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Saturday, November 17, 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

Oturugbeke!!!







STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

IN HOUSE BROUHAHA

Please Stella post this on chronicles for me. 

I just want to share this with you people. My husband is a very good man, he is hard working and dedicated to the things of God, but the issue here is that my parents don't respect him the way they ought to. We are not millionaires but we are very comfortable and can afford the basic things of life. 




I have two elder sisters whose husbands are so rich like filthy rich, not to mince words, they are drug dealers, my sisters are living a life of luxury and I am happy for them but my mom won't stop taunting me with that, she keeps comparing their husbands to mine. For example if I buy a bag of rice for her, my sister's husband takes her on a trip to Dubai. I'm doing my best, she doesn't even appreciate my efforts and gifts. 



My husband and I work really hard, he is about to start his PhD while I'm getting my Msc. She will be celebrating her birthday in a big way and they didn't even inform me, I complained to my sisters and mom, they were like it doesn't matter, that involving me in the planning won't be of much importance. 


Now to my father, this year's father's Day, he embarrassed my hubby in front of other guest, although he insisted he was only joking. How should I address this issue because my husband has vowed to never set foot in any of my family occasion till further notice.





Awwwwww,Madam you and your husband should take it easy and relax...ah ah,is it inferiority complex or what?
If your sisters husbands are very rich,why are you and your hubby trying to compete?Yes,i see it as trying to compete otherwise relax and thank God that you dont have so much pinned on your head...

He wont step feet on any occasion?mscheeeew 

101 comments:

  1. If I'm you, I will just BLANK THEM!!

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    1. Poster you don't have a problem bow. Since your sisters husbands are very rich and do so much for your parents. You guys should just blank them. When you send the little you have, you ignore and face front. In fact turn deaf and dumb to them.

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    2. Stella this your comment no just follow at all... ah ah.
      Which competition?
      Was the disgrace a competition?
      The mother not appreciating her gifts nko? Na competition?
      Or shouldnt buy her gifts at all so it doesnt look like competition?

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    3. You let your family disrespect your husband and you are asking if you should address it, address it, it doesn't change cut them off

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    4. Stella she is not competin with her siblings rather it's her parent that is comparing!
      Poster just press your ignore button, you and your husband should do the little you can for them and ignore what ever they say. Just blank them like Fan said.

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    5. Stella you do not understand what this lady is saying. She is not competing wuth her siblings, instead her parent are the ones pitting herself and husband against other siblings.
      Poster my advise is that you stay away from them for now, since your mum and dad have decided to be petty. Stay on your lane. E go kala for dem eyes when those ones start suffering for the I'll gotten wealth.

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    6. I feel you but what if those husbands get arrested, who will get the final laugh? Ignore your parents.. Weldone to you and your husband for furthering your studies

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    7. Gbam @ Fan. It is obvious that they have zero regards for you and your family. Just keep working hard and God wld surprise you

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    8. Stella e be like say you never wake from sleep proper, because this your comment no follow at all oh
      Poster nọ mind Stella oh. No self respecting man will continue to collect insult from your family just because they want a drug dealer in law. Your parents are greedy, the loot they get from your sisters is it not enough for them? Must all their children be into dirty dealings? If I were you, me and my husband will stay far from them and only visit thrice a year on special occasion

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    9. Poster, ur parents are foolish. Embarrassing one's SIL in full plate is plain stupidity. Seems to me you can't face your parents and tell them your mind hence you need us to "borrow you liver" to confront them. Your parents will continue to BULLY you until u put a stop to this nonsense all by yourself and deliver your hubby from their "foolish amusement".

      Also, seems to me you are envious. knowing fully well that your in-laws are into crime, you had to include it in this chronicle. That's not fair enough. What if their money is legit, would you be comfortable? I guess not.

      Confront your worst nightmare; your parents.

      #hadeyhalaba

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    10. Poster, just help them a little by whistleblowing to the police... It's cos they don't appreciate your type of legal means of making money that's why.
      Secondly, if you can't do above , then stay on your lane with your hubby.

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    11. Correct response. Just throw away Stella's feedback on this one bcos its either she didn't properly digest the issue at hand or could care less. NAWA

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    12. Sometimes @SDK’s comments are ignorant and silly. You are still a correct woman @SDK.

