If I understood the what,when,why and how...
Now it's clear to me.........
This is free style...NO HOLDS BARRED Version of ''I wish somebody had told me....''
My heart is beating fast..I wish somebody had told me that i would fall in love
again and again and again with him.
I wish somebody had told that blogging is so time consuming.....
If somebody didnt tell you then,well,you know the truth now,please live by it and let live.spread the truth if you can sef..LOL
One love to you all.
I wish somebody had told me that to be a first child the and only girl is so demanding, Lord come to my aid.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
This "I wish" post has gotten boring, enough already, please!
DeleteSHARONNA
My dear I understand how it feels.
DeleteI wish i found a rich single responsible guy dat is nt stingy. Am tired of suffering wit i never chop peeps... I need a rich comfortable love.
DeleteLmao Anonymous 21:19 help will come your way soon amen.
DeleteStarry Larry,I have the same wish with you..
DeleteIt's not easy being the first child and a girl.I need a good job at this moment.God help us.
I wish I wish I wish
ReplyDeleteAbeg enough of this already.
DeleteI wish my daddy isn't blind atleast things would have being a lot better but I believe and trust in God, and am still very thankful that they are alive. God please send me a man of my own already atleast I have a job. I look unto you.
DeleteI wish someone has told me I was engaged to a guy who does Runs for a living,he was nice,loving,caring & all of a sudden he changed,insult me with past @every issue & still calls people to beg me to forgive him....many things I can't even say here,but this last issue really opened my eyes to many things,i broke up the engagement of 8mths,am only bittered abt the 1yr 8mths I wasted with the fool.....i blive am not there yet.....make man issue rest for now I can't shout abeg
DeleteI wish somebody had told me I will fall for this same guy I tot I will never luv, now hav stoped all other relationships I ever had because of him. I just want to put my all and trust in this guy. L*Y just know I luv you and stop doubting me.
ReplyDeleteWanene LY? Luckman Yusufa?
DeleteDon't put all your eggs in one basket #wordofadvice
DeleteWooww. I really enjoy reading thia i wish i knew.. but im so glad i didn't know all and im discovering by myself... and trust me im loving all..#GODISGOOD#
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me, I wouldn't have spend the extra 25k commission jumia paid me, overpayment na bastard!, where I wan see money refund jumia now
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeleteI wish someone would have told me Oladimeji Olusegun was a cultist. I wish I never fell in love with him
DeleteI wish I don't have this fibroid, single with fibroid is depressing, God please come to my aid, I'm depreciating, overthinking is bombing my head, I know God is on my case, I will laugh last
ReplyDeleteDear...God is on your case...you are healed IJN....stop thinking....be happy always....
DeleteAwww
Deleteso sorry
It will end in praise
Amen my sister... God will use your case 2 advertise his glory... it is well
DeleteThe balm of Gilead Will heal you
DeleteI wish somebody had told me it will be hard to stop runs
ReplyDeleteDnt u knw b4? And it makes u lack spiritual backing.
DeleteYeah it is, and na greed and laziness dey cause am. Stop being greedy and get ur a55 to work!
DeleteLol my friend will you gerarahia !
DeleteIf i (former queen of coded runs ) can stop even when i know i covered my tracks badly then you can stop,God is not giving up on you.!! HE wants you to come to him,He is life
DeleteLmao! Dey runs dey go u hear? Till gweggs becomes ur middle name. Onye apari.
DeleteNa lie u can't stop u think u can coz u haven't seen a very big offer.
DeleteI wish somebody had been there mentoring me through secondary school and helping me with wise counseling in making the right choices career wise...
ReplyDeleteI wish My uncle never died in 2011...
But Thank God for everything. Especially for life and good health, and that all My immediate family members (parents and siblings) are alive.
I'm grateful to God Almighty!
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Alloy my Wvs Connection brova, hafa?
DeleteI wish someone had told me that my disvirginer was a player,i would have still had my hymen...
DeleteI wish someone had told me that i should not hold shit..i wont have given a horrible smelling mess in class...
I wish I wish I wish......
ReplyDeleteChiquito, say ur wishes damn it!!
Delete"Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there
ReplyDeletereally much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a
home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all
those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands.
If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or
physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its
effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to become complete and fulfilled.
