STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
HUBAND TO BE AND HIS EX
I noticed that my husband to be has been in communication with his ex and due to the recent celebrity stories flying around, I asked him why he’s still texting and calling her. He told me he still likes her and can’t stop talking to her just like that, since they didn’t quarrel but only separated along the line due to genotype issues.
At this point, I’m confused.
Mind you, we’re about a month away from holding our traditional wedding. Now I’m asking myself if I should stay, because I seem to be competing with his past.
You need to really have a conversation with him, theres no crime in still being in touch with her and lving you but if shes the one he loves, then call it off...Ask him to be sure where hi feelings are....Did he propose or you did?He is definitely not over her.....
You need to really have a conversation with him, theres no crime in still being in touch with her and lving you but if shes the one he loves, then call it off...Ask him to be sure where hi feelings are....Did he propose or you did?He is definitely not over her.....

You will wear his ring.
ReplyDeleteShe will have his heart.
Simple and short. Post you better decide which want you want.
DeleteI know you would still marry him.
ReplyDeleteI wish you well. You are about to enter hot soup; hot well garnished orishirishi soup.
Men and even women who still have feelings for their past are the WORST people to marry.
Negodu his stinking audacity.
And you’re still addressing him and husband-to-be.
Anyways HML to you three.
๐๐ she come add confused join. pele sis. it's well with you.
DeleteOh Anon how I love this comment. Poster please enter if you wan see shege.
DeleteDo not stay. Whatever conversations you have with him will not yield any result.
ReplyDeleteYou cannot tell the heart what to feel. He has told you he still loves her. They will keep being intimate until she marries...that's if she is interested in marrying someone else.
Do not go forward with that wedding, you will not have peace!!
I hate to say this but abort mission, ask him how he would feel if you still kept in touch with your ex since you still like him but had to dump him cuz your your mama no like am.
ReplyDeleteInfact dump him, I hate rubbish
More disrespect awaits you In the future
They can even have one or two kids with others then later in a few years get back together. I hope he doesn't divorce you later when you have given him kids. She still sees him as her man else why is she still talking to him when it's obvious they can never be together?
ReplyDeleteBe sure before you say I do, else, you will just be a title holder while she will have his heart.
ReplyDeleteMarriage with the right person requires some work, now imagine doing this with someone that has created doubts in your heart. Please, don't discard what your head is telling you. Pray too but decide on time
Stop breaking up because of genotype IF you can afford ivf
ReplyDeleteToo many miserable people
Well it's obvious he loves her and if not for genotype you wouldn't be in the picture. I will tell you to give him an ultimatum to cut ties completely with the lady and communicate it to her before the marriage but would he? I would also tell you to pick a race but it's easier said than done. So search within yourself and see if this is something you can cope with for the rest of your life.
ReplyDeletePray and decide
ReplyDeleteMany people move on from their ex …eventually
I hate to break it to you, but that's the actual love of his life. Just that genotype decided to do its thing. Even if you have an conversation with him, he'll just be more discreet
ReplyDeleteYou better discuss with him yo be sure where his heart belong to. If he love her, abeg let him be with her but if he loves you. Then he should set boundaries.
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