It's a sick World out there and from what I have seen and read,I dont think it is proper to refer to a child as Husband or wife irrespective of whether one is joking or not...It's one of the attributes of most sick and se***ly unstable people.
Most kids in schools are taught to report such behaviour to their parents at once.
What is wrong in saying he is my small horseband. I dont see anything wrong with it. Na everything dey pepper people body. Abeg recession do come and go, it is enough
ReplyDeleteJacintha abeg go and look for work to do. Comot eyes from celebrities IG. The thing full una body.
I guess this name Manchu is common. Cos the unilag Jacinta I know, CANT b on same Level with them ihuoma Abi Wetin sef. Lie lie, I quickly jumped to this post to ask her wen she don downgrade to follow " local nollywoods wannabe" .
DeleteYori yori woman, love me jeje grandma.
DeleteFor ur information, due to the several atraucities commited by both men and women in this our world, it is now wrong to use that word ma, try that in Uk then go home with jail term.
Mc pinky
Yori yori woman, love me jeje grandma.
DeleteFor ur information, due to the several atraucities commited by both men and women in this our world, it is now wrong to use that word ma, try that in Uk then go home with jail term.
Mc pinky
But that's how it starts nau,next she will buy him chocolate and toy and ask the small boy to lick her p***y.
DeleteNdi ashawo ndi ashawo
We are in a wicked world my dear. There's everything wrong with it.
DeleteAre you this jobless jacynta? I Don't know how you guys cope with all your SM networks and still comment on sdk.
DeleteBut there's nothing wrong eith what you said. Just that the rate at which paedophiles spring up in Nigerian, she's only scared you might become one soon.
Because na from drops of water bucket dey full
Most of them were molested as a child. I don't blame them. Jacinta kpele they misunderstood you
DeleteIs she still here, cos I stopped seeing her comments here after that post where she begged Eniola Badmus for some of the shoes she was giving out.
DeleteAbi she don change ID sef...
It seems to be the norm.
This world don spoil oh. Those days this "small husband/wife" talk was the norm. Now everything is suspicious behaviour.
Every thing is wrong with it my princess!..
DeleteThe likes of Jacinta will abuse this boy if no one is watching!....
Jacinta go for deliverance!..
I don't really like that word my wife or my husband,things are happening this days not even only in the physical but spiritual.
DeletePrincess scheherazade, she changed ID to Typ...... something
DeleteIt is all shades of wrong to refer to a child (boy or girl) as your husband or wife.
DeleteI no dey dull, if any one refers to my daughter as 'my wife', I shut them down fast by saying 'she's not your wife in the mighty name of Jesus!'
DeleteGlo #200......31894 63185 16299
ReplyDeleteThanks I got d card. God bless your pocket
DeleteI don't see anything rong in what Cynthia said!
DeleteI think Jacynta was joking though, but the world is so rotten that one has to be careful about these things.
DeleteMeanwhile its been long I saw Jacinta's comment here.
Nawa.
ReplyDeleteCrazy as the world may seem, we don't have to become paranoid.
Easy people, relax....it's a joke.
I get that it might be sensitive to people that have been molested and the world has gone crazy but lets not become suspicious of everything abeg.
But it's ok to call your sons your boyfriends abi? Na wah
DeleteThis life is not so hard Nah.... Why is the lady taking it personal?? O ga ju
ReplyDeleteJacinta jacinta,una get time oooo,weydon ma
ReplyDeleteThank you Stella . Thank you. It's a pity how aggressive our youths get when you correct them.
ReplyDeleteMethinks Jacinta is not conversant with current happenings in the society, she was obviously joking.
DeleteBefore now, yes, it could pass as a joke but today? No dear. Not acceptable. The days are evil. Don't even peck a toddler anymore, the Mum will react.
Jecinta will soon become a celebrity.
ReplyDeleteThis one is a post??
ReplyDeleteWhat's wrong in saying that?
Lmao
Una go dey alright
For me nothimg wrong with it but I know someone that the daughter was molested from this kind of talk.
DeleteJacinta is just an IG follower that might never see that boy, so there should be no big deal.
Yes the topic should be a post not just gossip that's why this blog is unique.. Sometimes I cringe reading some of y'all comments in my anonymous mood!
DeleteI taya for stella..maybe today is a slow news day.