Then d women had values and were prepared to build a home, gbam! Most of d answers lie therein
DeleteHmmmmmmm
DeleteSpot on.
DeleteIn summary please,wetin happen?
DeleteLemme gO anon on this. I wish somebody had told me that marriage ws this hard!!! I wish I knew that peeps frm broken home carry a lot Of baggage,I wish I knew he was a mummys boy I wouldn't have married him.and 2 crown it all his sisters aint married yet so they always poknosing in our affairs.I wish am nt a quiet lady. I wish I was wicked n tough.... I am already thinking of divOrce in the next years 2 kum.the drama is getting worse by d day. *sigh*
ReplyDeleteMy dear I can relate wif ur story of hubby bin 4m a broken home, funny enof my mum warned me bt I no hear word. But I tank God tins r alil better now. My dear all I can say is just pray.
DeleteSilence kills the rat.They are poknosing cos they are are aunty gwegwegwe but you don't have to stage a battle. Stage your war with God. There are worse marriages out there. Am a single lady and I have seen lots of crazy marriages.
DeleteIt is well... Dont give up
DeleteI pray that God restores your home and give you peace.
DeleteI wish I never wasted my time with my first boyfriend (10 years relationship) am 35 now. Still single
ReplyDeleteHis married to another girl now
His mother refused him to marry from IMO state, his from Anambra state. Esinefite
Tears rolling down
Chai! Ndo wipe your tears.
DeleteEya!!! God will sort u out soon dear.
DeleteEven among Igbos you guys still discriminate? Haba! Na wa o!
DeleteGod is your strength
DeleteGod is your strength dear
DeleteI wish I never wasted my time with my first boyfriend (10 years relationship) am 35 now. Still single
ReplyDeleteHis married to another girl now
His mother refused him to marry from IMO state, his from Anambra state.
Tears rolling down
I wish I never wasted my time with my first boyfriend (10 years relationship) am 35 now. Still single
ReplyDeleteHis married to another girl now
His mother refused him to marry from IMO state, his from Anambra state.
Tears rolling down
Eya, don't waste even 2 years on anyman again, inugo?
DeleteSorry God will have mercy and remember us soon.in Jesus name amen
DeleteI wish I never wasted my time with my first boyfriend (10 years relationship) am 35 now. Still single
ReplyDeleteHis married to another girl now
His mother refused him to marry from IMO state, his from Anambra state.
Tears rolling down
See someone who gave 10 years away and my sister whose boyfriend of 6 years broke up with her,wants to kill her self for man...
DeleteBegging him after the public disgrace.. for what nah.
Chaaaaai,God just know why He didn't let me come before her,so i can give her a resounding slap...
I never get time send una the gist,till Wednesday -after my test...
Sister,Nndo!
I am in with a poor guy
ReplyDeleteI really love him because of his big dreams.
Am ready to marry him and be loyal to him
But is like am afraid of my decision
Advice needed please
Thanks
Hmnnnn!!
DeleteHope he doesn't dump you when he's made.
DeleteBig dreams ko; Small nightmares ni
Are you looking for sympathy? We've heard please !
DeleteKratos
My dear nobody is poor and anything can happen anyday. You might be key to his success doors, sometimes it's really not all about the money. Most rich people are not happy. They are in hell.
DeleteIf u love him truely stay as long as he isn't begging on the streets or robbing, he's not poor.
Just wait till that money bag comes, yuhia.
DeleteI wish someone had told me to save my virginity for my DH. He saved his own for me.
ReplyDeleteOne of d BVs who usu claim they married as virgins?
DeleteAnd how are u even sure ur DH saved his 4 ya?
And you know this how?
DeleteLol...indeed!
DeleteAfterall, blokos no get hymen
And so? Abeg swerve.
DeleteKratos
So if he hadnt u would'nt have wished dis. Yimu
DeleteHow u take know
DeleteHow you take know.... sha if u probably saved us too,who would teach about sex styles..lol
DeleteOops,you both would be watching,praticing and REHEARSING porn
I wish someone told me dat getting pregnant is so easy wen one is single, and kind of difficult wen married. God pls answer my prayers bn TTC 4 8months now, Jezz and all my Neighbours are with der babies. God surprise me pls.
