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Friday, June 03, 2022

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34 comments:

  1. Health issues. Very important.

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    1. B&R said KINDNESS and I agree with her 100%. Watch how he treats others. It's only a matter of time and that will be you. I remember how my ex treated his I'll mother in my presence. Very little empathy.

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  2. Monetary issues o
    Kudi can most definitely destroy the best marriage.Questions like would you like us to operate a joint account or not should be considered at all cost

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  3. There temperaments
    Likes and dislikes
    Financial capacity
    Health challenge
    Qualifications
    Age
    Traditions and believe

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  4. Family history of mental illness, murder or kleptomania.

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    1. I agree ooo, go check family background ooo, where I marry ,all the wives dey complain how they take find themselves there. Me, I no know which agwu wey carry me go there, I no know where I keep my brain when I dey go, my friends always tease me na m churu agwu ga there.

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    2. BB, my brother has mental illness and I'm organising a wife for him, I told her the truth but not complete so as not to scare her, I told her he has memory issues since he had an accident but, in reality, he had mental issues for about 10 years, he is on medication now and mostly stable.

      She'll be visiting to spend a month with him where I know she will decipher the truth, the consultants advised we get him a wife and he will become more social and stable. I desperately hope they are right. BVs, please say a prayer for us. It is well oh.

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  5. Family Background
    Age
    Beliefs
    Tolerant level .
    Finances
    Religion
    Habits
    Liks and dislike
    Hygiene

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  6. Food choices.My husband HATES anything fish meanwhile I LOVE fresh fish especially Titus. Anytime i cook and eat fish, he stays far away from me. I shower, brush my teeth and wear perfumes but he still throws up when he comes close to me. He complains so much about this.

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    1. Maybe you can give it up for him or eat it when he travels for days or weeks. I can imagine his discomfort 🤔🤔🤔

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    2. Yes twins squared I second👌

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  7. Family mental health history. Very important.

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  8. Snoring levels. I don't want to sleep next to a Mikano generator abeg.

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    1. 😝😝😝😂😂😂 @ mikano generator

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    2. Sleep never worry you oooo🤣🤣🤣

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  9. Number of children

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  10. How much energy for the do?

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  11. MONEY, sexual preferences, mental health, food, children, weakness

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  12. Family background
    Religion
    Number of children
    Finance

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  13. Everything needs to be known and spoken about. All questions needs an answer. Sincerity. Open mindedness. Religion. Number of kids. Not involving any third party resolve your issues amicably and don't let it get over the next day. Life's easy if we treat ourselves the way we want others to treat us

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  14. Everything, everything about themselves;
    How far each is willing to go with Jesus.

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  15. Fiance, religion and believe

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  16. EVERYTHING is important to be known. I mean EVERYTHING. Anyhing you ignored might become a big issue tomorrow

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  17. Whether he plans to have more than one wife

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  18. Everything that needs to be known has to be known and discussed else.... It can turn out to become a problem tomorrow.

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  19. Something happened recently with a neighbour, he married this Christian lady and he's a Muslim. They were getting on before he started she must convert and this and that and she said that wasn't the agreement. What I know about muslims is that you can even say they are encouraged to marry lady of the books (Christians and Jews) with the purpose of converting them later. However, their ladies are not permitted to marry outside the Islamic faith.

    I remember comments on this blog when Bimpe and Lateef got married and we were wondering if she converted or what. I think Lateef did it beautifully by laying it down his religion wasn't negotiable and the wife must convert. For love or maybe the wife was never born again accepted and they are good. Why I'm citing their example is that other Muslim men should follow his example, stand your ground and insist the lady must convert don't lie to her that its okay, she would continue her religion and deep down you know you would force her when she's vulnerable. It would surprise you that some ladies like Bimpe would accept but it's wicked to deceive any woman.
    I've seen interfaith marriages that have worked and endured and you will see mutual respect for each others faiths but most men are deliberately deceptive. My aunt's husband would even take her to church and pick her up, he allowed her to host house fellowship in their home until she had her 3rd child and married for 10 years and felt she had no place to go. The change in that man was Something else, their marriage ended because she wanted to accept for her children's sake, her family didn't accept and the separation from her children turned her to a very bitter woman. Another one I saw years ago was a woman being forced into purdah on her wedding day and she couldn't do anything about it. So abeg, if your religion is so important to you make it a non-negotiable deal and don't think love will make it okay. Abeg man up like Lateef, the lady that will stay will stay and the one that can't convert will move and their are so many beautiful ladies in your faith already so I don't know why you will go for a lady in another religion but if you must don't deceive any woman stop this wickedness.

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    1. All this wouldn't be necessary if you women don't date men outside your faith. Why would you marry a man who doesn't share your belief all because you want to marry? Curse me all you want but if your religion is one that says you should only marry someone from the same religion, adhere to it. Only date men who share your belief. It is for your own good.

      Those interfaith couple you claim are happy don't tell you the whole truth: they have had to make compromises that have has a negative effect on their faith .

      We are Nigerians who live in Nigeria, not obodo oyinbo. The same Nigeria that a Christian man would marry a second wife without regard for his first wife's feelings or his religious belief.

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