Hailings
TUESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO
My mood is messed up cos of a story i just listened to............
Enjoy the rest of the day and shine your eyes well.....
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People to Avoid If You Want to Succeed or Live Long Abroad
1. Chronic Beggars and Emotional Blackmailers
Every conversation ends with a request for money, help, or favours.
They’ll guilt-trip you with “You’ve changed” or “You’ve forgotten your people.” Your success becomes their entitlement.
2. Relationship Parasites and Opportunists
Once they profile you “finish”. They’ll drain your resources and disappear once they get what they want. These people aspire to be like you and would go through any process to get information about how you “got to where you are”. Some of them would turn from “Fan “ to “Hater” “Mentee” to “Hater” “Admirer to “Hater”. When they are done with you , their true disdain for you would be revealed.
3. Soft Life Addicts with Zero Hustle
Always chasing soft life, avoiding hard work. They mock your hustle but secretly wish they had your drive. They are broke and can do anything for validation.
4. Bitter “I Regret Coming Here” Crowd
Every day is a complaint about life abroad.
They’ll project their frustrations onto you and kill your motivation.
5. People Who Mock Savings, Investments and those who are making money.
They always have something negative to say or nothing at all. These are people that feel as if people are oppressing them unprovoked.
I’ve seen people like this on TikTok, whenever they hear good news they’d be like “Stop oppressing people and what works for you might not work for others” hmmm.
6.Friendship-By-Force Countrymen
They expect blind loyalty because you share a passport.
“We are Nigerians, you should help.” If you refuse, you become “proud” or “selfish.”
7. Social Media Clout Chasers
They’re friends with you for photos, tags, and followers. They can’t wait to carry their ring light for content. These are people that would USE EVERYTHING AS CONTENT, they don’t mind talking about their clients on social media and posting photos of people in their care if they are employed.
8. The “I Don’t Like Blacks/Africans” Apologists
People (including some Africans) who self-hate or uphold racist nonsense.
9. Overly Dependent Immigrant
They can’t handle life alone and expect you to carry them. Always asking for help, cannot use their brains and would resent you if you don’t carry them along like a baby. They don’t know how to look for a Job, House, Where to shop or even know how to navigate the system. Mind you, some of these information are online if only they were not too lazy intellectually to find it .
10. People Who Normalize Bad Behaviour and Illegal Hustles
They make fraud, scams, and shortcuts seem “normal” or “what ever
They are condescending and always paranoid about who wants to use them or not . Copied
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MEMO TO WOMEN WITH CHEATING HUSBANDS
By this age most of them no dey fit do super man for bed again, thier waist go hang and the thing go soft like over ripe banana
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FAITHFULNESS
Faithfulness in love isn’t just about what you don't do, but it’s about what you choose to do .... every single day.
It’s in the way you prioritize your partner’s heart, even in the smallest moments.
It’s choosing honesty, even when it’s uncomfortable.
It’s turning away from distractions and temptations, not because you have to, but because you want to honor the trust you’ve been given.
True loyalty is about showing up with your whole self.
It’s about the conversations you have, the stories you share, and the way you protect your relationship from anything that could dim its light.
It’s making sure your words, your actions, and your intentions all align with the love you promised.
Real commitment is built in the quiet spaces—when you choose to listen, to support, to encourage, and to be present.
It’s about making your partner feel seen, valued, and safe, not just when it’s easy, but especially when it’s hard.
Faithfulness is more than a boundary, it’s a daily act of devotion.
It’s the way you nurture trust, water the roots of your connection, and hold space for each other’s growth.
It’s about being the kind of person your partner can count on, not just with their secrets, but with their dreams.
Because in the end, the strongest relationships aren’t just built on avoiding mistakes, they’re built on choosing to love the same person so deeply, that it will stand the test of time for all eternity.