ReplyDeleteGod Will do it for you IJN
DeleteAbortion queen
DeleteDon't give up your miracle is on the way. You are next in line for a miracle
DeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me that friends are devils,i wudnt had fallen a victim of betrayer back then,imagine me wey introduced my b4 b4 fweed give one bobo wey dey like me back den,i even carry dis ma babe show d bobo as per fweend tins,before i go open my eyes,the babe don give bobo her number and innocent me nor know....them two don dey even gbensh for my back self...lolssss....as God so kind,wen ΐ discovered it...gisos oo...i was too shocked to react,thank God say i neva start to like dis bobo not to talk of pecking him self.....fastforward to date,dem two don brkup taitai,karma served them hot...lolssssssss
Lemme pause here biko
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
We see ur name ok?
DeleteSo you didn't even have feelings for the guy so what problem do you have with your friend?? Explain!!
DeleteRazz
DeleteLol..
DeleteI spent a lot of time understanding your write up..
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me that friends are devils,i wudnt had fallen a victim of betrayer back then,imagine me wey introduced my b4 b4 fweed give one bobo wey dey like me back den,i even carry dis ma babe show d bobo as per fweend tins,before i go open my eyes,the babe don give bobo her number and innocent me nor know....them two don dey even gbensh for my back self...lolssss....as God so kind,wen ΐ discovered it...gisos oo...i was too shocked to react,thank God say i neva start to like dis bobo not to talk of pecking him self.....fastforward to date,dem two don brkup taitai,karma served them hot...lolssssssss
Lemme pause here biko
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
If I hear, una don knack left right and centre, stop lying Thelmz.
DeleteLie lie you don knack e come pain u say the guy get another. But u dey form happy now cos say u don fuck person
DeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me that friends are devils,i wudnt had fallen a victim of betrayer back then,imagine me wey introduced my b4 b4 fweed give one bobo wey dey like me back den,i even carry dis ma babe show d bobo as per fweend tins,before i go open my eyes,the babe don give bobo her number and innocent me nor know....them two don dey even gbensh for my back self...lolssss....as God so kind,wen ΐ discovered it...gisos oo...i was too shocked to react,thank God say i neva start to like dis bobo not to talk of pecking him self.....fastforward to date,dem two don brkup taitai,karma served them hot...lolssssssss
Lemme pause here biko
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
hiss, who was even enjoying the rubbish that you had to pause? abeg pave way for better stories jare. tsheeeeew
DeleteI wish am married now
ReplyDeleteAm still single
I really want to get married
I stopped dating because I want to get married and now nobody is touching (sex)
Am having feelings everyday
My pastor told me to stop dating if I really want to get married.
God please speed my marriage
I really need to be with him
I need husband badly
I need him
God is at work
He has been faithful to me
How do u get married if you don't date? God no go throw husband from heaven like manna o. You can date but don't fornicate. Some pastors sef.
DeleteHusband scarcity, what d anon above is talking about. And if I tell u dt I'm just an average/struggling and responsible guy with big dreams now, u go vamose
DeleteSay that again?? Stop dating if you want to marry?? Hahahahaha I'm crying!!!
DeleteStop dating? So how will marriage enter?
DeleteUr pastor told you to stop dating if u want to get married?
DeleteI don't understand this pls
U see this is how u people miss interpret the bible, una carry the matter for head pass pope.
DeleteWhat ur pastor meant was stop fornication
Not necessarily dating, if u don't court? How do u get entangled? And get married .
Even marry was betrothed to Joseph they were just friends bf marriage.
That u dating dosent mean u would have sex, date without sex .
Receive brain my dear.
I mean my pastor told me to stop having sex if I really want to get married.
DeleteSex......
Ur pastor is funny, lmao
DeleteNne, you need to date, even if it is 1wk, before you marry the person na, that's the natural order.
DeleteI wish somebdy wud hav tld me dat bin a grownup is overrated
ReplyDeleteMasturbation, porn, can b dis addictive
Gettn a job with a 2:2 can b dis challengin
If ur papa or mama no get appointment una day on a long tin
Dat wen u fail in a biz to standup agin can b dis scary
Wen u loose ur papa hug sum of money u go day avoid him phone call lyk dis
* a big sigh*#iwish
Guy, u lack faith and determination. GOD is d only way...
DeleteAm cold now
ReplyDeleteI need sex badly
But I stopped dating because I want to get married.
Speed my marriage God
U don't hv duvet? Or socks or jacket?
