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Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Tuesday In House News

Today is peaceful...............








THREE YEARS AFTER MUM WAS MURDERED BY ENVIOUS FRIEND


Today marks 3 years since my sweet Mum left me.. Her own close friend she trusted and accommodated set her up and murdered her out of envy.. what a life!! 

I fell into depression after her death, i was on drugs for 6 months, didn't talk to anyone or even ate .. I almost committed suicide, was frustrated, I thought of my education, will I drop out or do runs to continue??  At times I would cry for a very long time and sleep off, anytime I wake up I'll start teary again.

One day I searched on Google and I came across SDK blog, OMG!! I read stories that their cases where worse than mine yet still alive, healthy and strong that was when I started my recovery journey.. i started putting back every broken piece of myself.

Some bvs here are heaven-sent, their words of encouragement is power. Stella nko? She gave a stranger listening ear;just imagine . I felt so comfortable. I was inspired.

This blog is more than a blessing to me; it's my strength, some people visit to get advices, inspiration, to learn and get loved. While some visit to share hatred it's bad.. let's love one another and learn to live in peace.
Note: the person u fight with today can be a helper to you tomorrow.

Today by the Grace of God I am full of life, a living testimony already in my final year but it hasn't been easy, I don't know how but he did it but He made a way. 
Never give up, you are a peculiar creature, created for a suppose in life.


RIP MAMA, I PROMISE TO MAKE YOU PROUD. LIFE ISN'T THE SAME WITHOUT YOU MUM,
I LOVE U.



Your mum was set up and Murdered by her friend?Someone she helped?can we learn from this story?Please send in your story if you feel comfortable sharing with us.....Thank God you have healed and back on your feet!!!




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HR ADVICE NEEDED URGENTLY


I’m also looking for advice like the HR poster! Please advise me. Something similar is happening to me only that it’s a fellow Naija who befriended me. All the rest are oyibos, we’re the only blacks. This person has turned all the oyibos against me and pretends to be my best friend. 



I can’t get rid of the person as they keep coming to me. I blame myself for poor boundaries at the start. It’s a mess. The Naija feeds them with fabricated information pretending that I said things when it was them thar said it. I was just lucky to find out from another source.


 The person is always seeking me out and forming friendship even though they have an agenda. All of the oyibos are now very hostile. This Naija person na the devil. What can I do?



STOP BEING CORDIAL WITH THIS PERSON.....face your work and dont take work colleagues as friends,its always a wrong move and most of the problems at work places will be solved if you stop all these friendships.....cut ff this person and face your work..and be cordial with all...Oyibos dont keep grudges for long and if whatever was said is really bad,you will lose the Job soon enough.






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COMMENT SECTION


Stella, I need help o. how do i message u.The girl I'm about to marry lied to me. I caught her making out with another girl. she said she loves women but she will marry me. she regularly has girls come over and they do coke and make out. shes a wonderful girl but needs to cut her bad habits and she knows. knowing this has scarred me gosh. help! Help!



Message me on my email Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com




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MEMO TO MARRIED WOMEN AND WARNING TO ACTRESS SIDE CHIC


Stella good day........

This is an advice to my follow married women out there, pls and pls learn from my mistake and never neglect your husband if you married a good one like I have.

I have learnt from my mistake and I think our s#x life will also get better. Now I go totally naked for my husband during love making and not carry cloth up and lay like a wood for him. I allow him access my whole body and give him kisses, cos I never did any of it before. He told me if he didn't trust me he would have said I cheated to get pregnant cos we only had s#x once before i became pregnant and three times that month.



My husband was dying inside, no wonder his blood pressure was not going down even with his medication. He complained and became tired of complaining. I felt he was being selfish and should understand that i don't like s#x ( now I understand why cesear attacked that woman that said she doesn't like s#x, woman you are losing your husband slowly). We can stay 2-3weeks no show. 

We lay far apart in bed. My husband will tell me pls keep close body contact with me, it makes me feel wanted and you still love me, even if we don't have s#x I just want you close. You don't even give me attention even when I tell you things happening with me, you don't care to listen.


Women, these side hens know our husbands like attention so they provide fake comfort to make them appear perfect.