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WEIRDFACTS---According to the Bible, David was allowed to marry the King’s daughter if he returned with 100 foreskins of slain enemies
He came back with 200
---Flimflam (noun):
A fraud or a swindle
---Weightlifting can help improve cognitive abilities, such as memory, reasoning, and attention
---The world’s longest recorded fart lasted for 2 minutes and 42 seconds
Hello everyone 🖐️🖐️
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🎉🎉🎉
DeleteHi 👋
DeleteHi Pure baby 😍
DeleteHello beautiful Missy, my darling MercyBee and my beautiful Adunni Baby ❤️
DeleteHi 🖐🏼 sis 😘
DeleteHello My Darling 🥰
DeleteHello 👋
DeleteA chess match between a mind reader and someone who can see the future would be so cool & interesting .
ReplyDeletethe mind reader knows what move the other plans to make…
but the future-seer already knows what the mind reader’s gonna do in response.
so the mind reader reads the future-seer’s mind…
but the future-seer already saw that happen…
so the mind reader adjusts…
but the future-seer saw that too…
and now they’re stuck in an infinite loop of counter-counter-counterplay🤯
Lol, what a counter counter play that will be 😁
Delete😂 played off
DeleteIf it costs your PEACE OF MIND
ReplyDeleteThe price is too high 💯
Gbam ❗️
DeleteWhere is the lie? I don't joke with my peace of mind.
DeleteAbsolutely
DeleteMy beautiful ladies, biko how do you cook your coconut rice? I saw a video on IG, where the lady talked about panla not being part of it. I don't like panla, but I grew up seeing them add that, and dry fish to coconut rice, of course using coconut milk to cook it (not the canned one), and then loooots of crayfish in it (I mean what's coconut rice without that). I add shrimps to mine (sometimes chunks of chicken), cos I love it, and the taste it gives it. So, is there a right or not so right way to cook coconut rice??
ReplyDeleteI think cooking is all about cooking it right and make e no purge person, that's it. However anyone decides it fine, so long e sweet🤪
DeleteWhichever wey you want to cook it is fine...Do it according to your taste buds and money for hand...I have eaten coconut rice with Eja kika and it was so tasty...It also depends how you cook it as well irrespective of your preferred protein....
DeletePeople cook differently,
DeleteI love fish in mine and crayfish too
I have seen lots and lots of recipe eh, from when I was in school till now, I noticed people cook a tad differently 😂
The taste is in the pudding anyhow
Enjoyment minister🥰
DeleteCoconut milk (can) to the rescue sometimes o
DeleteJust cook yours in best delicious way you can, leave all these IG vendors with their weird culinary skills
DeleteMy candylious baby just cook your own the way you enjoy eating it, that is how I cook any food of my choice I cook it the way I will enjoy it .
DeleteCoconut milk is the main ingredients in coconut rice 🥥
DeleteAnd like you said dear, the real coconut adds better taste. Any other ingredients is by the way....depends on how they like it 😁
Youtube sef will give you different versions you will be shocked 🤣🤣
Sugar,
DeleteWhether you should cook coconut rice the way another person does depends on your personal preferences and what you're aiming for in the dish. There's no single "right" way, and different approaches can yield different results. It is a matter of taste and experimentation.
Ultimately, the best way to cook coconut rice is the way you enjoy it most. If you like a particular recipe, stick with it, but don't be afraid to experiment and find your own favorite variations.
It depends on how you want it, Candy.
DeleteI don't like cooking coconut rice with crayfish. I prefer using dry mangala/smoked Titus with enough onions, red bell peppers, and meat stock.
And I love using freshly made coconut milk rather than canned.
Coconut rice don dey hungry me now 😋.
Na your pocket go determine your choices of proteins. No laid rules at all. 😍
DeleteEmerald, lol at make it no purge person.
DeletePhoenix, money at hand is important o.
Gifty, I love crayfish on mine. Plus that's how i saw them cook it at home.
Ada Ada, we MUST eat na. 😁
Lora, lol. I prefer the real coconut milk. Taste is different
Paris, my dear I do o. I was just a bit shocked when I watched her video.
Pure dearie, I do oo.
Adunni darl, coconut milk and crayfish o. What is coconut rice without crayfish, eh
Godswill, you're right "different approaches can yield different results". I'm not afraid to experimemt o, I do the one wey I fit do. 😁
Bemorebliss, I love Titus fish. Biko do and cook, and invite me 😉
BB darling true that.