DeleteThis topic is enough jor
ReplyDeleteYou have killed the vibe already
It's no longer interesting
Let's move on okay?
Exactly!
DeleteShut up talkative! How did it kill the vibe? Even if they did it 10 times it's none of your business. Is it your blog? ITK
DeleteNo, not until we singles talketh our minds
DeleteAllow others to express their feelings, if you can't deal don't open the post just move on.
DeleteNa you sabi. I wish go still land Gidigbam b4 Wednesday.
DeleteI wish I could start my life all over again because I have learnt my lessons the hardest way ever.
ReplyDeleteMiss Ess, I like u. Wish I could know u outside this forum.... Sincerely!
DeleteUnfortunately u can't, gweggy
DeleteI wish I knew, I wish I listened to my mum, I wish I lost the battle of will, I wish I wasn't stubborn. It was too sweet and tempting, I wanted all of it, I fell for the beauty and d sweetness, im now regretting every inch of my action, 30 minutes of pure sweetness is causing me so much pain and stress. I WISH I NEVER ATE THAT SWEET RIPE PLANTAIN PORRIGDE, NOW "WHITE HOUSE" IS MY 2ND HOME. so much discomfort
ReplyDeleteI wish somebody had told me that after giving birth to your kids your vj wont be as before now I know better.
ReplyDeleteErmmm. Ma'am, is there smthg u ain't doing right? Coz some women get dr old Veejays back thou
DeleteI wish I had known dat after 5yrs in dis relationship, my guy will say he is not ready for a serious relationship and marriage till 3-4yrs time
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me dat bauchi town will b dis boring,even wit d constant light,am bored..
Not his fault. U r too local
DeletePlease find someone else. He doesn't value you. Please.
DeleteKratos.
Wish one is this I wish , I wish somebody had told me everyday now
ReplyDeleteI beg bring other gists .
No more wishes jare. Living life as it is
ReplyDeleteI wish I know TTC can be this depressing.
ReplyDeleteI'm so tired of being a good gal , I wish dat I could turn back d hands of tyme(in deep tot & crying)
ReplyDeleteSo if d hands of time was turned back, u'll be a German Juice 'sharer' or a runs girl typa bad?
DeleteHold on to God, keep serving him.
DeleteI wish some one has told me I will always be in love with my ex. No matter how I try to suppress the feeling it is always there. God help me because I am married with kids.and I love my husband so so much.
ReplyDeleteOne of d things that happen if u sampled ur ex. Madam na d sex u dey miss, no lie..
DeleteMschreeeeeeew
DeleteSelf deceit of d highest order. U can't love ur husband so so much like u said n still remember ur ex. Madam tell urself d bitter truth.
DeleteIf I had known that ......
ReplyDeleteAbegi, l am not a woman.
I wish I knew what I know now I would have run the first day I met him instead being in this situation called marriage. I wish I listened to my parents that advised me not to marry him. But I was carried away by what I thought was love. He has no plans in this life,he is jobless, poor, womaniser, school drop out, he has low sperm count of below 8 million. He just wants to depend on me which I am already tired . May God help me make the right decision about this whole thing
ReplyDeleteNo wishes... No regrets neither. But I must say this... the previous 'I wish' series really gave me an insight on the tribulations women go through at child birth... it scared the creeps out of me... I'm really gonna accord my future wifey maximum respect..and unconditional love
ReplyDeleteSame here brova, hi 5
DeleteAww Okezi will you marry me? And yes I proposed.
DeleteI wish someone had told me it would take soo long for sexual urge to come back after giving back 5 months ago tru cs. Am soo getting worked up ova it .Tank God hubby is so understanding but I don't want to take his gentleness for granted. D tot of making luv just puts me off...i just op am okay. Doc says it happens like dat Attimes. ...am just fed up.
ReplyDeleteIf someone had told me dat tnx ll turn out dis gud
ReplyDeleteThey told me, but I did not listen... Anyways, I wish I had listened and walked away from my boyfriend I dated for 15 years. I kept hoping from my teen years to my thirties that things will change and he will marry me, but no!
ReplyDeleteI left when it was too late, I wished I had listened and walked away years ago.
15 what??
DeleteSorry hun! But please how do pips date for so long??? Cnt deal mehn!