DeleteNothing*
DeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
ReplyDeleteI don't see anything wrong in calling him her husband.
In african culture it is acceptable, it's all a joke.
Only now that people have become so amorous that people are giving w second thought to such talk.
So many things wrong with your African culture. Needs rebranding
DeleteIt is not acceptable
DeleteAnons u have complexity thats why we copy everything the white do & they look @ us as lower humans cos we no longer have mind of our own. Nothing wrong with African culture, pple like you misunderstood it.
DeleteAfrican culture needs rebranding..!! So nothing wrong with girl curcumsion ?? Which culture be that? YEYE define complexity lool
DeleteMy dear, you can't argue this one out. Do you know the number of kids that were molested by 'jncles' and 'aunties' because of this same 'my wife, ' my husband' talk.
DeleteYou can't talk that ish with my kids. They don't call.anybody 'auhty' 'uncle' that's not family. No unnecessary familiarity. No carrying on your knees. I was even careful in church with people carrying them when they were toddlers.
We need to know these behaviors perpetuate such evil acts. That's why it is discouraged.
There's nothing wrong with that, a paedophile is a sick paedophile,calling a child your husband doesn't make you one.
ReplyDeleteJacinta is slowly becoming an Internet celebrity.
D real pedophiles don't even call kids these sweet name.
DeleteMore followers to her
DeleteI'm sure you don't have a child!..
DeleteBirth one and allow people to be calling him/her their husband and wife!...
Na so some people go deh kiss their own brother then tag "we play too much" listen people the devil can sow seed and influence the imaginations of ur heart with the words of your mouth. A friend started stroking my son's Significant other while bathing him ; later that day she told me my son's stuff was huge for his age (7yrs) I asked her how she knew she said while bathing him!! Another time she allowed my 2yrs son to stroke her breast and guess what?? She's always calling my son "my husband"
DeleteStella relax...
ReplyDeleteEverything now na news. Please when will this recession end?
ReplyDeleteAsk, Kemi adeosun, emelife, osibanjo & co
DeleteLma😂😅😆! Everybody with the one wey de worry am jare. Its well ooo
DeleteMust you be everywhere?... #nkirikid.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her,jobless idiot!...
DeleteLol.....@ nkrikid....blunt chic...abadie?
DeleteBut if i may ask,what is wrong with what she said??Please always think positive not the other way round
ReplyDeleteThis is frustration in the highest order. There is nothing wrong in saying "my small husband" please. So many women called me their wife or daughter in-law while growing up that did not affect me in anyway.
ReplyDeleteExcept when you leave a minor unattended with an adult.
It can be viewed two ways,
ReplyDeleteJacynta meant no harm and she is not wrong to say little husband it shows she has genuine likeness for the boy cos she likes the mother.
The veryjules abi wetin is also right because the heart of men is pure evil and morally, people will feel it's not right to address a child as your husband and mostly on social media.
So my advice to Jacinta is, please be mindful of things you write on social media, don't be too loose and carefree, have some restrictions to what to write.
Spot on..
DeleteLove your last paragraph..
I pray she takes note..
Na wa, they took it a bit too far but I for one don't like my kids been called "my wife" or "my husby" I don't like it.
ReplyDeleteJacinta sef too busybody, let her get busy, First it was shoe beggy beggy from Eniola now this one mcheeew
She wants to be celebrity by force by fire.
DeleteSo don't blame her..
@*stella*
ReplyDeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteIf you all say nothing wrong with what Ms Mbachu wrote because she's BV? Then Nigerian youths needs relearning. It is wrong lets say Isio is a girl Child n Ms Mbachu a guy your views will change! As a mother this is all shades of wrong .
ReplyDeleteI hate paranoid people because they make life uncomfortable for those around them. Since when did it become a crime to call people playful names?
ReplyDeleteHonestly roseflower, paranoid people everywhere oh. It's tiring. That's why I carry and play with only my kids. Where's even the energy to carry other people's own when I have plenty. People are so ducking paranoid these days it's crazy. I've learnt to be careful and prayerful, not paranoid.
DeleteI hate it. I cut friendship with my friend for this reason. She kept calling my son her husband, and asking her big his penis is,i was disgusted. So I cut all links with her. She saw it as a joke, I saw it as an Alarm. My baby boys is still very young. I need to protect him from people with sick minds and thoughts.
