Or was it you that was the Jealous person in someone's life?
what did their Jealousy cost you and how did you deal with it?
What was the Jealousy about?Work?relationship?friends?money?
Was it positive inspired jealousy or the type that kills and harms?
Lets talk about the jealous people we have come across and what their jealousy cost us/them.
It's gonna be interesting....
ReplyDeleteI was jealous of my bf in uni. I gossips her (though everything I said about her were true) But I said wen out of jealousy. It ruined our relationship
DeleteThe only thing that brings out jealousy in me is love. If I love you; ahn ahn I will jealous anybody that breathes near you.
DeleteBut everyother thing; naa
If u like fine pass mammy water or rich pass bill gate; doesn't move me. Like NOTHING makes me envious of you. Even your perfect relationship no consaign* me.
But DON'T smell near my soulmate else...
Anon 15:59, you typed my input. Thanks.
DeleteWhy did I came late to this post chie... I am jealous of my Brother in law because he is competing for my husband love with me. He lives with us n he his always talking about how different I am from their mom.he makes sure he tells hubby every gist that happens in his absence. He is like hubbys first wife. I cannot even do shakara for hubby because he is always ready to come in. I am always up and doing to get hubby's attention but he is not seeing it. I have made up my mind to enjoy my own company and pray God bless him so that he can move out.
Delete@14:43
DeleteI gossips [sic.] her
I GOSSIP ABOUT her
She GOSSIPS about me
@15:59
"I jealous [sic.] anybody?"
I WILL BE JEALOUS OF anybody
19.54 you are sick for that correction.
DeleteMeant every word as typed!!!
Ask questions about pigeon English before typing your trashy corrections next time.
Signed 15.59
#tankio
@21:00
DeleteMe I don dey yarn all man language tey tey. Wetin I read up there no be pidgin at all at all.
You always dey talk say another persin been day sick, call am "trashy" correction or anything you wan call
am. I no dey correct all man yarns. Na Oyibo you type there but the thing no gel.
@And 21:00
DeleteThat thing no be "pigeon English" na PIDGIN ENGLISH
That one wey you write na bird wey look like fowl.
Unless you wan tell us say you be pigeon; abi?
Pidgin English
DeleteAll of u here english today r even worse than primary school drop outs sef!👀
DeleteAwon 3rd class degree holders & crazy social media editors today here. Ndi ara!
Why don't u worry about ur own written words & leave others alone. Monkey deranged grammar correctors.
One married woman in my office is jealous of another single lady simply cus the a senior colleague os eyeing her & buying her stuffs, even started doing same hair style with the single girl, na wa o.... some women dont have shame
ReplyDeleteSome of these married women na their way especially when one handsome bobo that is single is eyeing a single chick he likes. The single chick automatically becomes the married woman's enemy. Very nonsense attitude. Na me send you go marry?
DeleteMajority of them r unhappy and wish to have singles life, am passing tru same in my compound
DeleteMy own be say if you be my girlfriend, you dare not keep another girlfriend. Dunno if na jealousy sha
ReplyDeleteI'm like this too
Deleteme three
DeleteFan you are lowkey BI sha
Deletelol...she want the senior colleague to start buying her things 2, shameless married woman, cant just stay loyal and faithful to her husband.
ReplyDeleteI notice most females are always jealous and intimidated by me. Could it be my beauty? 😌
ReplyDeletePut ur pics let's see nhaa? It'll help us in knowing if it's ur beauty
DeleteI face same too @shooter. Mine is beauty and I have it going for me to the glory of God. Like I don't kiss ass, run after anyone or beg for click accceptance. It infuriates other ladies. Na dem sabi
DeleteI face that too. And females feel intimidated too.I don't know what that is, only God my Creator knows. During my NYSC that was how my male boss who is in level 13 will be shouting at me, that I should stop intimidating him. And I said Oga you are in grade level 13 while I am in level zero. How can I intimidate you.
DeleteIt's your beauty.
DeleteMy former boss used to tell me that I give her attitude because am taller than her lol..
DeleteWe are plenty ehh♀
Delete@castle definitely 😘
Interesting.
ReplyDeleteIm not one to chook eye for another person thing. If I don't have it I don't ve it. I can admire a thing, couple or lifestyle but to be Jelous Naahhhh.
Let me read comments.
Some of you don't check your mails after enabling it on your profile. When your mail is visible on your blog profile, check it regularly, you never can tell.
