Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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OH SUSAN;OH TEMI!!

Good day Stella
I hope this mail meets you well. I have been an ardent reader of your blog since 2015 and I must confess "it's nothing but great". please keep me anonymous.

Please beevees, the chronicles may be long but I beg you all to read to the end and advice a brother accordingly, e-slap is also allowed if there is need for it.

I met a lady (Temiloluwa) in early 2014 and we clicked instantly. Six months after we started dating and I must confess she is all I wanted in a lady. Our love was sweet and great. We had issues like every normal couple and we always settle in record time. 

All of a sudden in December 2016 my beloved Temiloluwa broke up with me. 

She deleted me on all social media platforms and everywhere I can contact her. I was dejected, devastated, and confused especially when I know I didn't do anything to warrant such cruel treatment from a woman I love wholeheartedly.

 I contemplated suicide during this time, that's how much I was hurt.


Six months after the break up and still depressed, I met Susan. Susan is a sweet, caring, loyal and faithful lady. She is an upgrade of Temiloluwa. Susan and I started dating 2 months after we met and I must confess the relationship was great but Temiloluwa was still in my head and I found it very difficult to let Temiloluwa go even when I knew the chances of getting her back was almost zero but I hoped to see and reconnect with her. Susan did everything to please me and she almost practically worshipped me but I found myself still thinking of Temiloluwa.


2 months ago, I reconnected with Temiloluwa and we got talking and clicked as if nothing had happened, we literally picked up exactly where we left and I must confess it feels good to be in her hands once more. She apologized and confessed that she never really moved on after she broke up with me.

My dilemma now is this, how do I go about breaking up with Susan knowing fully well she never did anything wrong. Infact, I feel she loves me more than Temiloluwa. Should I even break up with Susan? Should I just let Temiloluwa remain in my past and move on?

 Won't I be termed an ingrate because Susan was there for me during my darkest hours, she supported my dreams and still does, she almost worships me and does everything to make me happy. Won't Temiloluwa still break up with me again?


Both would make a great wife because they are good and great individuals.

 Please Stella and beevees, advise a brother.
Put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you'll do if you were in my shoes. I would also appreciate the advice of those who have been in my shoes before, how did you cope, what did you do, how did you do it?
Please Stella help me because I don't want to get it wrong. Thanks as I await your advice.



*You must be a very very confused man...you couldnt find closure cos someone dumped you for no reason and you wanna do same to someone else?

The Temi lady probably dumped you for someone else and it didnt work out and that was why she came back to her vomit -YOU

Please let the Temi remain in your past....She will dump you again when she finds someone else,trust me on this.......