I don't know why I'm not keen on trying this coconut rice. Make una give me simple coconut rice recipe make i try this weekend.
DeleteHere, Our coconut rice is usually made plain. Just with salt seasoning, coconut milk and fresh pepper.
DeleteCandy, hilda baci no do pass this one
DeleteHannah, you cook it like native concoction rice, using coconut milk instead of normal water and also vegetable oil instead of palm oil
DeleteNative rice using coconut milk( water extracted after grating or blending the coconut and extracting the milk) and also using vegetable oil
DeleteGood afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteLoving this weather.
Hola babe ❣️
DeleteI don laugh tire 🤣🤣🤣 since Mr chess player commented Hi on Genevieve pics few days ago, the replies has been bursting my stomach 😂😂😂
Paris as in ehn. Very epic replies, so funny...😁
DeleteHello beautiful people 😍😍😍
ReplyDeleteWhat did I just read???
A father molesting his own flesh and blood... SMH...
May God have mercy 🙏...
That man needs to be disgraced.
Delete🤦♂️ smh
DeleteRECORD BREAKING:
ReplyDeleteChelsea have become the FIRST club in the history of football to win ALL the major trophies:
• Premier League
• FA Cup
• EFL Cup
• Champions League
• Europa League
• Conference League
• Club World Cup.
Now, this is the most interesting part of it. Chelsea FC is the first to win the Club World Cup. Every other past winners have been scraped off the title with the reclassification proces. The tournament Is now been slated to be holding once in four years.
Blue blood....
💙💙💙💙💙💙
© TEEJAY
Club world cup that Donald Trump stole the original. What Chelsea ended up with is a fake one. I'm pissed.
DeleteStella, shebi when we reply some people here about blaming the female victims of what happened to them, you don't post the comment. We should train both genders of what is good and bad. If you like don't post. You won't see your padi comment on this.
ReplyDeleteThis should be a gender banter, what is bad is bad
DeleteI'm telling you. The endtime lawyer will not comment on it, if it was a woman that as much as admired her son's D, he will talk about it for weeks.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteThe weather it's cool here😎
Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteHi 🌹
DeleteFor those who’ve seen "To Kill a Monkey" on Netflix, great acting, a relatable storyline, all of that.
ReplyDeleteBut the character who had me on edge, side-eyeing and frustrated, was Nosa, Efe’s wife.
That woman pushed him into everything. He rejected a job offer, and yes, a poor man rejecting a good job is wild, but she insisted until he went back and accepted it. She knew what he was getting into. She didn’t immediately rebuke him or say “stop this now.” She allowed it. She enjoyed the money. But that sanctimonious hat wouldn’t leave her head. She wanted him to be loving and responsible like before, yet doing fr@ud, it just doesn’t work that way.
What people don’t understand is that a lot of those involved in fr@ud, whether it’s “Yahoo” or dirty politics, don’t have peace. They can’t be normal. That’s the price of that kind of wealth. Something is always chasing them.
As a wife, you must have a voice, not just for women’s empowerment but to set the tone of your home. Set the standard for what’s acceptable. I will walk away from marriage if my husband insists on doing fr@ud. I will not be a part of it. That path isn’t peaceful. I’d rather be broke than restless. As for me, I sleep well at night. I might not have all the money I want, but I’m okay. We’ll get there.
I remember when Moppet was still in its infant stages. We had poured all our savings into it. One morning, YM brought our first minibus to the factory. I smiled in front of the staff, but when we got home, I asked him, “Where did you get money for a minibus? You sent your salary for bulk purchase of raw materials, so how did you afford a surprise like this?”
He brushed it off: “It’s my money now.” I kept quiet, but by nightfall, that classic “we need to talk” moment arrived. I woke him up: “Babe... please, how did you get the money for the minibus? I’m serious, I want to know.” He got angry. “What’s wrong with you? You think I’m so broke I can’t afford a minibus?”
Me? Far from it. But I can’t combine fraud with stubbornness. Call me stubborn, talkative, whatever, but stealing? No. Did you breach an account at work to siphon money?
YM: “Jesus Christ! What’s wrong with you? Are you calling me a thief? No! I’ll show you.”
