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Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative.....

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CONFRONTATIONAL AND DISRESPECTFUL  NANNY



Please I need advice from you and blog visitors on how to handle a disrespectful, unapologetic live-in nanny who never admits her wrongs.


She's 24yrs old, with 2yr nanny work experience which was why I employed her.

My 7months baby who just started eating last month is cool with her, like very calm and eats peacefully whenever she feeds him unlike when I tried feeding him. Which is what i console myself with.


But whenever you correct her or scold her either for not arranging the baby's closets properly, or turning the washing machine off after it finishes washing, she would frown for the whole day, and when I'm talking she'll start singing like I'm talking to myself.


My hubby has cautioned, and tried calling her to order but she'll always not want to admit her mistakes.


Yesterday when I went to her bathroom I met her undies, toothbrush and sponge in a soapy water that she bathed with, i asked her what her toothbrush was doing in the bucket and she said " Aunty its my personal stuff, leave it for me" I couldn't caution her about hygiene anymore cos of her response.



After dressing for church, she dragged the normal knee length pencil black skirt I bought for her so up making it to look so short and used a handkerchief to cover her laps in the car. When I complained, She told me that that's how she wanted it and that she's not a small child. Hmm


I told her my baby's sleep time at night is 9pm and she told me that she use to watch "Gangaa on zee world night and that she'll be watching it with the baby till he sleeps off.

All this things happen almost everyday..
I'm even scared of correcting her cos I don't want to be hurt by her response.


I reported her to her referrer and also to her father yesterday but she refused to speak with them on her phone, and when they called through my phone she'll collect the call from me and hang up, and tell me she doesn't want to speak with them.


Please what should I do, my former nanny never talked back at me no matter what but I sacked her cos she always had this boy waiting for her outside my gate, and when I'm not in town she'll sleep out (coincidentally both girls"re 24yrs) which was why my hubby hubby sent her packing.



I really want someone at home with my boy cos I go to work even on Sundays (I'm a health worker)
I feel skeptically about my hubby's suggestion to send her back that she's not competent and a sadist because she at least feeds my baby.


What should I do?
My hubby said I should get a woman, an elderly nanny but i didn't see any.


What if the next person would be worse?
What if my baby won't allow the next nanny feed him?
Should I let her stay for my son's sake?



*Sack her already...what da heck!!!!..SACK HER!!!

160 comments:

  1. This one is a pain in the neck
    Discharge her asap.

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    1. This one na your madam now, na she employ me, o don’t deal with big chics again o, since one told me she doesn’t know how to iron clothes and clean the fridge, saying she will just burn my cloth if I give her, but she can make phone calls from morning to night even when I am speaking to her.
      I take girls from 16/17 who have graduated from secondary schools and only give them palasa phones ... no time for nonsense

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    2. Madam are you sure you’re husband hasn’t started touching her? Cos there’s no other explanation to this. Exactly this happened to s neighbor of mine. Please sack her

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    3. Who is the boss?
      Pls do the needful

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    4. Madam please push that girl out of your house and jam the door on her face. What nonsense. I promise you that the next Nanny you will get will be God sent. On the long run, you will be happy you did. You can be dropping him off at a creche for now, while you look out for another person. It will end in praise. Cheers. @Blessed Princess

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    5. Orisirisi. Please sack her immediately or are you scared Ni? Nothing go happen and I hope Oga isn't having anything with her because I am wondering where that aya gbangba is coming from

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    6. Poster, is something the matter with you?? *snaps fingers in posters ears* are you under a spell? Do you need urine and salt to be splashed in your face or something?? No no no! This is not normal. Take your child from that lady and fire her like yesterday! Asap things o. Send her packing right away! That's no nanny but a full blown witch! Yes o. This story is annoying. Very annoying

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    7. Nanny that you're paying salary o.....Ozeba na kin

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    8. Is she related to you or your husband? Cos something must be really empowering her to act like this. Hopefully it has nothing to do with your husband. Sha let her go.

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    9. Dis woman your mumu go last well well..I've never seen such mumu all my life..U want to keep her bcos she is feeding ur baby well? Chai.Madam receive sense!