As for you mumu, I know you read this blog cos Stella's blog is wildly read in Nigeria, you are lucky I don't fight dirty if not I would have disgraced you in that your useless Waka pass roles they give you in Nollywood. I hear you people snatch women's husbands but you came to the wrong place.

My husband told you I control his Facebook account and that you shouldn't chat him there but you see when God I serve said it was time to exposed you, you came up there to chat him up.

You didn't even know I was the one pretending to be him chatting with you cos you are an olodo at almost 40yrs oh no God made you mad.


You told my husband to leave his family and get a house in lag to live with you till you guys move to US.

I ask you what makes you think if he didn't marry you then after banging you all those years before I came, banged me for just two months married me and saw me through school and this is 10yrs of us together. My pussy must be laced with diamond and my character spotless. What makes you think he will leave me, his beautiful 7yrs old daughter and all he has laboured for your old ass?


That you would have taken him from me if not that you fear God, sango from ogun and ijebu kill you there cos you are a witch.

Thank God I pretended to be tired and got all the info I wanted from you as to know when you saw my husband, where and where you were at that moment cos it corresponded with what he confessed with Bible in his hands, that made me forgive him cos he was saying the truth as to seeing you only 6months again in your cousin's dad burial and has been avoiding your desperate ass. 

While praying I change cos he couldn't bring himself cheating on me. He was only enjoying the emotional chats with you cos it made him feel wanted. That got those useless fantasies into your head.

Thief, you have seen the fine successful man he has become today with me by his side, so you want to come and die here ba? You will surely die like he told you old hag. 


Women pls be good to your in-laws cos they will fight for you when you need them. I'm not saying be a slave o! But treat them right. 

Oloshi, my mother-in-law was ready to tear you into 10k pieces had she seen you. Did you see how my husband took the next available flight to come plead and take his family home? Nkita rachakwa gi Aya!

Witch, I'm not leaving my home for your desperate ass. So get old in peace and stay away from us like we told you.

At your close to 40yrs, you open your mouth to tell my husband you don't have a boyfriend. I asked you, are you not supposed to be married with kids?

Begger, you won't get a penny from my husband keep begging. You know why? He doesn't spend money like a fool. I let my home open so you think you have seen a way to come in. I didn't know you were a monitoring spirit all these years on his Facebook keeping tap on our progress. Sending him useless greetings, do you see how our daughter looks? Can even produce a child like that with your old eggs? I still look younger than you even after one and pregnant. Aunty like I called you, you have heard and read what he told you last night. There is no place in our home for you or else he will report you to Daniel. Old hag, witch, thief.


I still have your chats where you were disgracing yourself at your old age. Keep saying you didn't chat me up. If you try another means of contacting my husband, your will die. Stay blocked like you are in our lives. Olodo at 39.

FROM 10wks pregnant bv.






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132 comments:

  1. God didn’t miscalculate when He designed you. He didn’t forget about the environment you would be in and the conditions you would face.You are equipped to Withstand"@JoelOsteen

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    1. Bv that needs affidavit, go to any high court registry and tell them you need a sworn affidavit. They will prepare it for you. The charges depends on the court.

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    2. Bv whose mum died
      May she rest in peace

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    3. BV that needs affidavit. You will need a passport photograph and a typed and printed copy of the affidavit declaration. Since you have no prior experience, go to the cyber cafe at or by the court premises (you always find people with computers, printers etc) and tell them what you want on the affidavit. They will type and print it for you for a fee. I usually do mine at home and go to the court to have it signed and stamped. There are also people hanging around outside the court in Lagos who will charge you a fee and take you to the cyber to type and also to the office where it will be stamped. They are middle men and can charge you 1k-1,500naira or more for something that won't cost 200 naira in total. You could use them but try and negotiate their fee. All the best.

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  2. I pray that any hand holding shoki on this blog will catch fire, amen

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  3. Bvs are hypocrites. Other people una go call them urgly.but when it comes to stella.make people no talk true abi?una dey craze

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    1. Everybody is uniquely created. Somebody might be describing you as ugly even though you think you are most beautiful. That's how life is.