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    13. For the first time, almost everyone agreed that Stella was Off Key or off side today. I guess she didn’t read the chronicles well and it happens at times.
      Poster your husband is very right and I support him. Since they don’t value or want you and your husband for now, just blank them,whenever there is any occasion represent your family. Don’t even go with your kids cos they will compare still.
      And please don’t discuss your family life. When your dad asks why your husband hasn’t come, tell them he is busy and he sends his regards. By the time thee do not see you guys again. Your greedy dad and mum will have a factory reset. Am sorry

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    14. Stella Biko delete your response ASAP.

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    15. In time you’d find that you are your parents fallback. When your in laws are arrested or the ill gotten wealth fades, you’d be all that’s left. Hold on, tomorrow will be brighter. Above all else, ensure you are there for your parents.

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    16. SDK I am really not sure you wrote that 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕

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  2. Nawa ooo, Some parents sha.
    You guys are the richest in my opinion your wealth is legal and may God bless your hustle😚

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    1. Stella easy on your advice these days.
      Poster encourage your husband to blank them. When things get better for you guys, they will come calling. Some parents are too greedy.

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    2. Stella did you even put yourself in their shoes?
      Madam please just find peace. If they will keep causing you pain, just let them be

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    3. Haba Stella don’t say they are trying to compete, so because they are doing things to show love to their parents (in their own little way) you say they are trying to compete, that’s not true.
      Poster... I can only imagine how you feel, I think you should give them space, if they take your presence for granted then give them space, when they are interested they will reach out to you

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    4. Stella has never been a good adviser. She is so openly foolish. How can you tell this lady this kind of nonesense advice. I honestly feel like slapping you!😈😈😈

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  3. Stella some of your replies na wa.

    In all she wrote up there where did you see competition between siblings?

    Poster respect your husband's opinion. Do the best you can do for your family and try and ignore all their bangers. The end shall tell

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    1. Stella's red pen weakens me sometimes.
      How did she imply they are competing with her sisters?
      Stella, take your time o.
      Poster just ignore your parents.
      Watch things unfold like you're watching nollywood movies.
      Las las, they would be caught.
      It's well with you guys

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    2. I'm surprised by Stella's response too... hope she read well oo

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    3. Thank you for speaking the truth on Stellas blog filled with bunch of ass lickers. The only competition is the greedy parents xpecting all fingers to be equal... when indonesian drug policy catches up with them then theyd know whats legit pays better!
      Poster, let your husband be, hes not a masochist, i bet his ego has been bruised countless times b4 that last straw.

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    4. I tell you.. This Stella's reply na wa wa.. E no gel at all..
      I don't see how inferiority complex take enter this matter now. Her hubby is being disrespected, she wasn't informed of her mum's bday party,which any sane person won't be happy with and Stella terms it "Inferiority complex"..
      Mbanú, nke a esoro biko..
      Poster pls, Do what you can for them.. Defend your hubby when necessary and don't take shit from them.. If they don't invite you to family functions, show up still and fuck'n SLAY!
      pursue your dreams.. Get that Msc.. and keep on building with le hubz..
      Ofu ubosi, Anya GA efo onye obuna. Udo!!!

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    5. Seriously, I was coming to type this before seeing your comment.

      Inferiority complex and competition you say? Nah!

      They mocking and making this woman and her hubby feel less of a human for not being filthy rich like their other son-in-laws.

      Drug wealth compared to genuine wealth.

      Madam, just stay away from them and face your immediate family.

      A day of reckoning shall come and they all would realize it is you and your hubby who are truly "rich".

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    6. A wise Nigerian fuel station manager said to me on queue "Scarcity creates tremendous value, then when you see little amount of it, you'd appreciate it more".. he was right.
      Poster the degree youre acquiring keep you busy, dont let the one naira on the floor distract you from the one thousand dollar youre chasing!

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    7. Really wa. That's how one happened in my area. Greedy parents. Always disrespecting their elder son and the wife, because the younger use bring all manner of gifts. Big generator, new TV, expensive clothes, trips.... Till he called them from the station one day. Turned out he was stealing from the bank he was working with. The parents did not only sell the things he bought, but also sold their land to pay part of the money plus bail him. They paid through their nose to keep him from serving jail time. Him and his wife are currently squatting with the parents.

