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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
THE FRIEND WHO CUSSES OUT WITH EVERYTHING

Please help me answer this question bothering me seriously;What would you do, or how would you handle a friend that is always cursing and saying heavy negative words whenever you two have a disagreement? As in the words no be here o. Curse you, your family, curse your husband,if you have a secret she knows about, spills it and use it to curse you. Funny enough, at the end of the day, when she is calm, will not even apologize o, but you will notice that she is sorry and using style to ask for another chance; not second chance o, because this scenario has happened a couple of times before?

Thanks so much blog visitors, i need a final decision today!

DUMP HER AS FAST AS YOU CAN...Oloun Ma Je kari Ekwensu!

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  NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

MARRIED TO SOMEONE WHO KEEPS MALICE OFTEN...

Now to my story, So I've known my husband for almost 8 years in total, dated for 3 years and married for 2 years. We were friends for like 3 years before we started dating, so all together known him 8 whole years! Anyway, in that 8 years, we have laughed, cried, argued, loved, hated, name it....we have been through it all together. He is my best friend and I am his as well.

I won't lie, my husband is a GOOD HUSBAND. And I write it in CAPS because when I read/hear what other women go through with their husbands, the domestic violence, stinginess, laziness and cheating, I shudder and say a silent thankful prayer to God for the man I married. He loves me with all his heart and would do anything I ask of him, as long as he is capable. He has never refused me anything, not money, or protection, or security. He provides it all! So I'm not an ungrateful wife, I am more than grateful for everything.

But I have a small issue, my husband has a problem with keeping malice with me when I wrong him! Yes, it sounds funny but what kind of man in his thirties keeps malice with his wife??? He can go for days without speaking to me, but he will come home after work, eat my food, lay on the same bed with me, allow me hold him at night, give me money if I request for it, pick me up and drop me where I need to go, but he wont open his mouth and utter a word to me! I am different. When he annoys me, it takes me highest 1 hour and I will forget and forgive. But if its him, omo 3 days will pass!

 Its worse if I travel out of the country or he travels, and we argue over the phone, this man will ignore me for days before picking up phone to call me or send me a bbm message. In the past, I have told him how juvenile and stupid this attitude of his is and he always says he will get better but it is still the same since I have known him. No change! 

When he wrongs me, he will continue to pester round me for forgiveness and if I try to bone face and ignore him, he wont let me. He will be in my space, until I smile and forgive him. But when the case is reversed and I try to do the same to him, all i get is cold treatment and silence from him! I always feel like his malice is a way of teaching me a lesson or him trying to prove macho to me! 

Back when we were dating, there was a time during this his malice keeping, my birthday came and past, this man did not pick up phone to even wish me HBD or send me anything! To say I was shocked and traumatised then, is an understatement! Yes, he eventually begged and cried for doing that to me, blamed it on anger and everything under the sun. It took me months to forgive and I let him know then that he had an evil heart for doing that to me. We moved past it and my next birthday, he spoilt me silly.  I guess it was his way of still apologising and making me forget the past year. 

Now we are married, and yes we have our ups and downs like any other married couple, but we know our boundaries. Right now I am not in the country, The number I am using is his own, coz he gave me his phone to travel with for calls. Last week I was on the phone with him going through what I have spent so far on his credit card with him and keeping him up to date with how I am spending his money oh, Stella this man was answering me anyhow, because he was at work. I said ok, oya lets talk later because I know you dont like me distracting you at work, he said no. I should continue talking that he was listening to me. But his responses were annoying me so I just hung up on him jare And sent him a bbm that he has a way of making me disrespect him when he acts like this. 

He read and didnt respond (not like I expected him to anyway). But omo, na so Operation Keep Malice began! For two days no call or message from him, me too I kuku leave am. On the 3rd day I called him. In fact I called him 6 times, he didnt answer my call or return it. And I know he is alive becoz his parents mentioned he called them. Stella, this is the 4th day, and this man has not bothered to check if I am dead or blown his money! I guess he wants me to keep calling or send a begging bbm, but that will not happen.

 I sent him a bbm and said when he is ready he knows how to reach me. No response, and he read it! Anyway Stellz, his birthday is approaching soon, and I want to ignore him totally that day. What he did to me before. I know it would really hurt him if I ignore him entirely on his birthday because he will say I never forgave him and pretended like i did. But on the other hand I want to show him how stupid and  want him to stop this rubbish of keeping malice with your wife! It is childish and very stupid!!! If i ignore him on his birthday, he will know I am very angry with him for this. Because he has no valid reason to keep this nonsense attitude going! I am so angry right now!!!

Sorry for the long post, but did I marry a special man biko, what is this!

If you ignore him on his birthday then you are also part of his childish,its tough being married to someone who still acts like a child in diapers but you have to teach him how to grow up!

I dont know how you can teach him but ignoring him is encouraging him.

Let me sit down and read comments.

Please if you sent me a narrative and i am yet to post it,please be patient,I will.