ReplyDeleteBack to the topic.
My own cousin was jealous of me to the extent of coming to attack me spiritually. Thank God for my life today. I am a man today, a man that can stand in the midst of real men. I keep them all at arm's length nowand only see during special family occasions. We greet from afar.
I kind of find this funny sha... neighbor turned nightmare.
DeleteLet me talk about m&d this two girls are jealous of me for no reason..
ReplyDeleteM is a fresh graduate,intelligent and hard-working but her jealousy over me is what I can't comprehend.. she is in competition with me without my knowledge...
D is an illiterate park worker who m is using to hate on me but guess what??? Idc... Yesterday D tried talking down on me simply because I was looking peng!🙈🙈🙈..
I always press ignore button and pepper Dem more
Where is the talk?
DeleteMy babes don't like girls around me,one almost fought my sister "my auntie o'.
DeleteLMAO
DeleteJealousy
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! Talking of jealousy I think my then friends were jealous of me back then. Firstly they made me feel very low of myself as a person who had low self-esteem. Everyone used to talk of my big bum and fat legs but this my closest friend would make me feel otherwise, then came the issue of menses. I'm a year older than they, though what made us friends was because we were related and our houses very close in the village.
ReplyDeleteI saw my menses earlier than they and they started using that to mock me that as little as I was I was already seeing my period. Me as a person my teacher taught us in primary school the ages someone starts seeing her period, by then they were 14 and I told them they shouldn't worry that by the following year they would start seeing theirs, they said it's a lie and started embarrassing me about mine in public.
Could you people believe that the following year as we were preparing for our inter-house sports right there on the my closest friend and mocker saw her period, not long the other too followed suit. Though I never used it against them or bring the topic any day.
Too many things to recount but looking back now I keep asking myself why I was following those disrespectful and bad behaved girls?
It is just some days back that a thought of them came into my mind and I believe they were just pure jealous of me. Reason? I didn't grow up with them in the village but only started secondary school later with them and people gushing about my shape as an early to mid teenager.
Jealousy get different types.
So I asked my husband to help me check my phone cos anytime I open my Data some useless apps will start downloading(He's a network engineer). He told me he doesn't know how to do it, that I should stop disturbing him.
ReplyDeleteFew days later Martins Aboy gave a receipt on how to stop unwanted apps from downloading. I screamed that Martins is the real MVP and he isasked why I said so,I told him and he said it's a lie😂😂 that Martins doesn't know how to do it😂😂 that I should bring my phone so he will do it for me.
I told him no shebi he said he doesn't know how to do it so lemme try what Martins wrote first and he sighed and collected my phone from me and did it.😂
What is the head and tail of this story?
DeleteMz Lynn are you jealous😄
DeleteHahahaha @Fan Emmanuel so funny..I can imagine the scenario
DeleteMartins the wife snatcher! 😂😂
DeleteFan you talk too much, your story no get head at all.
DeleteMmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhh
DeleteE bi like say FAN wan get side bobo ooo.
Oga dey protect im territory na.
Im dey work hard to maintain the territorial integrity of
of this FAN wey wan blow open fowl nyansh.
Lol. Your hubby na very sharp guy man.
DeleteGrabs *green label*
ReplyDeletethis will be interesting
ReplyDeletewe all have jealousy in us.if you are God fearing is left for you to control it. *omo
ReplyDeleteYou post picture and the try to beat you to it...the hustle is real kam
ReplyDeleteI have a gf that does this A LOT. Like she is obsessed with this and I am gradually cutting her off my life
DeleteShe keeps asking y I am ignoring her these days. Someone tell me; how do you tell a friend you are irritated by her unhealthy competition with you?
She should go figure abeg. I don't have strength for childish dramas.
She does this nonsense with men too. Date someone today ; tomorrow she is looking for his colleagues upandan. Mtscheww
Anon please cut her off.