DeleteThank God you are free now
DeleteIt is well dear, all hope is not lost as long as you still have breath in your nostrils, put the past behind and move. God will send a better man your way, just trust in Him.
Delete15 years chaaa.... babe I like ur faith o. Chai!!!
DeleteHey!!!!!! What d ???
Delete15Years
Thank God for opening your eyes.... you would not miss it in marriage,God would address your case before the end of this year
Your ist son shud hv finished secondary schl by now!
DeleteNa him dis virgin u, don't worry I get. But even my first I can bomb the world for him. Wen I didn't c results my dear I dumbed him sorry ass onto the next one. I don sharp now, Oge adiro.
DeleteAm crying for 10 years relationship wasted and you said yours is 15 what?
DeleteHmmmmmmm ooooooo
You are an idiot to date a guy fir 15 yrs. mtchew!
DeleteI wish someone had told me to learn a skill when I was much younger, the sky would have been my platform now.
ReplyDeleteHmnnn!! Me sef wish dis one ooo, wish I learned tailoring instead of dis mkup ting
DeleteCommon stop wishing and start learning it. Are u 40 years old?
DeleteI wish I learnt networking during ASUU strike instead of autocad, I wish I'll love another girl how I loved my ex and she'll be loyal in return, I wish some1 told me that schooling is how smart you work and not hard. I wish i had an elder brother I'd look up to. But still all glory to God for how well and how far I've come in life, may he bless me
ReplyDeleteI wish i learnt tailoring during the strike rather than teaching in a school....
DeleteI wish i would get a distant but serious relationship or maybe am too young..
Yeah am just 20, 300 level with small chizz
I wish someone who have told me after you taste a big dick, going back to small guys will be hard no matter how good he is in other aspect
ReplyDeleteNot necessarily true.
DeleteI wish someone told me big dicks are forbidden fruit. My ex was an asshole but I'm craving his big black dick badly. I want him to put it in through the back doggy style. Jidenna I want your dick
Delete💯 true!
DeleteI wish someone had told me face lift healing would take weeks....
ReplyDeleteNa to read comments
ReplyDeleteU knw wat stels? I wish someone had told me that my Sunday would be so boring...
ReplyDeleteOh I wish someone had told me that u wouldn't be releasing comments cos you're in the movies enjoying urself, perhaps I shud have made other plans!! Lolz don't mind me enjoy urself stels!!
I wish somebody had told me that working with Fortis microfinance bank is not worth it.
ReplyDeleteStella,dis is becoming boring ooooh!
ReplyDeleteNot every day naaaaaa.
I wish someone had told me a good man is hard to find
ReplyDeleteNow that I'm all grownbi wish I had so many things back then.I wish I hadn't gotten prggies so early n outside wedlock.I wish I had d mind then to abort it.No one told me bk then that your life changes completely after having a child outside wedlock..I hv long gone back to sch but my mates hv gone farther than me that I purposely had to cut all comms wt them till I'm bk on my foot.I love my child totally but truth be toldvi wish I had gotten her d right way.Despite all these ranting another girl will still not learn from me.I wish my father isn't so selfish,hard to please and a church fanatic. I wish he had some love left for my mum.I wish he at least respected dt woman.I wish I didn't hv to cry to bed most nights. I wish I could be d loving, cheery,respectful n loving girl to d men folk like I used to be.I wish I can just finish wt my education, I wish et all my heart dt God will hv me a good man for a husband, I wish I can mk my mum a happy woman again. I wish I could hv my daughter d basics dt she needs.I could go on and on but till all ds wishes are met_for now I will continue carrying dt façade....
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is your strength. I wish I didn't ve my son out of wedlock though I love him. Am married to a wonderful guy who accept my son but the difference is always there with the children I ve for him
Delete.
Awwwwww
DeleteThis made me teary..
The Lord is your strength darling..
I wish my grandparents were still alive
ReplyDelete*sad sigh*
I wish someone had told me that as a smart and beautiful girl I would have an extra year in the University and be considering surrogacy at 27 because I have zero love life and I just found out I have endometriosis and AS genotype. I feel like I spent a good number of my life doing nothing. But when there's life there's hope. I will make use of second chances. I want a great job and I will get it. I want children. I will get a child. Man or no man. Endometriosis or no endometriosis.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear.
DeleteWhat's wrong with AS genotype? ?????