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    8. Stella's comment weak me. Poster I support your husband 100%. Even I won't go where I'm not appreciated

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    9. Like the situation is so sad. Please respect your husband's wish and support him.

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    10. Stella one e -slap for this comment. You know get am. Poster pay them no mind. Ignore them my darling. Look good when you go visit, buy them what you can afford. But be very cheerful and bring that persona money can't buy. Don't drag anything at all with anybody infact reject their offers as though you are not interested or take just a little when offered.
      Be the composed, contented, dignified, classy and everyone will like to associate with you. Have a huge smile and keep it going. It won't last, their wealth, trust trust me I'm speaking from 1st hand stories/ experience

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  4. Na wa. madam just try and manage them, they are your family.

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    1. Stella did you read the chronicles at all? I didn't see any competition there, she was only complaining about how her family treats her husband and she has every right to. What her parents are doing is very wrong, you don't do that to your kids and their spouse. Poster please stand with your hubby as long as he is doing right by you and by God. If your family don't like you and your hubby let them be, just avoid any situation that will give them an opportunity to disrespect you again. Play your part and leave the rest to God, one day their eye go clear.

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    2. She doesn't have to manage them. I have a friend Who is an orphan and has 5 siblings, 4 of who just ignored her to be hustling herself during our school days. My babe blanked them and heaven did not fall. Luckily for her, she got married to a man that was doing well, in fact the man paid for all the wedding costs and she is fucking doing well. What I am saying is that people without family members still survive so she doesn't have to keep bearing vtheir stupidity. She should stay away from their toxicity till they choose to change their ways.

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  5. Most families with lots of kids do this to their children and while it is bad to make kids compete or place the rich ones above the less wealthy ones it is what it is.

    You and your hubby should ignore the noise and do you. If he doesn’t want to set foot till further notice, allow him. It’s unfair for your family to mock him to the extent of embarrassing him in front of guests. Also why won’t they tell you about your Mum’s birthday? If it’s 10k you have to contribute it’s not bad and would go a long way. Attend family events, leave your husband to deal with his bruised ego and let your family know that you won’t tolerate anyone insulting him over his status.

    God would also bless your family to have enough to sponsor people on abroad trips, it’s only a matter of time as long as you are both hardworking.

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  6. She isn't trying to compete with them. From what i see,she just craves the love and attention of her parents and that is not such a terrible thing.
    I am truly sorry to say but the parents are stupid for segregating their daughter just because her husband doesn't shit gold bars.
    I have kids and I truly love my daughter more than my sons but I do my best not to show it. Anything I get for her, I get the equivalent for them.
    No parent should make their child feel less loved or special than their siblings even though its I evitable there will be favourites.
    I truly hope the other two husbands get busted for their drug deals. Then and only then will the parents realize the folly of their present course of action.

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    1. She is not. Seems you have never been put down before because of material wealth.

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  7. Do the best you can do and move the fuck on! They are drug Lords and so what? Na them start the drug Lord? It's serious inferioty complex that is your problem and I can tell that beneath your breath you are praying for your sister's husband to be busted isn't it? Like I said earlier bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people. Face your marriage!

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    1. Yeah... bad things happen to good people but it doesnt last, good things also happen to bad people and it doesnt also last

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  8. Eeehnnn...u urself,kuku relax nah..i get ur point anyway,if u guys were rich,they wld be giving u more respect,but na normal thing,even Timaya don sing am for song....just make urself scarce,and hustle harder,soon,na dem go dey rush you

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  9. Stella this is not fair, where is inferiority complex here, her family is belittling her for not having I'll gotten money and you say she is feeling inferior, how about the mother appreciating her also for the little she does. I am sure if it's your hubby your family disrespect like this you wont find it funny.
    Sometimes your advice comes off awkward.

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    1. Comparing herself to her sisters she already belittled herself.

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    2. Mynak she's not comparing rather she's just letting you case scerionos where dey hurt her

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    3. She compared their sources of wealth. That's how the inferiority complex comment came about.

      It would have been ok if she stated in her chronicle that "her sisters hubby's are stinking rich instead of calling them a drug Baron.