ReplyDeleteGbam!! Once my husband's friend called my little girl "my wife" she herself called to order I am not your wife I'm a little girl.
DeleteGood!
DeleteAbegi, the sick people nko wey no call little husband or wife and molest children, how far? We too serious jare. Ammy.
ReplyDeleteYes we too serious na so play play another thing go enter. The Bible said be careful for NOTHING!!
DeleteAbeg o, me sef hate that my wife rubbish, why wld you even do that. I have never in my life called a child my husband, its weird. And why is the bvn busy tagging ufoma upandan. But you're complaining when someone else is tagging you.
ReplyDeleteTake a chill pill y'all
ReplyDeleteLol. I don't see anything wrong with calling a child "your little husband" tho. But it's a sick world, so ppl literally read meaning to things. I'm sure she meant no harm.
ReplyDeleteLol. I don't see anything wrong with calling a child "your little husband" tho. But it's a sick world, so ppl literally read meaning to things. I'm sure she meant no harm.
ReplyDeleteTorh!!! Afi suuru.
ReplyDeleteLol Stella I was only joking
ReplyDeleteErm,are you Jacinta? So it's true you changed your ID? Issokay
DeleteChai, Jacinta so you truly changed your name after bvs took you to the cleaners for begging for Eniola's shoes.
DeleteFan, it's not news that she changed ID.
DeleteMy dear, don't make those kind of jokes and please try to take corrections when someone offers. Those kind of comments on social media can even affect you. Embassies these days look up your SM handles and criticize things, even employers too. You don't want to portray yourself in like that.
DeleteNow, on a serious note. The world has changed. The dangers of such statemnetts in the past has made it a no-no today. So many things are happening and one need to be careful. I wish you the best.
sick to call a cutie your husband??? that's insane.. i know we are in a crazy world but i think that person took it too far, Jacinta may never even meet this boy, so what is that persons business. Its probably an angry bv that wanted to poke Jacinta...
ReplyDeleteYea Stella is right couple with the tins we see in D news everyday no doubt she meant no harm but others won't see it dat way.
ReplyDeletePlease it's a random,common saying here in dis part of d world.I say it all d time with children i love evn call their mums my mothers-inlaw.Doesn't change d fact that i'm an adult and they r children!!Abeg pple should learn 2 loosen up and take jokes.I for one feel it's d unstable ones dat read other meanings 2 jokes like dis.Like say no be Nigeria we dey??How child-husband have u heard of evn with d old joke?????Get a grip (even you Stella)
ReplyDeleteJecynta take correction. It is wrong! Know people are correcting you with love . It is wrong nwa nwangele it is wrong
DeleteJacinta you'll have haters boo. Keep shining. But dear tone down on spreading everywhere on the internet space
ReplyDeleteI see nothing harmful in what she said biko... Hian
ReplyDeleteI think all of you should take several seats! I've called my nephew "my boyfriend" for the past 6 years of his life. Even though he dumps me whenever we quarrel( which happens like every hour). There's no biggie to it at all, even he knows it's a joke, where you can call it strange is when a complete stranger does it!
ReplyDeleteTo you it's nothing to that little boy you have sown a seed of possibility of husband n wife play play.. its very dangerous be careful
DeleteAbeg make we hear word jere.no be write she write am? Abi na to his face she call am?all of dem should go and yansh down abeg .na d mother wall no be the pikin wall.wonder how the pikin wan know .jobless people everywhere.
ReplyDeleteNa from write devil go sow seed go molest other pipo pikins.
DeleteJacinta is just a pervert!,..
ReplyDeleteCan you imagine calling a small boy like this your husband?...
Jesus!...
I'm sure you are that anonymous that said she gives a baby her dirty pussy to suck!,,,
Tueh!,.,
Queen though crazy u may seem but I love you for you.
DeleteIt seems u have a personal grudge with jacinta, why all the insult?
DeleteYou took it outta my mouth. Very silly Jacinta
DeleteSee you Linda eze opening this your halitosis mouth to call someone pervert, according to You, you have sugar sons and daughters, how are we sure they aren't minors? Please quit the hypocrisy right now my friend. I put it to you that you are the most pervert and mentally sick woman on Sdk. It's people like you and that defender of the universe that overreact at little things like this that are even the masked perverts. Disturbed people everywhere. Stella, post my comment, I know Linda is your buddy but post my comment oh.