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    10. I think she has been sleeping with your husband. Hence the guts to act like that. SACK HER don’t waste time. Very soon she will kick you out and become madam. Open your eyes woman and smell the rat. I think you are sleeping too much . Take charge of your home with immediate alacrity. That’s the insult some men bring on their wives. Disrespect and all but they will be pretending.

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    11. You sound weak for a madam self . If you can’t sack her pls let me help you. Imagine the nonsense. Be careful because she might have been grinding your hubby hence the disrespect . Take control woman. Wake up.

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    12. HOW IS THIS A CHRONICLE? How can you have this person taking care of your child? An employee that behaves like this can do ANYTHING to your child. You are talking about feeding but you are oblivious to the fact that your child is not safe in her care. All that is needed is for that nut that is loose in her head to loosen even more. You had better sack her or the day she will sack you , you will write another chronicle.

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    13. My number 1 rule in life.. Never, ever make anyone feel that they are fuckin' indispensable. Ever!

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    14. Nothing I will not read here.

      You let go! That’s what you do. Hian! Is this one rocket science again

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    15. Some men r really disgusting. Keep her until she poisons ur son, I hope u read d story of d woman that used Stone to hit her neighbors child not intending the boy to die? No worry nah, one day Oga no go deliver on her request and na RIP we go write on ur next chronicles ( God forbid). Seek wisdom.

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  2. How can you still keep someone like that in your house? A nanny for that matter. Someone you employed o..what rubbish

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  3. Ah ah!

    Madam are you afraid of her?? So you cannot even exercise your authority in your own house?!!!!

    Huan! Hianer!! Hianest!!!

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    1. I tire for this Aunty... She knows that you're soft, and she's taking advantage of that! How can you give her order and she'd counter you. For what na?? If you keep tolerating her, then get ready to start receiving orders from her in no time..

      Better kick her out!
      Show her that she's not irreplaceable.

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    2. Madam please sack her ASAP! I agree with your husband that elderly nannies are better though with its pros and cons too.

      Don’t let the fear of what if the next person is worse bother you. That is what I used to think. Until I thought one day that if she decides to leave won’t I find someone else.

      She is not doing anything special to feed your son. Your son is most likely refusing to take his food from you because he associates you with breastmilk.

      Please don’t let anyone hold you to ransom on top your money. The girl is ridiculous! Your son will be watching Ganga with her!! Mschew.

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  4. This your employee nawa ooo

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  5. Please let her go

    Are you her boss or she is your boss that you can't scold her. Nonsense

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    1. Sack her now it is your house not hers. Stop thinking about it so much and look for someone else. What if she decides to leave your house today will you die?

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    2. I don't know ooooo. This story is just annoying. You have to learn to be In-charge of your home.
      I had to let my Nanny go because my hubby corrected her and she took it south. Am living with very amazing people now.
      Take charge of your home. She's too bold to be a help to you.

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  6. Eh!!! In which house???!!!

    Please sack that miserable little woman already with her bad hygiene. When your baby uses all the energy to cry he/she smells food around, no be person go tell am make e chop.

    Simple.

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    1. πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

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    1. welcome back.seems you're on election break

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    2. Chikito is back how I missed you like I know you personally lol. Welcome back dearie.

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    3. Hello Chikito our wife 😘

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    4. Longest time,I miss ur comments

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    5. Hello welcome back, stay longer this time around.

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    6. Look who's here! !!!
      Chiki baby.
      I missed your comments on this blog. Don't do this to us again o.
      Hope you're back to commenting fully.

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    7. Look who decided to drop by 😍

      Hi ya

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    8. Hehehehe. My people!!
      I go block una for SP road with hot bum shorts tommorow πŸ˜‰

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  8. Ajebutter nanny...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Seems you are the nanny.. Please follow your husband's say.

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  9. Was she like that from the onset?

    If she wasn't then she's deliberately trying to get fired,

    Do the math,

    And grant her wish.



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    1. Madam look into dis..Are u sure ur husband is not sleeping with her ? U said u work on Sundays too..how can u leave a 24yrs old woman alone with ur husband at home on absudnay when konji is on d high level?? Don't have know that prick no go school? She might be using ur husband's "gboola" to do toothbrush daz why she no dey respect u again..

      Resign from dat job or get an elderly nanny(not the one that will force feed ur kid oh)..Put a security camera in ur home to monitor things ...