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    2. I taya oo πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. Beauty is subjective. A lot of things can make one beautiful and we all can't think like you.

      Stella might not be ideal kinda beauty but she is charismatic and yes, that's beauty. And most of all, a Queen.

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    4. So you still brought this talk here ?
      Wishing you healing may your bile be cured .

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  4. This world is wicked... RIP to your mom... God help us

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  5. Didn’t finish reading that memo from the married woman to “actress side chick”. Is it that serious?🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

    “Now I go totally naked for my husband during love making...” comedians full this blog because of a man with one head. Nah mba Chukwu aju

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    1. Fool like you ,I'm sure you no fit see husband .if that the way she will keep her hubby leave her.

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    2. Yes it is, wait till it happens to you then you can come and type these.

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    3. I enjoyed it o. It will make a good Nolly script.

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    4. See them ‘I must die a Mrs’. You all need deliverance. Madam poster burst an artery you hear? You are 10 weeks pregnant don’t face your pregnancy. Giving the side chick information up and down.

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    5. At a point I stopped reading but let's blame it on pregnancy hormone.


      Madam abeg take am easy



      Erora!!!

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  6. *crying... Just packed into my new self contain in school and my room's electricity stripped off while others had light. Now I just called in an electrician to fix it and I switched on my new student fridge only to find out its no longer working, prolly the partial current thing affected the fridge before I turned it off. I hate going to these technicians shop.

    *still crying*

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    1. Stop crying dear. Just take a deep breath, everything will be fine

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  7. I did anal yesterday.wow.very sweet

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    1. Congrats but remember to keep Pampers handy

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    2. I don't envy u at all πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Yuck!

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  8. Malaria just wrap me under armpit.
    A whole me!

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    1. Sorry dear.try and see a doctor.

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    2. Who born malaria that will wrap you under armpit? God's healing is coming to you right away. Cheers

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  9. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€Madam 10wks pregnant bv,your rant no be here o

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  10. My own is, if you know u don't like sex, plz stay on your own, don't come n give a man who loves a good time too much stress. God created it to be enjoyed, but u are stingy with ya snail n to your own husband, abeg swerve!

    No blue print to a happy home but try your best, don't come n cry red riding hood when u are d architect of your tears.

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    1. Honestly she sounded so irritating.
      All that talk ontop man?
      Na wa o.

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    2. @Blackey

      That thing taya me o
      How persin go marry come dey hide legitimate legitimacy
      from oga wey suppose dey on top?
      This one na God-sanctioned bed-breaking.
      The only one Baba God hates na stolen fork.
      Abeg my Nigerian married Sisi's make una sabi allow oga
      to be on top of mata unu anugo?
      😊😊
      to

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    3. Slutty because you be side chick. One day rat poison go catch you.

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    4. 14:50 Na u go give her d rat poison?

      Nwuye herod, I hail o😁

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    5. No be the poster fault her hormones are ranging badly. I think she will have a boy. Ndo poster

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    6. Anon 14:50 You mean your father’s side chic πŸ˜‚

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  11. The woman wey dey rant, what for na? you too talk jor. Goan face the lady directly

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  12. I am booless so i called one of my ex smallie to come make me feel good. It didnt work, stil feeling drained and lonely#sadface. Why is it hard to get a good guy?

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    1. Relax, love will find you again.

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    2. Be calling random guys to come and service your tohtoh you hear?
      When pregnancy enters and it refuses to come out through abortion and you give birth. When they call you babymama you will wake up early in the morning to come and cry on the blog. Smelly things

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  13. That 10 months pregnant BV needs to chill. Na so High Blood Pressure dey start.
    BV who was scammed is about to get scammed again by another BV. You didn't have to drop your number.

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  14. IHN is here..
    I'm so so loving the weather, how una dey?

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  15. I wouldn't exactly call myself a beautiful woman; I have struggled with my self image for sooo long. But no one would ever hear me call myself ugly. I am slim, no ass, hip or big breast, with lips that I feel are too large for my face. I'm just there .Nothing exceptional. This affected my ability to have a relationship early. When men ask me out, I wonder what they see in me. When I post pictures sometimes and my boyfriend offers no compliments, I don't complain even though it leaves me unhappy; I don't expect a man to tell me I am beautiful when I don't always feel so.

