happy endings!
      Thank God for your life.

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    5. Hahahahaha, I like ur husband abeg, u don't fight for what is yours, it comes naturally ( dey deceive yourself becky, don't fight indeed, LMAO).

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    6. Wow, thank God 4 your happy ending.

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    7. The end part sounds so sweet. Ex boyfriend had strong conviction you are his and waited.... Congrats to you. Enjoy your real love.

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    8. Congrats girl. You and your hubby were destined for each other.

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    9. Wow!
      Most times your instinct is never wrong.

      You married your ex husband to please your parents even when your instinct told you he wasn't best for you.

      You allowed the lovebird to fly but he flew around waiting...for you.

      I am so happy @ the end of it all
      Congrats!

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    10. Beautiful.
      Be happy always.
      You deserve it.

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    11. Awwwww...sweet story!!

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    12. Congratulations girl. I am so happy for you.

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    13. Lucky you dear!
      Am so happy for you!
      True love conquers

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    14. What a tale! Well, all's well that ends well.

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    15. Happy for u. Reading ur story made me think of my situation. I left my hardworking, nice ex for my current husband and now the marriage has been nothing but miserable. I regret that move today but I have taken it as a lesson learnt and I'm already considering leaving this toxic marriage that has been full of physical and mental abuse

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  23. Na really once chance o you enter. I wonder why women in Nigeria always feel that their destiny is tied to a man helping them. These days women are doing things themselves o... Thank you poster for this. We are women we can do anything we set our minds to and we really do not need to open our legs to do or get it. Some naija chicks like to dey feel among, them wan carry the best bags, the best hair, all the most idiotic and useless feeling of self worth. Why in heavens name is a 20 year old even thinking of a committed relationship talkless of marriage.... in Saying that, I got married young too, divorced young too. We need to get to know and love ourselves first before we attach ourselves to a man....Our destinies are not tied to anyman empowering us... This our mentality of wanting to be Mrs Somebody, we need to change it... you don't have to feel among....Try and attain heights for yourselves, love yourself before you can love anyone else... my own two cents. Me I too love myself.... i dey jump and waka pass, nobody love me pass me o...Dats the first step.

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    1. God bless for this comment, a beg can I be ur friend.

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    2. Well I guess poster didn't want to wait to be called an Aunty Gwegs. Same as most ladies who rush into marriage. And that's the sad truth. Another truth is when you don't know what you want in life, people, situations and circumstances will throw everything at you and will keep taking it. Take your stand early in life. Decide on the kind of woman you want to be and keep going for it. As you go for it, you will love yourself and you will not want to associate with anyone who can't love you as much as you love you. And you will also find the right man because he will be on that path.

      The world has changed people!! Men used to be more genuine than they currently are. Even women too!! Our parents married at 20-25. Because that was where the world was at the time. Today you NEED to be extra careful when picking a life partner because there are lots of factors to consider. And prayerful too! Of course many still marry younger and get it right but that's not the 'standard'. There is NO standard with these things.

      But will they hear? Just wait.... a few more days and another 22 year old will be crying about being unmarried or another silly boyfriend in the chronicle section even after reading these stories 😊 Pikin wey no wan hear word no go hear....

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    3. Stella Abeg post my comment. Chikito for this comment, I love u. No homo. Best comment so far.

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    4. Thank you. Started dating my ex in 200l and he asked me to marry him when I was in 300l. I refuse. He has insecurity problem so I knew it was not because he wanted to settle down.

      I just told him my parents wanted me to graduate first.

      Relationship didn't work out and I don't regret being single.

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    5. Love u loads for sharing your wisdom. All roads lead back to Christ. Until we know Christ loves us we can't give what we haven't got and we attract what we got.
      Love ur honesty and advice. Hugs hugs

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  24. funny characters like? poster only God will help you o. you too young for this kind of chronicles. your first husband is very wicked.

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  25. Awwwwww..Such a young lady. I feel you my dear. Thanks for the advice. E- Hugs from me.

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  26. Lmao@the 3rd point.
    Please marriage is not for, train ur kids n enjoy life.

    You entered into marriage for the wrong reasons.
    The oyibo no even help ur ministry.


    Hope u have gone for deliverance?

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  27. Thank God you know you need deliverance. Ogbanje spirit is disturbing you poster. Contact bv Loveme jjeje or queen and boss for their pastor's no.

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  28. Gold digger girls ngwanu!
    Hope the "Chief" Gold digger; queer and danfo onechance bus will learn.
    "Marry him if he is rich".

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  29. I've finished reading.

    You gave your pearls to swine, it's a good thing you've learnt your lesson. Take care of your kids.

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  30. Just remembered Majid's advice this morning.

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  31. Poster e-hugs to u, thankGod u have learnt ur lesson. God will give u ur own personal husband, it is well wit u.

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  32. Stella I kept scrolling to find something that was worth being hysterical about. You ehn...lol.

    To the story, I am also as vain as they come..

    He must be tall.

    Must have clean nails.