      I hate to see working class nursing mothers..It makes me wonder d work of man in a home..A husband is supposed to be working and making money to take care of d family while d wife stay at home and look after d kids..Being a mother is a full time job itself why make it hard for her..Ur eife can still get a side business that will give her free time to look after the kids..
      Dis is how my parents lives and brought us up..My dad was d bread winner while my mom stayed at home looking after us with nannies too..Though mom was sewing cloths,wigs,hats,handbags at home and also selling foodstuff before she got a shop..By that time we are all in primary/secondary school..She even skip market on Wednesday and Saturdays just to be home with us and she must be home before 5pm everyday..
      Dis is how it's supposed to be and not all these mothers leaving house by 5,am and coming back home by 9pm and won't have time to take care of d kids..

      Our men should buckle up pls. stop suffering ur wives and kids by allowing them do works that takes them away from home and their motherly duties..

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    2. Your writs up has a bit of sense but you spoilt it by mentioning she shld resign from her job.
      Being a mother does not mean a woman show be redundant!!!

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    3. See mentality... She should sit at home because she is a mother, while you are at it, why don't you also call for the abolishing of female education after all a mother has no business working , so what is the essence of going to school. Mshewwwwwwwwwweeeeew

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    4. Yes she can resign and start business..I have seen so many women do that..Is their kidney attached to that particular job? Must she work 9 to 5? Is it not bcos of salary that they are working? If u can get the same money from side business why won't u resign? Dem take work swear for u..

      I don't know why some women think if they don't do corporate work they won't survive .Daz how a friend's wife refused to resign and take care of their child saying she prefer working than business.She was taking d little boy to day care as young a 6 months when d child is supposed to be sucking breast and close to d mom..There is nothing her husband did not say..begged her even with her family..Dem no gree..
      Not knowing that d child has been sick but not properly taken care of and d mom never noticed bcos she picks him up very late at night and leave for work as early as 6am to beat traffic..
      One day she was called by d emergency unit of one hospital to come immediately .D child became really sick and was rushed to d hospital by d day care proprietor..When d mom got there(,the dad got there before her sef) d baby was already on oxygen ..He died hours later ..

      D husband threw her out in anger and filed for divorce..She started begging d husband to forgive her that she has learnt her lesson and she is going to resign now but the man no gree . Daz how d marriage packed up..
      Months later she was sacked(company laid off staffs bcos of recession)..She is back to being jobless in her papa house..No more corporate job,no child,no husband.. It's been two years since she was sacked and her husband got remarried last Xmas..
      I heard she is now into makeup and human hair business..Something she swore she won't do when she was married..She said she is not business inclined that it's not her calling..Na dat business she is doing now oh..
      Dis is how stubborness ruined so many marriages..
      As a woman if ur husband promise to open a business for u so u can have more time for ur kids pls listen to him..If u can't afford to be a sit at home mom,pls don't give birth to innocent kids till u are ready..

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    5. Baby fire I think I agree with you on this.

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    6. Nothing is wrong with Baby fire's comment. Some of you are quick to jump to bash peoples' opinions, some without reading through.

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    7. Totally agree!

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    8. Dear Baby fire, thank you for your opinion. The poster asked about her nanny and not how to run her personal life.
      There 're so many working mothers flying high in dia careers and raising kids successfully and I bet they 're more than those looking their families to a career.
      Thank God for ur family and ur mother's way, but pls, don't make it a standard for other pple. Yes it worked for ur family, but that doesn't mean it will work for the next family. And NO! A woman doesn't have to be a stay home wife to raise her kids successfully.

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    9. Speak for yourself. I know your type. If better company like Exxon offer you even security job sef, you would jump on it.

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    10. So a woman cannot have a career because she’s a mother. A mother cannot be a doctor, or nurse )like in this instance) because she’s a mother. Instead of asking how other female nurses and doctors are doing it, your solution is for her to truncate her destiny. Nope, you may sound like you make sense but a sensible person trying to digest the information you’re trying to pass here will be totally disgusted by you.
      What’s the point of your education if you are just coming out to sell hair... or if everyone sells the hair and does make up, who will then be the customers...
      Everyday, so business, do business as if everyone can do business. Some people are meant to have a career.
      See how you’re debasing your grow woman up there on a story that you might not even know the details. She’s back in her fathers house, ho child, no husband, no job and you’re gloating...because you’re God and your life is perfect and your kids alive because you’re doing business....
      Mchetwwww

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  10. Madam poster u didn't mention dat u give dem day(s) off in ur post. This could be d reason why they act d way they do. As for ur present Nanny, SACK her like yesterday!!!