    I USED to seek validation from sex. If a man desired me sexually or had an erection because of me I would say hurray!! So I can even turn a man on. I wondered if a man would not be turned off when I take off my clothes, because there is no reasonable size of breast to hold on to and no ass or hips to grasp. A few times I have made out with my boyfriends(ex and current)they have said my breast is beautiful, still it doesn't satisfy me, I still feel a little insecure. I'm still a virgin though.
    All these notwithstanding , my self esteem is top notch. I would rather die than admit or call myself ugly to the hearing of another soul.

    I give my boyfriend standards and make it clear that I will not tolerate rubbish or disrespect. He loves me and I love him too, but sometimes I still wonder if I am enough. I don't have money yet, so I don't dress so elegantly, and I don't make up either, I don't know how to and I can't afford it.

    Thought 1

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    1. You dont need dresses to look beautiful, just be you.

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    2. Arrrh! NNE you need JESUS! Your self-esteem is πŸ‘Ž

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  16. Thanks so much Stella,may God bless you for the adverts,in so grateful

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  17. hello my people
    please where can one get cervical cancer vaccine in Lagoso


    it's important for we women, God will protect us all

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    1. Try general hospital, one private clinic here gives a shot for 10k.

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    2. Go to Maycentral immunization centre at Finbarr college road akoka yaba. Check for their number online. Its 12k or thereabout there.

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  18. please how can I protect costumes? I just bought them and I am thinking of keeping them in the nylon that came with it. will it not turn to green? thanks

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  19. Ihn, good day bv ,lovely things, customers locate you guys.

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  20. Ihn is here.. Pls does any bv know how to prepare correct abacha(African salad)with all ingredients complete and agoyin sauce,pls help me post the directions here pls I need it for a test pls.

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    1. Go to google and type "How to kake a abacha" it will give you a detailed direction and all the things you need for your perfect abacha.

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    2. Go on YouTube

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  21. BV about to marry a girl who likes other girls....if you can’t deal with her being with other girls even after marriage, let her go.
    That’s what some women are into these days and I feel sorry for their husbands.
    On the other hand, some men like their women that way. Think carefully.
    Madam 10 weeks pregnant, easy with your curses.
    Why won’t your husband look outside when you don’t give him what he wants?
    Please focus on your pregnancy and leave the side chic alone.
    You think your husband is a saint?
    How can you even refer to that lady as one with old eggs? Are you this foolish?

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    1. @Slutty Chikito

      A lot of Naija girls are tohtoh choppers -agreed
      But you too, you follow dey chop tohtoh? πŸ‘€
      Ajuju ajuru aju?
      Make you no runs πŸƒ‍♀️ commot for this ajuju o inugo?
      No esemokwu ma ncha.

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    2. You are the stupid one here for writing these.

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    3. Very vain individual. I will give her the benefit of doubt and say it’s the hormones in her talking. Imagine “do you see how our daughter looks?” 🀣🀣🀣

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    4. Kiks are you the side chick she is ranting about? Any one who goes after what does not belong to he or her is a thief and deserves death.
      So shut your mouth and face your frustrated life.

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  22. Stella half your beauty and I will be a beauty queen, height 100% dope, skin: over dope, bakasi e dey there, you come resemble oyinbo , your heart nko, you're beautiful inside out, and I think you know it , you just like to pull legs, me that was admiring you all through yesterday, it is well, some people have it all

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  23. That married Sisi up there πŸ‘†

    Naija married Sisis, make una dey allow oga dey on top na? 😊
    How will a man marry a wife and legitimate pounding is denied him?
    Ajuju ajuru aju? Persin go lie for bed face north while oga go face south?
    Mbanu. Na to push oga go outside browse virus infected websites.

    But madam, you have not learnt your lession ma ncha.
    You are still using your mouth to run down the side chikito.
    She is not your business. Your business is to give oga every
    attention and legitimate pounding he deserves inugo?
    😜😜😜😜😜
    And all you side Chikitos wey dey snatch vamoose,
    mmmmhhhh, if una jam correct mad Naija woman
    or python dude, aru emee pipiro

    πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜

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  24. a very good afternoon to everyone...nah why o,things dey happen oo,side chicken ,lol, wahala...God help us.

