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Friday, August 10, 2018

Socialite And OAP Toke Makinwa Gives Advice To Women Who Remain In Violent Marriages

Toke Makinwa has hit the nail on the head with these few words....it must be said again and again cos some women are blind in the ear and eyes until until it is too late!
You can take this advice to the Bank and cash out!!!











74 comments:

  1. Toke said it all.... Most women are stuck in a relationship because of the perks that come with it.

    They are in a situationship not a relationship. It's a win-win for some and a win-lose.

    The fear of the unknown is the greatest handicap of all time. Fearing change because we don't want to lose our comfort zone.

    Toke, I no understand why you go snap nude picture? What are you teaching the young ones that look up to you. That nude pic is not tasteful at all. Stella, why you crop the other parts?

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    1. The nude pic just succeeded in putting dents & holes in the message, is that the freedom & bodypart exposure she was denied in her marriage? All this girls that leave their marriages turn into something else... the marriage kept them in check at least, after their divorce u start seeing their true person... turning in small girls with big god or fucking underage or grandpas or nude

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    2. Aunty it’s her body and her life. It is also her Instagram page.

      she didn’t force anyone to visit it or comment on it. If young girls decided to shelve their home training on decency to copy her how is it her business.

      Let’s stop making others responsible for our decisions and actions. Why the hell should anyone look to Toke for guidance and training?

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    3. And you’re still asking Stella to show something you called indecent? El oh El.

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    4. Toke is a full blown hypocrite, thats why shes always ridiculed & criticized... & shes always eager to put herself on a pedestal for young & single women to emulate.

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    5. No one should look up to anyone as a role model.

      Why not we start preaching to people to be their own role models?

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    6. @ Anon 09:12, We cant deny that Her message has depth and she really said a whole lot in her tweets.

      @ Anon 09:23, Your brain is in comatose mood, if the only word you read was only about her nude and nothing else. You better start DETOXIFICATION to clear your cephalus.

      Anako ife na-gave me mΓ³tΓ².

      Anon 09:25, and you are Stella, ba πŸ‘€

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    7. Chi Exotic you said it all.

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    8. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ anako ife na give me mΓ³tΓΈ ona akogheri.

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    9. @CEO Emptess Aggression is truly the defense of the stupid. For someone who preaches decency your words are really decent and Christ like. Peace be unto your stinking soul.

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    10. Anon 11:00, Anako ife na-agba ka mΓ³tΓ². @ least you understood it. That's the koko

      Anon 11:06, May peace elude your gutter stinking soul.

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    11. @Anon 9:12 marriage keeps her in check you say? like some child or a teenager who has no mind of hers? Pleaseeee Marriage aint no bondage okay!

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  2. So true...it is best to walk out and start afresh than to be dead ..

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    1. Yes! But let’s call a spade a spade.

      Madam Toke ONLY walked away because she was not benefitting financially as she had dreamt, since she felt she was marrying up. As money no dey, and eyes still dey ground, she gather sense, come waka!

      She should dead it with her preaching and release her nudes silently if she wants too!

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    2. 11:46,was she talking about why she left?

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    3. which stupid spade are you calling? u don't know shit and you just type rubbish. which money did Maje ever have? hater oshi...she said the truth here and if hatred has blinded you to that then hug the nearest transformer...stop analyzing what you don't know with your dead brain

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    4. Did she really leave? Wasn’t it the guy that left? Wasn’t she still trying to call tech things up even after the news of the baby mama broke?

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  3. Like!!!!!!!! This is the smartest thing I've heard Toke say cos its sooΓ²ooo practical. People going thru hell, I mean real hell because of "what people will say".

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    1. @Samegirl,thanks for the birthday shout out. I really do appreciate it.
      Aunty toke the porn star,I dey greet ooh.

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  4. Toke sha. True talk thou

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  5. Nice one esp the last one.women should have something doing no matter how small.it doesn't matter if u are in a happy marriage,single, violence or unhappy marriage

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  6. Right message.
    Wrong messenger.
    You stayed in an emotionally wrecked marriage for 10yrs, even after he impregnated another woman you still tried to make it work till it was obvious he lost all interest in you..

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    1. How about you face the message? Some Nigerians and dwelling on irrelevant things sha.

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    2. Oh shut up! From your analysis isn’t she the right messenger because she has been there and seen it all?

      When you people hate a person based on rumors and jealousy you go all out to bullshit their every move. Some of you have slept with different men in the name of relationships but still have mouth to call her a prostitute. Your only pain is because she is balling and immune to the rants.

      Abeg ride on Toke! And watch some idiots come and call me Toke because they’ve never had people speak good of them in their lives.

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    3. Rumours? She wrote a book with horrifying details. She didnt remain with Maje despite the ill-treatment cus she had her own money... she didnt/doesnt have kids so i dont expect her to know what its like to walk away from an unhappy marriage, she MIGHT have an idea though.