DeleteBlank her.. Very silly attitude
DeleteWhen I was in my final,after my traditional marriage.I came back to school loaded .Food,bags,shoes,watches,clothes etc.I even came back more beautiful and all.There was one of my friends who left me to befriend another simply because she got married and the hubby appears to be rich.I used “appears” because you never can tell who is rich till you go closer.I amazed all with my overnight transformation.That her married friend collected my phone to check out my pictures.I gave her willingly because she was with the girl and I know she asked her to.The next morning my hubby called me and told me that an unknown I.d called him,telling him to leave me ,that I will leave him once we relocate to u.s and send for my boyfriend in school.I was like what.My hubby told me to be careful in school.I was like where is this coming from?which boyfriend? I didn’t know what to do?I didn’t even convince my hubby otherwise .My spirit told me she is the one.I sat at her back and was gisting with the guy next to her,I told the guy what my hubby told me.The guy was sad ,immediately the girl stood up and left while we were waiting for a lecturer from Benin who you dare not miss his lectures.she didn’t come for the lecture.she went and sat at the canteen doing nothing.thats how I concluded that she did it .One of her friends was preaching forgiveness to me but she has never opened her mouth to ask for it.Well I sincerely forgave her because I can’t give anyone space in my head abeg.I chat once in a whileeeee with her.
ReplyDeleteCorrect any grammatical error.was rushing.happy weekend y’all
AHH -Abroad husband hunters real life tori. Una see wetin I dey talk. The other one is married but jealous say persin catch abroad man. Naija girls!
DeleteBut wait o. Everyone dey talk about people wey dey jealous am, who una jealous, na the thing wey Stella ask a repeat o.
anon 17:14 I only jealous Dangote and Bill Gates
DeleteI dated a girl who lived in my apartment complex. I broke up with her and started dating someone else about 4 months later. I didn't like to bring my new girlfriend to my place because I was afraid of what the ex would do. At first, she just left notes on my door ranging from "Fucking man Whore" to "Here's your mop, you mongrel slut-whore". Seriously, she returned my mop with the note taped to it! 🤣🤣🤣. Getting no response to her notes, she started throwing dirts from her balcony to mine. Until I moved, I hated coming home, sometimes if I saw her car there I just kept driving. If she was home she would wait on her porch overlooking the parking lot and yell "whore" ,” Ashawo” in her thickest British accent as I walked in and up to my apartment.
ReplyDeleteMoral of the story: Don’t date your neighbor!
She misses you!!!
DeleteBut why did you lend her your mop?
DeleteMorals of the story duly noted😂😂😂
DeleteMy married neighbour always jealous of everything hubby buys for me just cos her hubby cant afford them,she is even behaving like my co-wife.anytime hubby does anything she will say her husband will start thinking now or her hubby should same for her.hubby just bought me a samsung s8 plus,she want me to sell my old phone to her and i said no.naso she dey vex for me that me i know she dosnt have phone and i couldn't sell for her,meanwhile they dont have money to buy it.always wanting to know everything in ourlives,this is someone that talks too much for a married woman.and her hubby very stingy ooo,everytime hubby goes out he buys stuffs for her but her hubby has never bought anything for us.she is just forcing her friendship on me i swear,she wants to fo everthing i do.i just tire for her jare,we are same month and a day apart.hubby bought her cake to surprise her last year,this year she started asking everybody again for gift.i just had to buy her one fancy footwear that she has been eyeing,before we got our car hubby and i dey waka any where and we never for once borrowed their car.since they sold their car like this,every opportunity that hubby is around they borrow our car.to go matket wife will tell her hubby to borrow car and take her,market that i take bus to..to fill gas at the next street her hubby will collect key. Anytime 4 of us are going out together she will tell my husband to give her hubby the car key to drive us...and she can greet people hen,she will wind down and greet everybody on the street,sometimes shout peoples name just for them to see her.i tire abeg,moving out of here soon
ReplyDeleteWhere do you see this kind of friends. Cut them off
DeleteHahaha, I never laugh like this before, you say Wetin? Neigbour would come to my house to collect my car keys to do what kwanu? 😀 all of you are not serious, the car has turned to compound car
DeleteMadam the word no is the dictionary. Use it very often with her. Her type will destroy you if you are not careful
DeleteOMG what did I read
DeleteWhen you move to the new house, please set boundaries. The familiarity is too much.
DeleteBefore hubby use to pity them,byt now we say NO...since then she has been vexing for hubby and i..yet she forms yeye bestie.i dont even come out anymore,always indoor with my baby..she knocks and i dont answer.no strenght for fake friends
DeleteI kind of find this funny....