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  25. May your mum continued to rest in peace poster. I thank God for your healing. I wish you more strength and courage.

    Bravo strong woman.. Keep your home and do not listen to any side chic. We have a lot of them here.... They're looking for homes to destroy but very quick to say marriage is not for everyone, marriage is not an achievement whereas, it is what most of them crave for most.
    I just love your spirit and strength. You are fighting for your home the very right way. If she refuses to comply, call her out here. I love when women fight for their rights. And yes, your home is your right. πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

    Oga with a lesbian fiancΓ©e, please dump the girl as fast as you can... There are so many great ladies out there that will make you happy and fix a good home with you. Don't settle for less.

    Anonymous, stop putting words in my mouth... I love Stella hair blonde and she is a very beautiful woman 😘

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    1. God bless you. As for those attacking her you shall experience it in Jesus Name!! Respect Amen!!

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    2. Thank you Ms A . Side chicks be showing their true colours today

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    3. They are upset because she has exposed their mode of operation. Lazy and reedy goats.

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    4. Ms A,how are you today ?

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  26. Stella pls check your mail, I sent you one.

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  27. a very good afternoon to everyone...nah why,side chick palava..pregnant bv pls give yourself so rest too much rant.

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  28. Beautiful slides but too expensive

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  29. 10wks pregnant BV odiegwu oooo. Just face your husband Biko πŸ™„πŸ™„.
    Lovely bags you have @ Glossy Mart.

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  30. Dear Mr ANG seeing dat ur gal has deleted ur name & dumped ur dry onitsha ass to go in the abroad,hope u won't double ur hatred on naija gals.
    Ajuju ajuooo

    From bv coming from spontaneous post in to in house news.

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  31. Having 2 Much Pride Will Cause U 2 Suffer Longer Than U Need 2!!!!!!

    Do away with unnecessary prideπŸ™πŸ½

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  32. Beautiful things for sale. Plenty sales I wish you all.
    I want to start a small business with 20k, I don't know what to sell, it seems plenty people are selling everything already.
    Pls which business can I do with 20k?

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    1. Look around you for things that are moving. Then package your own in a unique way, add a small thing that others don't have, then do aggressive marketing and you are good to go.

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    2. you did nt tell us whether you av a shop or space or you want sell from home in your compound

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    3. Try oil perfumes if you can get someone that sells wholesale at a very cheap rate. It also depends on where you are. There are some slippers you can buy from Onitsha and make a 100 percent profit in Abuja.

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    4. Thanks all
      Anon thanks
      @Elaine I don't have a space, I will be selling from home and online.
      @Kiks I am in Ibadan, how do I go about the Onitsha runs?
      Thanks

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  33. Welcome IHN.

    Pregnant bv, pls ignore that side chicken and enjoy your man. Nothing do you

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  34. I'm here to congratulate Chikito. Congratulations Chikito. You're a kind hearted lady (even though you didn't admit you are when we met in Agungi). Remember?
    Been waiting to read the news here. Thank God.
    Go forth and rule the world. Best wishes now and always.
    Cheers!

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  35. The woman that is ranting you are the architect of your predicament! Go and sit down and face your 9 months course! Carry husband matter like Gala for head! Gerrahere mehn

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    1. That you didn marry a good man does not mean one that married one should not protect him.

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    2. Which good man did she marry ? If he was a good man we wouldn't be having this rant up there☝️

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    3. She was protecting him by denying him sex? Lol...una mumu no get part 2.

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    4. Anon 14:56 protector of husbands, how did the side chic get the man’s number?
      Good man indeed.