He brought out his phone, showed me the alert for a bonus from his office, then opened another app showing gains from share trading that has risen, something he was planning to withdraw. He didn’t want me to label him. We were good.
Since then, he reports any income above his salary, like banks report high inflows to the EFCC. I will not trade peace of mind for money. It’s too expensive. That’s why I work, and I work hard, so that when I’m not grinding, I’m cooking up a storm, not hiding from anyone or the government.
You want a man who’s doing fr@ud to love you right? E be like say your head dey shake.
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A 10/10 movie, this movie made me enjoy my weekend .
DeleteBrotherly😊
That was a good movie. I rate it 8/10 ✅
DeleteBtw, many yahoo spouses know they're into such business.
After reading the first two lines, I quickly scrolled down to see whether you added "copied". I already knew it was not your handwriting 🤣
DeleteI would have knocked your head.
Ye.. about my complain on minimal jobs on SP.
ReplyDeleteYes I have an up work account ooo. Bought connects sef.. 🤣🤣 dem wan finish my connect oo.
Tech CV, I have like 2 optimized ones.
I also built a personal portfolio website for past works.
Yes I get, searching for clients no easy ooo.. can be very very talking. But we no go give up😂😂😂😂
Slimshady howfar ma. How you dey
Tasking*
DeleteGod bless your hustle handsome. Life's a continuous struggle until we finally wrap off,the earth's surface 🙏🏿😍
DeleteSign out message 🔥
ReplyDeleteSo I will remain with a cheating Man till he clocks 70 and maybe, stop cheating. God forbid! What if I kpai from STDs or jazz by one of his mistresses before he stops? What if I develop HBP and other health issues as a result of stress from his cheating?
ReplyDeleteI will separate from him and safeguard my life and health.
A cheating Man is not supposed to have a wife at home. Let him live alone and cheat as he likes.
You know some women prefer the Mrs title than their health. They will say cheating is notting to them. They gonna learn the hard way.
DeleteSequel to your remark up there please my darling let me ask you a little question so you can finish the work. Please when he now decides to stop cheating at 70, what happens to his wife, does she now start her own cheating or just accept his rotten diiii&&k back just like that and life goes on. I need to know biko
DeleteWho are you asking @Brownsugar? Ask SDK that posted the meme up there? She will explain better.
DeleteLol you have to endure it
DeleteWhat a useless smelly good for nothing father!
ReplyDeleteWhy are some people just messed up like this, with children fa? 🤮
Abeg I dey vex, somebody should just give me malt to calm down 🥴😁
🤣oya take malt.
DeleteSorry let me borrow this space
Where is Fidel.
You care for Chill Sobo
DeleteWellcome In Houseeeee Newssssss
Nne collect Malt abeg😁, but you too will give me Palm wine to calm down also🙄😁
DeleteEmerald my sweet sis, thank you dear.
DeleteYea, that's true. Fidel, how are you dearie? 🥰
Chika my darling, the zobo will calm me down better sef 👍
Tango dearie, you like palmi? You be sabi babe o 👍
Does it not sound crazy to have entitlement mentality for another person's brain. You will be jealous of everything and also be jealous that someone is making use of his brain.
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't be jealous rather ask that they should ' cut soap' for you..
Stella this our anon friend no too mad like that o, she found a way to twist her comment today so that you will post it.
DeleteSee am for here👆
See , Stella let me give you hints, if you see any comment that doesn't make sense, talking about jealousy, someone mentioning another person's name, envy, forced friendship, na the mad anon.
Good afternoon bvns🥰🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteNa real bvns 🤣🤣
DeleteGood afternoon Sharon 🥰
If You Are A Bvns say Hiiiiii🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI greet you oo Sharonlicious
I'm just craving hot Egusi soup in this cool weather.
ReplyDeleteAnon Incase you see abeg invite me ooo, me self want chop am too..
DeleteGo get it na or cook some.
DeleteEnjoy life dear, we only live once 🍹
To kill a Monkey 🐒
ReplyDeleteBrother dey my back i'll protect you...
Them no tell una who i be...??
That scene broke my heart..💔
That scene pieces me 😊 betrayal is bad chai!!