DeleteDon't give up dear, it will end in praisea.
DeleteWork on yourself and don't forget the place of prayer snd your personal relationship with God, if He can do it for others He will surely do it for you.
Where is your "Faith", there is never a closed case with God. You will testify.
I get worked up wenever I see endometriosis. I had it and stil conceived wit it. Just stop sugary things and soy products if u can. Since I stopped including them in my diet, mine has reduced drastically. Also pray, theres nothing impossible wit God.
DeleteHow wish someone had told me,pple that cussed me out for commenting with a phrase will turn arud later to be doing same,stella why didn't tell me,Lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz,chai just negodu mehhhh.
ReplyDeleteI wish somebody had told me that alabekee, is not what it is...what they show us on TV in naija na, Manhattan city, London bridge, California, statue of liberty etc
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me that having more than one person crazy about u at same time would make it difficult for u to choose. There was a time I wished so many guys loved me and all I'll need to do is choose, its happening now n I'm really confused.
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me that NYSC breaks relationships lol. My bf is mad now cos too many bobos around me don de make me to think twice about him. I wish I wish...
NYSC be breaking relationships since 1800
DeleteWell
ReplyDeleteHumans are nuts
Complicated, have their own agenda and sometimes ridiculously childish and selfish
On the other hand they can be sweet and selfless
Children are more straightforward jare!
Teenagers hmm topic for another day
I wish I wasnt naive and foolish when I was younger. I wish I didn't step into that one chance vehicle, where I lost everything due to my stupidity. I won't say greed, because they used fear to entrap me right from the onset. I lost 3million trust fund money my late dad had left in my care, for me and my younger siblings. They fucked me join, dash me incurable diseases. Perfomed magical illusions in my very before, used all sort of entrap me in a world of fear and uncertainty cos I didn't want to lose my siblings.
ReplyDeleteWhat was left for me was death.
I was hanging by the thread.
I would never have passed all through this pain if I'd been wiser to run at the first instance.
Years on, I'm grateful for my life cos somepeople have lost theirs through these evil men
Sometimes I think bit would have been better off if I died, at least the constant thought of what I passed through won't torment me.
For years, suicidal ideations plaguing
But I'm getting stronger.
I'm gonna struggle hard for my younger ones
I just wish my parents has educated us on the little things of life. All they insisted was to go to school. No sex or moral education, or noting dangerous situations.
I was abused when I was younger by a man who was my mothers tutor, mom thought I was just helping him arrange a stack of books. I was too scared to stop him.
I can keep writing, I've gone through a lot.
But when I hear worse, I just give that heavy sigh.
There was a post sometime back of that last chance fraudsters, I cried on how people narrated their escape. I wondered y I never reasoned like them.
Mom is keep asking for d money, cos that's was like all d savings, I don't know how I've bn able to dodge for so long...
I just wish,
Wow! U need to write ur ordeal in full, every little detail as u remember it, even your thoughts in chronicle let's see how letting it all out would help u. U need to see a therapist because you are suffering from depression developed from the tragic ordeal and you are filled with regrets. U need to start seeing ur life as a precious and appreciate d fact that u are alive with ur whole body intact
DeleteHmmm, it shall be well witchu
DeleteE- hugs darling. May God heal you and replenish all you ve lost INJ. Amen.
DeleteNkan be
DeleteKai! I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry about this.
DeleteOh my!
DeleteIt is well love..
I wish my mum and sister told me more but its all good. I learnt all by myself,made me stronger. Parents, mothers especially, pls don't shy away from the sex talk. It'll save ur kids a lot of headache when they're grown. If my mum and sister had come out openly to talk to me about sex,I wouldn't have made some mistakes. But its all past tense now...moved on from all that.
ReplyDeleteTo that "Ben"/Eligible Bachelor of yest chronicle, go back to your whorish traditionally wedded wife. You two deserve each other, welcome her with a tight hug. You should have told Bv why at your age with all your money, you had not settled down. I don't know of its Karma, seems like the girls u change like boxers, and those u hurt have sworn for ya. Good for u to feel hurt too. Besides, earth would be free from two less single scums. Our innocent brothers and sisters would be safe from ya
ReplyDeleteLol. Calm down
DeleteHmmm, how you take know?
DeleteAre you the friend or the wife?