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  36. Oi I met IHN todayπŸ’ƒ.How is everyone doing?Just say in hello.God bless you all

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    1. Black Chikito
      I just dey see you today
      How far... you be Pharisee, Sadducee or Jesus pikin?
      I just wan sabi how I go dey address ya mata.
      😊😊😊😊

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    2. ANG you have not answered 14:40 anon πŸ–• you want to follow black chikito izz laik they have swear for you using chikitos

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    3. Lol...she be herodian 😁

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    4. 15:27 hope your nt insinuating that ANG is Chike, he is too intelligent to be Chike, have you read his gists about marriage on in house gist before? ANG can never be Chike pls look for another person to link him to

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    5. @Ghost wey dey commot for 15:27 aka 14:40

      Wetin concern me with graveyard stray ghosts like you?
      If I see a blog visitors I've not seen before, na my duty to welcome them inugo?
      And I wan encourage the persin make im no join ndi Pharisee ghosts like you.
      Oya runs back into the graveyard osiso πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸ§—‍♀️

      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    6. Blackberry😘my babe. Pls I don't know why ANG the Herodian canot reply anon 14:40 or HE ATE SHEEETπŸ€”
      ANG reply nnu or cat got your tongue?
      Ajuju n'ese okwu!!!!!!πŸ˜…πŸ˜‹πŸ˜πŸ€

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  37. I’m the poster about the Naija devil friend where we are the only blacks.

    I’ve tried being busy and unavailable but the person is desperate to remain ‘seen’ as my friend despite telling complete lies about me. The person is always badmouthing people including their own family and oyibos. Despite my silence they found a way to lie against me. I should never have allowed the friendship.

    Thanks for your advice Stella.

    Stella, you are beautiful and your blog is a blessing to many. Thanks so much.

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    1. Anon you have to value your job more than that toxic situationship. Block this colleague everywhere. At work, apart from hello an d good morning DO NOT converse with him/her. This is the important bit. DOUBLE your hustle at work. Volunteer to do more work. Accept shifts nobody wants to do. Do not be alone with this person. Start keeping a work diary. Log in your arrival and departure and always confirm EVERYTHING in writing. Be the first in and last out. If possible, start looking for specialist courses in your field. You are on thin ice and only prayer and a change in attitude for at least 3 months will save you.

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    2. Is there anything wrong with you snubbing the person? Friendship na by force? Is she paying your wages? Are you there to work or make friends? Don't you know how to keep to yourself and mind your business abi you go die?
      Face your front, do your work and make sure you work according to laid down policies and procedures so you don't get into trouble at work.
      When you work with black people abroad, you learn to mind your business and when you have white colleagues, keep your secret to yourself or else you can't survive under any environment. Just take care.

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    3. Keep up the attitude, the person will get d message n back off, hopefully d oyibos will see thru d lies.

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    4. Thanks anon 15.27 and Blackberry for these pointers. I appreciate and will follow through.

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    5. @Lacey Love. Thanks for the advice. I appreciate.

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    6. Are you afraid of her that you can't simply tell her to avoid you?

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    7. Pls snob her . You owe no obligation to say even hello to her. If it's me oo, I will make it very obvious to her and other colleagues around that I do not wish to be seen with her periodt.

      Office friendship is the best disservice one can do to his/herself.

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    8. This person is a master manipulator. I tried so many ways apart from confrontation, they still find ways to be around me even if I frown.

      I’m not afraid just concerned about the oyibos.

      I’m now just going to use all the pointers including your own, from here and also get closer to God.

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    9. Thanks Shakara and Anon 16.39. You are both right and I will take your advice as well.

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    10. Tell him or her straight up in the calmest way possible. I know what you are up to. Avoid me. That simple,

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    11. Thanks Kiks.

      All of you, I appreciate o!

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    12. You need to make it obvious that she is not your friend. She is trying to keep up appearances so when she goes to tell them 'you said xyz, they will believ her. If it's obvious to all around that you have cut her off, who will believe her when she goes to make up stories and claim you said so? Cut her off. Give her a cold shoulder and also don't worry about the oyibos or anyone. Face your job, say hello to everyone with a smile when you get to work and face your computer. If the Nigerian comes around, tell her with a straight face and calm voice that you are busy. Even when she can see you are on break and not working, tell her you are busy.

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    13. Thanks for this.

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  38. Married poster, we are the same in not giving husband attention. I hate sex and I don't apy attention to my hsuband when he starts all these mushy mushy, he's a very romantic type and sends love messages to me like his life depends on it. My response is always ok or thank you.