    Must speak fluent french and English.

    Must be dark-skinned and handsome.

    AGAIN,MUST BE TALL.

    Perhaps, I should tone it down and start looking out for character.

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    1. I have someone on my case who fits this profile perfectly. With family money join. Yet I avoid the guy like plague. I can smell 5000 yards of non-husband material on him. And I wish his future wife the best. So better look for character. There are enough tall guys to to ground all of us though 😂😂

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  33. Your first hubby is a useless,wicked and worthless pig.just dont worry you will smile again.thqnks for the advice

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    1. Could be someone's husband considering d age gap plus the expat has a family in his country. She got served.

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  34. This your 1st husband is the devil's incarnate haba ganbang ke?

    Please start on a clean slate do not try to fall in love for now.

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  35. Thank God for the post Stella cos is an eye opener for us women

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  36. This is the first and realest divorce story i have read so far on this blog, all the rest na so so one sided story just to gain public sympathy.

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  37. Just speechless....
    May God guide you and your kids..
    It is well.

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  38. Typical divorce story of a runz girl, marrying peopl's husband's and expecting a rosy home, lol, my dear, th grass I not always greener on the other side.

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  40. You got rewarded for your greed, I hope you teach your kids to be better.

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  41. Typical divorce story of a runz girl, marrying peopl's husband's and expecting a rosy home, lol, my dear, th grass I not always greener on the other side.

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    1. Did she marry your husband

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  42. Dear poster,thank God you came out alive from your first marriage and you did not marry that *std distributor*.
    Have you ever thought of going for dileverance?Some misfortunes we encounter in life are not normal.....think about it and act asap!

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  43. God bless you Poster. I'm glad you have realised your mistakes. Please you need to go closer to God now and allow the Holyspirit to fill you and guard your heart with wisdom.
    Forget men for now, and discover our real self. In time, the right man will locate you.

    This is a lesson to all singles out there... Jump into marriage for the wrong reasons, and be thrown out beaten and wrinkled.
    Take your time in prayers and open your eyes to see any hidden errors. SNOOP!! Very important.

    That is why Igbos always investigate before giving out their daughters in marriage. They investigate to the village, family, bloodline etc. All these things matter.

    God help us

    Cheers...

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    1. The same igbos investigatng who. Have they investigated themselves. Holy Spirit.loves one. Abeg

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  44. That is what usually happen to gold diggers,
    First and second marriage is sham sorry oh

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  45. Thank God for you poster, you were honest and i thank God you scaled through it all. Please work on yourself, dont rush into any new relationships, do what makes you happy and give your best to your kids,they will grow up loving you. I wish you the best. E-hugs

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  46. That's why i love my wife. Married her at 20 and she is an independent lady.if i don't give her money she takes care of herself wella and this makes me respect her more.i have changed now aha. I am now a loving hubby becox i know if i treat her bad and she leaves na me go loose badly.

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    1. Thank God you now have sense unlike some men that have refused to have uche,even if its a tiny weeny bit of sense.thumbs up

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    2. Honey,is that you?

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  47. I have always tell every single lady that wants to settle down in this blog that there is no already made man that Will be single during the point you saw or sees him. And if there is any,they come with lots of baggage. Choose wisely and build up together with your man.I don't talk my own!

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    1. "Told". Thank me later

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  48. Where are ur parents???

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  49. Woww. Thanks for your honesty. Hope you get a clean fresh start and I'm so happy you learnt the lessons along the way cause they're always there.
    God be with you and your children.

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  50. Please who remembers the name of the girl that got two laptops on this blog and snatched someone's bf through single and mingle and was sleeping with them? I am trying to share the link with a friend please please remind me her name

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  51. Tank u for those lessons. Those who have ears let them hear

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  52. Post thanks for your honesty anf tganks for sharing

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  53. Thank God you learnt your lessons in time.

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  54. Who am I to judge you? Pls live your life honestly and train up your children. They deserve the best. All that glitters is not gold o! Thanks for sharing your divorce story those who have ears should hear o!

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  55. The man may even be gay, thus his messy anus.

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  56. Oboy let me carry my sef outta here
    Here is a fat hug for you honey, the Lord is your strength.

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  57. Jesus Christ! !!! Am speechless gang bang ke wow u have pass tru hell on earth.
    The lord will be ur strength.

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  58. Thanks for your honesty. One crocodile God told me NO! Distance my self. For I had learned the hard way!
    When this crocodile was getting married I can't describe what was going on with me.
    Not only that the spouses click got to mock me. I just cried out to God.
    See if it's rosy in your home you wouldn't seek to mock people.
    I hear the wife is fighting back giving below the belt insult I can't put here. Mind you I didn't seek for their gist. It's one nosy body who was talking though didn't mention their names I put two and two together. In my life that's how God reveals info either by word, revelation or a nosy body will let it slip out.
    Sharing this is to encourage those who still waiting on God. Trust Him it's not easy.
    And that deliverance you mentioned you are real and it's real.not only abt your partner also the friends you keep.

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