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    1. You see that "day off", I'm a huge supporter of it, not wise keeping an active full blooded adult in d house without any leg space, when it kicks in, she will relieve herself with anyone available, unless the one with fear of God, if not forget it, their body no be firewood.

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    2. Lol @ body no be firewood 😁

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    3. I don’t think that’s an excuse for all she stated above. If she wanted day off, since she is this rude she would have said it or requested

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  11. Please sack her! Don’t even tell her u to going to sack her. Just wake up in the morning and tell her to pack her bags immediately. Why will you be taking such disrespect from her? Who says you can’t get another nanny? Nobody is indispensable abeg.

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  12. Madam yu know what to do...please send her bck cos she's beginning to bite what she can chew. Wat insolence...sm1 am paying n feeding?

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  13. Madam poster you pepper body is too much. Why not learn how to mind your damn business? Why are you treating a whole 24yrs old lady like an under age becos she's doing boi boi in your house. What's with "she's wearing short skirt,soaked her sponge in water" yada yara yada yada.... Abeeg free that girl sogbo? She's a big who deserve some little freedom. Let her do her Nanny work in peace without you invading her privacy all in the name of correcting her. Pepper body madam drink plenty cold water and rest before you choke and if you can't deal send her packing.

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    1. Seems u r the nanny

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    2. The irony in this ID! you actually think you should be called intelligentsia? you better change your id till you are brainy enough to be called that!

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    3. Someone is a health worker, the nanny is not hygienic! A nanny that handles her child knowing fully well new borns are prone to health risks due to weak immune system and you call your self princess intelligentsia? what exactly is intelligent in this comment?

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    4. some people's brain are for fancy I swear. I pray it will be ur potion.

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    5. Babygirl, nice words up there, you really really nailed it. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘... I just want to point something out in your ID. I think you are deserving of a rather befitting name like; Princess Unintelligentsia or best still, wisdom's fool.

      How foolish can just one person be. Xx

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    6. you must be the nanny type to write this

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    7. What will it cost you to acquire sense?

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    8. Privacy in her house?u are aunty oponu,just bcos u wnt to sound different,u ended up being foolish

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    9. I said it to myself that after reading dis chronicle that one idiot will come and support d rude nanny..Here is it..I knew it.This dumbfuck can never have sense.Always talking foolishly..
      Why won't u support d girl when u have d same stinking attitude..
      If u want to be eze Onye agwalam,stay in ur own house snd don't go looking for nanny job..Rent ur own house and stay..She can't even stay in her parents house with d way she disrespects d father on phone..Yeye dey smell.

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    10. Its her damn business as long as the nanny is working for her and accepted her rules before starting the job. You always like making a fool of yourself

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    11. This is the nanny I perceive . So you are even still rude even on this blog? We are sacking you already

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    12. imagine making a fool at of self just look at what u wrote up there, privacy in my own home a nanny that I paid ,u must be reasoning for ur bum bum not ur head any more mumu

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    13. Thank you intelligentsia princess the only person that put herself in the nannies shoes so because she’s a nanny she doesn’t have feelings abi !. Slave masters. This same has sacked someone recently doesn’t that tell you she’s difficult to live with?!wicked woman I no blame you at all

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    14. Nanny spotted. Receive sense aunty and please why are you always like this..Abeg check yourself.
      Poster,who be oga and who be the nanny here?Take charge of your home bikko,send that little brat back to her people

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  14. I am with Stella. What are you doing there complaining and vexing, trying to give yourself hbp? Your husband has spoken with sense, yet? Which advice you dey find again? So you trust her with your baby?

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  15. Madam poster, I understand you. I see no reason why your nanny shouldn’t take corrections.
    With what you saw in her bathroom, what if she has hygiene issues?
    Do the needful by firing her abeg.

