Yesterday Actress Ruth Kadiri shared her opinion on sacrificing for ones family on her instagram page .........
Hmmmmm!!!
I beg to disagree with you Ruth!..If you have a friend who doesnt understand
this,it might be one of plenty reasons..People who didnt grow up in a love filled environment will NOT feel this bond to family.People who do not have families may also not understand this...but they can learn from you............This is my two cents but i will not stay away from a person who doesnt understand family ties..let them see you and learn...rub off on them!
And please Ruth stop playing Miss Good-two-shoes abeg you!
Good for her
ReplyDeleteWhat does she know, always trying to feel important.
DeleteShe is right somehow
ReplyDeleteStella,you have started again.Which one is she should stop playing miss goodie two shoes?Na so you go dey find trouble.So she's not entitled to her opinion again abi? hian!!!
DeleteStella, how is she playing miss goody-two shoes? Or is there something you ain't telling us?
DeleteNawah!
Stella I agree with you on this one. People think it's just blood that makes a family. When there is no loyalty, you are just another blood related neighbour. Some families aren't worth it cha cha
ReplyDeleteGbamest!
DeleteBut Stella you sef dey use style call people out, anyway her wine of glass
ReplyDeleteGood morning BVs
ReplyDeleteSee belle like python wey swallow cow!
ReplyDeleteAbeg not everybody think dat way
It even happenes btw siblings! One would go extra miles to care for d family, while d other don't just care! Talking from experience!
Abeg who is dat tailor dat sewd dat top?
Good for her
ReplyDeletePls who noticed d shading from pinkdmail on her post! Choi pipu gat no chills
ReplyDeleteEnd time opinion
ReplyDeletewhat if ur family(parents) r against d family ur nuclear familyy(hubby n kids)? who do u choose
ReplyDeleteStella pls leave my babe alone o. Thats her opinion. Yah
ReplyDeleteAnd please Ruth stop playing Miss Good-two-shoes abeg you! WHICH ONE IS "PLAYING MISS GOOD-TWO SHOES"? SOMEONE HELP ME OOOO! ABEG
ReplyDeleteIf she plays miss goodie 2 shoes nko??
ReplyDeleteHow is that a problem??
Everyone plays miss goodie 2 shoes until they are caught doing bad. And I totally agree with her. Anyone who doesn't understand the meaning of sacrificing for family members should be avoided..
Even if you are from a broken home, you would sacrifice to mend that brokenness... I can go to and fro to see that my family is well taken care of..
Chop knuckles
DeleteGbam....muahhh,u ave save me the strength of typing
DeleteI love u with plenty homo RK, but I don't agree with u on this one inUgo.
ReplyDeleteThat's her opinion.
ReplyDeleteStella state yours and stop telling her how to feel or behave.
Selah.
Stella what about people who did not grow up in dependent families? Some grew up with independent parents who don't need them for anything. They don't have to be fed.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure she's talking about extended family, cos I doubt it's hubby and kids.
This working to 'feed' family makes siblings and extended family lazy. Yea! They won't grow up early and be looking to you for every. I watched my parents do it and till now some people haven't understood that they are adults. Instead of working to feed them teach them how to work and support them when needed
ReplyDeleteEnd of the earth? What you do? Where you go? Who you meet? Hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHope you didn't do something horrible and then cast your friend away because he or she tried to correct you.
Infact why am I even going on and on...I don't know these people...
Next!!!
Iphie you're smarter than this, please something some drama somehow is brewing in Nollywood, everyone is kinda waiting for who will spill it. This working your add off to feed and clothe a cheating husband is obviously the focal point. Watch out. Marriage boxes being upturned. I am waiting too.
DeleteLa oju e!
Working your ass off
DeleteBabe,you know I don't catch fast when it come to this kind drama na..
DeleteTell me something
Stella what about people who did not grow up in dependent families? Some grew up with independent parents who don't need them for anything. They don't have to be fed.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure she's talking about extended family, cos I doubt it's hubby and kids.
you stella, which one is stop playing miss gooddy two shoes.thats her own opinion na..u dont have to agree..u r just a load of trouble..may God deliver u n ur ugly big mouth.
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteThank you stella! Tell her o. Everyone forming philosopher on IG
ReplyDeleteShuo... Stella, is it your goody two shoes?
ReplyDeleteLeave Ruth, she be Saint.
I agree with her on taking care of ones family. About cutting ties I'm not so sure. Depends on your personality. Some people tend to be influenced by others really easily while others not so easily. If your friend is not into the taking care of family thing and you are one who dsnt have a mind of your own, you can swing to your friends idea. But if you are strong willed, you MIGHT end up influencing that friend and making them see the mistake they are making. I say "might" cos some people refused to take advice or be swayed by others way of thinking.
ReplyDeleteStella u wan start ur own 2016 drama too?!
ReplyDeleteWell I feel no friend can make me change my thoughts and gestures towards my family cos I love them deeply. Its not compulsory we discuss about my family. There are other things to gist about so if my friend doesn't understand family ties, she can either see and learn from me or turn a blind eye, we can still be friends but my family won't me discussed. Na me she know not be my sweet mama, bro or sis.