Deleteneighbor turned nightmare
Jealousy is not in my dictionary. I am weired like that
ReplyDeleteI have one in my office a married lady my presence annoys her to the bone my sight alone everyone likes me in the office but she she makes sure is embarrassed me in presence of customers the day i will give it back to her she will sure regret her existence
ReplyDeleteI’m jealous of my bestie o, as in ehnnn babe is so hardworking, she is a single mum but somehow she manages to balance both work and school, some days she doesn’t sleep up to 5hrs. I used to wonder how she does all that with everything she’s been through from seeing herself through pregnancy and fending for her baby alone. I used to ask myself if I can be that strong, I really admire her strength towards life.
ReplyDeleteU aren't jealous. U are just wowed about how she balances everything
DeleteThis isn't jealousy dear. You admire her.
DeleteReal human. No be all these pharisee wey dey yarn dust full everywhere.
DeleteNo this is not jealous nor Envy, u love and admire her strength.
DeleteI have been working for 9yrs b4 I was relieved early this year with no Kobo at hand nor pay off from the company,I have a shop as a side hustle which my younger sis manages for me. 2 months ago I decided to handle the shop and demacate it into 2 so that my sis will be using it as a maiemak studio,guess what my sister said,"aunty T,you that loves being a career woman the best is for you to get a new job cos if you stays in the shop,you won't be making sales oh because you don't know how to relate to customers (imagine,me that worked as a bank's marketer for 9yrs).
ReplyDeleteI also noticed that any time people comes in to buy and compliments me saying I look far younger and has baby face with flat tummy my sister moods changes but still I love her so much with all my heart,she took care of my daughter from infant till now(6yrs) and also stood by me when my ex husband showed me real pepper... Jealousy occurs every where,in the offices,among siblings,friends,peers,egery where
@15;21. Angels shows up in different form, don't take this advice d wrong way.
DeleteYour sis has always admired and loved u but hate being compared with u, now ur operating in d same shop will bring back old memories she has forgotten , find something else to do or better still pay her compliments on a regular basis... Anytime pple want to over compliment u , channel it to her, tell them she is d one taking care of u. Constantly praise , shower her with blessings and gifts if possible.
I knew cos my sis indirectly confessed how* jealous she was of me growing up. This was someone far pritter than I am o. But I deflated all that with praising her constantly until I left her house. She loves u but can't stand d comparison from Pple
Anon 18:49, you are right. Growing up I hate bring compared to my sister
Delete@Mariam, be careful of that married neighbor.
ReplyDeleteJealousy is every where my colleagues in the office want to kill me because I am furthering my education. My closest padi that Iused to be nice to too want to kill me with backbiting and badmouthing me. Just to make others hate me.Some Nigerian women can be very jealous of their fellow woman always looking for ways to pull each other down. It's unfortunate. Is it a crime to to want to better yourself?
ReplyDeleteMariam your neighbor is very toxic both she and her husband. Tufiakwa... 😏😐
ReplyDeleteI'm jealous of my friends o....they all have perfect relationships and I'm the single one among them and they don't miss an opportunity to throw it in my face.... God will provide my own
ReplyDeleteAll the babes wey admit say them jealous dey ghost mode.
DeleteIsorait!
"Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?" (Proverbs 27:4)
ReplyDeleteI'm jealous of my sister,she's so petite and melanin popin but I'm just big and fair that I don't even like it,while growing up, I loved it all,tall with big boobs,long legs,broad shoulder good for modelling etc now I look at myself and cringe,most times I feel insecure,I don't eat yet my weight keep fluctuating. My sister is my body goals,I can't help but envy.
ReplyDeleteDidn't you sleep well at night? People think it's only eating too much that cause people to be overweight. Go and check your hormones too.
DeleteWhen I Was In ND1 had this girlfrnd we where both coursemates, we did everything together ate frm same plate i never knew she was jealous of me i mean extremely jealous that she slept with lecturers to give me low grades then she'll be laughing with me in my front..ND2 we became roommates d jealousy became worst, am more pretty, curvy and intelligent..in class i gat all the attentions no hyping here thats the true till date.. even her crush went after me.. she poisoned me i became so thin breeze could even knock me down gosh i had to parked out. THANK GOD ALIVE.. TODAY WE ARE FRENEMIES
ReplyDeleteCurvy and intelligent, with this kind of grammar?
DeletePlease go and find the meaning of intelligence vs. brilliance.
I don't even know where to classify you of the two.
Nobody is jealous of anybody in this blog is OK. Make I dey read how people jealous una but una no jealous anyone.
ReplyDeleteLike sic ndi Pharisees abi saducees how market
Madam Pharisee, e bi like say ya market dey sell well well.