      What if they were govt contractors, she would say they collected bribe from Ganduje.
      Lollll

      #hadeyhalaba

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  10. Poster you and your husband should take things easy, since your two sister’s husbands are very rich why worry your head over celebrations that they did not ask you to pay money? You want wahala for your head oh! Just lock up and allow rich people take care of them, if I were to be in your shoes all I will do it to distance myself from my family members, get my parents account numbers and place them on monthly allowance, I credit their accounts, with what I can afford, from time to time I pay call them, if calling will bring insults I will send them sms to check on them. Do not worry your self over things you cannot change, thank God your husband loves you, you are not begging to eat food, relax and enjoy your marriage, someday your parents will need you for something. You should give them deef ears over things they are doing, never you think of competing with rich people, love your husband, respect him, keep your family matter far from your parents and siblings.

    Someday your parents will love you. If your parents ever tells you that your husband cannot afford abroad trip, tell them that good parents takes care of their children and their husband. Tell them to get a life and stop depending on their in-laws to have a luxury life. Tell them that one day no more enjoyment for them, ask them to go and hustle. Do not get worried over issues that does not make sense.

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    1. You people just love to type rubbish. Are you mad? Her husband was disrespected and her parents make them feel useless and you say the issues don’t make sense? You are stupid Walahi

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    2. Why place parents on a monthly allowance when they’re damn disrespectful. What the hell is wrong with you! They don’t deserve her money at all since they have rich kids! She should distance herself and stand up for her man! Poster sounds weak self. Pick up your self worth and just focus on you man. Annoying chronicle. Mtscheww

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  11. I understand how you feel, this can be painful, just plead with your husband to ignore, even when they don't tell you about plans act like you don't care because they obviously do that to hurt you, so if you show them you don't care, they will mellow down and try reaching out

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  12. Just as Stella said please take a chill pill. You guys are trying too hard.

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    1. Tbabe is an @$$ licker

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    2. See them!! Anything stella says theyd echo it

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    3. Trying too hard how?? Did you,Stella and me read the same chronicle?

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    4. T whatever, did you read at all?

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    5. Awon followers. Follow follow. Did you read or you saw Stella comment and. nod head like lizard and agree.


      The parents are just useless. Causing unnecessary drama against their children

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    6. Omgosh lady where art thou brain??????🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️

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    7. Una sabi like ass for this blog ehn! Tufiakwa

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  13. Stella leave ooo. its painful when you are not regarded by family and always the last to be in the know. like your presence to them is nothing.
    Anyways poster I think you should try and bond with your sisters, it seems you guys are not really close that's the issue here. Once that is handled your hubby's own will fall in line.
    Most families are like that it's the inlaw that brings much to the table they regard.

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  14. Stella this your advise sounds like you've left Nigeria for long hence not in touch with reality back home. The poster or her husband are not competing pls and the husband has every right to stop attending their family events.

    Poster if you ask me, I think you should stop caring. Stop sending them gifts, stay in your lane until they show you that they've changed.

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  15. U and ur hubby ignore them.and he should stop attending their fuctions

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  16. This your people,dem get as dem be o.please just face your family,and dont allow your mom and sisters wahala get to you.you have a comfortable family.let dem b

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  17. I understand how your husband feels, you would probably do samebif you were in his shoes. These things are common with most parents.

    Do the best you can and free them. . Send them you can afford, don't make it a competition and stop paying attention on weather they appreciate it or not!

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    1. See who is talking as if you can take what she is taking


      Did she write competition or what. Oya go and cook night food

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  18. You have tried your best...leave the rest for God.
    One day,your mum will see the good in you and your hubby,for now let her enjoy all she can till ......

    I support your hubby 100%,Let him go where he is appreciated.

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  19. I totally disagree with you Stella. How is she and her husband competing? They are clearly ridiculing the efforts of her family. Most parents respect and dance to the tune of the richer siblings in the family forgetting every sibling give in their own capacity ( via money, love, constantly visiting their parents or calling them everyday). Some parents even respect that child that sends 300k in 2years than the child that visits them every week with food stock. No condition is permanent OP. I stand with your husband. If I am your husband I will never be around your money hungry family to take their disrespect. I pray your siblings husbands keep been slick in their drug deal because jail time is not far from their future.

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  20. My dear, you need to stop bothering your head over nothing...just like you mentioned, you need to set the records straight with your parents, let them know how you feel, spill it raw and don’t even mince any word(s). If after giving them a piece of your mind and they still disrespect your husband then give them space. Just do what you can do for them monthly and don’t go anywhere near them.