    I have now learnt from you. And the worse part is that we don't live in the same country. I will change from today. Le t me go and reply him.

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    1. Pls change my dear
      Go and buy all these book that they sell that contains lovely romantic text messages and start messaging him back. Say romantic things to him when he calls. Give him attention, he is your husband pls.
      I wonder how a married woman will hate sex. Why get married? You are punishing the poor man.
      Change your attitude pls. When he is around, bathe at night and go completely naked to the bed. Do everything romantic and sweet with him. He is your husband.

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    2. Better reply him with beautiful words πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. I am so glad you have learnt. Side vultures are not smiling these days.

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    4. My dear pls do. I have a good man who fears God and loves me a lot, yes his actions speaks it loud. He couldn't have sworn with bible that he didn't sleep with her or another woman for the past ten years if he did cos he knows the implications of that.

      I'm not leaving him for any one in hear.
      Thank God like he said God exposed them. I have become the woman he married and God will protect my marriage and home.

      For those of you who say I carry man matter for head yes. My husband does not cheat that is why I'm not used to your life of is a normal thing. The devil only came in cos of my mistake.

      And both of us have kept that devil to where she belongs. For you single sisters bashing me all I can say to you is (is well good luck)

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    5. My own response is "abeg abeg don start"🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  39. I just read the memo from the 10wks pregnant bv.
    Thank God you have changed madam. Pls remain a changed woman, your husband is a patient man and he loves you. I'm still trying to picture you raising your clothes up for him to enter the place. Chai! He really tried.

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  40. That dude wey wan marry tohtoh chopper

    Oga, make you no fear at all
    Give her conditions; say you people will seek God together
    in reading the teachings of Jesus, fasting, praying πŸ™πŸ™ and finding
    a person you know to be a genuine Christian to counsel you. Please
    if you are not sure if the person is firmly rooted in Christ, stick
    to your Bible.

    If the lady accepts this condition, then she is on the pathway to being
    a wife and leaving tohtoh chopping aside. But if not, na that time, you
    go run commot o. But before you run, make sure that you are firmly in Christ
    because a lot of tohtoh choppers are firmly in Satan and can sabi destroy.

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  41. Thank you Stella, God bless you πŸ™Thriftstorebyginoo.

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  42. Anyone know any remedy for bad breath?

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    1. Brush your tongue and the roof of your mouth
      Use dental floss daily. Tooth brush doesn't remove the dirt between your teeth.
      Chew ginger

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  43. Some people have been on this blog a while but don't hold on to good advice,I think chickito gave us a well detailed write up one time on how to survive around your working environment.Madam why are you looking for friendship in your working environment? The truth is as long as you colleagues you are competitors,whether you are a junior or senior colleague.Do your job,get paid ,go home.ignore all the lies she said about you,truth will always come out,just give it time,she will shot herself or himself in the leg and you will be vindicated. Sorry about your situation.

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    1. Thanks for your advice. I really do blame myself. Thanks.

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  44. Different day ,different problems...10weeks pregnant bv,God will keep your home. Marriage isn't joke,talk more of a good one.

    Sorry about the demise of your mum,may God continue to sustain you . One thing I didn't understand in your narrative is how you concluded your mum's best friend killed her.

    To all the sellers ,you all will experience massive patronage by God's grace .

    Stella, you don't need anybody's validation to know you're beautiful. Keep being fiercely beautiful ,despite some acclaimed beauty they'd do anything to have the life you're living.

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  45. Hey heeeey. Sandra av shattered d glass table patapata as she posted a rhetoric,it means ubi is father of tboss baby & according by comments 5 women were dating ubi 3 kept pregnancy, 2 were forced to abort it.
    South Africa woman put to birth,Sandra about to pop then who is d remain woman to born baby for him. Answer could b tboss

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    1. This Ubi na machine or human. He better open a factory o.😁😁😁😁😁

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  46. Pregnant bv see the way you insulted the side chick as if your husband is innocent. Thank God you accepted your mistake and want to be a better wife. That your husband may cheating on you with some younger girls.

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  47. That rant though. Mtchewwwww.

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