DeleteI am not jealous of anyone. My contentment dated back to elementary school and I grew up with it. Absolutely! The thing pass my comprehension. Outwards things doesn't move me.
ReplyDeleteMost of my frds(if not all) re jealous of me because of my killer shape,fine face, height and a very high intelligence quotient,😋 they always accuse me of faking my oyibo accent😩😩😩 but we all know that it's possible to have oyibo accent without leaving the borders of this country.😝 lemme go jor, even some people on this blog re jealous of me but I nor send em😋😋😋😋
ReplyDeleteIn your dreams mrs.
DeleteIf that picture there is the "killer shape" and the kind of grammar you dish out is the high IQ, then you are living in delusion of grandeur.
Deletehehehehehehahahahahaha hohohohohuhuhuhuhihihihihahahahahhehehe.😅
DeleteI love getting you anons worked up😅😁😁😁
I love seeing you idiots trolling me, it gets me extremely wet and ready to gbensh.lemme go for round 2, see y'all later😋😋😋
@anon22:28 I knew she is daft all along but I swear, I had to rush to see the "killer shape" and i felt like slapping her. Monkey no fine but im mama like am
DeleteI don gbensh finish, now nah I get una time
Deleteanon 22:28 so in your miserable village, one's intelligence quotient is measured by how well they speak grammar sebi? you re a fcuking IDIOT if that's how you think..you seriously need help for the metamorphic madness abounding in your brain...by the way, I'm the sexiest person here, kiss my fat ass
anon 20:10 I claim that title in Jesus name!
I'm used to contentment,we were trained to make do with what you have or get yours,iv 4/5 close friends and i can't remember ever wishing what they had was mine,I'd rather tap into their blessings and use them as a point of contact😂
ReplyDeleteI remember when one of them was going to deliver her baby in the US,we grew up in same city and thinking back to where we came from its a BIG DEAL,I was so happy I called all my siblings to tell them,when she got back I went to see her and she was saying how 2 of her colleagues(very close and we meet at hers often)stopped making contacts the moment she told them she is in d US,D's 2ladies has not stepped in her house till date and the baby is now 4😀😀
Hehe. I used to be jealous of babes that have nice shapes cos mine did not come out early. Now I have developed ass and small hips and the jealousy disappeared.
ReplyDeleteMy Ex never gave a hoot about us but some strange calls from one of his friends as the caller said he is got me shocked to my marrows, asking why I should date my ex and not him, till today i still find that weird , maybe I should ‘ve prodded further but I just allowed it slide
ReplyDeleteMy Ex never gave a hoot about us but some strange calls from one of his friends as the caller said he is got me shocked to my marrows, asking why I should date my ex and not him, till today i still find that weird , maybe I should ‘ve prodded further but I just allowed it slide
ReplyDeleteLagos shopper I sent you a mail
ReplyDeletePls check and reply.
Interesting stories. My own stories will fill a whole book, is it my sisters own or friends or sisters in law? Yes sisters in law jealous me sotey they wanted to send me out of their brother's house but for the strong man I married. Chai ladies Pls marry a man who does not listen to side talks or runs to his sisters or mum for advise or when you quarrel he will rush and tell them. My husband does none of the above and they said I used juju on him when their tricks did not yield fruit. lol
Lolz funny commemts
ReplyDeleteWell my colleague at work can't stand the fact that have given birth and still have the body, especially when pple compliment that's when you will hear ha pls leave her alone ooh she mama So so so
Lol, I just ignore her most times
Today ur face is smooth give me the name of your cleanser
Tomorrow the name of your cream and soap
This is a chocolate person and very pretty too sometimes I envy her skin cuz it's always glowing but she still want my own fair skin
I jealous those living the kind of life I wish to live.. Lol.. I have a friend she is working, married with a daughter and me I am jobless oo but God has been good to me and with my mum's support I am able to take care of my kids.. BT this my friend that is working is so jealous of me that whenever she see me and my kids she will so "eye" us and start looking at the label of my kids wears and say let's swap make u dey work make me cdwn for Hus... I will jus laugh and shake my head that if only u knw what I am passing tru
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...ok.. my bff in uni was jealous of me because because I make better grades than her. in fact whenever I buy something new she doesn't have, she will start ignoring me. The jealousy cost us our friendship.
ReplyDeleteInteresting topic
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