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Health issues. Very important.
ReplyDeleteB&R said KINDNESS and I agree with her 100%. Watch how he treats others. It's only a matter of time and that will be you. I remember how my ex treated his I'll mother in my presence. Very little empathy.
Delete- Values
ReplyDelete- Beliefs
Monetary issues o
ReplyDeleteKudi can most definitely destroy the best marriage.Questions like would you like us to operate a joint account or not should be considered at all cost
You have a point there @ KrytiQ Ambi
DeleteThere temperaments
ReplyDeleteLikes and dislikes
Financial capacity
Health challenge
Qualifications
Age
Traditions and believe
Family history of mental illness, murder or kleptomania.
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DeleteI agree ooo, go check family background ooo, where I marry ,all the wives dey complain how they take find themselves there. Me, I no know which agwu wey carry me go there, I no know where I keep my brain when I dey go, my friends always tease me na m churu agwu ga there.
DeleteBB, my brother has mental illness and I'm organising a wife for him, I told her the truth but not complete so as not to scare her, I told her he has memory issues since he had an accident but, in reality, he had mental issues for about 10 years, he is on medication now and mostly stable.
DeleteShe'll be visiting to spend a month with him where I know she will decipher the truth, the consultants advised we get him a wife and he will become more social and stable. I desperately hope they are right. BVs, please say a prayer for us. It is well oh.
Family Background
ReplyDeleteAge
Beliefs
Tolerant level .
Finances
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Liks and dislike
Hygiene
Seconded
DeleteFood choices.My husband HATES anything fish meanwhile I LOVE fresh fish especially Titus. Anytime i cook and eat fish, he stays far away from me. I shower, brush my teeth and wear perfumes but he still throws up when he comes close to me. He complains so much about this.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you can give it up for him or eat it when he travels for days or weeks. I can imagine his discomfort 🤔🤔🤔
DeleteYes twins squared I second👌
DeleteFamily mental health history. Very important.
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DeleteSnoring levels. I don't want to sleep next to a Mikano generator abeg.
ReplyDelete😝😝😝😂😂😂 @ mikano generator
DeleteSleep never worry you oooo🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNumber of children
ReplyDeleteHow much energy for the do?
ReplyDeleteMONEY, sexual preferences, mental health, food, children, weakness
ReplyDeleteFamily background
ReplyDeleteReligion
Number of children
Finance
Everything needs to be known and spoken about. All questions needs an answer. Sincerity. Open mindedness. Religion. Number of kids. Not involving any third party resolve your issues amicably and don't let it get over the next day. Life's easy if we treat ourselves the way we want others to treat us
ReplyDeleteYou're right, EVERYTHING 👌
DeleteEverything, everything about themselves;
ReplyDeleteHow far each is willing to go with Jesus.
If he has Sense!
ReplyDeleteIf he get Sense !!
If he has sense!!!
Fiance, religion and believe
ReplyDeleteEVERYTHING is important to be known. I mean EVERYTHING. Anyhing you ignored might become a big issue tomorrow
ReplyDeleteWhether he plans to have more than one wife
ReplyDeleteEverything that needs to be known has to be known and discussed else.... It can turn out to become a problem tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteSomething happened recently with a neighbour, he married this Christian lady and he's a Muslim. They were getting on before he started she must convert and this and that and she said that wasn't the agreement. What I know about muslims is that you can even say they are encouraged to marry lady of the books (Christians and Jews) with the purpose of converting them later. However, their ladies are not permitted to marry outside the Islamic faith.
ReplyDeleteI remember comments on this blog when Bimpe and Lateef got married and we were wondering if she converted or what. I think Lateef did it beautifully by laying it down his religion wasn't negotiable and the wife must convert. For love or maybe the wife was never born again accepted and they are good. Why I'm citing their example is that other Muslim men should follow his example, stand your ground and insist the lady must convert don't lie to her that its okay, she would continue her religion and deep down you know you would force her when she's vulnerable. It would surprise you that some ladies like Bimpe would accept but it's wicked to deceive any woman.
I've seen interfaith marriages that have worked and endured and you will see mutual respect for each others faiths but most men are deliberately deceptive. My aunt's husband would even take her to church and pick her up, he allowed her to host house fellowship in their home until she had her 3rd child and married for 10 years and felt she had no place to go. The change in that man was Something else, their marriage ended because she wanted to accept for her children's sake, her family didn't accept and the separation from her children turned her to a very bitter woman. Another one I saw years ago was a woman being forced into purdah on her wedding day and she couldn't do anything about it. So abeg, if your religion is so important to you make it a non-negotiable deal and don't think love will make it okay. Abeg man up like Lateef, the lady that will stay will stay and the one that can't convert will move and their are so many beautiful ladies in your faith already so I don't know why you will go for a lady in another religion but if you must don't deceive any woman stop this wickedness.
All this wouldn't be necessary if you women don't date men outside your faith. Why would you marry a man who doesn't share your belief all because you want to marry? Curse me all you want but if your religion is one that says you should only marry someone from the same religion, adhere to it. Only date men who share your belief. It is for your own good.
DeleteThose interfaith couple you claim are happy don't tell you the whole truth: they have had to make compromises that have has a negative effect on their faith .
We are Nigerians who live in Nigeria, not obodo oyinbo. The same Nigeria that a Christian man would marry a second wife without regard for his first wife's feelings or his religious belief.