Monday, April 16, 2018
Evangelist Eucharia Anunobi Has A Word For Couples Who Hide Investments From Each Other
Nollywood actress cum Evangelist Eucharia Anunobi, has a message for couples who hide investments and properties from their better halves.....
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Not this present world we are in. When the world cannot buy truth. Is it the man that will tell the truth to the woman or the woman?
ReplyDeleteEvery man for himself or herself. Keep your investment to yourself except you are married to man that behaves like Jesus
Do you ever consider that you are Christian before going against what the bible said? Check yourself dear,you behave like an atheist.
DeleteAnon 14.24 thank you. She professes to be Christian but her words show otherwise. it just makes me wonder How Christianity is just a tag these days for people to wear when it suits them and they take it off when it becomes uncomfortable.
DeleteIn this instance Yori Yori is right. I am a Christian too and didn't believe in hiding anything from my spouse but I couldn't get any dates what more spouse when I was down and didn't have a job... It is very unwise to declare your assets/investments to an obvious gold digger🤔
DeleteThere's nothing in the Bible that says you should tell your spouse your investment. The Bible talks about being wise as a seroent. If you have a spouse that must spend everything once it enters his had then use your wisdom and don't tell him
DeleteEucharia, you have hit the nail on the head. Couples need to be more open. Some women have not even tried their spouses with money but they have joined the bandwagon chanting never let a man know what you have. I am of the opinion that you both should go in with trust until it is broken.
DeleteThe two of you are just foolish. With what is going on in the world, you want to trust?
Deletesorry i am not a christian, i am a Disciple of Jesus Christ
When the bible said wives submit to your hubby,do you think it means submit your body alone? It means all. Where the wisdom of man ends is where God's wisdom started.
DeleteSubmit in totality yo your husband even when you don't feel like it.
Yori,the apostles of Christ were called Christians because they behaved like Christ. You don't behave like a Christian my dear, you behave like an unbeliever. Not just in this post but many others. Your words describe your feelings and it totally shows one who believes in her unbelieveing pastor and not Christ. Sorry if this offends you but it is true.
@18:25 when the bible says husbands love your wife, it meant love them by showing them ALL too 😋😋
DeleteGod bless you direct answer
DeleteThank you Anon 25. She gives 'disciple' advice on Sunday and then worldly advice on Friday. Yori Yori where do you stand? You've got one foot in and the other out. Be who you say you are. Are you truly a disciple of Christ if you deny His words??
DeleteSo true! You hidding stuff is the real mugu.
ReplyDeleteSmh....open ur intestines join.
DeleteLots if men out there arent worthy of knowing their partners assets, its better for banks to take all the credit or greedy lawyers to embezzle it than for side chicks
ReplyDeleteMy sister, that's the conclusion I came to. Today's men are only good for sex in marriage so you wouldn't commit fornication but that's about it. Pray they don't even give you HIV or an STD while you are married to them. Can't remember when last I laid my eyes on a decent man. These are truly the last days... Chai!!!😱😱😱
DeleteIts always very easy to make such statements when you havnt experienced mismanagement & injustice from your man! You'd feel like a total fool.
ReplyDeleteToo many online therapists emerging, even Oprah has never been married, yet she'd give marital advice upandown... The proof is in the pudding.
C'est la vie.
Eucheria didn't say that my dear,the bible said.
DeleteSo true....thanks Eucharia.
ReplyDeleteWhen experience & life shows you that ugly head, all these bible quotes will flee your head, you'd know reality isnt science fiction.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how bad it gets,we must obey the word of God or risk hell.
Delete@Anon 14:26 the pain, misery and anger of unforgiveness in your heart will make you go to help faster.
Delete@Anon 14:26 the pain, misery and anger of unforgiveness in your heart will make you go to hell faster.
DeleteThese are the emotions one would feel when a partner betrays you. If you don't have a responsible partner, be careful!
Sorry oh i dont think i will tell my husband about my investments..Depends on the kimd ofan he is tho ...My sister remains sole heir to the small land i have managed to buy in ikorodu ..And my parents are aware .I hope to start building soon..i am 30 .So when kids come ill change to my kids ..husband will not know .not with the kind of men you have these days .silly irresponsible people .i am in a serious relationship ...Yes he is very open but no i wont tell him i have a land even after we marry .I justvwant to be very careful so i dont experience what my mum experienced .
ReplyDeleteWell, the message is for those that married their better half.
ReplyDeleteHide your investment if you know he or she is your worse half.
So many story that touch the heart out there mbok.
Worse half! 🤣🤣
DeleteWe aint saying hide every damn thing, show him what u can comfortably show...not every thing...you never know..u can never tell...sont come n complain later abeg...male sponsorers...over to u.
ReplyDeleteHAHAHAHA...This message reminded me the day my sister jejely told me her atm passwords, i have even forgotten the damn thing sef..
ReplyDeleteI only trust my son o. not even my brother do I trust not to talk of husband. All of my investments both in 9ja nd abroad are in my kids name. me I no fit shout. I knw d only one that gat me are my kids.! I no fit for husband matter unfortunately.
ReplyDeleteAt least if you don't trust your partner, have a backup plan just in case of emergency. That is why next of kin is very important.
ReplyDeleteThe man I have been in a serious relationship with, I just found out we are at least 15 women in his life ATM, if I'd married such a dog, should I trust him with my assets?!!?
ReplyDeleteIn my own case, i disclosed to my huuby about the landed properties i bought before we got married, started giving me attitude that i lied, that i bought them after we got married, he didnt believe me. kept about 2,500 dollars in his account some months ago, i asked him for my money, started telling he has invested it....do you think i will disclose anything to him again? it is only in money matters my hubby remembers we are one, in other things i'm on my own it is well o
ReplyDeleteThere is wisdom in both secrecy and openness.The decision depends on the circumstances
ReplyDeleteLEP😛
If you have a crafty greedy spouse, please take this advice with a pinch of salt. I've seen men ruin their wives and vice versa. Be as calm as a dove but as wise as a serpent. Study your partner first!
ReplyDeleteHer message is for some and not for others. All situations are not the same, so there is no one solution for the same situation because the players are different. One thing pastors and so-called ppl of wisdom never do is factor in all variables, they assume that everyone is married to a wonderful, kind, loving and gentle spouse. They forget that some women are not getting upkeep money in the home, some spouses are being cheated on and their murder is being plotted by the person they got married to, they forgot that in some homes the children are being sexually molested, that the maids are being sexually harassed. They need to put a disclaimer on their advice, because in reality there is no one size fits all remedy for the host of distasteful encounters that can happen in marriage. How is a woman who is being beaten day and night expected to tell her spouse of her investments especially in a country where women have no real power, and can be put away and her children taken from her, or her spouse's family chase her out of her home upon his death or disappearance, how is such a woman expected to share this information? When polygamy is legal in the land a woman has to have sense in all that she does. We ain't dumb and blind on the planet, we have seen cases where a husband has taken a second or third wife because he wants a new shiny model and an upgrade from the current model. Sorry, but any woman who is silly enough to put all her cards on the table better be tough enough to handle the moment she loses all.
ReplyDeleteI am not advising anyone to be deceptive or to play games in their relationship, all I am saying is that every woman needs to have a level of wisdom in her marriage and understand the society and culture she is in and act with discernment to stay one step ahead, cause no matter where you are in the world it is a man's world.
As much as this advice is true and right, it's unfortunate that it's not often practicable due to the devious and deceitful characters that parade as husband or wife. We singles can only pray that we don't fall into the wrong hands.
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