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  16. U sounds so calm from ur narrative but if it were to be a no nonsense person, one resounding slap from hell would have sent her to back to default settings already.
    she will continue to be rude if u don’t make her understand that u pay her...
    Just sack her already before she will talk back at you in the presence of a visitor and that could be very embarrassing....

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  17. just like Stella said sack her immediately, who knows maybe there is something between her and ur husband hence her reason for bn rude to you.

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  18. OMG, please sack her asap, your baby should not grow with someone like that around.

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  19. what won't we read.did you say your nanny or your boss.this one is already a self-positioned madam na.poster sack her with immediate effect this one don tear eye tey tey. she will slap you one day

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  20. when she starts gbenshing your love, nobody go yarn you before you sack her

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  21. My sister, I know it can be stressful to combine work and child care but I beg you in the name of the most high God ...sack dat nanny now! And install cctv asap. U.see ehen...d girl.is displaying this madness in front of you, what wil.she do behind u...U cannot correct one smallie in ur house?? Madam are u a dodo? Pls send dat monkey away! Or kuku wait till she injures ur baby...Nonsense

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  22. Enter your comment...please sack her. she is supposed to be a boss somewhere but unfortunately she is trying it out in your home. sack her

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    1. Boss of the marine kingdom..She go soon use d baby as sacrifice..At 24yrs she is still doing Nanny work..It's always d useless and prodigal daughters that are sent out as house maids..No family will send away their good child no matter their level of poverty..That's why 80% of nannies mess up big time..

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  23. Tomorrow is Valentine's Day. Tell her you want to wallpaper the house starting from her room , so she should put all her stuff together to avoid damage. Call her referrer to come to the house in the morning..Get a nice Thank You card, write a check for her salary this month and paste inside, with a short note, wrap it up nicely, because you are such a nice person, wake her up by 5am tomorrow morning and hand it to her... As you are leaving for work, she should be leaving to wherever the heck she came from.
    You have not said what she is doing for you but don't worry very soon if you talk in the house she will walk up to you and twist your mouth very well, since she dey warn already for your house and all you can do is send chronicles.
    She feeds the baby πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Person wey dey intimidate you for house na baby no go behave.

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    1. U are wise..Maybe she is abusing d baby info submission when d woman is at work Daz why d baby is always calm when she feed him/her out of fear..OMG! The thought of dis is sickening..Madam poster send dis girl away..

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  24. Are you asking a trick question ? What should you do

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  25. What effontry.


    Heaven knows I don't have this kinda patience... Let her go madam

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  26. An elderly nanny would do, at least they're not looking to spread their wings.

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  27. Wonderful!
    Orisirisi ma ri o.
    Poster, discharge her asap.
    Get an older nanny. Such arrogance!

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  28. You better sack her asap rubbishment

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  29. Please throw her out.

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  30. Till she slaps you in your own house, that's when you would do needful
    Please sack her already.. I can sense you're a cool headed person.
    I'm cool headed too but I don't condone insult of any kind.
    Let her go please, you can always get a better nanny

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    1. I don't think that is being cool-headed. It sounds like the original poster is under a spell.

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  31. She is your boss, not your nanny. Sack her abeg.

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    1. Imagine! And she has the nerve to tell she'll be watching Gangaa. Like you employed her to be watching Gangaa.
      Madam, you've really suffered...

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    2. Poster you're a weakling! If you like don't fire her be asking mumu questions

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  32. Oh no! This is very unhealthy... poster please relief her of the job, she's taking advantage of ur desperation.. Try an Agency for a well mannered & older nanny, If U and hubby can afford it. Ur son will definitely adjust to the change, children need a consistent face taking care of them, in order to feel comfy.. If U can't afford a nanny from an Agency, then look out for elderly ones this time, without raging hormones... Ur present one is young, nasty & doesn't even maintain a good hygiene, it's a no no abeg! Let her go

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  33. na so u use ur hand go employ ur co- wife,maybe she dn dy chop WATIN You dy chop,e dy give her morale...sack her now tym dy BT the outcome show

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  34. Madam this is not your nanny oh, you both are Co_wives. either your husband is banging her reason for the see finish and confident or she is attracted to your husband and see you as an obstacle to getting what she want. SACK already before you come here with a new story that touches the bum bum.