DeleteSome men are beast, I had to read again and again to fully understand because, I did not want to believe what I read.
ReplyDeleteYea to kill a monkey is an interesting movie, kemi did it again.
Kemi Adetiba is good at her craft, she delivers 👍👍
DeleteBeautiful movie
DeleteSign out post is apt 👍
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🌺
Kai! What a disgusting behavior from a so called father tueh🤮🤮
Good afternoon darling 💞💞
DeleteVery digusting and devilish behaviour 😷
DeleteToo bad
DeleteWhy harm your daughters in a way that, they might never recover? , This is so bad, I hope the woman gets all the supports she can to fight that bastard.
ReplyDeleteI pray they heal from this trauma 👏 Many people don't recover from things like this.
DeleteSome people are just animal in human form
DeleteGood afternoon people. It's raining back to back and I love it, better than hot weather.
ReplyDeleteI know a 70 year old that still womanizes like say tomorrow no dey. He keeps fit and is agile.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha, Baba no wan retire 🤣🤣
DeleteSome people do not worth being called a father....
ReplyDeleteHow a father molests his own blood,the children that come from him is still a mystery to me.How?He would look the children that trusts him with their life in the eye and brutalise them without a iota of conscience?Such fathers should be castrated immediately they commit such acts no listening to explanations of why he did it.
ReplyDeleteNow they have awarded the innocent children to the evil,vile,deranged and satanic entity. When evil touches children it breaks me more.And the Judge that knows the truth and he took sides with the devil incarnate,their own is near.
It's disgusting and disheartening. Someone that supposed to protect you. Chai 😭😭😭
DeleteFunny enough some people still forgive their father for such crime
DeleteI was expecting you to blame the girls for not resisting their father or reporting on time or wearing provocative clothes in his presence.
DeleteOk @Disco Dancer, so na only girl child we go train? When you no train boy child na dis nastiness we go dey see. Make u dey try to balance views , ok...the world has moved on...
Delete18:24, I was expecting the same from her.
DeleteIt is incomprehensible to me that a father can become se*xually attracted to his own child, a minor for that matter 🥹
ReplyDeleteThis one shook me.
There is more to this.
Baci 😍
DeleteNawaoooo
ReplyDeleteNasty man
Bad man father
DeleteHello ihn 🥰
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone and how is the weather, here the weather is cloudy this minute and sunny the next.
Like how can a father molest his own child like how!! Some people are not supposed to be humans honestly. If I were his wife I'd quietly kill him aswear, what an animal. God forbid.
That gist just angered me honestly. What kind of godforsaken human is that.kai !!
Abeg e go surely be ✌🏼
The weather is wonderfully confused 😁
DeleteHow are you sweetheart? 🥰
Climate change every decade it does happen
DeleteGood afternoon beautiful people
ReplyDeleteGood raining afternoon dear people of God. No matter how long it takes that devilish man will get what’s coming to him.
ReplyDeleteJewelu, I sent you a story sometime ago similar to this . This one is nit dem say. The girl was in My class, the eldest of 3 sisters. All 3 were S#*lly molested repeatedly by their father . When their mother found out the Man's family wanted to hush the case thank God for the Lagos state ...
ReplyDeleteThe Manis cooling off his ass now in kirikiri. Evil dwelliing in Families.
The girls had to withdraw from school and relocate to ... This story really broke My heart🥲.
Woww! Sometime it sounds unbelievable
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteIt's an evil act to sleep with your own blood your daughter o haaaaa front and back OMG 😳
May God help us all 🙏
The man that molested his daughters is evil. How can you do that to your own flesh and blood.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Beautiful people ❤️
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteThose that are always clamouring for parents to train their girls only, sebi you are seeing this story up there, the boys you refused to train will end up molesting their own daughters, sisters, cousins, nieces, innocent women out there including your own friends' daughters.
Shikenna!!!
Delete18:25, how do you love your beer?
DeleteYou forgot to add armed robbery, fraud, drug trafficking, kidnapping, etc and put their family to shame.
The wicked and evil father that molested his daughters' story needs to go viral so that the mother can get justice for them.
ReplyDelete