Delete@nina...up you!!!!👊👊
DeleteBia linda whats your beef with Jacinta, last time i checked the mother aint complaining. Me am smh in disgust of how you think some times. Coming from someone who is married with kids and still keep side boos even when you arent a widow or a divorcee is mindblowing.
DeleteWho spoil reach you for this blog?
Chai i dont want to laugh abeg. If you have a beef with jacinta go ahead and resolve it and dont talk trash about her.
*hangs leg on the window*
Nina Chocomile, God Bless you for your response to that Ekwensu called Linda. She is obviously possessed.
DeleteHmmmmmmn
ReplyDeleteJacinta seems to be everywhere on IG ehn
ReplyDeleteShe's ghetto celebrity groupie . Drives joy and satisfaction from celebrity mentions and likes . She lives for this!!
DeleteI tell you oh. Begging me her.....child molestation he her. You no dey tire?
DeleteI don't see anything there abeg.
ReplyDeleteEven Yoruba mothers call their son 'oko mi'. Meaning my husband.
That's okay they see their husband through him and often times it's a particular child. Everything is wrong with it
DeletePls there's nothing wrong I beg. Here in Nigeria it's a term of endearment. Jacynta pls don't mind them. Over here I ask people how are my children when asking of their kids and it's acceptable. The day I tried it in England the man looked at me like I slept with his wife. So here it's ok. It's simply a term of endearment and there's nothing wrong with it. U calling her out must be a pervert for thinking in that way. Pedophile!!!
ReplyDeleteIlliterate!! If you say calling what is wrong out makes one a pervert then you are a MORON! Say you running around saying pussy pussy where are you? What's gonna be the alert? When need to adjust certain things we say ..!!
Deleteafi atraucities naa
ReplyDeleteEverything is wrong with it, imagine the roles were reversed. Will u see a grown man calling a little girl my small wife and keep quiet? Abeg a lot of things have changed. The mother just decided to not get involved, I'm sure she didn't like that name-calling.
ReplyDeleteThis Jacinta....why are you always rubbishing yourself. The other time you were caught on IG begging now it is child molestation. Give yourself a break from SM please and find something better to do with your time. Tueh
ReplyDeleteHow can you call a little boy...your husband?
ReplyDeleteIt is like a full man calling a baby girl ...his wife.
It is not cute at all.
There are some jokes that are uncalled for. A lot of small boys were sexually abused at a young age and it all started with jokes.
Nigeia does not even have registered sex offenders list in your areas to identify pedophiles and molesters.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Nina Chomille,
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you focus on the topic at hand?
It is completely wrong for a full grown woman to call a small baby boy her husband. Whether she said it jokingly or not, it is wrong.
What is wrong with your reasoning today?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
What is wrong with your own reasoning xoxo? Who told you that the others who molest children call them their husband or wife? Why take such talk personal? Wasn't it on ufuoma's timeline? From experience, pretenders always do the worst .
DeleteWowwww such an attention seeker. Get with the times, young girl. You shouldn't be allowed in civilized society with that kind of mouth andind.
ReplyDeleteSo you really think there's nothing wrong with it? Because the mother just didn't wanna get involved? And then you refused to take correction? Waohhh...
Jacinta Jacinta up you,you are getting dear gradually...
ReplyDeleteCelebrity in the making..
Some sick people cannot take a joke at all. We are Nigerians not America where pervert Is the majority. She said nothing wrong jor.
ReplyDeleteOde who tild u pervert is not majority bcos they cant report doesnt mean we dont ave even more dan usa
DeleteI know someone a dude who cals everyone fine lil kid his wife,he used to call me dat too turned out to b paedophile, one of my close frnd confirmed to me dat he abused her nd used to put his dick in her mouth wen he was babysitting her,wen she was 8yrs old. yesterday he posted a pic of his new catch on fb anoda cute gal(11) nd wrote my future wife am sure hes already molesting her lowkey nd her family wont know they will tink hes just joking
ReplyDeleteI'm surprised you too Stella refer to your kids as 'your boyfriends' I know you mean no harm but each time you use the phrase I feel uncomfortable. And to think you live in Germany. In U.K. here it definitely not a phrase you would be using on a blog.
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