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    1. U are making alot of sense..She don begin dey chop "Madam Food" Daz why she feel she can be rude to her..She is just jealous of d fact that d man she loves and probably fucking is married to d woman so she takes out d anger on her..chei..Na jealousy oh.

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    2. See you both eh? Bitter women & bullies, especially this baby fire running around every negative comment to boost it, shebi you called poster mumu up there. Give the woman the advice she needs & move on, stop fueling the hurt she feels already.

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    3. But poster is acting like mumu nau, as if she has been jazzed or is afraid. That girl is bad news.

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  35. Aunty remind me who is the boss again, without blinking ur eye pls send her packing.What nonsense a nanny that can't take to corrections and you need to be really careful with that attitude of hers. About your baby don't worry he will eat my daughter was once like that.

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    1. Poster hope she is not starving and maltreating your baby in your absence? Remember the welfare of your child is most important, and I am appalled that you trust her after her funky attitude. You keep mentioning she feeds the baby, she feeds the baby......something is quite wrong....

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  36. Poster ples send her away. She is not ready to learn. She will keep on hurting you. There is no point 4 her to stay. Get and elderly woman like your hubby suggested. Your baby will b ok.

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  37. Madam you dey fear her?🀷
    Because I don't understand why she keeps talking back at you.
    Can you imagine?πŸ™„

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  38. Not in my house biko, even if you are working for free u ar going straight to ur house. Wat nonsense

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  39. Bomb wan blow for her head ni???? for which person house she dey try dis rubbish??? Abeg dis no be matter wey u go send as chronicle dey ask us.... Send her away physically and spiritually!!! who she be?

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  40. How can you allow the whole thing get to this point. She's disrespectful pls don't hesitate to sack her or else one day she might even slap you. How can you talk to someone you employed and she will be singing. Madam guess you are a calm person if not there's no way she could try that rubbish with someone more tough.

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  41. God forbid that i find myself i a position that i cant address my nanny, you can imagine she sings when you are talking to her WHAT RUBBISH!!!
    Please sack her immediately, who is now the boss? I know am calm but i cant be calm in such circumstance, i cant just imagine she watches what again on ZEE world reason why your child cant go to bed when you want him to.
    I trust my husband he for don give am slap and sent her packing long time ago.
    Odi egwu.

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    1. You trust your husband for giving people slaps, Abi?
      Continueee!!!

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  42. Sack her immediately...what insolence.Do you talk to your boss at work like that?

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  43. What kind of question is this?
    She feeds your baby yenyenyen.
    Madam, don't provoke me, please.

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    1. Your comment got me laughing which one is madam, don't provoke me please. Abeg I cant laugh too much biko

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  44. which kind nonsense are u putting up with ehn. maid @ 24years has seen preeq, will compare the one(s) she has tasted to it hubbys, will view u in contempt and ask how old are u again? Aunty, u beta fire her before clap will enter dance

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  45. Don't be afraid to let her go.
    I had the same experience with my first nanny. Whenever I cautioned on anything, "she would frown for the whole day, and when I'm talking she'll start singing like I'm talking to myself".
    And like in your case, she was good with my kids. They would only eat from her. when I try to feed, they would start playing with me.
    But she was extremely disrespectful (even in public) to me and neighbors. She felt I couldn't do without her. Cos if she goes,my kids would stave. Even said to my face that she is a better mum than me-cos they would only sit and eat when she tell them to.
    I took a lot of shit from her and sometimes I would cry in my room. I even considered leaving my job just to be a stay home mum.
    I one day told her "I think you are bigger than this job". She begged so much to stay. Telling me how much she needed the money for her mother at home. But I was done walking on egg shells in my home.
    I got another nanny and my kids love her and she is a 1000 times better than the first. I now have peace of mind and we live together like sisters.
    Don't be unhappy in your home cos of fear of the unknown. Commit it to God and he will lead you to a better person.

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    1. Are you sure your former nanny is not the same one tormenting the poster?

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    2. Abi ooo, lol

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  46. please contact nanny academy... they have very good nanny... I got the nanny for my baby from them and she has been with me for 2years. I have shouted at her only twice since she has been here. I have also recommended people to them and they are all happy. but you have to budget like 35k up sha

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  47. What are u saying,children get use to who dey see everyday,u will see a btr person...is becos u ar making her feel important dt is why she is feeling funky.omo a ti oko was ba ile je.