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    4. @9:37 Madam, her message is simple and explicit.
      Don't be a lazy axx.
      Get up and go get some thing doing.
      Don't relie on your husband's income 100%; so that when the chips are down, you can have a back-up plan.
      Whether you have kids or not. Do not die in dv.

      Ukpana okpoko gburu, nti chiri ya.

      I can't explain the last sentence, heard it from my wise Japanese friend.
      #sideeye@Oxygen
      ����

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    5. are u minding all these fools...cos they hate someone even if that person says the truth bitterness wont let them admit it..she is wiser now and has moved on, haters stop living in her past

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  7. Youre yet to see someone leave a bad situation and do badly.. really?? Have u been looking, do you see the trauma or effect on kids? some people leave frying pan to fire, and their kids suffer in the hands of stepmoms, while the mother watches helplessly, some women will rather die literally than watch their kids suffer for a wrong choice of husband they made, its maternal instincts kicking in.... its very complicated, dont assume its always easy to leave, outsiders looking in would chant "Leave now before you die".. its not always easy, theyre not fools. Im in no way advocating for Demonic or domestic violence or using makeup to cover a black eye while they remain there but it goes beyond women empowering themselves.

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    1. You are very wise. God bless you. So many of them will be chanting leave, leave as if it's the easiest thing to do. Those who can should, but those who remain are not fools. It's not easy separating children from either parents. I have read a chronicle here where the woman was lamenting after leaving her husband and is now struggling with two children. Everyone was busy saying it is well, nobody extended any form of help or assistance to that woman. After telling them to leave, y'all will abandon them to their fate and start chanting it is well. Abeg make una carry una hypocrisy comot for here πŸ™„

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    2. Thank you, you people are wise! People will tell you to leave then when you are in need they will tell you it is well and move on with their life. If your husband is violent by all means leave and face life even if you have to struggle, it is better to be alive struggling than dead because things will get better but if you are just in an unhappy marriage, meaning your husband is not violent, doesn't hurt the kids but he has traits you can't cope with don't rush in leaving. Find something to do before you leave because all those people chanting leave leave won't look you in the face when you are suffering.

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    3. Annoymous 10:30...no vex..Oya everyone suffering Domestic Violence can stay there oo and die...

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    4. You have insight! Great message ... but saying she has never seen someone leave a bad marriage and do badly almost invalidates her message... cos mehnnn, a lot of women do! Especially in a system like Nigeria’s where the average women is not empowered enough intellectually to know he steps to take to get the man to provide when divorce happens..

      She’s living in her fool’s paradise and talking like a politician who has no idea about what the masses are really going through..

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  8. Glow baby.... wish i can get the toke glow, but as usual it wont make sense

    Happy selling babe

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  9. Focus on the message and not the messenger
    Toks baby, 10/10

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  10. just to be clear..
    One slap from your husband doesnt mean you should pack and run away oh, if its your boyfriend sure dump his ass.

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    1. Yeah right.
      Why differentiate the slaps? So a husband has the right to slap his wife and she would stay put,but if it's your boyfriend then you must dump him?

      Slap is slap
      Domestic violence is domestic violence whether it's from your husband or boyfriend and should be treated same way.

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    2. if husband slap you, dont just cry and keep mute.. make a big deal, a very big deal out of it so it doesnt repeat itself or turn to punch next.

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    3. The journey of a thousand miles starts with a step anonymous. A single slap from the husband is a prelude to many more slaps on the way.

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    4. Chi exotic so you will advice a woman to divorce her husband bcus he slapped her abi

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  11. But she still moved on, and bettered her life at anon 8:56

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  12. My two cents?

    No one should tell you what you ought to do or not to do.... I had no job when I left the man I bore my kids for. All I had in my account was 46,000 no savings and debt incurred..... My debt was way over #560k.... My business ran down.

    I sat down and asked myself certain questions...
    "Do you really wish to keep living this way?"
    My answer was NO....

    See, he never beat me.. Never cheated, nor insulted me.. But the neglect and emit abuse made me drink sniper last year... Finally, I became a shadow of myself. In just just 3 years of marriage, we would have celebrated our 4th anniversary this year, my looks had changed and I became delusional. Always heard voices telling me to jump, while on a bridge or run into the main road while working....

    Oh... Did I tell you I paid the kids school fees, fed and cloth the kids and mY husband? Took his clothes to the dry cleaners for laundry and fueled his car!!!!
    I had no job.
    He did....

    But I did all of this just so he could love me in return....
    Yimu....
    πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    The pressure became too much.
    My business I was managing ran down.
    Uncle, please help me na...
    No way!
    He ignored me.

    Would leave for work without dropping a dime for food.
    I begged friends for money to eat when I was low on cash, I ran to a money lender. 😁

    Kai!
    I suffered....