I wish someone had told me earlier on in life that the heart of man is desperately wicked!
ReplyDeleteI wish someone had told me earlier on that I shouldn't have to strive for perfection..perfect is plain boring!
I wish someone had told me that one can easily fall from grace to grass in a snap..
I wish someone had told me that living in lagos is not for the faint hearted..Lol
More importantly,I wish someone had told me,"take this 5million naira,you'll be needing it down the line" Lol.
Got me singing that George Benson song! We can't go back and change the past. We can work well towards the future. Stella, you know blogging is time consuming and I can only imagine the smile on your face when you check on your bank statement, lol, so, it's worthwhile.
ReplyDeleteBlessed Sunday everyone! Click on my ID for my link and post your comments or anything.
I wish I knew sleeping with different men is not worth it. I'm so ashamed when I think about the men I have slept with in my past. I just didn't know how to say no at that time and it embarrases me too much now. There is absolutely no gain in it. Pupsi was so strict that when I entered higher institution, I had no fucking clue! Just wanted to experience and experiment.... Thank God for Jesus Christ.
ReplyDeleteI wish I knew the pain I could wipe away d pain I felt when I found hubby chatting nasty chat with another woman.. He hasn't graduated to cheating but it caused the huge row and I have told him if he dares cheat, I'm out with my two lovely kids... Why do guys love to chat like that...is it some kind of game to you guys? so far, he's behaving and I saw d fear in his eyes when I brought down d heavens on his head...
I wish I had entered university at a younger age
I wish my mum hadn't died of cancer, that woman was a saint! Why does bad things happen to good people?
I wish I didn't have to watch my girlfriend go thru being TTC for years now...the pain in her eyes is sometimes so heartbreaking for me...
In all, I thank God for my God and my precious kids, they make life worth living!!!
All my epistle, vanished!
ReplyDeleteI wish it didn't
I wish my DH didt lose his job few weeks after our wedding it has not been easy. I wish i dnt have to go sleep with this man because i need money for my school stuff. I wish my dad didt die when i was a teenager that caused a lot of setbacks in my life. I wish my dh have a job his such a wonderful person. I wish! i wish! i wish! oh God help me *crying*
ReplyDeleteDon't do it.
DeletePlease don't.
Darn!!!! I miss the "I wish " post!
ReplyDeleteI wish I wasn't this dead broke!!!!!!
I wish I am married with kids .This shame is just too much to bear .
ReplyDeleteI just wish I was 20 years still!
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ReplyDeleteEka Joy dear, Nobody is forcing you to marry a Yoruba boy o, if he is too stressful for you, go and marry from your own.
ReplyDeleteI wish that God will hear my prayers and give me a better job...5 years on this job and no growth....
ReplyDeleteI wish am married....
ReplyDeleteI wish I don't feel so lonely
At 28 no bfee no fiance no serious chyker.
It's killing.
I wish i didnt end up mařrying my husband cos of our son. I wish i knew he was cold hearted wont have spent all my savings for his masters. I wish i knew obodo oyibo was like this wont have resigned my job in Naija. Now i am here without friend, no money my husband does not give me a penny. When i complain he says he provides food what do i need money for??? I am pregnant and he refused to get mat wears for me or even allow me buy what I want to eat cos i refused to abort... he has been keeping malice with me for 6 months cos i refused to abort. I wish my mum was alife I would have had a confidant. I wonder most times why he is so wicked to me after all my sacrifices... the heart of men is really wicked! He traveled and gave me an equivalent of NGN10k for upkèep??? Me that i was earning close to 2M... i know i will rise again and this time much wiser...
ReplyDeleteAWwww! Devils in form of men. God is ur strength darling. *e-hug*
DeleteI wish I didn't sleep with 7 guys. The guy I loved so much told me hs body count is two and asking for mine. I havnt told him yet because I do not want to lose him. if I lie, he will believe due to my innocent looks. If I tell him the truth, he might leave. I wish, I wish.
ReplyDeleteDumb mofo
DeleteI wish I can just turn into a vampire here! Eat up all these comments! And stop this "I wish tingy"...its getting on my nerves!!!
ReplyDeleteI wish I never married where I married, wish my family could see I am gradually becoming an alcoholic just to surpress my pains, I wish I could no longer hear people are going through worst situation. I wish I could smile again because marriage has taken that away from me.
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