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  48. Please sack your boss, she ain't serious at all...

    Wonder what she will be doing at your back,your baby is at risk.... Hope she doesn't spank your baby whenever you're not around...

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  49. This is beyond silly. I wonder if you are the type who micromanages help. Everybody needs a level of space to do their work without someone hovering over. I don't know if you are a nitpicker who is difficult to work for. Let this young lady go and find someone that you are on the same page with. It is glaringly obvious the nanny does not like you and lacks even general courtesy where you are concerned. Your child is only seven months old they will adjust to a new nanny very easily. Please ensure you give her the proper pay and that there is no issue surrounding that.

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  50. What sort of insolence is this??, abeg o. You had better sack her before she kills your Baby for you one day, as it is going you will get on her nerves one day and she will take it out on the poor Child. You are a weakling self. You will be surprised that this girl maltreats your Child when you are not there. I wonder how you live with an uncouth person, I don't even talk to rude people. Send the idiot packing, do not even let her have an inkling of your action. Stupid girl. No be by force, abeg.

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  51. Let her go. I know you're scared you'll not get a better person but trust me you will. Even if it takes 10 tries, you'll surely get or you put your child in daycare for now. You're taking a lot of bullshit from that child not cool at all. This is someone you're paying and feeding for godsake haan. Abeg free the girl. As I'm reading the thing I was just getting upset rubbish.

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  52. Poster send her home and take your baby to a crèche pending on when you get another, which one is she feeds your baby better, when the baby is hungry he/she will eat. Don't let anyone put you under pressure or walk on egg shells in your home...Hell no! I am calm but if she tries that with me, I will frustrate her and send her home but not without giving her a through beating. Inukwa singing when I am talking. Hian

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  53. Madam poster are you in London? I know good God fearing young NHS nurses/nannies... let me know so I can refer you. Get rid of that nanny asap.. buy kiddies waffles, cheese, pancakes, mashed potatoes and cereals for your baby. Babies eat those sorting of meals without making a fuss... be wise

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  54. IF YOU NO SACK AM, make I yarn you the title of ya next chronicle;
    MY HORSEBAND DON BALLOON MY NANNY'S TUMMY! 😊😊

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  55. See as you're playing with the life of your baby. Conception and labour ward must have been a breeze for you, so you have forgotten.

    Madam poster:
    1) Sack the nanny. Tomorrow night must not meet her in your house
    2) Change ALL the locks in and around your house immediately she leaves

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  56. Nanny or Co- Wife? Zee world? Fire her!

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  57. madam, tell your husband that you give the girl just one month to change or you will send her packing. be serous about it and you will see changes.

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    1. One month bawo???? Send her packing immediately. Who has time for all these roborebe. She cannot change, that's her attitude.

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    2. One month you say?!
      She should throw her away right now as I'm typing this.

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  58. Fling her out!As in FLING HER OUT!!!!She has no respect for you and she has seen your weakness with her is that she knows how to care for your baby.It's pure manipulation.If you are not careful this one will carry your husband.Throw her away pls

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  59. SACK HER eeeeeeh! This one will seduce your husband one day, that is, if she has not already and throw you out of the house. You will see another person or take your boy to creche. Just negodu.....you are still asking sack her before your story will change

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  60. Dear Poster

    Your story is hilarious, allowing someone under your paid employment to treat you like shit? Unbelievable!

    Pay her off this month and let her go effective immediately. Make sure you watch her pack and leave. Don't let her know your plans though.

    As for your Baby: Babies are easily impressionable, so don't worry so much about your baby refusing to eat, that might only last for a few hours before baby becomes hungry and succumbs to food no matter who is giving it.

    As for a new Nanny please visit The Nanny Academy office or their website online and get yourself a professional Nanny. They're pricey but there is zero drama.

    PS: I know being a career woman, wife and mother at the same time is not the easiest feat but you need to learn to better balance your life, it is not very appetising to hear that you spend so much time from your child that feeding your baby makes he or she cry. Be guided.

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  61. SOMETHING TELLS ME SHE IS SLEEPING WITH YOUR HUSBAND.... I wrote it in capital letter so you could see. Pls how can you women employ a full grown lady with standing breast that cn entice your husband. Get a good Christian elderly woman already... feeding your child indeed!! She cnt respect you to your face how are u sure your child is safe with her including your man. You better open your eyes already.