    So I left.
    Its been two months since I left.
    With my kids (two) and I don't regret it. I had no support from family and friends. Just two friends stood by me cos they knew how much I was hurting. Both married and in their husbands house,..

    They stood up.
    Housed us
    Took us in.
    Then God gave me money to start all over again.
    Now I have enough saved up for accommodation...
    I am just waiting to meet a good landlord who won't mess me up....
    I am not there yet but biko, if you see my pic before and after, you ll weep for me...

    This is my story.
    Not the best there is.

    However, I leave you with one word.....

    You chose how you want to be treated by others.

    God bless you.

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    1. Village people will just send one of their agents as husband for person to marry, na wa o.

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    2. Thank God for you. I don't know why somebody will be in a bad marriage taking all the **** and still wait for people to advice them to leave. Thank God you were able to make up your mind. You will be better off for it. When I saw my elder sister's picture during and after marriage, I could tell what you have been through. My sister looked like a grandmother with only one child but was in her 20s.
      You are already fine dear. God be with you.

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    3. Fan Emma, yes it can happen with One Week sef, how long did it take the Acrimony guy to blow after he left his marriage?

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    4. Hmmmm

      Thank God for your life....

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    5. May your joy remain permanent Anon. I am so happy for you dear.

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    6. Wowww thank God you took that bold decision

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    7. hnnm thank God you got wiser and left...me i have always been stingy to men and thank God its paying me off cos i was able to wait for a man who showed me he was responsible enough to take care of his home...i contribute to feeding, school fees, clothing etc but he does more and he never waits for me to bring when he has. when he is broke he tells me and i gladly help in any area but he knows it is his responsibility to take care of his house hold regardless of what i earn...all my friends who were feeding boyfriends and spent more than half on wedding expenses are still bread winners even almost 10-15 years after marriage....a man who cannot take care of his home aint qualified to marry...even if you earn 5k you must be able to give your wife 1k out of that money to buy food at home etc...its is abnormal for a woman to be a bread winner. yes for a season if the man is out of job but he should be actively looking..most of these signs show up before marriage. WOMEN STOP SPENDING ON MEN COS THEY WILL CONTINUE EXPECTING YOU TO DO ALL EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE..

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    8. sorry about what you went through.

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  13. True talk Toke but wear your cloth.

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  14. if you know, you know.10 August 2018 at 09:24

    This is so apt, but I pray they listen, Nigeria women see marriage and a life time achievement and can't bear not been refer to as MRS.

    Stella o, is this not Toke's nude pix that broke the internet yesterday ? Ooooooh!!! Why you crop am nau!? Stella stop this things you are doing oh.

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  15. True talk Toke but wear your cloth.

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  16. Toke needed that nude picture to show the white mogul who is Oluchi Orlando's friend how hot she is. The picture is over photoshopped sha.

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  17. why is she looking like stephy's wounded cat?

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  18. MICHAEL JACKSON TOKE MAKINWA

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    1. Truly she resembles Michael Jackson

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  19. I hope they listen..being a Mrs is just a rare proviledge to some.

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  20. Hope her married boyfriends are not busy abusing their wives on her behalf.

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  21. Live by your inspirational post Toke..All these your daily quotes is just for the gram.Pretender! Always trying to make a trending headline to remain in the news.Meanwhile you're living the opposite of what you preach.Be true to yourself biko!

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    1. Do you really know her?
      Some of you are daft.

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  22. Everyone just talks about been in a violent relationship how about those of us stuck with cheating husbands that make us feel that it's okay for them to cheat on us because they provide for us. Nobody knows what I have to put up with, they see the nice home, the trips, my fake smiles and think I have it all.. but I die each day knowing my husband can never love me completely...

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    1. Tie him in a bottle n have peace before he gives u a deadly disease

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    2. My dear if cheating will make you happy do it...some men are just bloody self centered by nature. my hubby too thinks it is his birthright, sadly i blame myself cos his father was also a community dick so what did i expect..I am yet to cheat cos honestly i could not bring myself to do it,but i told him recently that if i hear of any more affairs i am going to have one. he became angry and i told him am not joking so he should not dare me. he takes care of me and the kids and to be honest our relationship is good but he feels men will just be men...pls make yourself happy and just know its not about you.i know it aint easy but for your peace of mind you must...he has the problem and till his mindset changes his attitude wont change.

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    3. Your husband can never be you for you. Love yourself completely and you will come back here and tell us what changed.

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  23. Most of the women that insult Toke in this country are just jealous of her success..,I know some of you will say it is runs.

    If it is that easy why are your boyfriends and broke husbands not paying that much for your own vaginas?
    Na the same thing all of us carry, if you can not understand how she is not miserable even though she's divorced it is because she has decide to take charge of her life and live it.

    Leave Toke alone.

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