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  21. stella sometimes i dn't like the way u respond. if ur husband choose not to go there again u can't blame him, maintain ur lane & lock up 4 there side, work hard make sure u dn't depend on them for anything.

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  22. I stand with your husband on this. If your parents won't accord him a little respect for making an honest living, he should stay away before they demoralise him and send him into the dark pool of depression. And learn to keep your money for other important things since they don't appreciate your efforts. Leave dem to be doing their pepper dem gang among themselves. Who wasting of hard-earned money epp? If they notice his absence, tell them he is busy with work or study. Why should he visit people who will only embarrass him every time? Na by force to be criminal? Abeg o.

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  23. You should first understand that their money is drug money which is extremely dirty money. Don’t feel anything just pity for them because of shit hits the fan....

    Have you tried talking to your parents about how this makes you feel? Like sincerely and respectfully saying how you feel? Ensure you don’t go into details of how your husband feels. The most you can say about his reaction to their shades is that he doesn’t say anything but you can sense the pain and sadness he feels. If the talk goes well then your mum will handle putting your sisters in check.

    Your husband sounds like a hardworking man. I think it’s time you focus on your new nuclear family and how to build yourselves. Focus on your husband, kids and yourself. Let them be spending their dirty money.


    If your parents don’t take kindly to your talk then visits and communication should reduce. Visitations should also be brief. Call when you feel like and on special occasions. Don’t stop buying rice and stuff you usually buy and make sure the both of you present them. Always put up a cheerful countenance and remember not to berate your family in your husbands presence.

    It’s a tough world and I really do wish you the best.

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  24. I honestly think this girl or her husband has inferiority complex and Stella’s comment is just so harsh! No children are ever the same, so putting one down for the other is unacceptable.
    Dear poster, if I were you, I won’t mind that I wasn’t informed about the birthday stuff, since they didn’t ask me for anything, I will go to the party, get her a gift but my husband won’t go. I’ll put them both on a monthly salary and text them to let them know. I’ll aend them text intermittently and let them “HEAL” while I also do my things. We will all meet at a junction someday

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    1. What are u saying????
      Salary for what?
      Who asked for your money??

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  25. Not only your hubby,both of you should stop attending their functions . For the embarrassment your husband faced,your in laws will be busted before the year runs out

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  26. Stella is it the same chronicle we are reading that you replied to? This your reply is totally not it.

    Poater, do what you can and don't take their behaviour to heart. Drug money will eventually have consequence, be content and enjoy your peace of mind.

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  27. na wa oh poster distance is the best

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  28. ignore them....

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  29. Haba aunty Stella this your comment no try at all. This poster & her husband is not competing neither are they jealous! This kind of attitude is common amongst some mothers(parents) ,they push some of their children aside & always look down on them ,blame them for not being wealthy like their other children. Funny thing is that most times it backfires on them.
    It happened to my sister & her husband, when her husband didn't have enough(not that he was begging anybody money) his parents pushed them aside & always insulted them simply bcos their 2nd son who is into shady deals hammered several millions of naira & was buying them cars, home electronics,renovated their family house,they automatically started worshiping the 2nd son,to think that this guy is their first child & first son.
    That's how the money finally finished, & the first son is now making money, doing very well, can afford to buy them cars, & them shamelessly now worshiping him & my sister, they now call him chairman, boss, them no get shame. The other guy even follow dey beg money, such people don't have shame, they can worship anything as long as there's money, they look down g insult others who can't live up to their expectation, what didn't they do to my sister & her husband, they even mocked them & lied against them.
    Poster all you & your husband need do is ignore them, act like you don't see them, even when they insult you pretend not to notice, if it's not important don't go to your parents house,stay on your own. As for this birthday party, you can attend even if they didn't involve you in the preparations. Save your money, let them that have spend theirs, you can send her a gift too, one that you can afford. One day your own story will change. I know you are not competing & don't ever try to impress any of them.

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    1. Exactly!!!
      Poster you will have last laugh. Maybe God is saving your big break to teach your parents a lesson about creating lasting wealth.
      Ever seen a drug dealer in Nigeria leave a lasting legacy? IMO you do what you can and bone them. Dont let it get to you. Just pray for long life for you all so they can live the complete story.