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    1. I think I want to believe you, the man must have been having an affair with her to make her feel so bold and rude

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  62. Madam you are very STUPID. I apologies for insulting you but your own husband told you to sack her and find an elderly lady. Therein lies the cluuuuuueeee!! She is either fucking or has made passes at your husband. What else can she do to tell you that you are a fool??? SACK HER NOW!!

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  63. Sack that witch of a nanny, your baby is not safe with her.Do it fast!

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  64. Poster, make sure you are not alone in the house when you ask her to leave, else she may harm you. She could be dangerous!

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  65. What is it with mothers and what their baby prefers?
    My dear, your baby is just that, a baby. If she/he doesn't take food from you, wait until hunger descend. The baby won't have a choice. Train your baby the way you want them to be. Babies adjust to whatever works for them. If you can't train you child while a baby, na when the child fit talk you wan train am? How can you boldly say your baby prefers your nanny feeding him/her. I'm sure you have mentioned this to your nanny and that is why she is feeling indispensable. Fire her right away and make sure you don't owe her. You and your husband will make it work until you get someone else. The peace of mind alone sef will make you happy.
    One advice: No matter how nice you are, let your employees (including friends and family sef) know that you get craze for body. You need to be stronger than this biko. Being kind heart-ed does not equate being trampled on easily.

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  66. Madam what are you still waiting for ? Sack the bitch without looking back. What nonsense is that.
    You don't even need to bring this here before you fire her. Rubbish.

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  67. It’s sooooo annoying to be reading this! Like WTH! Pls send dat fool out of ur house ASAP, get ur mother or ur mother in-law or sister or sister in-law to assist u stay with ur baby till u get another! Send that mad woman out of ur house now or regret it!

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  68. And make sure ur hubby is in d house when u fire her, she is evil before she harms u. Send her away NOW

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  69. Dat girl might b fucking ur hubby already! Send her away NOW and make sure u have an adult in d house while asking her to leave, but send her away immediately. OR regret it later. U are warned.

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  70. Your husband is fucking her.

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  71. Enter your comment...Biko let her pack her bag and disappear I can't stand such person at all

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  72. Poster na wa you oh. Please do the needful by letting her go with immediate effect, your son will definitely adjust. With your explanation up there concerning her attitudes, they are uncalled for except she don dey eat wetin you dey eat. Poster please shine your eyes.

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  73. had the same experience, our maid started disrespecting me after we had sex. I noticed it, but cautioned myself so nobody will suspect. damn this is so painful. I have to change coordination and start correcting her with a serious warning.
    madam your husband is sleeping with her or he is forcing his way to sleep with her whilst making her behave like this. it is common in women once they sleep with you they will start disrespecting you.
    sack her sharply or she will scatter your lovely home, you are lucky your husband support you.

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  74. Poster, please follow up with us on the outcome of this chronicle.

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  75. For your husband to be the one suggesting elderly nannies says a lot. She is either seducing him or has already seduced him so she is acting like your co-wife. Your husband is crying for help and you are talking about feeding. He may have been seduced and may be feeling bad about her rudeness. Please let her go.

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  76. Your stupidity is on another level, no wonder a nanny, someone you pay does not have an atom of respect for you. Idiot. Don't sack her ok, very soon you will be sacked from your home. I hate weak women, what will you teach your child?

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  77. i was having that same feelings too, though the girl was very good and matured too say 28years, she feed my baby and turn a child that was a concern to orobo, and she said she wanted to go for December and promise to come back on 3rd jan. but she did not come and i started calling to beg her and she keep promising until i started looking for another one, i keep changing them between three weeks i already changed 3 girls until i met this one that is with me now for two weeks i am thanking God for, before on Sunday that one that left for December came to my house to beg that she is back, i cant drive this my current girl though she is just 17 and hardly understand English but i like her like that. you will find another better one, it might not be easy please dont settle for less, because the kids need a good behave nanny.

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  78. Dear poster this one is your co-wife not nanny, can you imagine the type of person you left your child with? This one will hurt your body to get back t you. Throw her out of your house and don't let her know what is coming to her

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