ReplyDeleteStellastica! You re right on this one, there re people who dont have that family bond and connection, i have a colleague like that, she works for herself alone and doesnt understand why i have to inconvienice myself for a relative each time anyone needs help, so her dad became sick one time like that but due to shes from a polygamus home she refuse doing anything or send money home, the dad later died and she was bittered and cried, i was like if u had helped out u wouldnt feel this bad, why love the dad now that hes dead? Well i talked to her and shes changed, imagine if i had left her as ruth is suggesting she wouldnt learn. Ammy.
ReplyDeleteRuth I beg to differ! I ain't carrying family baggages of any form. You are simply encoraging lazy laid back individuals to depend on you. How are they going to realise their potentials in life? Unless you're misunderstood, I think it is absurd to allow people to take advantage of you. I'm fed up of our people always asking for help. Who dem don help?????
ReplyDeleteThey won't allow you focus on your own wife and kids. They will be calling u upandan for money. The day you need their help they will be nowhere you can see. Instead they will now be focusing on their own nuclear families. I will do what I can when i can but I ain't breaking no back for no one. Thank God my siblings are fine. If my parents in their 60s are always investing, saving and planning, nobody should come and give me headache.
DeleteStella,even though I agree with you,she has a right to her opinion. State yours while she States hers! Is it your goody 2 shoes? Wetin consign" you? It's not your business "what number of goody shoes she is" abeg! You obviously need a call out. It's evident.
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteStella that's her opinion. State yours and leave her alone!!
Goody two shoes? Same thing you do!!!!! So live and let live.
Hian.
Stella who send u message? Must u agree with her opinion? Why u like trouble like dis na? Abeg stay ur lane oooh.
ReplyDeleteSome families can over do, keep sleeping around to feed them, and make them lazy, it's not that u won't feed ur family, but most times when dey r used to it dey dey too lazy and inconsiderate, cuz Ruth the family you mean is ur parents and siblings I guess, u ain't married yet, if u have a friend who tell tells you to be careful how you spend on family cuz u ain't working, so u will cut of from them? I have a friends who's mom doesn't care where she brings money from, but yet she is so demanding, she doesn't even take care of her self well,, her mom knows she doesn't work and yet demands like craze, when I tell her to reduce it she thinks I'm wicked and don't want her to take care of her family,, this things r deep men.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteEnds of the earth? Pretend for one day that something is wrong with you and see how the same people you go to the ends of the earth will treat you.
Sometimes people who try to fix everything wrong with others are just looking for avenue to avoid their own issues.
Learn to love yourself enough to say No to people sometimes. It doesn't make you mean but wise.
XOXO MYSTERY
Stella!! Stella!!Stella!! Nah wah oooo
ReplyDeleteYOu always ignore my comments, I dont know why.
Peeps, Echi di ime!
Stella you are so right, some people don't understand family ties. The bond shared while growing up help to appreciate family but I understand her stand some didn't have that opportunity so its hard for them to understand people who does, sometimes this is one the reason we have daughter and mother in law WAHALA.
ReplyDeleteStella u know sometimes you suck. What do u mean by"Ruth stop playing miss goodie 2shoes? Have u not played enough goodie too shoes with your comments on the chronicles? If u have personal issues must you bring it here? Oh because you know a thing or 2about Ruth u must rube it in here? That is so unethical of you. I don't know Ruth from Adams,but what u said about her is wrong. If you like post my comment.
ReplyDeleteThis is a form of bullying abeg. She's entitled to her own opinion.
ReplyDelete"...EVEN IF IT MEANS GOING TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH TO DO IT"
ReplyDeleteThis got me...lol.
I used to be like that until I was advised by an older person who sat me down. Didn't know I was draining myself physically and mentally. Others were noticing it except me. It was a way of life for me then but was sucking me dry because I was going beyond my means just to meet up.
According to this person, "...if you don't solve this problem, it will still be solved anyway. If not by you, then somebody else. And nobody will die if you don't solve it. You don't have drive yourself mad trying to solve family problems. If you die doing it, family lives on and continue without you"
That shook me... .
I thought deeply about these words and practiced it sometimes. It worked...to my amazement. You will see that problem being solved one way or another. I found out that sometimes, a family member has what it takes to solve the problem but decides to come to you because they don't want to spend from their pocket.
All because you always give...
Ruth, you had better changed that mentality of "going to the ends of the earth" to satisfy family. You have to learn to say NO sometimes even to your children. It makes people lazy and leaves their brain dead. People have to know that this world is not a bed of roses.
My two cents...
Stella shut up... How is she playing goody two shoes? U give stupid advice here with your red pen too... If u don't agree ur cup of tea.. It's her own opinion so don't know what goody two shoes u are yacking about, more so she has her reasons
ReplyDeletePortable pigmy and her stupid retarded comments... How is she trying to feel important... It's her page and she can say whatever she likes... Stella brought the quote here, did she beg Stella? Did she force u to read? The bloggers who can't do without the artist bring their stories here... Stella needs them to survive...
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