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  30. Stella na wa for this your red pen, I don't see any competition here abeg.

    Poster, you and your hubby should ignore your people jarè, do what you can for them and face front since they have refused to appreciate your efforts. And I support your husband for saying he will not set foot on family functions anymore, if they can't respect him for whom he is, he should stay far away from them aftetall everyone can not be criminal.
    He should be proud of himself and not allow anyone to belittle him.
    Na wa for your parents sef

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  31. I just remembered this Yoruba song "Igbeyin adun, Esan a ke o"

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  32. if my mother ever compares my husband with my sisters husbands she'd never enter my house again!!!

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    1. that is exactly what i will do. i kuku get strong mind before. you mess me up i cut you off

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  33. Stella oya come apologize to the poster osiso.

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  34. The day my parent tried that with my husband that will be the end of me visiting or calling.I thank God I have enlightened parents who are much richer than me that nothing I own or my husband freaks them.So terrible to make one feel inferior because of mere material things that can fade any time.

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  35. Stellakoko, please your advice is not it all. She never complained of trying to be on the same par with them. She's bothered because of her parents attitude towards the husband. Imagine , humiliating a man _ your son in-law in public. Who does that whether joke or not?

    Madam, face your husband and your family. Let your parents be. If you have anything to give them do so and move forward. Forget about the closeness. Mind your business. Some parents Shai.

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  36. Ignore them. Keep sending what you can afford.

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  37. Babe you n your husband should blank 😶 them biko.
    Be glad with the nuclear family.
    This can only happen in an Igbo family 👪

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  38. Stella your advise shows a poor understanding of the poster's issue. You missed the point in its entirety.


    Her family has no right to treat her so or disrespect her husband. That's unfair.

    How can they be planning a party and she would not be informed; that's disregard!! !!!!!!!


    Madam keep your distance, stay away from family events or go alone - make a brief appearance and leave immediately .


    Still send stuff to your parents and do the best for them as a daughter should, but as much as is practicable distance your husband from them ; shield him from your family, so that you don't create unnecessary problems in your home. Your husband can start doing transfer of aggression and their disregard might hurt his ego and make him feel like he is not good enough.

    Better borrow sense

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  39. These type of parents. When the in-laws are caught with drugs they will say that you did jazz. Stay far from them weirdos.

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  40. Poster pls just stay on your own, i understand how you feel, listen to your husband and give them space. They will appreciate you sooner or later.
    Even if they think your money won't do anything in the preparation of the party, at least you deserved to be informed about the birthday. Anyway just dey look them from afar, if you feel like going for the birthday, you can and if not pls stay on your lane. Don't let anyone bruise your ego.
    As for your husband, apologize on your family's behalf and both of you should ignore them. It is well with you

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    1. if na me i wont attend the party.

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  41. I don't see any inferiority complex or competition in this story. What your parents are doing is common these days. They tend to favor and respect their kids that are doing well and mount pressure using snide comments on d ones not doing well and also going to the extent of planting discord amongst them. I would advice you ignore and don't stop giving them the little you can afford and also don't do more than you can handle because trying to impress them by doing more than you can handle won't make any difference. As for your husband apologized to him and tell him to learn to tolerate and understand them.

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  42. As usual you won't post but you read it right? Mtchewwwww

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  43. Abi@stella"s comment,was about saying the same thing,stella"s comment at times is absurd,how can you say she de compete,na wa for you o.

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  44. Aunty Stella, this your comment no join at all. If you have ever been in a position in which your parents don't appreciate the little efforts you are putting to their welfare and keep comparing you to your siblings who are richer, then you will understand the poster. Poster please let this celebration wahala slide. Keep doing your bit for your parents whether they appreciate it or not. As for your husband make e try forgive and forget your dad. Some parents will just be sowing seed of discord among their children by comparing them. Maturity indeed is not in grey hair.

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  45. Stella e be like you drink small gin today. Poster pls ignore stella's red pen..... Just cut them off completely and dont attend any family function. stay far from your family and you will smile at the end

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  46. your parents are BAD period. no God fearing, responsible parents behave like that. if na me be you and hubby, i will totally blank them. do as if them no exist, what rubbish parents

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  47. Biko dear sis, always send the little you have and tell hubby to ignore anything they do

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